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Been working a lot on video editing and producing new videos. Iceland video was a great experience, grateful to my friend M. for being a great camera man. The guy learned to shoot infield in one hour. He had so many good ideas. Lovely time. But learning as I go to create better videos. Anyway leave comments, criticism is welcome too.

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December 14-16: London

Here's the schedule for 2013

January 11-13 Munich or London BC with Alex

January 18-20 London BC

January 25-27 Oslo BC with Alex

February 1-3 London BC with Alex

February 8-10 Stockholm BC

February 15-17 London BC

February 22-24 Tallinn BC

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Women can be passive-aggressive bitches. They can’t express their anger at society for making them into the “weaker” sex so they envy men and take their revenge on them. I think Freud called it penis envy. They are jealous and feel insecure about their position in society. Our society still doesn’t allow women to express themselves sexually so they take it out on men. For example, if a girl does what we do, they are deemed sluts. So society educates them to be coy.
That’s the truth and feminist don’t like it or some might agree with you that it is a societal malady just like poor people don’t have the same opportunities than the rich. It is just a fact that women can’t express themselves sexually the way men do. So women have found their way to cope. And at the same time they spew out their rebellion and anger through flirting by leading guys on and them dumping them in a show of female power.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGt8AWqfsQI



There is a term French women use called “drag”. So they go to clubs “dragging” which means they are out to flirt with men but they won’t do anything. It is just because they need to raise their self-esteem. In this article I will show you how this happens and how to avoid it and use it in your favor.

Is she being flirty or a bitch? Or both?
Quick story: Back when I was in college, I liked my best friend’s fuck buddy. She had the biggest pair of tits and a tight body. She had not become into a chubby yet. She was at that sweet spot where she was still hot at 22. My best friend thought she was a flirt and he just fucked her because he had a real girlfriend back home. She started flirting with me and one day we kissed. I told her we could never do that again, that it was an accident. Next day, she told my best friend we had kissed after promising she would keep the secret. As you can see, she planned this all along. She was using me to get my friend to commit to her or to get back at him to raise her female self-esteem or gain power over him. I got suckered into it. I lost my best friend. Regret it to this day. I have no sympathy for my inner chode.
Quick story: I was on my salsa dancing night last week and this female started rubbing up against me. I went along with it. I got horny only to realize she was doing it right in front of the dj who was her real target. She was trying to make him jealous. I got suckered into it.

What’s this all about?
Without getting too deep and stupid on this, you know she is playing a game of flirtation. It happens that she signals she is available and gets validation from the man’s chase. But as soon as you commit yourself the proposal is off the table. Sorry, next sucker. She may say to you, “I appreciate your talking to me but thank you very much”, and move on to the next guy. If she is more of a type, she will just leave. They can make this shit go on all night in a club and you see the same girl bouncing from one side of the club to the other, trying to find her male attention fix. They move around frequently because they are looking for the next prey. Just as you are looking for female validation they are looking for the male counterpart. These girls can be fucked if they find a skillful pickup guy that can turn their game back on them by withdrawing the validation they crave. Then these women find themselves chasing.
There is yet another fast way of playing guys. They just tell you to “leave them alone” right away. They don’t bait you in or anything. They are out for blood. Women enjoy watching your face as you crash and burn. However, some guys welcome this since they don’t have to get involved with the group or do any real pickup. Guys are also looking to get rejected. They want to fail for obvious reasons. IT CONFIRMS their belief, “women are bitches”, “I am not worthy of a sexual relationship”, and so on. Some men just want to stay a victim. They are playing their own game while women are playing theirs. On the other hand, some women get involved with abusive guys who reject them all the time and treat them like dirt. They want to confirm the same negative beliefs, “I am unworthy of a relationship”, “I am scum”, “all men are the same”, and so on. It is all screwed up thinking.

How to be impervious to this flirting/flaky behavior
Spot the game and refuse to be part of it. This could take practice and lots of approaching but you will see a flirty girl looking for validation only for what she is, a low self-esteem female looking to raise her confidence. Skanky girls are great practice for this. Skanks are girls that want to be hot but they are not. They just have a lot of make up on. They are great practice rounds for guys looking to get good at handling bitchy behavior. Most skanks are low self-esteem and they spend hours dolling up so they look like a barby. They are also very sensitive to how they look. They are likely to reject you right off the bat and your job is to survive there for a while until you get desensitized.
On the flip side, really hot girls, hard to find, are generally friendly with a few exceptions because they rarely get approached. Chodes only approach skanks and uglies because they think they can be more successful but shy away from superhot girls because they think they are not accessible to them. Chodes, 99 percent of the guys in a club, have very low self-esteem too, so they are after the easy prey too to have a quick relief of female validation.

