Ozzie's Blog
Women play games. We all know that but to what extent? Women
can’t be straight with you if they like you so they go sideways. I remember
this girl in high school who kept coming to me with her homework. She didn’t
want her homework done. I was a dork then. She was a very doable, big tittied
blond but I couldn’t tell at the time because I was a dorky, skinny, clueless
kid who had no idea that she was offering sex on a platter. I could have
lost my virginity with her instead of
that chubby girl I did 2 years later. Damn! If I could rewrite history.
But enough about me.
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February 8-10 Stockholm BC
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aYFpn1KG7RI
Women And Their Games
By spotting those games ahead of time we turn the tables and
go from played to player. Instead of giving your power away you take the power
off her hands.
The trick is to know whether she is playing a game or is for
real. Women play the attention game when they flirt. They are not for real…most
of the time. Once you give them attention, you are out. I had this girl in my
salsa class who would sit on my lap, really ram my dick with her butt, but it
turned out she just wanted male attention because she was a recovering dork. I
was the top dancer in our group. That’s all she wanted.
There was this other girl who would come to me to practice
her salsa moves on every class. She was for real. She would not be flirting,
she hid really well that she liked me. She would make eye contact with me from
across the room and generally put herself in a position in the room where I
could see her. She would also not dance with other guys and lean by the bar
until I was free to dance with her. She made herself available to me. You get
the picture. That girl was not playing games. But I didn’t like her enough to
cheat on my girlfriend at the time.
“Oh, I am helpless” Game
Ever seen women sprawled on the floor because they are
“drunk”. You see that in London in every club. Sometimes they are truly
drunk(London has a binge drinking culture unparalleled in the world. People go
out just to get pissed!). Other times they are just playing drunk on the floor.
They want a guy, the right guy to pick them up. If you pick them up and they
were not aiming for you, you will see they perk right up and ignore you. Sorry,
folks. Women’s right to choose. If it is the right guy they play drunk for a
bit but then you see them making out and sober with the guy they wanted.
Women can’t express themselves sexually directly like males.
This is why women won’t cheat unless intimacy disappears from the relationship.
You might want to spot women like this with their “helpless” approach to
getting their men. If you did this in your social circle or at the club you will
score so much easier. So, be more observant!
“I had to too much to drink”
This is a variation of the “oh, I am helpless” game. women
play it the same way. If you spot a hen party you will find the girl that is
trying to get wasted to score. I have approached lots of hen parties over the
years in London and Spain. You always find a girl there on the rebound or a
girl who has no boyfriend and feels less than the girl getting married so she
gets intoxicated with alcohol to perform the deed. Remember that in our culture
a woman who has no boyfriend or is not in a committed relationship is a LOSER.
I know that feminists would argue with me on this one. Fuck them. Feminists
lie. Until things change in the future, a dateless woman feels self conscious,
more so when she is around her social circle of married, or fianceed
girlfriends. She might want to do something desperate and use sex as a way to
raise her low self esteem. On the flip side, women hang around their dateless
counterparts to vicariously feel better about themselves. My ex would go out
with her “loser” friends all the time to feel good about herself. She would
tell me all about her “loser” friend who couldn’t get a boyfriend.
Most girls in this dateless situation during outings will
use alcohol as a “game strategy” to score. It depends on how low/desperate they
feel that day. I have scored in those situations and it goes down very smoothly
if I am able to spot the real “bachelorette” in the bunch. Mind you, sometimes
there is none in the party so no sure thing here.
“My boyfriend is an asshole” Game
Women play this game with their girlfriends over coffee or
drinks but don’t be fooled by this. All they want is attention and won’t cheat
or leave the boyfriend. This game also gives the opportunity for other girls in
the bunch to complain about their own boyfriends. When a woman is ready to
leave her boyfriend, she won’t complain. They just do it.
Actually part of the payoff of this little game is to play the victim with her friends. It gives her
the chance to get validation as a “saint” type of woman who is good at the
core. Women who play this game sometimes inherit it from their own mothers. Mom
used to play the “I have a rotten husband” with her female friends. Having a
“horrible” partner allows them to be the “good girl” in the relationship even
though her real needs go unmet.
