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Women play games. We all know that but to what extent? Women
can’t be straight with you if they like you so they go sideways. I remember
this girl in high school who kept coming to me with her homework. She didn’t
want her homework done. I was a dork then. She was a very doable, big tittied
blond but I couldn’t tell at the time because I was a dorky, skinny, clueless
kid who had no idea that she was offering sex on a platter. I could have
lost  my virginity with her instead of
that chubby girl I did 2 years later. Damn! If I could rewrite history.

But enough about me.

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Women And Their Games

By spotting those games ahead of time we turn the tables and
go from played to player. Instead of giving your power away you take the power
off her hands.

The trick is to know whether she is playing a game or is for
real. Women play the attention game when they flirt. They are not for real…most
of the time. Once you give them attention, you are out. I had this girl in my
salsa class who would sit on my lap, really ram my dick with her butt, but it
turned out she just wanted male attention because she was a recovering dork. I
was the top dancer in our group. That’s all she wanted.

There was this other girl who would come to me to practice
her salsa moves on every class. She was for real. She would not be flirting,
she hid really well that she liked me. She would make eye contact with me from
across the room and generally put herself in a position in the room where I
could see her. She would also not dance with other guys and lean by the bar
until I was free to dance with her. She made herself available to me. You get
the picture. That girl was not playing games. But I didn’t like her enough to
cheat on my girlfriend at the time.

“Oh, I am helpless” Game

Ever seen women sprawled on the floor because they are
“drunk”. You see that in London in every club. Sometimes they are truly
drunk(London has a binge drinking culture unparalleled in the world. People go
out just to get pissed!). Other times they are just playing drunk on the floor.
They want a guy, the right guy to pick them up. If you pick them up and they
were not aiming for you, you will see they perk right up and ignore you. Sorry,
folks. Women’s right to choose. If it is the right guy they play drunk for a
bit but then you see them making out and sober with the guy they wanted.

Women can’t express themselves sexually directly like males.
This is why women won’t cheat unless intimacy disappears from the relationship.
You might want to spot women like this with their “helpless” approach to
getting their men. If you did this in your social circle or at the club you will
score so much easier. So, be more observant!

“I had to too much to drink”

This is a variation of the “oh, I am helpless” game. women
play it the same way. If you spot a hen party you will find the girl that is
trying to get wasted to score. I have approached lots of hen parties over the
years in London and Spain. You always find a girl there on the rebound or a
girl who has no boyfriend and feels less than the girl getting married so she
gets intoxicated with alcohol to perform the deed. Remember that in our culture
a woman who has no boyfriend or is not in a committed relationship is a LOSER.
I know that feminists would argue with me on this one. Fuck them. Feminists
lie. Until things change in the future, a dateless woman feels self conscious,
more so when she is around her social circle of married, or fianceed
girlfriends. She might want to do something desperate and use sex as a way to
raise her low self esteem. On the flip side, women hang around their dateless
counterparts to vicariously feel better about themselves. My ex would go out
with her “loser” friends all the time to feel good about herself. She would
tell me all about her “loser” friend who couldn’t get a boyfriend.

Most girls in this dateless situation during outings will
use alcohol as a “game strategy” to score. It depends on how low/desperate they
feel that day. I have scored in those situations and it goes down very smoothly
if I am able to spot the real “bachelorette” in the bunch. Mind you, sometimes
there is none in the party so no sure thing here.

 
“My boyfriend is an asshole” Game

Women play this game with their girlfriends over coffee or
drinks but don’t be fooled by this. All they want is attention and won’t cheat
or leave the boyfriend. This game also gives the opportunity for other girls in
the bunch to complain about their own boyfriends. When a woman is ready to
leave her boyfriend, she won’t complain. They just do it.

 Actually part of the payoff of this little game is to play the victim with her friends. It gives her
the chance to get validation as a “saint” type of woman who is good at the
core. Women who play this game sometimes inherit it from their own mothers. Mom
used to play the “I have a rotten husband” with her female friends. Having a
“horrible” partner allows them to be the “good girl” in the relationship even
though her real needs go unmet.

