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May 30-June 1, 2014: Copenhagen, Denmark

June 6-8, 2014: London, United Kingdom

June 13-15, 2014: Munich, Germany

June 20-22, 2014: London, United Kingdom

June 27-29, 2014: Oslo, Norway

July 4-6, 2014: London, United Kingdom
 
July 25-27, 2014: Liverpool, United Kingdom
 
August 15-17, 2014: London, United Kingdom
 
August 22-24, 2014: Frankfurt, Germany
 
August 29-31, 2014: London, United Kingdom
 
September 5-7, 2014: Gothenburg, Sweden
 
September 11-13, 2014: London, United Kingdom
 
September 18-20, 2014: Munich, Germany
 
September 26-28, 2014: London, United Kingdom (Special Daygame Only Bootcamp)
 
October 9-11, 2014: Oslo, Norway
 
October 16-18, 2014: Copenhagen, Denmark
 
October 24-26, 2014: London, United Kingdom
 
October 31-November 2, 2014: Helsinki, Finland
 
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May 30-June 1, 2014: Copenhagen, Denmark

June 6-8, 2014: London, United Kingdom

June 13-15, 2014: Munich, Germany

June 20-22, 2014: London, United Kingdom

June 27-29, 2014: Oslo, Norway

July 4-6, 2014: London, United Kingdom
 
July 25-27, 2014: Liverpool, United Kingdom
 
August 15-17, 2014: London, United Kingdom
 
August 22-24, 2014: Frankfurt, Germany
 
August 29-31, 2014: London, United Kingdom
 
September 5-7, 2014: Gothenburg, Sweden
 
September 11-13, 2014: London, United Kingdom
 
September 18-20, 2014: Munich, Germany
 
September 26-28, 2014: London, United Kingdom (Special Daygame Only Bootcamp)
 