The reverse of this game can take a turn for the tragic. If
the guy plays “the nice guy” and doesn’t spank her in bed, she might become
bored with his people pleasing ways and cheat on him. She might play the “bad
girl”. She wants to feel energized and not bored by some compliant chode who
doesn’t get her needs for excitement in the relationship. Some women want to be
abused. Don’t fret over it.
This game can go both ways. A guy can play “she is such a
fucking bitch” game with his girlfriend to feel good about himself also.
Stop Her From Cheating (Relationship Advice)
Women cheat more these days. You might want to have a leg up
on the competition. Follow simple tips and prevent it. Women give you subtle
tips before they actually do it. If she tells you she stayed after the business
meeting to chat with a co-worker and he hit on her, you know she is giving you
the heads up to see if you do something about it. Something is wrong in the
state of Denmark. Time to go over the following checklist.
1.Relationship becoming less stimulating. She
might be a risk taker/surf chick type and you might be boring her socks off. If
all you do is watch DVD’s over the weekend and bang her, the routine might not
fly with her thrill seeking type anymore. Women put up with that for a while
but it becomes apparent with time that you have nothing else to offer. Once you
know she wants to be thrilled, take up a new couple activity. It can be
anything from a tantric sex course to learning to cook Ethiopian dishes
together, or simply joining the tap dance club. I don’t know. Something.
2. Sex is stale. You practice the same two
positions over and over and on the same day of the week. Change up. Have sex in
the car, teenager style. Stimulate her sexually with her cloth on, change up
your routine. Have sex with her in the shower, in the closet (LOL), buy a dildo,
etc. Again she might be a thrill seeker and you didn’t notice. She enjoys
“danger” and “adventure” sexually and you are not giving it to her.
3.The sexual beast. Examples of this type of girls
include screamers, s&m freaks, squirters, girls with a secret dildo
collection, compulsive masturbators, porn addicts, cocaine-fueled sex
addicts(stoners have low sex drive), finger bangers, and so on. It is important
to understand that women like that love having sex, not thrill or adventure. If
you have a girl with an unusually high sex drive, higher than yours and you are
not meeting her needs, she might feel inclined to cheat. So, if she feels you
are not the type of man for her, she is likely to expand her horizons. What can
a man with low sex drive do? You might want to spice it up without necessarily
penetrating her. Get some finger action going if you know what I mean. Feel her
in the movies, get some strategies outside the bedroom like grinding her in the
dance floor when you dance and so on. Make yourself last longer in bed by
engaging her and pausing for a brief moment before you get to the point of no
return (alternatively thinking about Bruce Willis’ bald head can help you
restrain yourself during the act or so I have heard. Attempted humor). In doing
that, you might meet her out-of-control sexual drive without spending yours.
Sex drive goes down in men with age around 30 to 40 but women keep peaking
after 30. So, watch out.
Again use common sense. You girl might never cheat on you if you are moderately aware of her needs. I remember having this girl who was crazy in bed and I never thought of cheating on her
because she was just dynamite in the sack. She gave me all I needed to be
happy. Then again, she was 15 years younger than me. However, you want to avoid
the obvious mistakes as much as possible.
When Women Play The “Unavailable[/b]
Game”
First, you must make sure it is a
game. News flash, you will never be sure unless you go all the way. If she
says, “I have a boyfriend”, it could mean “I am not sure how serious you are
about me, I don’t want meaningless sex, I want a real relationship”. If you do
walk away, you just showed her what she knew already that you were not for
real. This was NOT a game. She was dead serious even though she was playing.
When I used to run routines in the dark ages of Pick up, I got the “boyfriend excuse” in every other set. At the
time, we had “boyfriend” blasters ready to go but still it tells you how much
women could see through the routine game and how incongruent we must have
looked to them. However, the deeper you got into approaching, women tested you
less and less. So the “I have a boyfriend” excuse disappeared altogether
Some women do have a boyfriend but they will rarely tell you unless they have to. And when they do, they are notplaying any games. But again, you must take the approach deep to find out.
By spotting the different games women play you become more empowered to take right action. You want to turn into a social scientist, not involved, but with a great eye for obvious moves.