The reverse of this game can take a turn for the tragic. If
the guy plays “the nice guy” and doesn’t spank her in bed, she might become
bored with his people pleasing ways and cheat on him. She might play the “bad
girl”. She wants to feel energized and not bored by some compliant chode who
doesn’t get her needs for excitement in the relationship. Some women want to be
abused. Don’t fret over it.

This game can go both ways. A guy can play “she is such a
fucking bitch” game with his girlfriend to feel good about himself also.

Stop Her From Cheating (Relationship Advice)

Women cheat more these days. You might want to have a leg up
on the competition. Follow simple tips and prevent it. Women give you subtle
tips before they actually do it. If she tells you she stayed after the business
meeting to chat with a co-worker and he hit on her, you know she is giving you
the heads up to see if you do something about it. Something is wrong in the
state of Denmark. Time to go over the following checklist.

1.Relationship becoming less stimulating. She
might be a risk taker/surf chick type and you might be boring her socks off. If
all you do is watch DVD’s over the weekend and bang her, the routine might not
fly with her thrill seeking type anymore. Women put up with that for a while
but it becomes apparent with time that you have nothing else to offer. Once you
know she wants to be thrilled, take up a new couple activity. It can be
anything from a tantric sex course to learning to cook Ethiopian dishes
together, or simply joining the tap dance club. I don’t know. Something.

2. Sex is stale. You practice the same two
positions over and over and on the same day of the week. Change up. Have sex in
the car, teenager style. Stimulate her sexually with her cloth on, change up
your routine. Have sex with her in the shower, in the closet (LOL), buy a dildo,
etc. Again she might be a thrill seeker and you didn’t notice. She enjoys
“danger” and “adventure” sexually and you are not giving it to her.

3.The sexual beast. Examples of this type of girls
include screamers, s&m freaks, squirters, girls with a secret dildo
collection, compulsive masturbators, porn addicts, cocaine-fueled sex
addicts(stoners have low sex drive), finger bangers, and so on. It is important
to understand that women like that love having sex, not thrill or adventure. If
you have a girl with an unusually high sex drive, higher than yours and you are
not meeting her needs, she might feel inclined to cheat. So, if she feels you
are not the type of man for her, she is likely to expand her horizons. What can
a man with low sex drive do? You might want to spice it up without necessarily
penetrating her. Get some finger action going if you know what I mean. Feel her
in the movies, get some strategies outside the bedroom like grinding her in the
dance floor when you dance and so on. Make yourself last longer in bed by
engaging her and pausing for a brief moment before you get to the point of no
return (alternatively thinking about Bruce Willis’ bald head can help you
restrain yourself during the act or so I have heard. Attempted humor). In doing
that, you might meet her out-of-control sexual drive without spending yours.
Sex drive goes down in men with age around 30 to 40 but women keep peaking
after 30. So, watch out.

Again use common sense. You girl might never cheat on you if you are moderately aware of her needs. I remember having this girl who was crazy in bed and I never thought of cheating on her
because she was just dynamite in the sack. She gave me all I needed to be
happy. Then again, she was 15 years younger than me. However, you want to avoid
the obvious mistakes as much as possible.

 When Women Play The “Unavailable[/b]
Game”

First, you must make sure it is a
game. News flash, you will never be sure unless you go all the way. If she
says, “I have a boyfriend”, it could mean “I am not sure how serious you are
about me, I don’t want meaningless sex, I want a real relationship”. If you do
walk away, you just showed her what she knew already that you were not for
real. This was NOT a game. She was dead serious even though she was playing.

