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I run daytime on Sunday almost religiously. I think no bootcamp is complete without it. I am old school like that. But I am serious. Unlike most instruction out there i believe you can close the deal on the same day or lay the ground work for a lay if you keep it simple and are not afraid to risk failure. One thing is true, most girls are busy in the day time, and most are going somewhere, still I want you to pull the trigger anyway. What is there to lose? You can only gain when you expand her comfort zone... and yours. She might interpret that as failure to lead instead. You don’t want to be overly cautious. She would appreciate a guy that shows interest and he is not afraid to show it. Women are unforgiving about guys that don’t lead and talk all the time but take no concrete action. Action is key because they speak louder than words. Boring her? Guys don’t realize interactions die down on you. You can’t talk forever. Energy dies out and I want to you to take action early enough, while the iron is still hot. Typical mistakes include waiting until your losing traction to make your move. Early is better and if you lose a few girls so be it. I teach my students to pull the trigger for insta dates within 2 minutes of meeting a girl. Yes, they lose girls but they also hook up more that way. Once they become skilful, they become more lethal because they are building good habits for pulling. Most guys need reassurance from the girl to take action. In short interactions most girls don’t have the time yet to know whether they will sleep with you, they need more time. Serious vs smile Most guys’ fear symptoms show in their face. It is involuntary. You don’t know when you are doing it. A superfriendly vibe is essential in day time. People act as mirrors, whatever you give them, they give you back. It is hard to be mean to somebody who is being friendly(I don’t mean nice). Feeling uncomfortable is a requirement when you are friendly. Being too comfortable could mean you are not being friendly enough. You need to step out of comfort zone and bring an ear to ear smile. I am sure your cheeks will hurt after a while. You need it otherwise they won’t see and thus not reflect it back to you. Text Game I think it is over rated. Why not do things when you have her right in front of you. I always recommend calling over texting. Why? I believe you can communicate more with your tonality than with the typed words. You grow balls too. Some of the texting is done to avoid symptoms of fear. You feel safer punching words into your phone than talking directly. Unfortunately playing safe is not rewarded but punished in this game. On the other hand, go for the phone number as the last resort or at the end of a same day date, when logistics dictate. Pickup Vibes Give the impression that you are being social because you are. Stop thinking, pickup tactics, attracting building and game palaver. It would put you right in your head. Instead, think of being social, think in terms of time, how long as an average are my interactions? Try and make them longer. Long interactions lead to comfort, which in turn translate into insta dates. To do that, think social dynamics over pickup. Pickup will happen for you when you are not thinking about it.
I had this student who would keep having strong reactions to approaching saying that it was too weird what he was doing and that he didn’t want to do it anymore. He also had a strong bodily aversion to talking to girls on the street. At t he club level he would either back out of the approach and simply freeze in the middle of the group and claimed he choked and couldn’t talk. Nothing that I had never seen before in the field, no surprise for me. His theory was interesting about why that was. In his mind he was “advanced” due to the amount of videos and theory he knew during the years he had been in a long term relationship, which was broken now and he being single again wanted to sow his wild oats. Nothing wrong with the oats part. All this amalgamation of pickup theory and videos in his head combined with a tendency to be a perfectionist contributed to have him paralyzed in the field. He couldn’t handle the real approaching rejections and despaired quickly. Knowing doesn’t get. If it was that easy everybody will be successful from home courses. Another thing that seemed to not work is the demands on reality to provide success at all times. Reality doesn’t give what you want but what you deserve. It is the law of the game. There are no diplomas or nepotism like in real life. Game has its own rules. Attitude You have got to be small in this game. Be humble. That means being small in size but great in ambition. It seems like a contradiction but it is not. The ambition to be successful is your drive, what makes you go out every night and try again. But you must be small in attitude. It means you have to be humble to accept the small tiny victories in the field before you get the big ones. Even at the beginning of the night you must accept whatever little success comes your way as if you won the Olympics. You must accept little victories as a premonition of big ones, even when big victories don’t appear. Successful Types I have trained guys with exceptional qualities for the game. They seem to be gifted. All you need to do as a coach is a little technical tweaking and they start pulling girls, getting make outs, or insta dates in day time. One thing those guys have in common is that they are ok with practicing and getting small victories. They don’t seem to mind when things don’t work out. They are also comfortable with success like they deserve it. Low Self Esteem People with low self esteem need constant affirmation. That’s why when they get to cold approaching they struggle. They need a constant stream of female approval. Even then it is never good enough. They will always find fault with whatever and never be happy. It seems that they need the whip all the time. Even when winning they still need a “but” to bring them down. They are bent on confirming how truly worthless they are. They won’t accept success either and usually managed to view it as a coincidence or freak occurrence. They didn’t deserve it. That’s why no amount of technical knowledge will help because it is a low self esteem issue. They self sabotage. Negative thoughts Negative thoughts can be transformed quite quickly and they are healthy for the average player. If you have a negative thought you must view it as a challenge to transform. Typical negative thoughts concerning “looks”, “skill level” or the like must be brought into awareness and proper attention given. They could be of use. If you think you don’t have the looks to attract hot girls, you might want to enter hot approaches with a mind to prove it wrong. You need to prove your negative thought is not true, or at least not 100 percent. You must separate negative attitude, low self esteem issues from negative thoughts. Victim “I am a victim” thoughts appear after long streaks of rejection. You seem to blame whoever is around for your lack of success. You may blame the venue, “too loud in here”. You need to understand it is not the loud music but yourself to blame. Other times you blame the girls, “they are bitches”. But in the very same venue you see others being successful. Attitude reassessment and adjustment is necessary. Take a quick break and situate your thoughts and focus on your breathing, bodily sensations and connect with what’s going one “inside”, not “outside”. Take responsibility. --------------------- I will be next: