Hey there, it's Todd.

In this article you will learn how releasing outcome can give you ultimate power in any interaction. You’ll also see practical examples of how to negotiate and how to force people into your frame of reality.

This is a topic I’ve had on my mind for literally years, but I was never sure quite whether or how to put it out. I’ve always noticed that the guys who seemed to have the least going for them seemed to have most success with women, but it took a long while for it to dawn on me that the reason was that they also had almost NOTHING TO LOSE.

I’m currently writing this article before getting maybe two hours of sleep and then running off to teach a regional conference and bootcamp, so I’m going to keep this short and sweet. The concepts in this video WILL help you if you internalize and apply them.

This week I’ve been doing a 5-day bootcamp with Jeffy in New Orleans and I can tell you that they call it “The Big Easy” for a reason. The girls here are soooo DTF! Jeffy called it redneck vegas. Lol. Anyway it’s a fun time, though not the classiest place I’ve ever been to. Speaking of travel…

Where I'll be next...

BootcampFebruary 22-24, 2013: New York, New York, USA
BootcampMarch 1-3, 2013: Washington DC, USA
FreeTourMarch 3, 2013: Washington DC, USA (8pm-10pm)
BootcampMarch 8-10, 2013: Los Angeles, California, USA (under 21 bootcamp)Wait-List
BootcampMarch 22-24, 2013: New York, New York, USA
FreeTourMarch 28, 2013: Austin, Texas, USA (8pm-10pm)
BootcampMarch 29-31, 2013: Austin, Texas, USA
BootcampApril 5-7, 2013: Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, USA
BootcampApril 12-14, 2013: Boston, Massachusetts, USA
FreeTourApril 25, 2013: Amsterdam, Netherlands (7pm-9pm)
BootcampApril 25-27, 2013: Amsterdam, Netherlands
BootcampMay 2-4, 2013: London, United Kingdom
FreeTourMay 23, 2013: London, United Kingdom (7pm-9pm)
BootcampMay 23-25, 2013: London, United Kingdom
BootcampJune 27-29, 2013: Montreal, Canada
FreeTourJune 27, 2013: Montreal, Canada (7pm-9pm)
FreeTourJuly 3, 2013: Boston, USA (7pm-9pm)


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Ok. On to the video.



As I said, I’m keeping this one short and sweet, and the video pretty much speaks for itself. The major point is this. Anything you are attached to is a weakness because it has the potential to hold you back. Fear of loss keeps you from being free and from taking risks.

Recognize that everything can and will be taken away eventually, and act accordingly. There’s more, but watch the video. I think it’s quite entertaining.

Also please post your comments and feedback. I’d like to find out what is most important to you, so I can adjust accordingly.

Before I sign off, I want to mention that if you want more unique thoughts and information I put out ideas and lines on both facebook and twitter daily:

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and
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Thanks again, and until next time,
-Todd

p.s. Check out www.rsdinnercircle.com for more info on the program and how to get ongoing lessons and support from RSD Instructors like myself.

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