2 NEW VIDS: Todd's Text and Online Game Guide, and How to Enjoy Stress Free Abundance

Posted March 10th, 2013 at 2:40 PM

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These videos are great. Tod is so persise with his information, it makes it easy to relate to.

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Posted March 10th, 2013 at 3:07 PM

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My text game is shit and I didn't understand what you were talking about...

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Posted March 10th, 2013 at 7:52 PM

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feed back :

Text/online game video could have been more practical, more precise. I don t know. but hat was concrete stuff still. . I ll use it if one day I do online game.

the other video is good.

This pattern : I deserve X because (list of real stuff you did ) is a great trick to allow your mind to accept new visions , and open new doors for the people who loves afformation.

also I find this sentence funny but effective? borrow abundance from your future lol.

I want to borrow money from my future!

I didn t like your vblog that much at first but the information quality improoved a lot.

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Posted March 10th, 2013 at 9:07 PM

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Be more specific and maybe I can help

king_kickass101 wrote:

My text game is shit and I didn't understand what you were talking about...

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Posted March 10th, 2013 at 9:08 PM

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Thank you sir,

Kid_Ink wrote:

These videos are great. Tod is so persise with his information, it makes it easy to relate to.

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Posted March 10th, 2013 at 9:09 PM

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Thanks.

orgazm wrote:

feed back :

Text/online game video could have been more practical, more precise. I don t know. but hat was concrete stuff still. . I ll use it if one day I do online game.

the other video is good.

This pattern : I deserve X because (list of real stuff you did ) is a great trick to allow your mind to accept new visions , and open new doors for the people who loves afformation.

also I find this sentence funny but effective? borrow abundance from your future lol.

I want to borrow money from my future!

I didn t like your vblog that much at first but the information quality improoved a lot.

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Posted March 10th, 2013 at 11:19 PM

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king_kickass101

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Todd wrote:

Be more specific and maybe I can help

king_kickass101 wrote:

My text game is shit and I didn't understand what you were talking about...

I'm good at getting numbers and getting girl attracted but whenever the text part comes into play any attraction that was there seems to vanish. I'm not sure why. I think the problem I'm having is showing value? It doesn't make sense to me especially through text. From my experience girls only want to chase and nothing more. Which doesn't make any sense to me because they start chasing and as soon as Ishow I'm interested they want nothing to do with me.

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Posted March 10th, 2013 at 11:25 PM

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Also I can never set up a date. I have all these numbers and no results from any of them. Most of them don't even respond and if they do its clear they're not interested.

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Posted March 10th, 2013 at 11:59 PM

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I've seen a lot of stuff on abundance and this is the only time I've heard of borrowing abundance from your future self. Probably the best concept I've heard in a while

Being convinced that you WILL end up with the hottest girls, no question about it, makes you slowly move in that direction (and faster if you work hard and smart going out and your results snowball).

Actively anchoring entitlement to an awesome lifestyle and your good qualities is also always worth repeating.

The IC text vid was sick.

Thanks a lot Todd.

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Posted March 11th, 2013 at 12:04 AM

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Too bad the camera ran out of batteries!

king_kickass101, if you can't set up dates, set up a list and text them invitations to places you're going to hit.

I'm def borrowing abundance from the future, small loan I'd say!

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Posted March 11th, 2013 at 1:34 AM

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I have inner circle, but for some reason I cant find the full video.

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Posted March 11th, 2013 at 4:18 AM

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Good vid..My online game sucks, or maybe it doesn't? I've messaged over 50 girls and got no reply but I usually attribute that to the fact that there is an inbalance in the ratio of guys to girls. Chicks get 25 messages a day so to me it doesn't seem like anything you say would matter but rather she will just screen 90% of guys out based on logical information like age, height, relationship goals and physical type.

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Posted March 11th, 2013 at 10:25 AM

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It's the November 2012 Pre-Webinar Video

VictorGarcia wrote:

I have inner circle, but for some reason I cant find the full video.

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Posted March 11th, 2013 at 1:09 PM

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I never was the kind of guy who tries to add and talk to new girls on the internet and I didn't believe it would work with 7s and those above, but yesterday I did add 3 random 7.5 - 8 HBs on facebook, because the video gave me curiosity about it. None of them answered.
I didn't know exatcly what to put in the message, so it went something like:" hi, i thought you're cute, don't know you from anywhere but, who knows, i'd like to talk to you. p.s. i don't have an yatch" I don't know if this was lame or not, but what else can you speak in the internet? Haha , at least it is not desperately trying to convey value, I think.
Anyway, I think adding random girls on facebook has very low chance of they responding, they get hit all the time in the clubs, why would they lost their time this way? Some time after I send the messages I though it was lame and the girls would think that the guy is too desperately and is adding anyone in internet. I am not trying to criticize Todd's content, just sharing the experience that I had yesterday. =D

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Posted March 11th, 2013 at 2:43 PM

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This is fantastic content, well done.

I should have signed up for Inner Circle sooner!

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Posted March 11th, 2013 at 4:11 PM

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The way you started the second video hit home for me because its something ive been thinking about.

In the past i would lose a girl but felt like i was cursed or something, just unlucky. I felt that way because i saw myself as good personality, fun, decent looking guy, shit.. why shouldnt this girl be into me and cant get enough of me. But something was missing and i am where i am with girls for a reason,
not because im cursed or unlucky.