she might be flirting/flaking?
You might want to cross check and recheck if the following is for real or she is flaking.
. They say: “You are so funny”, or “you are so brilliant” and then use body language that indicates she is attracted. It might be her way of baiting you in and then release you and walk away with her ego aggrandized.
. Women flirt with everyone. They are professional flirts because it is accepted by society. They don’t fuck with everyone though because deems them sluts. So be careful, you might be in front of a pro of the flaking business who does that all the time. She enjoys being in control when she makes a guy chase. But she will get bored pretty quick as soon as you do what the other 200 guys did before you. You can turn the tables on her by withdrawing validation. Give her a lot of attention and the take it away by talking to her girlfriends instead.
. They smile a lot. Then they turn away. She is sucking you in.
. They ask you a question.
. 3 second eye contact. They look at you and make eye contact for a moment then turn away. She knows, in her skank wisdom, that guys fall for that all the time.
. They lean in and touch you with their hands on your chest. That’s a sign she is either a flirt or he is for real it is up to you.
. They let you come on to them, and then they retreat. They want you to chase more with the object of dumping you when they are tired of the game. Cat and mouse stuff. Cat plays with mouse until it gets bored and then kills it.
. Women that are taken, flirt. Always remember that they go out without the boyfriend looking for the excitement they can’t get out of a committed relationship. Committed relationships get boring sometimes. You are her cheap thrill to get out of the boredom of regular sex and movie nights.
. In a twisted way, flirting is a challenge that women like to play with themselves. They'll bait guys in to see if "they've still got it," however, they are not really interested.
. Again, number one reason for this game is insecurity. Having men chasing is like having a “spare tire” in the trunk, “just in case”. Having this sense of backup makes her more comfortable, when she can’t find a guy and goes through a draught of available men. Don’t be the backup guy. She has plenty if she is mildly hot. They collect them. Consider how easy women give their phone number away. They love the attention. Look at facebook, it is like female validation town.
. They will use your attention to attract other men. You are kind of a groupie until the real guy comes along. You see this behavior in dance floors. You see a bunch of chodes surrounding a bunch of average looking girls which makes them look more attractive but they aren’t. But being surrounded makes them look more in demand.

How to become A Sexual God…and make her come every time.(relationship advice)
Again my little section in this article for guys who are in a LTR(long term relationship) or simply if you have a number of fuck buddies in the game, you might as well start practicing for the real thing. Women don’t ask in general for what they want in bed but they dream and fantasize sexually just like you do. They rarely ask because they don’t want to appear needy in this area, so instead they play the waiting game. And by that I mean they pray that you would learn someday to give her what she wants. Let’s go over the top tips and comment on them.
1. Take it slow. Shower(be clean), light candles, prepare massage oil, wear the boxers she bought you for Christmas. You should know about women by now they love to feel special and taken care of. Spending a few moments to clean up around the house and to freshen up a little before approaching her will go a long way to get her in the mood.
2. Foreplay: petting, kissing. Touch her in areas other than the typically sexual ones, forearms, underarms, back. Kiss her there too. Women enjoy foreplay more at times than penetration. So keep that in mind if you are to satisfy her. Men like to get down and dirty real quick while women are like a knob, that you need to keep slowly turning up. They don’t get wet as fast as get an erection with exceptions, of course.
3. Learn to massage. This is key to teach her that you are all out dedicated to her. She will appreciate it. Use oil since it gets easier that way. Warm her up for what is coming. Coming, that is.
4. Vaginal sex. It is the last thing. Work her up until she wants it desperately. Hold back on that until she is begging for it and then give it to her and she will explode. Tease her by using your fingers, your lips, your tongue, before entering for real. Then, give her the tip of your pecker first, don’t go all the way and watch them go insane. Then you will have sexual slave for life. She will worship you as a man who knows what to do in the sack. Women are all about slow at the beginning, fast at the end unless you are with a girl with an unusual sex drive. Women fantasize about sex as much as you do. Some have their own stash of porn in their computer and hidden dildos. So, make yourself into her sexual god.