Women reveal themselves with these games. An expert player must know all the
moves in the game.
I leave you with my favorite
singer video. Comments, Criticism, opinions are all welcome.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rxx0P7ctlgk
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Here's the schedule for 2013
February 1-3 London BC with Alex
February 8-10 Stockholm BC
February 15-17 London BC
February 22-24 Tallinn BC
March 1-3 London BC
March 8-10 Dublin BC
March 15-17 London BC
March 22-24 Berlin BC
March 29-31 London BC
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can’t be straight with you if they like you so they go sideways. I remember
this girl in high school who kept coming to me with her homework. She didn’t
want her homework done. I was a dork then. She was a very doable, big tittied
blond but I couldn’t tell at the time because I was a dorky, skinny, clueless
kid who had no idea that she was offering sex on a platter. I could have
lost my virginity with her instead of
that chubby girl I did 2 years later. Damn! If I could rewrite history.
But enough about me.
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Here's the schedule for 2013
February 1-3 London BC with Alex
February 8-10 Stockholm BC
February 15-17 London BC
February 22-24 Tallinn BC
March 1-3 London BC
March 8-10 Dublin BC
March 15-17 London BC
March 22-24 Berlin BC
March 29-31 London BC
Sign up right now at:
www.rsdbootcamp.com
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aYFpn1KG7RI
Women And Their Games
By spotting those games ahead of time we turn the tables and
go from played to player. Instead of giving your power away you take the power
off her hands.
The trick is to know whether she is playing a game or is for
real. Women play the attention game when they flirt. They are not for real…most
of the time. Once you give them attention, you are out. I had this girl in my
salsa class who would sit on my lap, really ram my dick with her butt, but it
turned out she just wanted male attention because she was a recovering dork. I
was the top dancer in our group. That’s all she wanted.
There was this other girl who would come to me to practice
her salsa moves on every class. She was for real. She would not be flirting,
she hid really well that she liked me. She would make eye contact with me from
across the room and generally put herself in a position in the room where I
could see her. She would also not dance with other guys and lean by the bar
until I was free to dance with her. She made herself available to me. You get
the picture. That girl was not playing games. But I didn’t like her enough to
cheat on my girlfriend at the time.
“Oh, I am helpless” Game
Ever seen women sprawled on the floor because they are
“drunk”. You see that in London in every club. Sometimes they are truly
drunk(London has a binge drinking culture unparalleled in the world. People go
out just to get pissed!). Other times they are just playing drunk on the floor.
They want a guy, the right guy to pick them up. If you pick them up and they
were not aiming for you, you will see they perk right up and ignore you. Sorry,
folks. Women’s right to choose. If it is the right guy they play drunk for a
bit but then you see them making out and sober with the guy they wanted.
Women can’t express themselves sexually directly like males.
This is why women won’t cheat unless intimacy disappears from the relationship.
You might want to spot women like this with their “helpless” approach to
getting their men. If you did this in your social circle or at the club you will
score so much easier. So, be more observant!
“I had to too much to drink”
This is a variation of the “oh, I am helpless” game. women
play it the same way. If you spot a hen party you will find the girl that is
trying to get wasted to score. I have approached lots of hen parties over the
years in London and Spain. You always find a girl there on the rebound or a
girl who has no boyfriend and feels less than the girl getting married so she
gets intoxicated with alcohol to perform the deed. Remember that in our culture
a woman who has no boyfriend or is not in a committed relationship is a LOSER.
I know that feminists would argue with me on this one. Fuck them. Feminists
lie. Until things change in the future, a dateless woman feels self conscious,
more so when she is around her social circle of married, or fianceed
girlfriends. She might want to do something desperate and use sex as a way to
raise her low self esteem. On the flip side, women hang around their dateless
counterparts to vicariously feel better about themselves. My ex would go out
with her “loser” friends all the time to feel good about herself. She would
tell me all about her “loser” friend who couldn’t get a boyfriend.
Most girls in this dateless situation during outings will
use alcohol as a “game strategy” to score. It depends on how low/desperate they
feel that day. I have scored in those situations and it goes down very smoothly
if I am able to spot the real “bachelorette” in the bunch. Mind you, sometimes
there is none in the party so no sure thing here.
