Get Into State INSTANTLY and PERMANENTLY!

Posted January 13th, 2013 at 1:28 AM

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Cold Systems

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shazam gonna read it now

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Posted January 13th, 2013 at 2:11 AM

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Theillbehaviored

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Awesome videos Todd!

Can you go into more detail on winging 2 guys on 1 girl? I never heard of that before.

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Posted January 13th, 2013 at 2:37 AM

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atreideslegend

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Dude...Slovakia? Really? You need to travel more in Europe dude lololol Bratislava has a FUCK tonne of gorgeous girls (and is most definitely not a third world country :P)

Wonderful as always though, Tod your shit is the bomb. Would love to see some content on sarging solo for newbies and how percieved difficulties related to this can be overcome.

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Posted January 13th, 2013 at 8:29 AM

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kings657

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your stuff is really starting to influence me.

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Posted January 13th, 2013 at 12:21 PM

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Todd

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Just mess around with it really. The general concept is in the video... but I think it works because:

1. It's extremely self-amusing
2. It creates a false choice (which one to like rather than WHETHER to like someone)

Theillbehaviored wrote:

Awesome videos Todd!

Can you go into more detail on winging 2 guys on 1 girl? I never heard of that before.

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Posted January 13th, 2013 at 12:24 PM

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Todd

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Haha. I wondered about that immediately after saying it... Guess I got the geopolitical stuff wrong just like a typical American.

atreideslegend wrote:

Dude...Slovakia? Really? You need to travel more in Europe dude lololol Bratislava has a FUCK tonne of gorgeous girls (and is most definitely not a third world country :P)

Wonderful as always though, Tod your shit is the bomb. Would love to see some content on sarging solo for newbies and how percieved difficulties related to this can be overcome.

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Posted January 13th, 2013 at 12:24 PM

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Todd

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Cool!

kings657 wrote:

your stuff is really starting to influence me.

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Posted January 13th, 2013 at 12:30 PM

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Mdng

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Instantly? Permanently? Sounds like a magic pill. I have no choice but to watch it. Haha

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Posted January 13th, 2013 at 12:30 PM

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The Baverien

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Yeah the good old state topic is back! Thanks for your very applicable examples!

The easiest and most effective way for me to cut through your current state and pump yourself is the bionenergetic release. I do that before going out.

(minute 4:12 + 5:25)

Yeah!° :D

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Posted January 13th, 2013 at 1:26 PM

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Ozzie

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for me todd is one the best teachers of this game i ever seen and i have seen many.

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Posted January 13th, 2013 at 4:43 PM

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The Hawk

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2 sick videos man. 2 of your best in the same article. Niiiice!

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Posted January 13th, 2013 at 6:11 PM

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Posted January 13th, 2013 at 6:24 PM

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AustinCC

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the winging video was so much more fun with genesis by justice playing in the background.

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Posted January 13th, 2013 at 9:27 PM

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BerlinCity

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What i love about your style, it is down to the point. No bullshit, no Ego at all....just pure game teaching....keep them coming.

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Posted January 14th, 2013 at 12:06 AM

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Frank128

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Yeah dude ! I really liked the first video, very funny

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Posted January 14th, 2013 at 12:45 PM

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pringles

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awesome range in that freetour vid dude

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Posted January 14th, 2013 at 5:55 PM

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Quadrewple

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Laughing like a maniac is my favorite way to get unstifled. Great videos Todd

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Posted January 14th, 2013 at 6:43 PM

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Ronn Paul

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Love the way video starts. Thats how somebody should tell us when we dont have balls to go for it. Sometimes i yell at myself so i can get the balls to do the approach.

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Posted January 14th, 2013 at 11:30 PM

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Polarize

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Hey Todd,

Totally dig the video about getting into state and acquiring more experiences. One a side note, can you expand more on dealing with the other males/females that are in the group? What sort of logical questions do you bombard them with for example?

