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Something really struck home for me on this weekends bootcamp that I am sure can help shift your perspective to that of a true core ladies man.
There was a guy this weekend who was HEAVILY into using a step by step method. He fought and fought anything he had to try out himself. He wanted what to say in EVERY situation.
I saw him do an AMAZING pickup that would make a LOT of guys think he is the SHIT! I was very VERY impressed.The girl was DOWN to have sex with him RIGHT THERE. All over him. Anyway the girl walked away... and he came back and IMMEDIATELY started telling me what went wrong technically in the set
Why didnt he pull her back as she went to walk away?
Why didnt he just take her home? (she would have gone)
He was focused on the GAME and not on the LOVE of the GIRL.
He was not connected to the SOUL.
Here is how I explained it:
Led Zeppelin, arguably one of the best bands in HISTORY and one of mine and Jeffy's personal favourites... They truly have the glory.
They went on to shape all music forever. How? Where did that come from?
You see, ANY GUY ON THIS PLANET can learn the chords from the guitarist and play the chords. They can learn the drum rhythm and play the drums. They can find a talented singer to match the voice (well, come close to maybe) the singer.
But what they won't have is the unshakable SOUL of the band.
How did they think to put those chords and beats together?
The SOUL.
How the hell did he think of those lyrics?
The SOUL.
How the hell did they get that STYLE?
The SOUL.
The SOUL is what a girl connects to on a VERY deep level. Perhaps the deepest and truest form of "Game" is the SOUL.
My soul with women comes from a deep, core love I cannot explain nor teach. The love not just for women, but for LIFE.
You have to connect with the soul of yourself and your own deepest passions for beautiful women which is a parallel to your deepest passions for living a GREAT LIFE.
We can give you the chords, the method, the steps, the things to say. Thats fine. But with no soul you are a walking club zombie.
Developing the soul:
Music: Since we are on Led Zep's listen to the classic 'Stairway to Heaven'. Notice how you don't even have to know the lyrics or make logical sense of them - but you can FEEL what he is trying to communicate.
Values: You will not develop the soul unless you are living by a harmonious set of values you are trying to convey. For example: you know that you should be dominant and fun in the club - but if you are not dominant and fun in ALL areas of your life then there is massive disconnect and the girls will feel it.
Its that ability to walk up to a girl in the club, say or do ANYTHING, but conveying the FEELING of a MAN WHO HAS HIS SHIT TOGETHER.
When you walk into the nightclub, it should be a mere CELEBRATION of YOU - the FUCKING MAN.
A celebration of the guy who attacks life and takes what he wants because of his deepest love for it.
SOUL development will become a massive part of my bootcamp in the coming months. These thoughts are explored deeper in the Flawless Natural Program.
Always remember that any "method" or "system" is just a signpost - a way to DISCOVERY. Discovery of your own soul and deeper purpose. If the system or method doesnt allow for this: then how can you not become a useless clone?
How is your SOUL going?
T
Something really struck home for me on this weekends bootcamp that I am sure can help shift your perspective to that of a true core ladies man.
There was a guy this weekend who was HEAVILY into using a step by step method. He fought and fought anything he had to try out himself. He wanted what to say in EVERY situation.
I saw him do an AMAZING pickup that would make a LOT of guys think he is the SHIT! I was very VERY impressed.The girl was DOWN to have sex with him RIGHT THERE. All over him. Anyway the girl walked away... and he came back and IMMEDIATELY started telling me what went wrong technically in the set
Why didnt he pull her back as she went to walk away?
Why didnt he just take her home? (she would have gone)
He was focused on the GAME and not on the LOVE of the GIRL.
He was not connected to the SOUL.
Here is how I explained it:
Led Zeppelin, arguably one of the best bands in HISTORY and one of mine and Jeffy's personal favourites... They truly have the glory.
They went on to shape all music forever. How? Where did that come from?
You see, ANY GUY ON THIS PLANET can learn the chords from the guitarist and play the chords. They can learn the drum rhythm and play the drums. They can find a talented singer to match the voice (well, come close to maybe) the singer.
But what they won't have is the unshakable SOUL of the band.
