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Have you ever seen a monkey feeding a goose? Have you ever seen a tiger befriending a gazelle? Nope.

You haven’t because those things don’t happen. It is anti-natural if you will. Animals as rule feed only their own kind. Predators don't befriend their prey. They exceptions confirm the rule.

Have you ever seen a nerdy, geeky, introvert walk up to the hottest girl in a club and start getting physical and attracting her? Nope. It doesn’t feel right. If he does all her stud friends will come to rescue her from the hands of the geek. Again, the exceptions confirm the rule.

Anyway, check my last video on this topic. I was reluctant to show this video because it is too laid back and not hyper and it won’t appeal to many. However, there is an infield portion in it and it would make up for the “laidbackness” of it. If you are able to listen to the message it would rock your world. It is distilled wisdom from teaching in the trenches since 2005.

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The Code



There is a natural code you have to break in order to do the “unnatural” things in when you are out to meet women. It is kind of challenging the established order of things. If you make a habit of “trespassing” those boundaries of the “unnatural” you will be rewarded. Then you will transcend your own instinctual nature. You will no longer be the same person. You would have transformed. Then, you will see the geek not only approaching the hottest girls, but taking them. The geek transcended his own instinctual nature. As he breaks the code, the established order, he becomes the new order.

As I did one of my challenges on program last week (stealing the girl from a couple making out) I got mobbed by all their friends; it felt like Neo in the matrix fighting a flock of Agent Smiths. I even had a guy grabbing me by the neck and pulling me away from them. I had another hot girl from the same group trying to befriend me so I would stop trying to steal her friend from the hands of the guy she was making out with. A revolution happened as I tried to do the “impossible”, the unnatural if you will. As I survived my challenged unscathed, I couldn’t help but notice my confidence shooting through the roof. So much so I started grabbing all the hotties I could find and lift them up in the air and trying to kiss them. Something great happens when you try to go beyond the limits of your comfort zone and you come back to normal life. You are not the same.

Transcendence




Transcendence happens when you, trough repetition, trial-and-error, and power of will transform into something else. You transcend your own nature. Only human beings can do that. It is rare, even anecdotal that sworn animal kingdom enemies, like pray and predator become friends. Ok, we all know that some house pets can become unlikely friends in the privacy of a domestic household but not in the wild, not in their natural environment. Animals don’t transcend. They can’t become conscious.

The Path To Transcend

It is a conscious path. You set out to do something consciously like a journey. You pack your bags, you pick up things you are going to need like passport, money, cloth and you are out the door. Spiritually you do the same thing. You read the books, you find the right spiritual practice for you and you go after something. In dating, it is exactly the same process: you pick up “THE BLUEPRINT” DVD, you read articles and dating advice books and you start on your path.

Transcending In Field, Meeting The Women

You walk into a crowded night club and every nook and cranny in your being tells you to go home and never come out again. Some of your thoughts go along the lines of “You don’t belong in a club”, “Club crowd is too aggressive- may be day game will be easier”, “You won’t make it to night” and so on. This is your instinctual nature talking to you. It is your fears. Fears are embedded in your mind to keep you safe and not allow you to do anything stupid that you would regret.

This is the moment of truth, the moment you either transcend or descend. It is up to you. When you face these moments it is good to remind yourself to do the “unnatural thing”. You know, “the monkey feeding the goose”, “the tiger befriending the gazelle”, “you walking up to the hottest chick in the club” and so on.

Remember that transcendence is a conscious process. You do those things that feel unnatural to you, even dangerous. You befriend your fears. And remember that you get to the other side through conscious repetition. You go through the motions over and over until you are comfortable doing the unnatural, the unscripted, the impossible. You transform.

You Set Out To Do One Thing And You Do A Million Other Things

How many times have you gone out of your house to buy groceries and you have ended up doing a million other things like going to the post office, buying a new phone, emailing a client or a friend and so on?

This is exactly what happens when you decide to transcend and you consciously put yourself in the path. A million other things start happening to you. You end up quitting your job and traveling the world. You start a new business venture. You not only take girls home but through them you expand your social circle and meet new people. I can tell you hundreds of stories I have witnessed since I started teaching guys how to succeed with women and dating. Guys who transcended in their dating life through sheer power of will and a game plan, and went on to transcend in other areas.

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#1
TheDaywalker

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close mudderfucker close!
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 This is a truly worthy post.

I just got out of a 2 year relationship and I'm a bit rusty - AA is a back and something I have to get rid of again. This post came in very handy. I'll be sure to check out your website.