Body language flirting (Again these signs can be for real. So, learn the game.)
Most of these moves are designed to either fake giving you attention or indicating she is ready for sex with you. If you know all the pitches, you are less likely to strike out (baseball metaphor, attempted humor. ).
1. She gaze in your direction, maintain eye contact.
2. She will straighten up her body when she talks to you. Faking her body is getting ready for mating.
3. Repeated glance
4. Over the shoulder look
5. Peekaboo game
6. Hold your gaze
7. Visual journey of your face when you talk to them. They do the triangular gaze on you. This is old school seduction stuff. We stole it from women.
8. Play with her hair(let her hair down)
9. Play with her mouth, lick
10. Put lollipops, straws into her mouth while talking to you including her finger.
11. Stroke herself in the neck.
12. Massage her neck
13. Adjust her clothing
14. Unbutton, or button
15. Slowly cross and uncrossing her legs
16. Moving closer to you
17. Duplicates your body language. Whatever you do she does.
18. Whispering on your ear, and touch you

You are not hopeless over flirting females
Quick tips to practice in field
. Never reveal your feelings for her until you are sure she is not a flake, which might be never.
. “You are flirting with me, that’s so cute”. Say that all the time.
. Until she proves she is for real and not playing games, you want to stay cool. Half listen to what she is saying. Hear “only what you want to hear”.
. Talk to the other girls in the group. Look busy, not focused on her only.
. Don’t read too much into IOI’s. Get out of your “game head”. It is a game killer because you are not
present in the interaction, you are in your head.
. Biggest tip: Get a freaking life. If you get a life you won’t be all the time looking for validation, you will be internally validated. Learn to get your validation from different things, except from women. Make a list of things you are good at or you enjoy. Keep them in your head when you approach. That’s about the best tip I can give.
Enough for one day. I am out, hoping this was helpful. Merry Christmas!
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comments, criticism is welcome too.




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Here's the schedule for 2013


January 4-6 Amsterdam or London BC with Alex

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January 25-27 Oslo BC with Alex

February 1-3 London BC with Alex

February 8-10 Stockholm BC

February 15-17 London BC

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Ps: Loving all
the comments I got in the previous article, including the youtube comments.
Working on some of the suggestions there. Video quality improves slowly but we
are getting there. Soon I will release some infield if possible. Anybody from the
London, UK area is welcome to apply for instructor assistant. Just email me at
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apologize for the video embedding. doesn't work at this point. will try and get to the rsd people.
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First
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Yes, Ozzie! 

Great fucking video, man! ;]
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Pennis Museum??wtf?haha..Great article..keep it up;)
P.S.Me gustaria que hicieras un videoblog en español.
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Great vid man!!!!
Ozzie wrote:
apologize for the video embedding. doesn't work at this point. will try and get to the rsd people.
Fixed!

Tyler
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Awesome video, great choice of content bro
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Haha Ozzies Vids are the funniest on RSD Nation!!

Plus I really like  how he shares some of the awsome things he encounters in different cultures etc, different shots in cities are awsome.

hicieras un videoblog en español !!! y mas de salsa musica !!
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 OOh Ozzie such a boss article and video, love it.
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Awesome share.

I love your 5 top tips ;)

Your delivery and speaking has improved a lot.

Keep on doing it.
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AWESOME Vid!

How about a video in Spanish with English subtitles. Could be a cool way to see your different kind of expression and might attract a different audience
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 excellent video ozzie,your best one yet imo

thanks for sharing!
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Absolutely excellent vid Ozzie. Think it's something all guys can relate to.
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 hahaha that image as the post tumbnail is halarious! you look like your having so much fun :P
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 Ozzie is AWESOME~!

Can't wait to go to London and do some bootcamp...
make some more videos about fear dude, thanks!
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good video and awesome post! Genuinely fucking great
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nice ozzie
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 Ozzie dude, that video was hilarious! But also informative shades

I loved the shots from the museum with the voice over. It gives the viewer a sense of being on tour with you without taking away from the content.

Nice work man.
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 Awesome vid! Probably best ozzy video!
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Hahaha, I LOLed at the supermarket shot.  Nice location choice.  Nice editing and energy too.  :)
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Wow, great editing and content!

In the club you said 'I love your energy'. In my understanding that's ok because a compliment in your definition is something said to make her feel good, while that expression was just an observation. Am I on the right track?

Adios
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The Duck ? wrote:
AWESOME Vid!

