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Peetterrr
 
This could be counted as a first night ever I actually went out to game and had the balls to do it. The cheap drinks might have helped it a bit too. :) The results: Relatively awesome!

Approached like 6-8 sets during the night and one set of 7(!) girls, which went pretty well, one girl had birthday so gave her a make outsmile. Most of the sets opened quite nicely even though I was just yapping some random shit and usually froze after a couple of minutes and decided to leave before it got awkward. One time got that mean "Fuck off!" from a girl that was a friend of my target and thinking afterwards should have been persistent and just pushed throught the obstacles. The best part! Made out with 3 (or 4, not totally sure) girls during the night. Or not the night like within the first 45 min when I went in and then got too drunk and exhausted. It really isn't a big deal to make out with a stranger. Just go in yapyapyapyap, look in the eyes, go. For me the issue was how to keep the interraction going after that. Any hints?

The 3rd girl I made out with was a perfect example of that. See her passing by @ the bar grab her look in to the eyes and said something like "You looked like you wanted to meet me". She laughs and goes by, gets a friend and asks me to dance. So 2 girls, I go with my friend (mistake? should I have gone alone?). Get to the dancefloor (like 5 sec behind those chicks), the girls are grinding together. Take my blonde from a hand and spin her, she does a full circle and faces her friend again. I yell "No!" and spin her again and stop her so that she faces me. Do that Barney Stinson focusfocus look me in the eyes and kiss her. My wing is gaming her friend while this is going on though not very well as soon the friend is coming to take my chick away. So I playfully pick up the friend and carry her back to my wing and say that this is your new friend. Go back to my girl and make out with her again. At that point I believe I should have lead her away from the dancefloor to somewhere where we could actually talk and build rapport but didn't and Puff! away she went. Don't even know what happened she just like vanished. Run into her later on the dancefloor again and go in but get nothing anymore. Actually she and her friend are so annoyed that I hear "Let's go back to table". teeth

All in all quite good night. Had fun, approached, made out and it all was easier that I though, even the make out though I already knew it is easy. wink Now that the big fear of approaching is gone it is time to start focusing to my next sticking point. How to really get the interraction going. Maybe I should practise a couple of interesting stories about my life to tell so I can just throw one out to start building rapport and also next time drink less. Yesterday I was just some random dude in the nightclub who they kissed, tomorrow I'll be their lover. 

Ps. One more funny story from the dancefloor. When the game was really on and I was dancing, drinking, having fun, making out (don't remember with whom, luckily a girl thoughteeth) I look up and see like 10 guys standing next to the dancefloor staring us with literally their jaws open. Also send Carol the dirtiest txt messages I've ever sent to anyone, just to get this either over with or get in her panties off again. Not sure how she took it, not too well I guess as she sent me a message she'll never talk to me again.teeth Tonight gonna send her one more: "Your mom!". Atleast sparkled some emotion in her, let's see what will happen now.

Next time out on fri or sat or both. The goals for that:

Approachapproachapproach
Close
Build rapport
Be more persistent
Have fun and be fun!
    
-Peetterrr
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