October 9-11, 2014: Oslo, Norway

October 16-18, 2014: Copenhagen, Denmark
 
October 24-26, 2014: London, United Kingdom
 
October 31-November 2, 2014: Helsinki, Finland
 
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February 28-March 2, 2014: London, United Kingdom
March 7-9, 2014: Oslo, Norway
March 14-16, 2014: London, United Kingdom
March 21-23, 2014: Amsterdam, Netherlands
March 28-30, 2014: London, United Kingdom
April 4-6, 2014: London, United Kingdom
April 25-27, 2014: London, United Kingdom
May 2-4, 2014: London, United Kingdom
May 16-18, 2014: Stockholm, Sweden
May 23-25, 2014: London, United Kingdom
May 30-June 1, 2014: Copenhagen, Denmark
June 6-8, 2014: London, United Kingdom
June 13-15, 2014: Munich, Germany
www.rsdbootcamp.com
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Some of the common problems include:
. You leave sets too early
. You have approach anxiety
. You don't approach hotter girls
. Your interactions die when they seem to be going well
. You don't escalate when you should or simply not at all
etc.
The list goes on and on. Nobody cares. Your insecurities don't matter to anybody. You can talk about it forever. You read about solutions and they don't seem to work for you. You tell your friends, your buddies at the forum and sure, they will listen but for how long? But at the end of the day the only person that matters is you. To live the good life you need to cut  out the middle man. You need to go straight to the shit. Ever heard a winner complain about anything or mention/focus on what he cannot do. Focusing on the negative is in itself counterproductive. You are wasting time. To win, you must move away from the bad. In other words you need to move to your strengths and forget your weaknesses for a while.
What's the big deal here?
Most sticking points lists prevent guys from taking action. In other words, you will avoid those very things outlined in the list. You will stay away from that list. Rather than escalating, you will delay the escalation on purpose or not do it at all. It prevents them from taking action. Even if they knew what to do they wouldn't do it. Reason being action is key to dissipate sticking points. Chances are you are holding back in those areas that you need to improve and take action in. You get caught up in the drama of the sticking points. Chances are you are waiting for something to happen as opposed to making something happen. You don't want to face the problem.
You build anxiety over time around your sticking points. By not facing them you reinforce them. Too painful to face it, but far more to know deep down in your heart you are not addressing it. It is like when you hear somebody complain, "I have no life, no girlfriend or friends", and you truly want to help but they won't take your advice. Ever tried to give somebody direction in their lives and they refuse to consider your ideas because they don't find them useful. You tell them, "If you are fat, why don't you try a diet and the gym", to which they reply, "Can't because diets don't work for me plus I have no time for the gym". In other words, they don't want advice but somebody to agree with them. In the game, I ask guys, "Why do you leave sets early?", most times they say, "I don't know. It kind of dies on me". I realize that most guys "want to" leave the set early. They can't take the pressure of sustaining an interaction for too long. They want to be over with it.
Being a Victim of your Sticking points
Victims look like victims. You hear a lot that muggers pick victims in general by their body language. They identify people that are "muggable" by how they behave. Muggers operate just like predators in the wild they pick and choose their prey among the weakest of the herd, sometimes but not always the youngest.
If you approach sets already with the idea of leaving it early, you convey that insecurity to your girl with body language and general vibe. Women pick it up  and you are done. But that's what you unconsciously wanted to begin because you don't like holding the pressure of talking to her and her group.
Winners are Pushy
In a  good sense, winner push themselves beyond the limit. Stop walking around with a bulls eye in your back. Sticking points are there so be it. Take the action you require anyway and accept the consequences. Winners accept the loss and move on if they must. They don't avoid it. In the movie "The Hustler", the all time champion applauds the opponent when he made a good shot. He knew that the game was not about "the one shot", the game was the "long game", not the short. Whoever resists the pressure the longest without avoiding it becomes the champion. Deep down inside winners accept pressure as a by product of winning. Some get to enjoy it.
Imagine yourself without the sticking points
Let's say you don't have them anymore. What would you do? What happens when having a sticking point doesn't stop you from action? What will you do different? What happens when your subconscious mind stops thinking about limitations? Imagine yourself more powerful, bigger, better but also honest and down to earth. Some bully victims have changed their body language and have reported they don't get picked on at school anymore. Imagine this is just a body language change. You don't want it to be about body language because you want long term solutions like attitude adjustments, not quick fixes. You want change to happen from inside to outside, not the other way around. As a coach, I work with a student from inside out, not outside in. Outside changes  are faster to implement but won't last long.
Chest champions use their disadvantage to their advantage. Bobby Fisher, for example, would play the same opening game with every opponent. He would not change his strategy, no  matter what. Most chess players would look at this as a disadvantage. They would think that you become predictable and they can anticipate your moves. But Fischer found a way to make it work. His knowledge of the openings was so deep that nobody could beat him at those openings. In other words, he made a limitation into a weapon. In sports, you will find plenty of examples of players using their limitations to their advantage. In baseball, you have the short guys shrinking the strike zone by squatting so pitchers can't throw strikes. In soccer, you have dwarfish players like Messi who are able to pass defenders by changing speeds and sneaking in the kill zone. In the pickup game you have shy guys turning into attraction magnets by being mysterious and making girls chase. The list goes on and on.
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I will be next:
February 28-March 2, 2014: London, United Kingdom
March 7-9, 2014: Oslo, Norway
March 14-16, 2014: London, United Kingdom
March 21-23, 2014: Amsterdam, Netherlands
March 28-30, 2014: London, United Kingdom
April 4-6, 2014: London, United Kingdom
April 25-27, 2014: London, United Kingdom
May 2-4, 2014: London, United Kingdom
May 16-18, 2014: Stockholm, Sweden
May 23-25, 2014: London, United Kingdom
May 30-June 1, 2014: Copenhagen, Denmark
June 6-8, 2014: London, United Kingdom
June 13-15, 2014: Munich, Germany
www.rsdbootcamp.com
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