When I used to run routines in the dark ages of Pick up, I got the “boyfriend excuse” in every other set. At the
time, we had “boyfriend” blasters ready to go but still it tells you how much
women could see through the routine game and how incongruent we must have
looked to them. However, the deeper you got into approaching, women tested you
less and less. So the “I have a boyfriend” excuse disappeared altogether

Some women do have a boyfriend but they will rarely tell you unless they have to. And when they do, they are notplaying any games. But again, you must take the approach deep to find out.

By spotting the different games women play you become more empowered to take right action. You want to turn into a social scientist, not involved, but with a great eye for obvious moves.
Women reveal themselves with these games. An expert player must know all the
moves in the game.

I leave you with my favorite
singer video. Comments, Criticism, opinions are all welcome.





http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rxx0P7ctlgk


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great video and...
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BRAZIL PHOTOS!!

Dig the vid man, good shit!!

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Tyler wrote:
BRAZIL PHOTOS!!

Dig the vid man, good shit!!

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cheers. good times.
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cheers. what did you like about it? if you have time.
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Ozzie is apparantly the RSD instructor best in shape

Are these pics recent?
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 I'm a pretty social dude but the gym is such an untapped resource.  Like, when I go to the gym, I never talk to anybody.  

ANY solid information on the gym environment is very much appreciated.  
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He's the oldest one as well.  
It's one thing to be ripped when you're in your early twenties but to be ripped in your forties is quite impressive.  
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Ozzie is apparantly the RSD instructor best in shape

Are these pics recent?
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pics or photoshoop. Ozzie had a beer gut a few months ago, now he has a 10-pack? lol
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Seriously Tyler where do you find these guys? such a refreshing point of view.

Well first of all I think you only develop a sense of "being played" by playing and being played. A person who is genuinely interested in women and knowing women better, won't really need THAT much effort to gain a "sense" of many of these situations, maybe not all but many. I would say the biggest problem here is guys discarding women as "impossible to understand" as an excuse not to face them and knowing them better.

About the gym as a newbie I am going to keep going out, because if I start with the "picking up at the gym" thing, then pretty soon it will be the "picking up at the corner of my street" thing and finally "picking up from my room via telepathic powers" thing. Very dangerous stuff
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Great vid and article. Really enjoyed the bit at around 2.00 mins when you say.. it's a no no! The article was very good, I have this girl texting me on and off and it appears she's an attention whore. Though the article got me in my head and kindah 'worried', with the cheating stuff, but those moments are usually good for me, they toughen me up.

I sometimes get caught out when I go in super direct like... have you got a boyfriend? I approached a girl with today and she just said yeah. I should have ploughed! Hows it going? Seems to work much better. I know in your book you say, you've got to loose a lot of girls to get girls. Would you say that means.. You've got to approach girls as opposed to being super blunt?

Finally, I perhaps am quite sleazy sometimes. I know in your book you say get to know the person behind the face. Could I just quickly get your thoughts on... Losing girls to get girls and being sleazy. Thanks for any response dude.

Cheers!
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Nice vid.

Adding the Salsa music is a big plus :D
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OZZ IZ BOZZ!!!

I observed the things you are talking Gym Game, realized that I did a lot of don´ts, and got some perspective from your advice. 

It´s cool that you included the bloopers in the video. I think it would be interesting if you would do a video on a similiar theme: Cafe Game (Starbucks Game haha) and include clips of you doing such game, like in the Iceland video.

It´s cool how you addressed Woman Game to complement the Man Game!  I think there are many more of this games and reading about it helps to know how a woman thinks.
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MakeItHappen wrote:
Ozzie is apparantly the RSD instructor best in shape

Are these pics recent?
Man dude he looks way younger in the pics. Obviously not recent O.o

And btw:

