(First time writing a blog entry here - I had previously been posting on the Forums.)
Tonight I had a D3 with HB8 TexasGenius. What an amazing woman... really accomplished, motivated, funny, and sharp. She owns her own apartment in NYC and recently quit her job to start a business. Definitely a *10* for personality -- one of the COOLEST girls I have hung out with in weeks, if not months. Not too bad on the eyes, either :) I told one of my friends that she made me really want to raise my standards.
I took her to an after-party where I was massively socially proofed. But first we met up at my apartment, listened to music, and made juice for an hour. Along with the three apples and oranges that I had her bring, she also brought her best girl-friend over (OK I know it was not a date, thanks!).
I won them both over with my amazing juicer and charming personality :) My target was giving me IOIs, asking questions, responding well (not pulling away) from my light kino. I thought we made a pretty good connection. I was hard qualifying both of them, too, throughout the night... did I mention that HB8 TexasGenius used to be a nationally ranked fencer? And she used to sneak down to Mexico to party in high school and designs architecture-type stuff now? I find these qualities to be fun an AWESOME.
At one point, I asked her friend in private - "So, I really like TexasGenius. What's the catch?" and that's when the friend told me -- "She's great, she likes you... but she and FamousComedian are pretty much a thing. It's off and on, but she's been pretty on lately."
This comedian isn't like SUPER famous, but he co-stars in a show on television, hangs out in LA with Kanye West, etc. It wasn't really intimidating to me, because I have met her boyfriend, he's sharp as a knife but not really a big man. But I was concerned that this girl is in a long-term relationship with one of her really good friends (the comedian). At this point I mentally told myself that she did not want to get fucked tonight and would not make a decision to go home and make out with me.
My target's best friend got a booty call, and she left the party. I decided we should leave then too. As left the party together, I tried to get HB8 TexasGenius to come back up to my apartment and hang out. But she said she was just going to get on the subway and go home. I didn't ask twice.
Gave her the hug test, and then we said goodnight. Is it bad that I didn't try for the kiss?
In my defense... I just didn't feel like it was on and I didn't want to push it too fast. I have recently gotten called out by a girl for being too aggressive. HB8 TexasGenius even asked me if I was a follower of (I was asking the crowd fun, social questions at the after-party to get everybody talking... they were dynamic questions, not scripted, but I guess it gave off the entertainer energy. So kill me!). I re-framed it on her anyways and asked if SHE was trying to seduce me with that pick-up stuff. (To which she smiled and said... "Maaaybe")
So that's that. We said our goodbyes, and I'll call her whenever.
I feel like I have been hanging out with much higher quality women lately, but not getting the results I desire. And I recognize that a few months ago, I wrote here on these forums - I need to stop trying to game the 6s and the 7s. Well, this girl tonight was definitely an 8 pushing 9. I'm exciting just thinking about her :)
Now I have the girls I want in my life. Next I need to get the RESULTS!