“My boyfriend is an asshole” Game
Women play this game with their girlfriends over coffee or
drinks but don’t be fooled by this. All they want is attention and won’t cheat
or leave the boyfriend. This game also gives the opportunity for other girls in
the bunch to complain about their own boyfriends. When a woman is ready to
leave her boyfriend, she won’t complain. They just do it.
Actually part of the payoff of this little game is to play the victim with her friends. It gives her
the chance to get validation as a “saint” type of woman who is good at the
core. Women who play this game sometimes inherit it from their own mothers. Mom
used to play the “I have a rotten husband” with her female friends. Having a
“horrible” partner allows them to be the “good girl” in the relationship even
though her real needs go unmet.
The reverse of this game can take a turn for the tragic. If
the guy plays “the nice guy” and doesn’t spank her in bed, she might become
bored with his people pleasing ways and cheat on him. She might play the “bad
girl”. She wants to feel energized and not bored by some compliant chode who
doesn’t get her needs for excitement in the relationship. Some women want to be
abused. Don’t fret over it.
This game can go both ways. A guy can play “she is such a
fucking bitch” game with his girlfriend to feel good about himself also.
Stop Her From Cheating (Relationship Advice)
Women cheat more these days. You might want to have a leg up
on the competition. Follow simple tips and prevent it. Women give you subtle
tips before they actually do it. If she tells you she stayed after the business
meeting to chat with a co-worker and he hit on her, you know she is giving you
the heads up to see if you do something about it. Something is wrong in the
state of Denmark. Time to go over the following checklist.
1.Relationship becoming less stimulating. She
might be a risk taker/surf chick type and you might be boring her socks off. If
all you do is watch DVD’s over the weekend and bang her, the routine might not
fly with her thrill seeking type anymore. Women put up with that for a while
but it becomes apparent with time that you have nothing else to offer. Once you
know she wants to be thrilled, take up a new couple activity. It can be
anything from a tantric sex course to learning to cook Ethiopian dishes
together, or simply joining the tap dance club. I don’t know. Something.
2. Sex is stale. You practice the same two
positions over and over and on the same day of the week. Change up. Have sex in
the car, teenager style. Stimulate her sexually with her cloth on, change up
your routine. Have sex with her in the shower, in the closet (LOL), buy a dildo,
etc. Again she might be a thrill seeker and you didn’t notice. She enjoys
“danger” and “adventure” sexually and you are not giving it to her.
3.The sexual beast. Examples of this type of girls
include screamers, s&m freaks, squirters, girls with a secret dildo
collection, compulsive masturbators, porn addicts, cocaine-fueled sex
addicts(stoners have low sex drive), finger bangers, and so on. It is important
to understand that women like that love having sex, not thrill or adventure. If
you have a girl with an unusually high sex drive, higher than yours and you are
not meeting her needs, she might feel inclined to cheat. So, if she feels you
are not the type of man for her, she is likely to expand her horizons. What can
a man with low sex drive do? You might want to spice it up without necessarily
penetrating her. Get some finger action going if you know what I mean. Feel her
in the movies, get some strategies outside the bedroom like grinding her in the
dance floor when you dance and so on. Make yourself last longer in bed by
engaging her and pausing for a brief moment before you get to the point of no
return (alternatively thinking about Bruce Willis’ bald head can help you
restrain yourself during the act or so I have heard. Attempted humor). In doing
that, you might meet her out-of-control sexual drive without spending yours.
Sex drive goes down in men with age around 30 to 40 but women keep peaking
after 30. So, watch out.
Again use common sense. You girl might never cheat on you if you are moderately aware of her needs. I remember having this girl who was crazy in bed and I never thought of cheating on her
because she was just dynamite in the sack. She gave me all I needed to be
happy. Then again, she was 15 years younger than me. However, you want to avoid
the obvious mistakes as much as possible.
When Women Play The “Unavailable[/b]
Game”
First, you must make sure it is a
game. News flash, you will never be sure unless you go all the way. If she
says, “I have a boyfriend”, it could mean “I am not sure how serious you are
about me, I don’t want meaningless sex, I want a real relationship”. If you do
walk away, you just showed her what she knew already that you were not for
real. This was NOT a game. She was dead serious even though she was playing.
