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I run daytime on Sunday almost religiously. I think no bootcamp is complete without it. I am old school like that. But I am serious. Unlike most instruction out there i believe you can close the deal on the same day or lay the ground work for a lay if you keep it simple and are not afraid to risk failure. One thing is true, most girls are busy in the day time, and most are going somewhere, still I want you to pull the trigger anyway.  What is there to lose? You can only gain when you expand her comfort zone... and yours.
She might interpret that as failure to lead instead. You don’t want to be overly cautious. She would appreciate a  guy that shows interest and he is not afraid to show it. Women are unforgiving about guys that don’t lead and talk all the time but take no concrete action. Action is key because they speak louder than words.
Boring her?
Guys don’t realize interactions die down on you. You can’t talk forever. Energy dies out and I want to you to take action early enough, while the iron is still hot. Typical mistakes include waiting until your losing traction to make your move. Early is better and if you lose a few girls so be it. I teach my students to pull the trigger for insta dates within 2 minutes of meeting a girl. Yes, they lose girls but they also hook up more that way. Once they become skilful, they become more lethal because they are building good habits for pulling. Most guys need reassurance from the girl to take action. In short interactions most girls don’t have the time yet to know whether they will sleep with you, they need more time.
Serious vs smile
Most guys’ fear symptoms show in their face. It is involuntary. You don’t know when you are doing it. A superfriendly vibe is essential in day time. People act as mirrors, whatever you give them, they give you back. It is hard to be mean to somebody who is being friendly(I don’t mean nice). Feeling uncomfortable is a requirement when you are friendly. Being too comfortable could mean you are not being friendly enough. You need to step out of comfort zone and bring an ear to ear smile. I am sure your cheeks will hurt after a while. You need it otherwise they won’t see and thus not reflect it back to you.
Text Game
I think it is over rated. Why not do things when you have her right in front of you. I always recommend calling over texting. Why? I believe you can communicate more with your tonality than with the typed words. You grow balls too. Some of the texting is done to avoid symptoms of fear. You feel safer punching words into your phone than talking directly. Unfortunately playing safe is not rewarded but punished in this game. On the other hand, go for the phone number as the last resort or at the end of a same day date, when logistics dictate.
Pickup Vibes
Give the impression that you  are being social because you are. Stop thinking, pickup tactics, attracting building and game palaver. It would put you right in your head. Instead, think of being social, think in terms of time, how long as an average are my interactions? Try and make them longer. Long interactions lead to comfort, which in turn translate into insta dates. To do that, think social dynamics over pickup. Pickup will happen for you when you are not thinking about it.
 
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First
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NIce, sweet topic.
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Awesome. Thanks
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CoolWingDude

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Very good and useful one on daygame, thanks Ozzie.
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dw

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Yeah i agree, refreshing way to take on day game.
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alfie321

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Another way to make a number super solid is to make her invest. Me and friends do the following: once we get the number we make them invest by proceeding to erase the number or tell them "hey, let's be real, no bullshit, do you really want to see me again?" they usually say yes, but if they even doubt it, you proceed to erase it and say "i don't want to waste anybody time" then take a deep look at them and say "if you really want to see me again it's up to you", if they doubt it again you proceed to gtfo.

Works 80-90% of the time to make the number solid, sometimes they are the ones who text you first.


 
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Thanks for this article. I need some way of cutting down on flakes. This could help a lot.
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good shit, Ozzie...very practical advice, probably moreso than anything I've read from RSD recently :) (not a dig, but true)
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Your written articles are the best Ozzie, for me especially because I connect with written material more.
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Great article, Ozzie! Keep up the good stuff, saludos desde México
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Thank you Ozzie, very good and very practical advice. 
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cool
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Great article and video!
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