I’m considered a bit of a joker, and having fun
in social situations, light-hearted, funny, charismatic. All these things are
great for picking up and attracting women. But there are a few things on the
serious side to focus on, in order to get the girl I want! I think
it’s one of the main problem areas for many guys, and its importance is
paramount, so I thought I would share some of my thoughts on the matter. That's everyone’s self defeating tendencies, and
self doubt. Things that bog you down, when you’re out in the club setting,
reacting being indecisive in the club when you are interacting with these
beautiful women, it has been a sticking point of mine, so I'd like to share
some thoughts and ideas that have help me get it sorted. It's more massive,
then what anyone thinks, and there are only a handful of people that I've known
to master it and really get it.
Some key points to consider, is what are you
doing on your day-to-day basis? How are you living your life? How are you
taking care of your body? That means are you hitting up the gym? Exercising? Eating
right? Or are you hitting up KFC’s ultimate burger meals, and being a slug,
these are massive contributors into self-sabotage self-defeating tendencies,
and amount towards your self worth and what your expectations are of what you
can actually get.
Second key point is training the mind, and being consciously
more positive in your thought process, and the way you interact with people in
general this is huge! If your negative and in a worried/stressed mindset,
throughout the day at your work this automatically carries on into the
nightclub, which I think brings a lot of people down. Everyone's been through
shit jobs that they hate, and it’s the way you interact with people, maybe put
a positive spin on your job, and learn how to enjoy everything that you do.
Although sometimes it can be hard ; ) Lets assume that you have been taking care of
your health, and been hitting the gym up hard, and looking good. Also have a
awesome relationship with you’re family, friends, and co-workers throughout
your daily lives, when you come into the situation, when you see a beautiful
girl, your unconscious mind will be saying I’m kicking ass at everything else,
why not? Why can’t I be the man that’s going to be fun in social situations,
light-hearted, funny, and charismatic? The result you’ll be playing the same “game” to
every girl, because you will not be in a scarcity mindset, you will be proactive.
You know that you are enough, you’re going to inject the same amount of
physicality with turbo’s, you’ll be the same brash cocky self, if it’s called
for. You’re responses and the way you feel is going to be the same for
everyone!
But every now and than you will fall back into self-sabotage,
self-defeating tendencies, thinking that you are not enough. That’s why it’s
good to have a few key phrases in the back of your mind, to remind
yourself on what you have achieved. A classic quote from Alexander~ is “you are
enough” it sums it up nicely, for me it means I’ve had enough reference
experiences, been hitting the gym up for years, I have an awesome family and
mates, who would help me in any situation. I am awesome!
Haha so I
think this is the basis of getting phenomenal results that you deserve.
Wrapping it all up you know when people say, you have to have a balanced life,
it's not only good for your health. It's good for picking up the vagina. By the
way ultimate burger meals are awesome just not everyday. Enjoy your day, now get to the gym. Seany