Im hitting the gym since 8 years and the video / advice about approaching girls there is just bad.
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Honestly I'm not digging the "women play games" portions of the articles. It presents more obstacles and things to worry about. I don't want to be thinking "Is she flirting with me just for selfish manipulative reasons?" I'd rather just flirt with her and not worry what her intentions were. At least include some constructive solutions to balance it out.
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 Hey man thanks for the video loved it. I gym a lot and see many hot girls. Your advice will really help. I like your common sense approach to day game. I also love your articles man. They are an eye opener to chick psychology. I'm not in a relationship, or looking for one, but I'll always keep this stuff In mind. The Bruce Willis bold head aside, hilarious. Thanks. Awesome
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Roscoe~ wrote:
Honestly I'm not digging the "women play games" portions of the articles. It presents more obstacles and things to worry about. I don't want to be thinking "Is she flirting with me just for selfish manipulative reasons?" I'd rather just flirt with her and not worry what her intentions were. At least include some constructive solutions to balance it out.
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Ozzie, I love the way speak man. You've got your own jive to you.
And, the directing of the video was great. It made me think about being authentic while being realistic; yet. ,always stayin on!

Youre awesome, man. There's songs about you and other elders of a gentle race.
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 Damn dude. is that you on the picture? U never seem to amaze me, your over 40 now, and totally ripped. Am I right ? :D awesome article btw :)
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MakeItHappen wrote:
Ozzie is apparantly the RSD instructor best in shape

Are these pics recent?
no they are old pics. i am in shape though but i am not in that kind of shape anymore.
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Trig wrote:
He's the oldest one as well.  
It's one thing to be ripped when you're in your early twenties but to be ripped in your forties is quite impressive.  
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i was 38 at the time.
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pics or photoshoop. Ozzie had a beer gut a few months ago, now he has a 10-pack? lol
definetely photoshop. lol. wish it was that easy to come up with the ripped abs. that particular pic was the result of me and tim shaping up in 2 months.
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talking gym game here, as social game is a different kind of animal than club game where girls go to be approached. losing girls gives you a sense that no particular girl is that important and as a result you develope a  chill attitude. problem happens when you think a particular girl is too important  and you become a needy bitch yourself. 
The Hawk wrote:
Great vid and article. Really enjoyed the bit at around 2.00 mins when you say.. it's a no no! The article was very good, I have this girl texting me on and off and it appears she's an attention whore. Though the article got me in my head and kindah 'worried', with the cheating stuff, but those moments are usually good for me, they toughen me up.

I sometimes get caught out when I go in super direct like... have you got a boyfriend? I approached a girl with today and she just said yeah. I should have ploughed! Hows it going? Seems to work much better. I know in your book you say, you've got to loose a lot of girls to get girls. Would you say that means.. You've got to approach girls as opposed to being super blunt?

Finally, I perhaps am quite sleazy sometimes. I know in your book you say get to know the person behind the face. Could I just quickly get your thoughts on... Losing girls to get girls and being sleazy. Thanks for any response dude.

Cheers!
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thanks. i think the horn sections in salsa give a different quality to the video or an energy i lack as a speaker. lol.
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Adding the Salsa music is a big plus :D
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MarriedGuy wrote:
OZZ IZ BOZZ!!!

I observed the things you are talking Gym Game, realized that I did a lot of don´ts, and got some perspective from your advice. 

It´s cool that you included the bloopers in the video. I think it would be interesting if you would do a video on a similiar theme: Cafe Game (Starbucks Game haha) and include clips of you doing such game, like in the Iceland video.