How did they think to put those chords and beats together?
The SOUL.
How the hell did he think of those lyrics?
The SOUL.
How the hell did they get that STYLE?
The SOUL.
The SOUL is what a girl connects to on a VERY deep level. Perhaps the deepest and truest form of "Game" is the SOUL.
My soul with women comes from a deep, core love I cannot explain nor teach. The love not just for women, but for LIFE.
You have to connect with the soul of yourself and your own deepest passions for beautiful women which is a parallel to your deepest passions for living a GREAT LIFE.
We can give you the chords, the method, the steps, the things to say. Thats fine. But with no soul you are a walking club zombie.
Developing the soul:
Music: Since we are on Led Zep's listen to the classic 'Stairway to Heaven'. Notice how you don't even have to know the lyrics or make logical sense of them - but you can FEEL what he is trying to communicate.
Values: You will not develop the soul unless you are living by a harmonious set of values you are trying to convey. For example: you know that you should be dominant and fun in the club - but if you are not dominant and fun in ALL areas of your life then there is massive disconnect and the girls will feel it.
Its that ability to walk up to a girl in the club, say or do ANYTHING, but conveying the FEELING of a MAN WHO HAS HIS SHIT TOGETHER.
When you walk into the nightclub, it should be a mere CELEBRATION of YOU - the FUCKING MAN.
A celebration of the guy who attacks life and takes what he wants because of his deepest love for it.
SOUL development will become a massive part of my bootcamp in the coming months. These thoughts are explored deeper in the Flawless Natural Program.
Always remember that any "method" or "system" is just a signpost - a way to DISCOVERY. Discovery of your own soul and deeper purpose. If the system or method doesnt allow for this: then how can you not become a useless clone?
How is your SOUL going?
T
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anarchy
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There no real point trying to find it, or hoping to find it, to apply it to any realm of human life.
It comes with the sense that every act, every word out of you, is unique in his temporality, and should be unique in its form.
Make you life creative,
You said it yourself,
Seek Creation, affirmation of your life,
Not harmony, or any value, I don't believe having strong values, changes your abilities with women;
It's on the contrary, your feeling that you are lacking strenght and values, that criple you.
Abandon, Harmony, Debauchery, Drugs, Love...
You can create, as long as you dont feel empty, but full... and able to give.
DrDoug
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Do you guys agree with that? Am I on the right track? Please comment.
I think I am on the right track because by being as present and as conscious as I can be, I have proven many times to myself that this boosts my attractiveness to women to my highest levels. This is when I hit click and flow.
Eckhart Tolle describes many many little spiritual exercises in The Power of Now and The New Earth that have helped me to find my soul.
But I find that these little spiritual exercises need to be part of your morning and nightly ritual, along with vision living, great nutrition and intense physical training. (Doing those spiritual exercises with a girl can take you on adventures...)
You definitely need to do all this to strengthen and maintain your Soul Baseline Level.
Beyond that, like Tim's story above, this girl wanted to go home with me, wanted to do Yoga with me, wanted to hang out with me and even introduced me to her hot girlfriend after I went through some relaxation / breathing exercises from Tolle's books with her to find that soul in her.
A true glimpse of glory.
But I lost my presence, lost touch with my soul, and somehow ended up disqualifying myself.
Next time I will keep in touch with my soul.
Meanwhile I will work to strengthen and maintain my Soul Baseline Level.
More soul to you!
I will also get good at reading body language, practice daily approaching multiple social sets, practice escalating, and practice communicating to high quality women through my soul.
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Question, when you are speaking from the soul, what's the encounter looks like?
Drama
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What a powerful message Tim. I've been getting caught up in trying to develop my own "flawless method" but I need to remember your core concepts rather than soley focusing on "outer game."
Thanks Tim.
Drama
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to male: hey is your name tim
shake hands: o my god im so glad to meet you thank you so much
(to girl) this guys picture is on an advertisement for some penis pills. i bought them. they work.
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your the fuckin dopest brahhh
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Peace and love brother
SAM =)
PS: My game is a fucking 10, and i thank you for that jeje