How about a video in Spanish with English subtitles. Could be a cool way to see your different kind of expression and might attract a different audience
That's actually a great idea!
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Awesome vid and the shit discussed it so true and real..
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SPOT ON SUPER !This is the vid = article that should have been written years ago!!! SO KEY! every principle everyone on RSD and other companies have ever taught are for what The Oz just mentioned here!!!! ALL of it just came together and clicked for me! Thank you Ozzie Thank you Ozzie Thank you Ozzie Thank you Ozzie Thank you Ozzie Thank you Ozzie!!!!!
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Good stuff :D
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 WOW! Ozzie has IMPROVED a lot. Practice makes perfect, also looks like it was planned (or if not, WOW impressed) Fun, new and funky. Article is also very good.
Looking forward to next videos.
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 Cant believe I havent given this topic more thought the last year. I've been falling into that trap a billion times in 2012. The example where a girl was grinding on you in front of the DJ was like an exact description of one of my recent confusing sets. 

Also I like the relationship tip section. It sheds light on some important principles. keep it up
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I'm in a point in my life right now where I needed to read this, and you nailed it.

Fucking ACE article Ozzie.

Thanks.
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I dont give a fuck about edititng or shot selection (I'll leave that to the RSD instructor camera club you bunch of fucking geeks ;-), I care about content and on this post there is some great stuff that Ive never come accross before. Great work Ozzie, I look forward to more of the same...
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haha love that you hit the clubs with a knitted jumper!

props to your stuff, most solid of whole rsd! :)
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 Ozzzie you look so young!!Great energy!!

Question:I'm a good looking guy and often get validated from women that say I look like X actor I have great hair etc..
Ultimately validation, like fear for example is just an inner fealing, an emotion that you can obtain either from whithin mediatating, being on your path etc or exterior which is very temporary(unless your a hollywood actor or something).
Now eventhough I wanna compleatly detach from exterior validation is tough is just like they say u're quite and the validation feeling hits me kinda instantly.
I try to cut it somehow or observe it on the principle that whatever u can observe it's not u but it's hard.
Any other tips maybe to CUT DOWN EXTERNAL VALIDATION????

Happy NEW YEAR!!
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Julien wrote:
Yes, Ozzie! 

Great fucking video, man! ;]
cheers.
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hope wrote:
Pennis Museum??wtf?haha..Great article..keep it up;)
P.S.Me gustaria que hicieras un videoblog en español.
we used to have a section in spanish. i guess i could try spanish since it is my language after all.
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Tyler wrote:
Great vid man!!!!
Ozzie wrote:
apologize for the video embedding. doesn't work at this point. will try and get to the rsd people.
Fixed!

Tyler
thanks. it got fixed pretty quick. i already talk to the tech people about this. they were very helpful.
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MakeItHappen wrote:
Haha Ozzies Vids are the funniest on RSD Nation!!

Plus I really like  how he shares some of the awsome things he encounters in different cultures etc, different shots in cities are awsome.

hicieras un videoblog en español !!! y mas de salsa musica !!
i might do something like that since i am going to cuba over new year's eve.
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krisit wrote:
 OOh Ozzie such a boss article and video, love it.
sick. what did you like about it? your feedback is greatly appreciated for future articles and videos.
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sklu wrote:
Awesome share.

I love your 5 top tips ;)

Your delivery and speaking has improved a lot.

Keep on doing it.

delivery has improved since i stopped caring and did multiple takes and got rid of my perfectionism and victim mentality. at least this time around. i also had a great help from M. who kept me having fun the entire time and his icelandic humor.
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The Duck ✘ wrote:
AWESOME Vid!

How about a video in Spanish with English subtitles. Could be a cool way to see your different kind of expression and might attract a different audience
the audience is mostly americans in rsdnation. it is a good suggestion to think about since we have a growing south american audience which might appreciate it.
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zack g. wrote:
 excellent video ozzie,your best one yet imo

thanks for sharing!
love your praise. i would appreciate your input on things you liked for future reference.
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Jake454 wrote:
 hahaha that image as the post tumbnail is halarious! you look like your having so much fun :P
actually that took a while to think. i was on the fence about the whale penis and that shot.
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Phospher wrote:
 Ozzie is AWESOME~!

Can't wait to go to London and do some bootcamp...
make some more videos about fear dude, thanks!
you mean fear technology. i have so many of those but will try some more. thanks for your feedback is greatly appreciated.
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TofuCan wrote:
 Ozzie dude, that video was hilarious! But also informative shades

I loved the shots from the museum with the voice over. It gives the viewer a sense of being on tour with you without taking away from the content.

Nice work man.

thanks for the feedback. will keep that in mind for the future. always thought it was boring to look at a talking head for too long, specially my head. seriously, that took a lot of editing to do but i am glad you guys liked it.
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Brad- wrote:
Hahaha, I LOLed at the supermarket shot.  Nice location choice.  Nice editing and energy too.  :)
actually most of that stuff is from watching your videos, tylers, jeffy's, etc. i tried to replicate tyler's face take over of the frame. i did it with a couple of shots.
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deepBlue_ wrote:
Wow, great editing and content!