It´s cool how you addressed Woman Game to complement the Man Game!  I think there are many more of this games and reading about it helps to know how a woman thinks.
women are not very different from men. we play all those games too! one of the biggest issues when teaching guys this stuff is that they think women are aliens from another planet.
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Roscoe~ wrote:
Honestly I'm not digging the "women play games" portions of the articles. It presents more obstacles and things to worry about. I don't want to be thinking "Is she flirting with me just for selfish manipulative reasons?" I'd rather just flirt with her and not worry what her intentions were. At least include some constructive solutions to balance it out.
actually, my advice is directed at not taking her flirting as an ioi. probably didn't make myself clear there. you keep doing what you are doing and not worry about her flirting because you never know where she stands on it. we can't read minds.
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we need to demistify women psychology in this community. when you live with a girl for years you realize they are not that complicated but just more emotional than we are. 
MannyFresh wrote:
 Hey man thanks for the video loved it. I gym a lot and see many hot girls. Your advice will really help. I like your common sense approach to day game. I also love your articles man. They are an eye opener to chick psychology. I'm not in a relationship, or looking for one, but I'll always keep this stuff In mind. The Bruce Willis bold head aside, hilarious. Thanks. Awesome
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thanks. i thought i would show all the frustration i go thru shooting those videos in the middle of snowing. i thought it was comical. 
Curtis.Slone wrote:
Ozzie, I love the way speak man. You've got your own jive to you.
And, the directing of the video was great. It made me think about being authentic while being realistic; yet. ,always stayin on!

Youre awesome, man. There's songs about you and other elders of a gentle race.

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that was me about 3 o4 years ago. 
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 Damn dude. is that you on the picture? U never seem to amaze me, your over 40 now, and totally ripped. Am I right ? :D awesome article btw :)
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the gym can be tricky that's why i put this video up. guys are always asking how to approach at the gym when they see a hot girl there. on the other hand you might want to focus on gym work when you are there. women are secondary. your workout should be your priority. however, it doesn't hurt to have a fling on the side.
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ANY solid information on the gym environment is very much appreciated.  
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Thank you for the video Ozzie. I'll try to become a manager of a women's-only-gym. ;)
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 Excellent blog!  I like how you breaked down the different game styles for approaching and how to react in basically any situation.  Owen(Tyler) is right, you are like the uncle I never had!  I hope to be as ripped as you too when my time comes, you inspire me Ozzie.
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Anthony John wrote:
 Excellent blog!  I like how you breaked down the different game styles for approaching and how to react in basically any situation.  Owen(Tyler) is right, you are like the uncle I never had!  I hope to be as ripped as you too when my time comes, you inspire me Ozzie.

Voice of reason. LOL.
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Awesome post Ozzie!! Spot on in everything! Thanks a lot for that.
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Ozzie wrote:



 When Women Play The “Unavailable[/b]
Game”

First, you must make sure it is a
game. News flash, you will never be sure unless you go all the way. If she
says, “I have a boyfriend”, it could mean “I am not sure how serious you are
about me, I don’t want meaningless sex, I want a real relationship”. If you do
walk away, you just showed her what she knew already that you were not for
real. This was NOT a game. She was dead serious even though she was playing.

When I used to run routines in the dark ages of Pick up, I got the “boyfriend excuse” in every other set. At the
time, we had “boyfriend” blasters ready to go but still it tells you how much
women could see through the routine game and how incongruent we must have
looked to them. However, the deeper you got into approaching, women tested you
less and less. So the “I have a boyfriend” excuse disappeared altogether

Some women do have a boyfriend but they will rarely tell you unless they have to. And when they do, they are notplaying any games. But again, you must take the approach deep to find out.

I find this a lot. Women tests me to see how serious I'm and if I want something real. As I'm writing this I realize that I don't like their pressure on me. I don't know if I would have the time to handle a real relationship. But how would I know I haven't even slept with this girl. Maybe I should expect our relationship to last for a few weeks, months. I think I'm in the mindset of fuck and discard and the girls can sense that I'm not very serious. I've probably looked a bit too much on Julien, Tyler and Tim and there ONS approach.

What's your take on this, can you elaborate a bit more, maybe there are different approaches.
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when we game girls we give out mixed signals too. so women test to see where you are at. good thing about this is that they test you becasue they like you. bang a lot of girls and then settle down. the other way around never works and will create a lot of problems for you. 
Rotundum wrote:

Ozzie wrote:



 When Women Play The “Unavailable[/b]
Game”

First, you must make sure it is a
game. News flash, you will never be sure unless you go all the way. If she
says, “I have a boyfriend”, it could mean “I am not sure how serious you are
about me, I don’t want meaningless sex, I want a real relationship”. If you do
walk away, you just showed her what she knew already that you were not for
real. This was NOT a game. She was dead serious even though she was playing.

