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When reapproaching girls you might experience the following fears:

1.     It might be weird if I go up and talk to her after I approached her

2.     I don’t know what to say. Situation has already run its course.

3.     What if they think I am a chump with not social skills

Of course if you have spent the last decade in your room playing video games this situation

might be weird to you. As you locked yourself up in the video game world, you substituted

the real world for the fantasy world. Social interactions are not logical; they don’t follow

common sense, especially in a club full of half drunk, drugged up people where excitement

dictates how people behave. If you did spend your time in seclusion you lack the social

confidence required to take a leap into the unknown. You can’t learn these skills sitting

behind a computer screen; you have to go out in the real world and win a few and lose a few.

First time didn’t go that well
Agreed. So what. You felt you “interrupted” their fun the first time around, so why come back

for more rejection. First of all, things might not have gone down as bad as you thought. Your

fears exaggerate what happen in real life. But the more you do it the better you get at it, the

“less weird” is to talk to strangers for a second time.

Second thing, not all people in a group might be receptive to you, but some girls there wish

you had approach them instead. A second round of approaching the same group might give

you another shot at them if you didn’t talk to them the first time. .

Pretend
One problem is you don’t act normal a second time around. Pretend you never left the first

time around. Fake it big. Act as if. All of that. Tell her, “I forgot to tell you something...” add

there whatever, and keep going like nothing happened. Non verbals have to be spot on when

you deliver that line, you know, eye contact, laid back, big smile and so on. Communication

is still 90 percent non verbal on the second time around. Typical mistake is to be too hung up

on “what to say” and not on “how to say it”. Basics of human interactions.

What if you miss your second chance at her?
Taking action always comes first. Never occur to you that she might be thinking “He is

looking at me again, wonder if he would talk to me again so I can get to know him better”.

That can happen. Some would like a second look at you especially after they have been

approached by losers all night and they are home alone. Women at times think something is

wrong with them, especially if they have low self esteem which most do. They think you are

not re approaching because you didn’t like her the first time or something is wrong with her

dress or whatever. Females are highly self-conscious which is why I recommend to always

complementing on personality and not on looks. They are always comparing themselves with

the next girl and guess what...they are losing. So, try and approach her again and give her a

second chance to get to know you.

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First
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The Hawk

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So epic!

Funny as well.
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im scared to reapproach your mom
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Sick!
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kapz

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Great video thanks for this Ozzie. One thing i say to myself when out on an adventure is "Go back in run the train" Also another mindset is it is never over just unfinished business. 
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