Realchange's Blog
I was out last night with some friends in a club. Had a realisation that women will have to deal with entitlement as well. They will unconsciously feel they are only worthy of a certain type of guy (appearance and confidence level).
The ramifications of this:
1. Waiting for girls to approach you is a terrible startegy- a girl you like might not even feel entitled to come and speak to you or even check you out properly. Dont wait for approach invitations.
2. When you approach a girl, they will often be shocked and uncomfortable due to not feeling entitled to a confident guy coming to approach. Give them a chance to get used to you being there and become comfortable and worthy.
3. Girls are just like guys, they are checking you out and talking about you with no intention of approaching because they dont feel entitled. Give these girls a chance to meet you by approaching strongly!
The ramifications of this:
1. Waiting for girls to approach you is a terrible startegy- a girl you like might not even feel entitled to come and speak to you or even check you out properly. Dont wait for approach invitations.
2. When you approach a girl, they will often be shocked and uncomfortable due to not feeling entitled to a confident guy coming to approach. Give them a chance to get used to you being there and become comfortable and worthy.
3. Girls are just like guys, they are checking you out and talking about you with no intention of approaching because they dont feel entitled. Give these girls a chance to meet you by approaching strongly!
Comments
SharkFinz
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Join Date: 07/07/2011 | Posts: 46
I noticed this last night when in line for the club. There was this cute girl I knew who was in a sorority that partied with my frat. I had a gf all thru college so I didn't game her back then. I acted like I didn't know her even tho we made string eye contact at first. I lead two random dudes in since I knew the doormen (high value to be able to do this. She waited around the corner from the entrance and shouts my name like its a surprise bday party for me lol..
SharkFinz
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Join Date: 07/07/2011 | Posts: 46