When I used to run routines in the dark ages of Pick up, I got the “boyfriend excuse” in every other set. At the
time, we had “boyfriend” blasters ready to go but still it tells you how much
women could see through the routine game and how incongruent we must have
looked to them. However, the deeper you got into approaching, women tested you
less and less. So the “I have a boyfriend” excuse disappeared altogether
Some women do have a boyfriend but they will rarely tell you unless they have to. And when they do, they are notplaying any games. But again, you must take the approach deep to find out.
By spotting the different games women play you become more empowered to take right action. You want to turn into a social scientist, not involved, but with a great eye for obvious moves.
Women reveal themselves with these games. An expert player must know all the
moves in the game.
I leave you with my favorite
singer video. Comments, Criticism, opinions are all welcome.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rxx0P7ctlgk
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Here's the schedule for 2013
February 1-3 London BC with Alex
February 8-10 Stockholm BC
February 15-17 London BC
February 22-24 Tallinn BC
March 1-3 London BC
March 8-10 Dublin BC
March 15-17 London BC
March 22-24 Berlin BC
March 29-31 London BC
Sign up right now at:
www.rsdbootcamp.com
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deepBlue_
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Tyler
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Dig the vid man, good shit!!
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Dig the vid man, good shit!!
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Are these pics recent?
Trig
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ANY solid information on the gym environment is very much appreciated.
Trig
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It's one thing to be ripped when you're in your early twenties but to be ripped in your forties is quite impressive.
Are these pics recent?
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Elamanopiskelija
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Well first of all I think you only develop a sense of "being played" by playing and being played. A person who is genuinely interested in women and knowing women better, won't really need THAT much effort to gain a "sense" of many of these situations, maybe not all but many. I would say the biggest problem here is guys discarding women as "impossible to understand" as an excuse not to face them and knowing them better.
About the gym as a newbie I am going to keep going out, because if I start with the "picking up at the gym" thing, then pretty soon it will be the "picking up at the corner of my street" thing and finally "picking up from my room via telepathic powers" thing. Very dangerous stuff
The Hawk
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I sometimes get caught out when I go in super direct like... have you got a boyfriend? I approached a girl with today and she just said yeah. I should have ploughed! Hows it going? Seems to work much better. I know in your book you say, you've got to loose a lot of girls to get girls. Would you say that means.. You've got to approach girls as opposed to being super blunt?
Finally, I perhaps am quite sleazy sometimes. I know in your book you say get to know the person behind the face. Could I just quickly get your thoughts on... Losing girls to get girls and being sleazy. Thanks for any response dude.
Cheers!
Patrick.Bateman
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Adding the Salsa music is a big plus :D
MarriedGuy
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I observed the things you are talking Gym Game, realized that I did a lot of don´ts, and got some perspective from your advice.
It´s cool that you included the bloopers in the video. I think it would be interesting if you would do a video on a similiar theme: Cafe Game (Starbucks Game haha) and include clips of you doing such game, like in the Iceland video.
It´s cool how you addressed Woman Game to complement the Man Game! I think there are many more of this games and reading about it helps to know how a woman thinks.
The Baverien
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Are these pics recent?
And btw:
Im hitting the gym since 8 years and the video / advice about approaching girls there is just bad.
Roscoe~
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And, the directing of the video was great. It made me think about being authentic while being realistic; yet. ,always stayin on!
Youre awesome, man. There's songs about you and other elders of a gentle race.
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Ozzie
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Are these pics recent?
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It's one thing to be ripped when you're in your early twenties but to be ripped in your forties is quite impressive.
Are these pics recent?
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I sometimes get caught out when I go in super direct like... have you got a boyfriend? I approached a girl with today and she just said yeah. I should have ploughed! Hows it going? Seems to work much better. I know in your book you say, you've got to loose a lot of girls to get girls. Would you say that means.. You've got to approach girls as opposed to being super blunt?
Finally, I perhaps am quite sleazy sometimes. I know in your book you say get to know the person behind the face. Could I just quickly get your thoughts on... Losing girls to get girls and being sleazy. Thanks for any response dude.
