Have you ever seen a monkey feeding a goose? Have you ever seen a tiger befriending a gazelle? Nope.

You haven’t because those things don’t happen. It is anti-natural if you will. Animals as rule feed only their own kind. Predators don't befriend their prey. They exceptions confirm the rule.

Have you ever seen a nerdy, geeky, introvert walk up to the hottest girl in a club and start getting physical and attracting her? Nope. It doesn’t feel right. If he does all her stud friends will come to rescue her from the hands of the geek. Again, the exceptions confirm the rule.

Anyway, check my last video on this topic. I was reluctant to show this video because it is too laid back and not hyper and it won’t appeal to many. However, there is an infield portion in it and it would make up for the “laidbackness” of it. If you are able to listen to the message it would rock your world. It is distilled wisdom from teaching in the trenches since 2005.

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The Code



There is a natural code you have to break in order to do the “unnatural” things in when you are out to meet women. It is kind of challenging the established order of things. If you make a habit of “trespassing” those boundaries of the “unnatural” you will be rewarded. Then you will transcend your own instinctual nature. You will no longer be the same person. You would have transformed. Then, you will see the geek not only approaching the hottest girls, but taking them. The geek transcended his own instinctual nature. As he breaks the code, the established order, he becomes the new order.

As I did one of my challenges on program last week (stealing the girl from a couple making out) I got mobbed by all their friends; it felt like Neo in the matrix fighting a flock of Agent Smiths. I even had a guy grabbing me by the neck and pulling me away from them. I had another hot girl from the same group trying to befriend me so I would stop trying to steal her friend from the hands of the guy she was making out with. A revolution happened as I tried to do the “impossible”, the unnatural if you will. As I survived my challenged unscathed, I couldn’t help but notice my confidence shooting through the roof. So much so I started grabbing all the hotties I could find and lift them up in the air and trying to kiss them. Something great happens when you try to go beyond the limits of your comfort zone and you come back to normal life. You are not the same.

Transcendence




Transcendence happens when you, trough repetition, trial-and-error, and power of will transform into something else. You transcend your own nature. Only human beings can do that. It is rare, even anecdotal that sworn animal kingdom enemies, like pray and predator become friends. Ok, we all know that some house pets can become unlikely friends in the privacy of a domestic household but not in the wild, not in their natural environment. Animals don’t transcend. They can’t become conscious.

The Path To Transcend

It is a conscious path. You set out to do something consciously like a journey. You pack your bags, you pick up things you are going to need like passport, money, cloth and you are out the door. Spiritually you do the same thing. You read the books, you find the right spiritual practice for you and you go after something. In dating, it is exactly the same process: you pick up “THE BLUEPRINT” DVD, you read articles and dating advice books and you start on your path.

Transcending In Field, Meeting The Women

You walk into a crowded night club and every nook and cranny in your being tells you to go home and never come out again. Some of your thoughts go along the lines of “You don’t belong in a club”, “Club crowd is too aggressive- may be day game will be easier”, “You won’t make it to night” and so on. This is your instinctual nature talking to you. It is your fears. Fears are embedded in your mind to keep you safe and not allow you to do anything stupid that you would regret.

This is the moment of truth, the moment you either transcend or descend. It is up to you. When you face these moments it is good to remind yourself to do the “unnatural thing”. You know, “the monkey feeding the goose”, “the tiger befriending the gazelle”, “you walking up to the hottest chick in the club” and so on.

Remember that transcendence is a conscious process. You do those things that feel unnatural to you, even dangerous. You befriend your fears. And remember that you get to the other side through conscious repetition. You go through the motions over and over until you are comfortable doing the unnatural, the unscripted, the impossible. You transform.

You Set Out To Do One Thing And You Do A Million Other Things

How many times have you gone out of your house to buy groceries and you have ended up doing a million other things like going to the post office, buying a new phone, emailing a client or a friend and so on?

This is exactly what happens when you decide to transcend and you consciously put yourself in the path. A million other things start happening to you. You end up quitting your job and traveling the world. You start a new business venture. You not only take girls home but through them you expand your social circle and meet new people. I can tell you hundreds of stories I have witnessed since I started teaching guys how to succeed with women and dating. Guys who transcended in their dating life through sheer power of will and a game plan, and went on to transcend in other areas.

Ozzie

Executive Coach

Dating Advice for Men

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