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Posted January 15th, 2013 at 5:16 AM

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Posted January 16th, 2013 at 4:39 AM

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Todd wrote:

Hey happy 2013, Todd here,

In this article you will learn how to get into state instantly and stay in state FOREVER. From quick fixes to lifetime solutions, you’ll be ready whenever that hot girl comes into your life.

I’m writing this from Sydney, Australia… in other words, paradise. Not only am I hiding from the bitter east-coast winter, but the people and scenery here are GORGEOUS. Also, for once I get to be the one who has an accent. It’s kind of nice to have something like that where girls can pick up the conversation and run with it in an obvious way.

Also, the scene in Sydney is insanely fun. It has the ease of access of a small city and the cute girls of a bigger city. Add to that, it’s a beach town and Australians like sports… so you can imagine the bodies on the girls. Long story short, it has been, and continues to be, fun.

I’ve had some really good lessons from the past couple of bootcamps that I’ll be sharing with you in future video blogs, but which I’ll introduce to you quickly here.

1. The beginners mind.
2. Real persistence.
3. Genuineness in the approach.

These are ideas that I’ve been applying to my own game and that of students with remarkable success over the past few weeks. Briefly here is what they each mean.

Beginner’s Mind:

Never consider yourself advanced. Never expect anything. Never take anything for granted. By being in a state of enjoying the learning process you will not only improve most rapidly, but your excitement will put you in state, so even your learning errors become good game along the way. It really is a case of having your cake and eating it too.

Real Persistence:

This is easy and obvious, but it means following up on EVERY number and doing so with UGRENCY. It also means being greedy and unapologetically double and triple booking yourself for fun and experience. Again it’s one of the best ways to have results and fun simultaneously.

Genuineness in the Approach:

This one came out of a student lesson for this weekend. The student was very logical and in his head because he wanted to be perfect and have all the answers. What I encouraged him to do was own his awkwardness and even approach girls with openers like “I wanted to talk to you but I’m shy.” AND IT WORKED! He started getting immediate results. This not only gave me a new game and teaching technique but a new understanding of genuineness and congruence.

Speaking of teaching techniques, another great place to see my PRACTICAL IN-FIELD COACHING videos and to ASK ME LIVE QUESTIONS is through Inner Circle. I believe it’s the best program dollar for dollar (only $5/month) that we have at RSD.

For more information on Inner Circle, check out the following links:

www.rsdinnercircle.com
and
www.realsocialdynamics.com/schedule.asp

My upcoming schedule is below:

Where I'll be next...

FreeTourJanuary 14, 2013: Sydney, Australia
BootcampJanuary 18-20, 2013: Melbourne, Australia
FreeTourJanuary 20, 2013: Melbourne, Australia (7pm-9pm)
BootcampJanuary 25-27, 2013: Sydney, Australia
BootcampFebruary 1-3, 2013: Singapore
FreeTourFebruary 14, 2013: New Orleans, USA (7pm-9pm)
BootcampFebruary 12-16, 2013: New Orleans, USA
BootcampMarch 1-3, 2013: Washington DC, USA
BootcampFebruary 22-24, 2013: Boston, Massachusetts, USA
BootcampMarch 8-10, 2013: Nashville, Tennessee, USA
BootcampMarch 15-17, 2013: Austin, Texas, USA
FreeTourMarch 15, 2013: Austin, Texas, USA (7pm-9pm)
BootcampMarch 22-24, 2013: New York, New York, USA
BootcampMarch 29-31, 2013: Chicago, Illinois, USA
FreeTourApril 25, 2013: Amsterdam, Netherlands (7pm-9pm)

One other administrative note, to clear up any confusion:

YOU CAN PARTICIPATE IN INNER CIRCLE DINNER EVENTS AND MEET WIGMEN IN YOUR AREA -- FOR FREE. There has been some confusion on this matter so I want to clarify. The videos and instructor education through Inner Circle is a paid product, but the groups themselves are 100% free to anyone who wants to come. So take advantage of this amazing resource!

http://bit.ly/RSDInnerCircleCityList

More information about inner circle is available at www.rsdinnercircle.com

Ok. On to the videos:

I have two for you this week.

