get ready for another post of me railing against traditional "PUA values"

i can barely read this site anymore...not to sound condescending but its filled with nerdy overanalysing of what should be a very basic thing.

as far as i can tell, the "RSD ideal" is........ you go out by yourself sober or with your "wingman" to random clubs for a period of several years, not giving a fuck about how you're dressed because your identity is too solid to care......then you get brutally rejected by girls for the first year but you slowly gain an understanding of what isn't socially weird/retarded....then you officially "have game" and you're such a ninja that you can go to any city in the world where you have no social contacts and pick up random hot bitches.


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if that's a fucking ideal i want nothing to do with it.  

that's just an opinion. and for the record, an opinion based completely on going out constantly for several years, doing club promotions for fly venues and actually having sex with real girls who's name's don't end in .com

time to lay down some truth:

i (NOR YOU) honestly should have any interest in going to different cities and coldapproach PUA'ing random bitches at random clubs.  you should be A LOT more interested in getting a reputation/knowing by people/following at the coolest club/clubs in my city.

"cold approaching" - fucking weird to be honest.  technically i'm sure i do cold approach, yeah -  yell out to hoes walking past me spur of the moment with a big smile and some random bullshit excuse to talk.....but it's not a fucking "cold approach" - HOW CREEPY.

perfect example which cemented the lameness of cold approachers in my head: i logged into facebook the other day where i embarrassingly have jeffy (jlaix) as a friend.  him and alex (as in "omg alex the technical king of pickup!!1!1) had checked-in at 'The Vic' - possibly the gayest fucking club/bar in my home city of brisbane.  it was at that moment where i completely stopped idolising these instructors.  if the pinnacle of pickup is that you can go to the vic on a friday and (maybe) pick up some Vic gutterslut who isn't even a bitch of high social status..........fuck that, i don't want to be the pinnacle.

real advice: 

- go out 2 or 3 nights a week.  friday/saturday or thursday/friday/saturday.  i never understand all these pickup nerds talking about going out 7 nights a week, what sort of fucking normal hot girl goes out on a monday or tuesday night?  the nights i've mentioned will be the flyest, most packed and give you most bang for your buck in the FUN department.

- go to the coolest venue in your city.  i put this as my second point because it's extremely important.  THE COOLEST.  you've probably heard people talk about this place like "yeahhh nah i don't like it everyone there thinks they're too cool" - GOOD! go there with your crew of mates and become one of those cunts.

- when you go out, go out to get rowdy and have some fucking fun.  seriously.  don't go in with a "how many little girls will i be able to creep on tonight" mentality, thats fucking weird and a surefire way to make sure your night goes to shit. 

- drink.  there's a bar in that place for a reason.  this goes against pickup dogma but i don't give a fuck.

- dress cool.  all the time.  if you don't really take an interest in fashion, you probably already think you dress cool or you have no idea what cool entails.  that's all good - dedicate yourself to finding out.  cool threads varies from country to country.  i'm australian so i'm into boutique aussie/scandinavian shit - chronicles of never, claude maus, dr denim, freidrich gray etc, but i'm sure if i wore that to a club in LA  i would look out of place.
find out the 3 or 4 cool stores in your city which are fashionable.  and i mean really fashionable, you should walk around feeling like an arrogant cunt most of your life because you are dressed 100x better than everyone you walk past.  if you're australian hit me up and i can probably point you towards those stores.
if your natural style is emo/goth/skater rat/hillbilly/bogan/whatever unfashionable shit and you've gotten attached to it, you may feel pretty uncomfortable breaking out of that and wearing the shit that cool naturals wear.  honestly, take a leap of faith and give that shit up for the greater good of your dick.

- get a crew of COOL GUYS.  your mates have to be fly, flyer than you preferably.  go out with guys who are already hooked up socially and know the dudes you'd want to know (promoters, dj's, photographers, generally high social status cunts who know everyoone).  if your mates aren't the coolest niggas out, at least get a decently big crew of them.  bigger crew, more fun night IMO.  none of this two people bullshit.  AND ALSO - bring bitches out too, there's no rule that says you can't bring your girl friends out with you.

- change your mandatory monday to thursday activities to things that will help your fly mad cunt social lifestyle.  e.g. if you're young, you're going to need a job.  instead of working as a gay porn collector of whatever job you currently work, get a job at at that clothing store in the city where it's a bit intimidating and all the girls who work there are fucking hot and the dudes are cool.  that's what i did.

- if you can, get a job within the clubbing scene.   i.e. bartending, djing, club promoting (what i do), glassy, bouncing.....whatever.  get yourself used to that world and become apart of it.  

- lastly and most importantly, READ NO PICKUP THEORY.  FUCKING ZERO.  don't even browse rsdnation, especially don't read the forum.  most of the people on that fucking thing are losers.  straight up.  obviously if this sort of stuff resonates with you more than the nerd overanalyzing theory you're on the right path.  reading theory will just pull your mind in 100 different directions and stop you becoming a natural through simply going out regularly.


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that's all i have for the moment i'm fucking hungry.  more posts to come.

GO OUT!