Cheers!
Ozzie
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Adding the Salsa music is a big plus :D
Ozzie
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I observed the things you are talking Gym Game, realized that I did a lot of don´ts, and got some perspective from your advice.
It´s cool that you included the bloopers in the video. I think it would be interesting if you would do a video on a similiar theme: Cafe Game (Starbucks Game haha) and include clips of you doing such game, like in the Iceland video.
It´s cool how you addressed Woman Game to complement the Man Game! I think there are many more of this games and reading about it helps to know how a woman thinks.
Ozzie
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And, the directing of the video was great. It made me think about being authentic while being realistic; yet. ,always stayin on!
Youre awesome, man. There's songs about you and other elders of a gentle race.
Ozzie
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ANY solid information on the gym environment is very much appreciated.
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Voice of reason. LOL.
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When Women Play The “Unavailable[/b]
Game”
First, you must make sure it is a
game. News flash, you will never be sure unless you go all the way. If she
says, “I have a boyfriend”, it could mean “I am not sure how serious you are
about me, I don’t want meaningless sex, I want a real relationship”. If you do
walk away, you just showed her what she knew already that you were not for
real. This was NOT a game. She was dead serious even though she was playing.
When I used to run routines in the dark ages of Pick up, I got the “boyfriend excuse” in every other set. At the
time, we had “boyfriend” blasters ready to go but still it tells you how much
women could see through the routine game and how incongruent we must have
looked to them. However, the deeper you got into approaching, women tested you
less and less. So the “I have a boyfriend” excuse disappeared altogether
Some women do have a boyfriend but they will rarely tell you unless they have to. And when they do, they are notplaying any games. But again, you must take the approach deep to find out.
What's your take on this, can you elaborate a bit more, maybe there are different approaches.
Ozzie
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 2479
When Women Play The “Unavailable[/b]
Game”
First, you must make sure it is a
game. News flash, you will never be sure unless you go all the way. If she
says, “I have a boyfriend”, it could mean “I am not sure how serious you are
about me, I don’t want meaningless sex, I want a real relationship”. If you do
walk away, you just showed her what she knew already that you were not for
real. This was NOT a game. She was dead serious even though she was playing.
When I used to run routines in the dark ages of Pick up, I got the “boyfriend excuse” in every other set. At the
time, we had “boyfriend” blasters ready to go but still it tells you how much
women could see through the routine game and how incongruent we must have
looked to them. However, the deeper you got into approaching, women tested you
less and less. So the “I have a boyfriend” excuse disappeared altogether
Some women do have a boyfriend but they will rarely tell you unless they have to. And when they do, they are notplaying any games. But again, you must take the approach deep to find out.
What's your take on this, can you elaborate a bit more, maybe there are different approaches.
~cavalheiro
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Dig the vid man, good shit!!
Tyler
In brazil?! Shit! I didnt even recognize ahhaha which city?!
Nice tips on being social and letting the staff knowing and calling your name
Ozzie
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 2479
Dig the vid man, good shit!!
Tyler
In brazil?! Shit! I didnt even recognize ahhaha which city?!
Nice tips on being social and letting the staff knowing and calling your name
gilfox
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Join Date: 11/16/2012 | Posts: 49
Don't do much gym game since its the office gym and I WANT to keep that type of relationship away for obvious reasons, but as you are becoming the hot guy in the office where people want something from you then it gets difficult not to fall into the game specially when you are in sales and you have knowloadge that can seal the deal, really teaches you a lot.
I digress,
Seems for a long time I'm getting the boyfriend line soo much that it gets, wel admitly frustrating, it happens so manny times for one to think its a coincidence, I go direct and physical and two girls I was seeing did told me that my intentions of sex only where obvious.. Both cases what happened is we had sex (last time a LMR of 9 hours.. no words..) and after that I kept seeing them because I liked to hang out with them and told them lets hang out have fun and enjoy ourselfs and they wanted more, always asking me why I didn't have a girlfriend.
My question is, If i get the boyfriend line is it because of the directness, should I cool down? Is it something I shouldn't be doing that creates the emotion lets be in a relationship which I clearly show intent of not?