When I used to run routines in the dark ages of Pick up, I got the “boyfriend excuse” in every other set. At the
time, we had “boyfriend” blasters ready to go but still it tells you how much
women could see through the routine game and how incongruent we must have
looked to them. However, the deeper you got into approaching, women tested you
less and less. So the “I have a boyfriend” excuse disappeared altogether

Some women do have a boyfriend but they will rarely tell you unless they have to. And when they do, they are notplaying any games. But again, you must take the approach deep to find out.

I find this a lot. Women tests me to see how serious I'm and if I want something real. As I'm writing this I realize that I don't like their pressure on me. I don't know if I would have the time to handle a real relationship. But how would I know I haven't even slept with this girl. Maybe I should expect our relationship to last for a few weeks, months. I think I'm in the mindset of fuck and discard and the girls can sense that I'm not very serious. I've probably looked a bit too much on Julien, Tyler and Tim and there ONS approach.

What's your take on this, can you elaborate a bit more, maybe there are different approaches.

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Ozzie wrote:

Tyler wrote:
BRAZIL PHOTOS!!

Dig the vid man, good shit!!

Tyler
cheers. good times.



In brazil?! Shit! I didnt even recognize ahhaha which city?!
Nice tips on being social and letting the staff knowing and calling your name
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rio. ran two programs there.
~cavalheiro wrote:

Ozzie wrote:

Tyler wrote:
BRAZIL PHOTOS!!

Dig the vid man, good shit!!

Tyler
cheers. good times.



In brazil?! Shit! I didnt even recognize ahhaha which city?!
Nice tips on being social and letting the staff knowing and calling your name
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#38

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Ozzie great article really pumped start! Damn!! The salsa just makes me want to go Salsa and have fun :D love the articles!!

Don't do much gym game since its the office gym and I WANT to keep that type of relationship away for obvious reasons, but as you are becoming the hot guy in the office where people want something from you then it gets difficult not to fall into the game specially when you are in sales and you have knowloadge that can seal the deal, really teaches you a lot.
I digress,

Seems for a long time I'm getting the boyfriend line soo much that it gets, wel admitly frustrating, it happens so manny times for one to think its a coincidence, I go direct and physical and two girls I was seeing did told me that my intentions of sex only where obvious.. Both cases what happened is we had sex (last time a LMR of 9 hours.. no words..) and after that I kept seeing them because I liked to hang out with them and told them lets hang out have fun and enjoy ourselfs and they wanted more, always asking me why I didn't have a girlfriend.

My question is, If i get the boyfriend line is it because of the directness, should I cool down? Is it something I shouldn't be doing that creates the emotion lets be in a relationship which I clearly show intent of not?

Thank you :) Ozzie!!
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C'moooooon, uncle Ozzieeeee!!!
Why sooo?

My experience is contradictory. I mean at the GYM in my Bulgaria Burgas fucking planet-of-apes-and-shit town usually "Be nice" and "don't stare" is a bullshit advice.

Personally i really love looking at a tight girl's ass. She might not like it... she can fuck herself then, AHAHAHAHAHH!!
But i really love the horny tattoed whores that lift and get their pussies in cameltoes.. fuuck.
Still when i'm at the gym i ain't there for fucking, but blasting the weights.

When i do stare (i mean eye contact and basicly enjoying the shit out of the little whore) -- at least i have fun. And most of the times the women actaully respond really well!!!
I've been into a situations where i actually go and game a bit before workout. During her working (on teh cardio machines dat sux) or yes - when she's between sets... it has gone well and bad   -- just like any einviourment.
To me it all comes down to believing that you're the SHIT in the gym. I mean if you're not really okay and owning the einviourment it will just... not go so cool, right?

