Yup, it’s that season, boys…. lovely weather… warm beaches… the boots are sliding off and the skirts and flower dresses are kicking in. Starting to see tanned legs everywhere. Really forgot how beautiful NYC gets during the summer, and soo looking forward to it.



Any busy area in any big city during the summer is prime-time and ripe for the picking. Central Park, 5th avenue, and Union Square in NYC on a good summer day are on par with some of the best nightclubs in town, no question – and no challenge whatsoever. Enjoy the summer and kick back…

So, before alll of these chode-y men’s magazines start to bombard you over and over and over again with promos on getting these summer honeys if and only if you whip yourself in shape, take those crazy pills, or do that specific workout routine - we here at RSD will tell you how to really clean up on a hot summer day.

Daygaming isn’t that different from operating at night. Different environment, energy, and situation, but SAME GAME. Remember that. If you’re pulling girls from clubs regularly at night now, but have never pulled when the sun is up, don’t fret – just keep at it in the first few days and you’ll hit your groove very quickly.

PACING and PLAYFUL RAPPORT are key in daytime. Let me explain…

In the first few seconds you need to pace the situation only because time and her attention span are limited depending on what she’s doing at the moment.

She’s lying down on the beach. She’s casually sitting down on a park bench people-watching or sitting inside a coffee shop. She’s shopping inside a store. She’s walking quickly with a group of friends and they’re on their way to the mall or some party. She’s sitting two seats away from you on the subway and she’s about to get off on the next stop. Or maybe she’s on her phone talking to her best friend….

All of these situations are approachable, regardless of whether she’s moving or not, regardless of whether she’s in a group or not, etc – what matters is how you disarm the initial few micro-seconds of her instincts kicking in thinking “hey what’s going on, this is weird, we’re strangers, strangers don’t randomly talk to each other like this outside of a bar/club/party setting”.

The way you handle this doesn’t have to do with what you say so much as how you open her and handle her instant reaction – being completely cool, relaxed, quick-witted, and playful. You could add in little softeners like “I was just on my way to the store, but….”, “I never do this, but….”, and false-time constraints (saying that you only have a few minutes because you need to get going soon, you don’t have much time, etc) – but not always necessary.

What’s important is that you open confidently and with authority and that you stop them before you start gaming them. If it’s a “moving set” (a girl or group of girls walking) then you’ll have to project loud, stop them, and then move in and start flirting with them once they’re stopped and hooked. If a girl(s) walking in the same direction as you just open her on your side and keep walking with her a bit and proceed as usual.

Ok. She’s walking by and you just opened her, she smiles and now she stops dead in her tracks, now what? The first few minutes as follows….

- Think out loud and make playful observations --- facial expressions, her clothes/appearance, what she’s shopping for, who/what she reminds you of or looks similar to, the friends that she’s with if any, etc. Avoid asking too many questions – in a resume-style format, instead make playful statements that assume things about her, regardless of whether they’re true or not.

- Find out what she’s up to at the moment --- not in a boring “sooo….. what are you doing?” way, but in a playful teasing way, make an observation of what she’s up to now. Also gives you a sense of how much time you have in the set too, since it’s daytime – for example, one of the first things I find out if I’m in set in the subway is which stop they’re gonna get off at.

- Tell her what you’re up to at the moment (shopping, on your way to xyz, etc), how your day is going, share a light story --- this comes off naturally, just telling her what you’re up to, and who you are.

Nothing ground-breaking here, guys. Again, same game – just with more of a focus on getting it hooked smoothly in the beginning, being relaxed and cool, and not thinking that it’s awkward in any way.

Assume the open and it’ll naturally follow. Getting in the right playful mindset is key because you need to break the ice and disarm her asap immediately after you open her; same goes with any set, but with daytime the first few minutes are more of a factor for her to feel comfortable to continue talking to you.

It also needs to come off spontaneous. You just saw her, she looks cute and there’s something interesting about her, and you approached. Her mind should be thinking “we just randomly met” and “it just clicked”.

Also, similar to how you should be moving girls around in set while at a club to build comfort/trust and keep her engaged, you should try to do the same thing with solid daygame sets. Walk with her on the sidewalk for a bit, explore that store together and drag her around, etc – and as it builds up and if there’s no time constraint for you/her don’t just stop there and ask for her number and leave. Try taking her to a coffee shop, bar/café, or a similar place nearby and then play it like a “Day 2” from that point on, all the way back to your place.