The video was great, as well.
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 I love it. Thanks, man.
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s@d wrote:
(Never-Seen-Before Infield Video) ?
You must be kidding right??

The fuck was that ??

SON, I AM DISAPPOINT

Have you seen that particular video before?

I dont think so...

lol

Loved it!

Sooooo Chill!
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 I actually enjoyed that. Transcendence is a choice. Yeah, it is. And as you explain it, it's not some mystical bs, just a way to live.
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He talks about thinks that dont "feel" natural, a chode doesnt feel natural in a club, but spending every day for a month in a club it becomes natural.

To succede you have to do things that do not "feel" natural.

It is natural for humans to do things that dont seem natural, ie build a car, ect (he didnt say it in these words, this is an example of what he said so "you" can understand it.)
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s@d wrote:
(Never-Seen-Before Infield Video) ?
You must be kidding right??

The fuck was that ??

SON, I AM DISAPPOINT


it has never been shown neither on my blog nor on this page. however, i have to upload them first and then some people get to see them before they show up in here. that's all. very very few people have seen them before they show up here.
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so you don't agree with my views about pick up. i understand you have a different point of view and it is ok. i am glad you connect with tyler's views. that's the whole point of having this website, you have different view points so you can choose the one you like. if we all said the same thing, you wouldnt like it either.
yes, i do teach for money and all my clients are entitled to refund if they don't like what i teach.
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Quanchi wrote:
This article is awesome as are most of Ozzie's articles. He talks abour fear a lot, pointing to the root of every limiting belief in people's heads.

Is really telling people to act against what they fear the way to go? of course. Ozzie is awakened ...the best part is he gets money for this..and btw you cant change genes unless you are a subject of genetic experiments or undergo mutations through radiation

if there is someone who doesn't enjoy clubs and doesn't have the energy, Ozzie's shit will help in long term, while working on short term stuff, tyler's haircut is way better though
fixed for understanding
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The idea of being a natural just hit me. He gets girls at a young age. It feels natural. He continues getting girls. He becomes a natural. Hit me while I am transcending my own life. Living in China, reading Tropic of Cancer and planning a another month long trip in Southeast Asia.
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Paris Boum Boum wrote:

Quanchi wrote:
This article is awesome as are most of Ozzie's articles. He talks abour fear a lot, pointing to the root of every limiting belief in people's heads.

Is really telling people to act against what they fear the way to go? of course. Ozzie is awakened ...the best part is he gets money for this..and btw you cant change genes unless you are a subject of genetic experiments or undergo mutations through radiation

if there is someone who doesn't enjoy clubs and doesn't have the energy, Ozzie's shit will help in long term, while working on short term stuff, tyler's haircut is way better though
fixed for understanding
Hahahahah.

WIN!
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Ozzie wrote:
This is the moment of truth, the moment you either transcend or descend. It is up to you. When you face these moments it is good to remind yourself to do the “unnatural thing”.
says it all - AWESOME!
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great post
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 Thanks Ozzie for the value. 

I remember when I started going out, everything felt un-natural in a club setting.

Where was I suppose to stand? Should i go on the dancefloor? What kind of drinks should I order? Should i talk to her? What if it fails, where would i go next?

Now, I feel extremly comfortable in a club, its relaxing actually. I feel at ease. I transcended this "un-natural" behavior.
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 Ozzie, so simple.  You explain it on a basic level without all the shit like focusing on freedom of outcome and being present.  

In your opinion, do you think teaching people about freedom of outcome and presense and all those concepts is helpful?  Seems counter helpful, because you have people TRYING to be free of outcome and present, thus, creating negative intentions.

Is all pickup about just repeating facing your fears until you become comfortable with approaching and closing?
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"when you dont have fear, you dont see threats you only see opportunities"

you could´ve told me that a year ago and I would have been like mmmmmkaayy?

But now it has FUCKIN CLICKED! Not kidding. I had the EXACT same thoughts myself.

Now its like I feel like the world is mine. Everything is possible. I can do what I want. Walking through the world with ease. But then I still have my downtimes, where I fall back in my old patterns.


"Let them see who you are and let them judge you."
-Ozzie


One of the most important things I heard in my life.

Thank you Ozzie.
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cool entry ozzie
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At first i thought this was the same video ozzie made about ALCHEMY.  i was a little confused but said well if hes showing it again it must super important.  so i watched it and guess what?!  it was a different video...TRANSCENDENCE...i got a lot out of this video and Ozzie i love your laid back vibe...i feel like i get a little taste of bootcamp! WELL DONE!
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I really dig the parts where you talk about physical game, transcending fears and turn lead into gold.. 
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 This shit is so funny! Its like.... yea... transcendence... its a like monkies...feedings gooses..... WOOOOOO ! YEAAAAA SHE"S MY GIRFRIEND NOW! YEEAAAA WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..... yea.... thats transcendance to me...... and.... monkies..... 
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 mad respect Ozzie, i'm AWAYS learning from your stuff - more than anyone on here.