I finally came to the conclusion that, wow, maybe you are all those things BUT, its not enough. You're lacking somewhere and basically yes, you are where you are because that is what you deserve! I never really felt that way but after a while, im like, holy crap dude, maybe you need some skills that you were not aware of. luckys rsd has shown me where i was fucking up.

It was the shit tests that i was bombing. I would get angry and stressed when i got shit tested because i looked at it as rejection. Even when i banged a chick she would shit test me and i thought, here we go again, she's going to disappear, then i would start acting strange and different.. Doh! im was so dumb. its all lack of education really. that is everybodys problem.

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Posted March 11th, 2013 at 9:22 PM

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Even though I agree with you about accepting reality for what it is in regards with what your brain already thinks it deserves, I think that stress is just an inevitable part of the process when your goal is to raise your sense of entitlement. It's strange, but everytime I experience stress over something and I experience that same situation again, I feel relatively less anxious than the previous time in that specific circumstance.

Also, why do you say that it is better for your sense of entitlement to be grounded in reality than the other way?

I've always felt that grounding my sense of entitlement in reality puts me at the mercy of reality..psychologically speaking. Even resting on my laurels makes me feel like I rely on external factors to boost my self esteem. I guess what I'm saying is that reality seems too fickle for me to ground my sense my entitlement on. What do you think?

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Posted March 12th, 2013 at 11:34 AM

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I think it's for dating websites, rather than facebook.

PSS wrote:

I never was the kind of guy who tries to add and talk to new girls on the internet and I didn't believe it would work with 7s and those above, but yesterday I did add 3 random 7.5 - 8 HBs on facebook, because the video gave me curiosity about it. None of them answered.
I didn't know exatcly what to put in the message, so it went something like:" hi, i thought you're cute, don't know you from anywhere but, who knows, i'd like to talk to you. p.s. i don't have an yatch" I don't know if this was lame or not, but what else can you speak in the internet? Haha , at least it is not desperately trying to convey value, I think.
Anyway, I think adding random girls on facebook has very low chance of they responding, they get hit all the time in the clubs, why would they lost their time this way? Some time after I send the messages I though it was lame and the girls would think that the guy is too desperately and is adding anyone in internet. I am not trying to criticize Todd's content, just sharing the experience that I had yesterday. =D

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Posted March 12th, 2013 at 6:16 PM

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great videos, thanks ;p

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Posted March 12th, 2013 at 6:40 PM

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Todd

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In response to this and your other question above it:

there is no magic bullet, which is why I focused on PROCESS. Re-listen to the part about how to respond to the four different types of texts... that's the part you need for now. Then with that in mind, always be trying to close... Even then you need to be entitled, non-needy, and get lots of practice. Text game is NOT easy.

king_kickass101 wrote:

Also I can never set up a date. I have all these numbers and no results from any of them. Most of them don't even respond and if they do its clear they're not interested.

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Posted March 12th, 2013 at 6:42 PM

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Todd

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Ya. I heard this in a slightly different context, and it really resonated with me as well. Glad you found it helpful.

TheDuve wrote:

I've seen a lot of stuff on abundance and this is the only time I've heard of borrowing abundance from your future self. Probably the best concept I've heard in a while

Being convinced that you WILL end up with the hottest girls, no question about it, makes you slowly move in that direction (and faster if you work hard and smart going out and your results snowball).

Actively anchoring entitlement to an awesome lifestyle and your good qualities is also always worth repeating.

The IC text vid was sick.

Thanks a lot Todd.

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Posted March 12th, 2013 at 6:43 PM

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Todd

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Yep

teddydan wrote:

I think it's for dating websites, rather than facebook.

PSS wrote:

I never was the kind of guy who tries to add and talk to new girls on the internet and I didn't believe it would work with 7s and those above, but yesterday I did add 3 random 7.5 - 8 HBs on facebook, because the video gave me curiosity about it. None of them answered.
I didn't know exatcly what to put in the message, so it went something like:" hi, i thought you're cute, don't know you from anywhere but, who knows, i'd like to talk to you. p.s. i don't have an yatch" I don't know if this was lame or not, but what else can you speak in the internet? Haha , at least it is not desperately trying to convey value, I think.
Anyway, I think adding random girls on facebook has very low chance of they responding, they get hit all the time in the clubs, why would they lost their time this way? Some time after I send the messages I though it was lame and the girls would think that the guy is too desperately and is adding anyone in internet. I am not trying to criticize Todd's content, just sharing the experience that I had yesterday. =D

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Posted March 13th, 2013 at 4:44 AM

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Really enjoyed this article. Your first blog was awesome in a way that you explained things that i do, that i didnt understand that i was already doing, and as a result i understand them more in depth.

I related to your second blog very well because, im doing a lot of reading lately and i notice my awareness is highlighting messeges related to self affirmation. The borrowing abundance idea is something ive been working out in my head since the beginning so i really enjoyed hearing to your insights about it.

thanks

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Posted March 13th, 2013 at 5:22 AM

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king_kickass101

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I think im starting to get the hang of it now actually. great advice on it being a process. I tend to get ahead of myself and want results instantly, but I see now that one of the best ways to get good game is to enjoy the process. I think im finally getting the whole non-needy thing too, how to convey interest without sounding desperate.
Great advice Todd it really helped

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Posted March 17th, 2013 at 5:36 PM

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