"Nothing is of value to you unless you are willing to publicly declare it"
("Value Clarification" by Sidney Simon)



When I came across this quote I realized I had been doing this unknowingly in my life and in my
coaching. I believe it has profound meaning for everyone involved in the art of meeting women.
For personal growth, there is nothing like pledging your values and goals to others because you will
be held accountable. In other words, if we summon others and explain our beliefs and take action
based on that belief, or behave in a way congruent with that belief, then we can truly say it is of
value to us.

I say, “We are going to walk exactly into our fears when we meet women anywhere, everywhere
we are.” I declare this at the beginning of my Boot camp to my students. That’s exactly what we do
when we step into a club to approach women. We walk into our fears.

(I think the following video has the broad strokes of declaring our fears and go after transcending
them. It has some infield footage so you might want to watch. So click the link and enjoy)



We spot our top fears in the club and walk straight into them. By declaring it, not only I am
personally accountable for doing it (It means I have to be the first one to do it), but I hold others
accountable by agreeing with me.

Success and public declarations

To succeed big you have to declare. It is a critical ingredient in the success of an enterprise. You will
never succeed unless you are able to have witnesses to your story, be it an internet forum, group of
friends, a significant person or a coach.

At the end of my program, I make my students write down and declare their dating goals to the
group for the next 3 month. They must commit to others and to themselves what they are going
to do. For many it is the first time they declare anything to anybody so it is stressful. Some cannot
write down their goals or simply write meaningless goals so they don’t have to stretch. I am quick
to correct this and force them to write 5 or 6 goals and pick a meaningful one. The one that makes
them stretch.

Your accomplishments have an impact



Those very people you committed to will be inspired by the completion or your living up to
your declarations. You will grow in front of their eyes. Just the fact that you are living up to your
standards will make them respect you and they will look for your council. But this is not why you do
it. You don’t do it to impress others. You are after personal growth.

When a person has had a life-changing experience and then gives witness to it, the impact of such
behaviours forces others to change and grow. When others see somebody going after something
with excitement and belief, they can’t help but feel excited too. During the process they will see you
struggling at times, happy at times, concerned and finally making it. They will witness your journey
to accomplish such feat because you announced it. It doesn’t matter if it is a specific dating goal or
a value you decided to live by. The key to its completion is making it public. Now the world knows
what you know. You can’t hide or be a victim anymore.

Many guys I meet tell me, “I want to change this part of my life. I want to improve and meet
beautiful women”. I always ask, “How many people know about this?” You can guess what their
answer is. Most guys don’t tell or feel “ashamed” about not being successful with women. They feel
if others knew their goals they will think he is a loser. Actually others will respect him more if they
knew.

Public commitments in dating you can make today to your close friends, internet forum or
significant people

1. I will approach every hot woman I run into whenever, wherever
2. I will stop talking about my bad luck with women
3. I will go out twice a week to a hot club in town and meet at least one hot girl
4. I will have a date with a hot girl within a month
    Etc....

Feel free to add anything of value to you.

Ozzie

RSD EXECUTIVE COACH

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