I love htis bit:

"when you dont have fear, you dont see threats you only see opportunities"
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good video good article.

u honestly make this shit very simple
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i love Flytouch 3 , but i love myefox more.
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 do what is unnatural peeepos!! 
den ur fear becomes opportunities! ZING!
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The article is great, but why do you have to write "exceptions confirm the rule" after each statement?
It doesn't really confirm anything.
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fuck the haters. good stuff ozzie.
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Goran~ wrote:



Paris Boum Boum wrote:



Quanchi wrote:
This article is awesome as are most of Ozzie's articles. He talks abour fear a lot, pointing to the root of every limiting belief in people's heads.

Is really telling people to act against what they fear the way to go? of course. Ozzie is awakened ...the best part is he gets money for this..and btw you cant change genes unless you are a subject of genetic experiments or undergo mutations through radiation

if there is someone who doesn't enjoy clubs and doesn't have the energy, Ozzie's shit will help in long term, while working on short term stuff, tyler's haircut is way better though
fixed for understanding
Hahahahah.

WIN!


It's the F or F...Fun or Fear...you choose your fuel....jeffy uses fun,ozzie uses fear....tyler used to use fear aswell...i believe it's a matter of experience...with time we transcend from fear to fun...it's a natural process...

However humans have this ability to surpass their nature...that is why as humans we don't only care about our survival and our replication as being said  many times in this community...and consicously having this as our only purpose in life downgrade us to the level of animals...


Canello
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Excellent article, thanks.
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This is the shit, what its all about.  Face the shadows, find the sun!!
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that's dirty, she's into some guy and you come along and try to steal her from him to feed your fragile ego....dick
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yuppaz01 wrote:
that's dirty, she's into some guy and you come along and try to steal her from him to feed your fragile ego....dick
You sir are a chode.
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Hei Ozzie I enjoy a lot your articles and all the material presented. I think guys like you, Tyler, Jeffy are true philosophers of our generation.

I've also seen your "End Game" presentation and it got me hoked because compared to other concepts that flow around  in the comunity, your material was not made of regurgitated ideas. All your stuff is fresh and brings a lot of value to the table.

If I had to give some criticism I think I would mention the spiritual/esoterical side of your teachings. I respect it as your view and definetly adds to your concepts but I personaly think this brings more comfusion to this pick-up/game thing.

All the best and I hope to meet you some day!
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Rococo wrote:
Hei Ozzie I enjoy a lot your articles and all the material presented. I think guys like you, Tyler, Jeffy are true philosophers of our generation.

I've also seen your "End Game" presentation and it got me hoked because compared to other concepts that flow around  in the comunity, your material was not made of regurgitated ideas. All your stuff is fresh and brings a lot of value to the table.

If I had to give some criticism I think I would mention the spiritual/esoterical side of your teachings. I respect it as your view and definetly adds to your concepts but I personaly think this brings more comfusion to this pick-up/game thing.

All the best and I hope to meet you some day!

i know you mean well but  being a "true philosopher" is hardly a compliment. most of the philosophers of their time, if history taught us anything, die broke and alone. don't want that for me, thank you very much.
on the other hand, i disagree with the esoterical nature of my teachings. i call things by their name and that's scary for some people. we transcend constantly in our daily lives by doing mundane little acts of heroism, they are just not big enough to be noticed. picking up chicks is no different.
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Loken_17 wrote:
The article is great, but why do you have to write "exceptions confirm the rule" after each statement?
It doesn't really confirm anything.

 may be you need to hear it twice.
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Goran~ wrote:



yuppaz01 wrote:
that's dirty, she's into some guy and you come along and try to steal her from him to feed your fragile ego....dick
You sir are a chode.

forget it, donnie. you are out of your element.
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 Damm, I remember when I was across that same table a year ago. Ozzie, after all the girls I've slept with since I did your bootcamp I feel like I owe you at least a beer, haha. Seriously, that weekend gave me such a strong perspective on life. If I had to summarize it in one sentence: I became friends with my fear. Instead of fighting it, I just anticipate it's going to come when I'm about to do something outside my comfort zone, and let it guide me towards situations that scare me, that is, things that I really want.

Muchas gracias, Ozzie!
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great value given in this article and video, thanks for the deep thoughts and philosophy.
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