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Hey, Todd here.

In this article/video, you will learn how to apply the concept of decisiveness in game for mastery of tricky situations.

Areas covered include:

Mixed Sets
Direct Vs. Indirect
Relationship Control
How To Get Physical

... and others.

Here is the vid:





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#1
tw1sted

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 BOOOOOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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#2
Solstice

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Best video yet.
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#3

shaun_deeb

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This is a really helpful video. I'll watch it over the next few weeks a couple of time and I'll try to stick 100 % to my decisions. I'll reflect and evaluate on all mentioned points in your video ^^ Thanks Todd,
Thanks for the new "annotions". I'm glad that the "black" background screen that you had in your prior videos is gone. It was cut into your video without being anticipated by your audience (me)
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#4
Tadas T

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Join Date: 04/14/2013 | Posts: 2

 Hej Todd,

Awesome video. After analyzing yesterday's night and watching your video I noticed where I need to be working on right now. I had one particular set yesterday where I went in indirect and then switched to direct and the interaction went nowhere, there was no excitement or arousal from a girls side although I kept talking, she stayed there for a while. Being fucking 100% decisive is the key.

I have this girl I have been dating for a while, fucked her couple of times, but I was not clear about what I want in this relationship to her and now I think she god mad or something. I wanted to be in an open relationship with her but I DID NOT make it clear. I remember the time when she stopped smoking for a month for me cause she really liked me, I kinda influenced her in that direction but then I did not call her for a while and she started smoking again. 

I get this now....
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#5
AlexLion

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 This video is fucking awesome.I've added to favorites on my youtube account.Good job Todd,you rock!
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#6

chosen1

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Cool Video Todd!
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#7

Hamilton

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This video makes me feel uncomfortable with myself...but in a good way.
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#8
MiroP

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Good staff.
You are right... Dates only on my own terms. I have currently problem in this thing with my oneitis. I will change it!! I don't want be her dog anymore. If I lose her, It will be good leverage to improve my game. :)
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MiroP

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Good staff.
You are right... Dates only on my own terms. I have currently problem in this thing with my oneitis. I will change it!! I don't want be her dog anymore. If I lose her, It will be good leverage to improve my game. :)
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#10
Mark Francis

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Holy fuck, I just went on a bullshit date that was not on MY TERMS. I got so fucking dissed it was fucked. I learned my lesson first hand and this video just solidified this rule in my head. Always have the date on my terms from now on. Great video!
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#11

Endlesshorizons

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A girl expects a man to make strong, clear decisions for her, she runs away when he can't make up his mind. I have learned the hard way to be decisive and stick with my choice at work, why didn't I use it in pickup?! I like how Todd structures his videos to make them one of the easiest to learn from.
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MidnightRambler

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 Todd-san, awesome video. Love the Karate Kid clip lol. wax-on, wax-off...
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#13
liquidice

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Its just like in extreme sports, once you decide to do a specific jump / stunt, you have to commit to it 100%, if not... its likely that you will hurt or kill yourself, so going half - assed should scare you even more.
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#14

Zack_Brawler

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 Really solid video and I'm only half-way through. I can relate to it very well thanks to those examples. I also like the text editting: it's not a distraction anymore that cuts the flow of the video. I remember a couple months ago when you would put black screens with words and it would totally ruin the flow of the video. This is great improvement and the scenery is great.
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#15
Todd

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I really like this analogy!


liquidice wrote:
Its just like in extreme sports, once you decide to do a specific jump / stunt, you have to commit to it 100%, if not... its likely that you will hurt or kill yourself, so going half - assed should scare you even more.
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#16

RSDNICO

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#17

Astore

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 Great video. Loved it. "it's better for the soul to go after the girls that scare you and get blown out, than it's to pull the girls you know you can get". The advice on relantionship control very very important, sometimes there's a fine line in this area between screwing up and being brilliant. Anyway, once you're on the pitch, you have to play all out, not hesitation, big truth. Thanks Todd!
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#18
VinnyMac07

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Pimp shit
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#19
Kool Kane

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I dig this video very much. decisiveness and leading are two very important concepts in pickup. these are two key-characteristics who let you get the hottie in the club. It put the girl in a submissive role and allow her to fully take on the women's role. she can let go in your presence. simultaneously you squash your competition, because you know what you have to do. there are maybe other dudes who want the same girl as you, but often times they aren't as cofindent in what they are doing as you are. I know exactly what I have to do at every stage, because I learned how to read situations and to accordingly respond to it. that way I'm more confident in what I'm doing. funnily enough, I didn't always lead the girl physically in the club. I just lead verbally and in the way I sexually escalated most of the times. It was still enough to get the girl, but recently I drag the girl through the club all the time. whenever I have a reason to grab the girls hand and lead her somewhere else, I'm doing it. and I physically lead girls away from other dudes, when I don't like where the interaction is going...

"it's better for the soul to go after the girls that scare you and get blown out, than it's to pull the girls you know you can get". - True story, I'm getting better and better with the hotties due to this mindset. If you always go for the sure lay you will stagnate and you will not progress. I much rather go home alone and learned something to get the hot girl as to lay another girl I'm not into. and this mindset seems to pay-off for me recently...

btw: I liked your statement about the reptile brain the most in this video. when I'm out in the field I don't think too much about specific solutions on specific situations that I've learned in some pua-material. I understand the overall concept and find spontanously the right solution for the situation when it occurs.
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#20
Curtis.Slone

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So fucking expressive, man! I love it. Incongruence seems to be a plague in my life. Thanks for giving me some new perspective and motivation on tackling it.

Look forward to your visit to chapel hill!
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#21

Ismaella

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low risk = high risk
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#22
Dr Feelgood

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 Great video!
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#23
axelaxax

axelaxax

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 this is so fuckin key..whatever you do in life, you gotta fully commit! awesome vid;)
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#24
Ozzie

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 go todd. great vid and great audio.
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#25

MindFucked

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 good stuff. i like this message and it totally aligns w/ my experiences, especially the direct/indirect dichotomy, i've lost soooo many girls going in indirect then trying to get sexual too early. i havent watched many rsdnation vids recently but this is the first video i've seen where you've come across to me as cool/edgy with no awkwardness.
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hogansc0602

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wow!
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