In the first video I go through several ways to achieve both short term and long term state. From silly mental trick and physiological techniques, with these guidelines you should be able to get yourself in the right mindset to enjoy the night and do your best at any time… I also hope you enjoy me yelling at you bootcamp style.

Enjoy the video, but I really do want to emphasize that state through confidence and experience is what you should strive for. The quick fixes should not be used as crutches or long term solutions. Here is the video:

The second video was one I released a while back for the guys on the free Inner Circle groups but have not really shared with the general public before. Basically it is a quick and dirty guide to how to be a good wingman. Not the sexiest of topics, but good winging will improve your results MASSIVELY and is EXTREMELY easy to implement. Enjoy.

Before I sign off, I want to mention that if you want more unique thoughts and information I put out ideas and lines on both facebook and twitter daily:

facebook.com/rsdtodd
and
twitter.com/rsdtodd

Okay, I’m off. Talk to you soon.

-Todd

p.s. Check out www.rsdinnercircle.com for more info on the program and how to get ongoing lessons and support from RSD Instructors like myself.

p.p.s. To find FREE Inner Circle meetup groups in your city check out: http://bit.ly/RSDInnerCircleCityList

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Posted January 16th, 2013 at 4:40 AM

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ace01

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Wings can be hard to come by.

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Posted January 16th, 2013 at 7:26 PM

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jakkals

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that was bang on

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Posted January 18th, 2013 at 2:10 PM

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Kool Kane

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I really liked the first video. I have a pretty similar mindset.

I do lot of daygame and my experience is that you don't have the time to overthink your approach. there she is, the girl you always dreamed about... so what you gonna do? either you take the opportunity NOW or you end up standing with your dick in your hand and leave it. you don't have the luxury of building state. you have to take action right on the spot. that makes daygame a lot harder than nightgame. I know rsd always preach that there a no differences, but I think it's actually not the whole truth. yeah, the approach itself doesn't really differ that much, but your headspace do. you're not in the mood to pimp a girl in broad daylight. and there's also a lot of randomness involved. you have to train yourself to take action right away, you have to deal with the tension and the fear in your own body as well as the tension and awarkdness of the overall interaction. it's somehow a weird situation, but if you can remain cool about it the situation gets normal. but you need the strenght to do it. this doesn't come over night. to me daygame was the hardest thing to learn in the game. it's far more a hit and miss than in the night, because a large amount of girls that you approach on the street are already in a relationsship. the ratio is much higher than in a club or a bar. but I think it's worth it, if you can such thing make happen during the day than nightgame becomes almost as easy as childplay. I'm exaggerating, but you get the point.
In the night state come pretty naturally to me, because I'm out to socialise so It's almost given that it will happen at a certain point in the night.

I like your view about the game. you come more from a mindset of challenging your game and keep evolving your personality. always keep pushing to the next level. I'm feeling this. my motivation is not only to get laid nowadays. my motivation is to improve overall as a person and get the high quality women I always dreamed about. I'm more willing to lose the chance of closing a mediocre seven when I get the chance to game a girl that looks like Kristin Kreuk. even when it means that I've lost an opportunity for sex and I only had a 20 minute interaction with this stunner that end up going nowhere. I'm more process-orientated now than ever. I even broke up with my somewhat girlfriend, because i don't give fuck about this mediocre bullshit. I didn't got to this game and push myself that hard just to end up with mediocre results. I'm willing to sacrifice more effort to get the whole glory. Achilles style...

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Posted January 19th, 2013 at 3:29 PM

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awesome video on winging, like the rules you suggest!

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Posted February 18th, 2013 at 6:52 AM

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alamarish

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