So Uncle OZIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
Goddammit you're the guy who i can thank my loosing of the virginity at the age of 16 (i'm almost 20 now).
In a disco. How? "RUN THE TRAAAAAAINNNN!!! CLOOOOZEEEEE, JUST CLOOOOZEEEEE!!!! RUN IT 11 TIMEEEEZ, CLOOOOZEEEE!!!"

So i fucking BEG you man - just... say it one more fucking time, tiger! On a video - "Just CLOZE!!"
Ah... epicness :)
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 Great video Ozzie, I like the music inbetween points. Very Oceans 11.

Here was me thinking the gym was just a place to pick up weights!
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 So much wisdom in your articles. Love it. I gotta start being more social in the gym. 2 young hotties (18-19) there today looking in my direction, now I know I gotta frame it as giving them opportunities to talk to me.
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Kris- wrote:
 Great video Ozzie, I like the music inbetween points. Very Oceans 11.

Here was me thinking the gym was just a place to pick up weights!



Sick!
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st2.0 wrote:
 So much wisdom in your articles. Love it. I gotta start being more social in the gym. 2 young hotties (18-19) there today looking in my direction, now I know I gotta frame it as giving them opportunities to talk to me.

Cheers. I love the idea of letting them talk to you. It takes away the stigma of pickup guy. Many guys are afraid of being labeled in their social circle.
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Mitizaro wrote:
C'moooooon, uncle Ozzieeeee!!!
Why sooo?

My experience is contradictory. I mean at the GYM in my Bulgaria Burgas fucking planet-of-apes-and-shit town usually "Be nice" and "don't stare" is a bullshit advice.

Personally i really love looking at a tight girl's ass. She might not like it... she can fuck herself then, AHAHAHAHAHH!!
But i really love the horny tattoed whores that lift and get their pussies in cameltoes.. fuuck.
Still when i'm at the gym i ain't there for fucking, but blasting the weights.

When i do stare (i mean eye contact and basicly enjoying the shit out of the little whore) -- at least i have fun. And most of the times the women actaully respond really well!!!
I've been into a situations where i actually go and game a bit before workout. During her working (on teh cardio machines dat sux) or yes - when she's between sets... it has gone well and bad   -- just like any einviourment.
To me it all comes down to believing that you're the SHIT in the gym. I mean if you're not really okay and owning the einviourment it will just... not go so cool, right?

So Uncle OZIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
Goddammit you're the guy who i can thank my loosing of the virginity at the age of 16 (i'm almost 20 now).
In a disco. How? "RUN THE TRAAAAAAINNNN!!! CLOOOOZEEEEE, JUST CLOOOOZEEEEE!!!! RUN IT 11 TIMEEEEZ, CLOOOOZEEEE!!!"

So i fucking BEG you man - just... say it one more fucking time, tiger! On a video - "Just CLOZE!!"
Ah... epicness :)

Cheers, man. Thanks for your feedback. I will take it on board for future videos. I agree with you on some of your ideas like taking swift action
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 Thanks, Ozzie good stuff.  I've made pretty much all of these mistakes and still do make some of these mistakes from time to time.
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Ozzie wrote:
cheers. what did you like about it? if you have time.
deepBlue_ wrote:
great video and...



Sorry Ozzie, didn't see your request until now.
I like about this video
1. The salsa music
2.The undertitles, good to follow!
3. Your show-off pics...I like self humour. It's mine too.
4. The shots when you're not talking. It's kind of artistic and creative.

I liked the content but I do the things that you told anyway so there is nothing really new here for me. But I see Guys doing the mistakes you covered all the time in my gym. And actually contentwise one thing I never did:

6. Ask a woman for help.

I really like the message behind that gesture. Fits perfect into my game and I tried it 2 times since I saw the video and closed for numbers.

But in General Gym is not my favourite spot because I do high intensity circuit training and normally have neiher time nor breath to talk to anybody, lol...
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#47

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awesome post 
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