In the club you said 'I love your energy'. In my understanding that's ok because a compliment in your definition is something said to make her feel good, while that expression was just an observation. Am I on the right track?

Adios
i say, "i love your energy, you are amazing". i don't compliment on looks or give backhanded compliments or say outrageous stuff. try to keep it simple because i know it is all about physical game at club level.
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Sinergy wrote:
SPOT ON SUPER !This is the vid = article that should have been written years ago!!! SO KEY! every principle everyone on RSD and other companies have ever taught are for what The Oz just mentioned here!!!! ALL of it just came together and clicked for me! Thank you Ozzie Thank you Ozzie Thank you Ozzie Thank you Ozzie Thank you Ozzie Thank you Ozzie!!!!!
sick.great that you are enjoying it. this content is milder for the google crowd but it applies to people seriously in the game too. it is always a fine line you have to walk between too much game talk and "dating" talk.
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the_riddle wrote:
 WOW! Ozzie has IMPROVED a lot. Practice makes perfect, also looks like it was planned (or if not, WOW impressed) Fun, new and funky. Article is also very good.
Looking forward to next videos.
actually the content came up on the same day of the video. once i had the locations to shoot on thursday i had no content. i told m. fuck, i don't know what i am going to say. then i realize i was in victim mentality and snapped out and things fell into place for this video.
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The Duck ? wrote:
AWESOME Vid!

How about a video in Spanish with English subtitles. Could be a cool way to see your different kind of expression and might attract a different audience
That's actually a great idea!
i don't know how our american/european audience might take this. it might be boring for them to read the subtitles. i don't know. let me think on it. i might do both. half the video in spanish or half in english. will see about this.
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Blom10 wrote:
 Cant believe I havent given this topic more thought the last year. I've been falling into that trap a billion times in 2012. The example where a girl was grinding on you in front of the DJ was like an exact description of one of my recent confusing sets. 

Also I like the relationship tip section. It sheds light on some important principles. keep it up
this is a lesson that gets relearned every weekend. so no sweat. i fall into the flirting traps once in a while. it doesn't really matter. it just shows me i am approaching. relationship section has gotten some criticism so i might be removing it. i still think it is important since guys need to practice this part of the game too. back in the day, people had ltr's and fuckbuddies all the time. somehow people now just get laid.
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Barry-White wrote:
I dont give a fuck about edititng or shot selection (I'll leave that to the RSD instructor camera club you bunch of fucking geeks ;-), I care about content and on this post there is some great stuff that Ive never come accross before. Great work Ozzie, I look forward to more of the same...
thanks. i never thought that camera work was important and i made that mistake. at this level, the way you convey the message is as important as the message. i learned that the hard way like everything else in my life. i am cool with it though.
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Matt. wrote:
Tyler and Alex shoot videos with major landmarks and flashy shit in the background making it look like the next Michael Bay movie. 

Ozzie stands in a supermarket.

I know whose information and content resonates with me better.

Nice vids bro. Enjoy your holiday and catch you for some chicken in the New Year. 
ha, ha. supermarket was a classic. actually we were running away from the security who had kicked us out alreay. we decided to do a "shoot and run" video. so we moved constantly so by the time they spotted us we were already gone. it was fun to do. i had camera guy who reminded me of you because we were cracking jokes all the times, like we used to when you were doing that job. definetely we need to grab that chicken with goran. catch up.
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georgeM wrote:
 Ozzzie you look so young!!Great energy!!

Question:I'm a good looking guy and often get validated from women that say I look like X actor I have great hair etc..
Ultimately validation, like fear for example is just an inner fealing, an emotion that you can obtain either from whithin mediatating, being on your path etc or exterior which is very temporary(unless your a hollywood actor or something).
Now eventhough I wanna compleatly detach from exterior validation is tough is just like they say u're quite and the validation feeling hits me kinda instantly.
I try to cut it somehow or observe it on the principle that whatever u can observe it's not u but it's hard.
Any other tips maybe to CUT DOWN EXTERNAL VALIDATION????

Happy NEW YEAR!!
have a great crew to go out with. when i used to go out filming with goran and matt we had so much fun we forgot about the girls-we still approached like all the time though. that's a great tip to implement. find a great wing who has fun with you in the field. make sure you get your validation from something other than the girls. job, hobbies, career, friends, spiritual, etc.
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