Thank you :) Ozzie!!
Mitizaro
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Why sooo?
My experience is contradictory. I mean at the GYM in my Bulgaria Burgas fucking planet-of-apes-and-shit town usually "Be nice" and "don't stare" is a bullshit advice.
Personally i really love looking at a tight girl's ass. She might not like it... she can fuck herself then, AHAHAHAHAHH!!
But i really love the horny tattoed whores that lift and get their pussies in cameltoes.. fuuck.
Still when i'm at the gym i ain't there for fucking, but blasting the weights.
When i do stare (i mean eye contact and basicly enjoying the shit out of the little whore) -- at least i have fun. And most of the times the women actaully respond really well!!!
I've been into a situations where i actually go and game a bit before workout. During her working (on teh cardio machines dat sux) or yes - when she's between sets... it has gone well and bad -- just like any einviourment.
To me it all comes down to believing that you're the SHIT in the gym. I mean if you're not really okay and owning the einviourment it will just... not go so cool, right?
So Uncle OZIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
Goddammit you're the guy who i can thank my loosing of the virginity at the age of 16 (i'm almost 20 now).
In a disco. How? "RUN THE TRAAAAAAINNNN!!! CLOOOOZEEEEE, JUST CLOOOOZEEEEE!!!! RUN IT 11 TIMEEEEZ, CLOOOOZEEEE!!!"
So i fucking BEG you man - just... say it one more fucking time, tiger! On a video - "Just CLOZE!!"
Ah... epicness :)
Kris-
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Here was me thinking the gym was just a place to pick up weights!
st2.0
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Ozzie
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Here was me thinking the gym was just a place to pick up weights!
Sick!
Ozzie
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Cheers. I love the idea of letting them talk to you. It takes away the stigma of pickup guy. Many guys are afraid of being labeled in their social circle.
Ozzie
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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 2479
Why sooo?
My experience is contradictory. I mean at the GYM in my Bulgaria Burgas fucking planet-of-apes-and-shit town usually "Be nice" and "don't stare" is a bullshit advice.
Personally i really love looking at a tight girl's ass. She might not like it... she can fuck herself then, AHAHAHAHAHH!!
But i really love the horny tattoed whores that lift and get their pussies in cameltoes.. fuuck.
Still when i'm at the gym i ain't there for fucking, but blasting the weights.
When i do stare (i mean eye contact and basicly enjoying the shit out of the little whore) -- at least i have fun. And most of the times the women actaully respond really well!!!
I've been into a situations where i actually go and game a bit before workout. During her working (on teh cardio machines dat sux) or yes - when she's between sets... it has gone well and bad -- just like any einviourment.
To me it all comes down to believing that you're the SHIT in the gym. I mean if you're not really okay and owning the einviourment it will just... not go so cool, right?
So Uncle OZIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
Goddammit you're the guy who i can thank my loosing of the virginity at the age of 16 (i'm almost 20 now).
In a disco. How? "RUN THE TRAAAAAAINNNN!!! CLOOOOZEEEEE, JUST CLOOOOZEEEEE!!!! RUN IT 11 TIMEEEEZ, CLOOOOZEEEE!!!"
So i fucking BEG you man - just... say it one more fucking time, tiger! On a video - "Just CLOZE!!"
Ah... epicness :)
Cheers, man. Thanks for your feedback. I will take it on board for future videos. I agree with you on some of your ideas like taking swift action
Amazing1985
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deepBlue_
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Join Date: 10/27/2012 | Posts: 87
I like about this video
1. The salsa music
2.The undertitles, good to follow!
3. Your show-off pics...I like self humour. It's mine too.
4. The shots when you're not talking. It's kind of artistic and creative.
I liked the content but I do the things that you told anyway so there is nothing really new here for me. But I see Guys doing the mistakes you covered all the time in my gym. And actually contentwise one thing I never did:
6. Ask a woman for help.
I really like the message behind that gesture. Fits perfect into my game and I tried it 2 times since I saw the video and closed for numbers.
But in General Gym is not my favourite spot because I do high intensity circuit training and normally have neiher time nor breath to talk to anybody, lol...
alamarish
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