Creator of the Flawless Natural Method for dating beautiful women, the original gangster Real Social Dynamics instructor homegrown in Australia now living in Hollywood California – You guys know me as the leadoff speaker in the epic “Transformations” DVD/CD program and for being featured in various magazines and publications repping RSD – I also take off from time to time to tour the world as a DJ of electronic/house music known as Timothy Marc – Right now I am running live Bootcamps in Los Angeles and producing the upcoming “Flawless Natural Superconference"; I teach an approach to dating and self-actualization that is simultaneously natural and organic while being results-oriented and potent to the extreme.
Something really struck home for me on this weekends bootcamp that I am sure can help shift your perspective to that of a true core ladies man.
There was a guy this weekend who was HEAVILY into using a step by step method. He fought and fought anything he had to try out himself. He wanted what to say in EVERY situation.
I saw him do an AMAZING pickup that would make a LOT of guys think he is the SHIT! I was very VERY impressed.The girl was DOWN to have sex with him RIGHT THERE. All over him. Anyway the girl walked away... and he came back and IMMEDIATELY started telling me what went wrong technically in the set
Why didnt he pull her back as she went to walk away?
Why didnt he just take her home? (she would have gone)
He was focused on the GAME and not on the LOVE of the GIRL.
He was not connected to the SOUL.
Here is how I explained it:
Led Zeppelin, arguably one of the best bands in HISTORY and one of mine and Jeffy's personal favourites... They truly have the glory.
They went on to shape all music forever. How? Where did that come from?
You see, ANY GUY ON THIS PLANET can learn the chords from the guitarist and play the chords. They can learn the drum rhythm and play the drums. They can find a talented singer to match the voice (well, come close to maybe) the singer.
But what they won't have is the unshakable SOUL of the band.
How did they think to put those chords and beats together?
How the hell did he think of those lyrics?
How the hell did they get that STYLE?
The SOUL is what a girl connects to on a VERY deep level. Perhaps the deepest and truest form of "Game" is the SOUL.
My soul with women comes from a deep, core love I cannot explain nor teach. The love not just for women, but for LIFE.
You have to connect with the soul of yourself and your own deepest passions for beautiful women which is a parallel to your deepest passions for living a GREAT LIFE.
We can give you the chords, the method, the steps, the things to say. Thats fine. But with no soul you are a walking club zombie.
Developing the soul:
Music: Since we are on Led Zep's listen to the classic 'Stairway to Heaven'. Notice how you don't even have to know the lyrics or make logical sense of them - but you can FEEL what he is trying to communicate.
Values: You will not develop the soul unless you are living by a harmonious set of values you are trying to convey. For example: you know that you should be dominant and fun in the club - but if you are not dominant and fun in ALL areas of your life then there is massive disconnect and the girls will feel it.
Its that ability to walk up to a girl in the club, say or do ANYTHING, but conveying the FEELING of a MAN WHO HAS HIS SHIT TOGETHER.
When you walk into the nightclub, it should be a mere CELEBRATION of YOU - the FUCKING MAN.
A celebration of the guy who attacks life and takes what he wants because of his deepest love for it.
SOUL development will become a massive part of my bootcamp in the coming months. These thoughts are explored deeper in the Flawless Natural Program.
Always remember that any "method" or "system" is just a signpost - a way to DISCOVERY. Discovery of your own soul and deeper purpose. If the system or method doesnt allow for this: then how can you not become a useless clone?