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Public transport is an unusual environment to pickup for somebody who approaches in

clubs and bars but doable. You might think of things like intrusion into people’s private

space,
or bothering others when they are going about their business. But being aggressive in

a public place might be difficult to pull off but subtlety and quick escape are of the essence.

Needless to say, objections are more connected to your fears than to reality, some women

will appreciate the audacity and the situations are pretty safe since you can attempt a quick

escape in no time shall things go sideways on you and nobody will remember  a thing.

People in daytime tend to be a bit more polite at the beginning of a conversation, you want to

use that in your favour. Time is of the essence when you see someone you like and they are

getting off in the next stop. No time to lose.

Public Transport Hookups
Men and women who use public transportation on regular basis will agree that it is a

wonderful setting  to meet new people. There are all kind of people moving in buses, trains

and other public transports. We  come across pretty girls amongst the crowd. There are good

 prospects to actually see an attractive woman. To meet women on a bus is like meeting

them in any other public place.

You are busy, I know. We all are. That’s no excuse. But let’s say you can’t go to clubs as

much as you want because you have a day job. But you can be a pimp with a day job. All it

takes is a bit of awareness. Some have to be corporate drones to make a living so be it. You

are tired after a gruelling day, no energy, you are drained. You can’t go to clubs after a day

like that. But beautiful women are everywhere. A quick two minute chat with an attractive

girl
can go a long way, believe it or not. A long stupid ride looking at your sports pages can

be transformed into an enjoyable conversation anytime, anywhere. So I say, next time you

are on a public transport, it may the dawn of a new era of dating possibilities for you. Pay

attention now.

Before we get into it. Lets remind you of a couple of fundamentals.

Smile
Non threatening body language


They are called fundamentals because they work EVERYWHERE, not just in public

transport.

The smile: If you can’t smile, fake it. Be a fake for a while, who cares. Your fellow human

beings will certainly appreciate it. Turn that frown upside down. Smile with your eyes, I

always say. Practice it with others. Get a feeling for it. Do your cheek muscles hurt after a

while? Good. No pain, no gain. You want that pain. Pain means you are stepping out of

comfort zone. Read books on it. I am sure there are plenty. Smiles open doors and “legs” in

public transport. Most people are miserable riding a train, and you will stand out. Make

occasional eye contact and smile. Practice if you are in public transport frequently.
(Stay tuned for part II of this Article)
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#1
One-off

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Join Date: 08/18/2015 | Posts: 554

Great post. Also, having your level slightly above theirs will push them to bring themselves higher. It's a salesman tactic. Being average to angry people, being slightly happy to average people. Be happy to slightly happy people, and be enthusiastic to happy people. 

Translated to appear good in a bad set, appear amazing in a good set. 
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#2
bossan

bossan

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Join Date: 08/02/2014 | Posts: 8

Love your stuff, Ozzie
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#3
Extrasauce

Extrasauce

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Join Date: 10/08/2011 | Posts: 44

what are some good ways to look good/better in set? i realize a lot of this may come from inner game and just having a general solid ecosystem of positive emotions, but what are some outer game things we could do to look  better in set? 

nonetheless this was a very eye-opening video, definitely struck a chord! big thanks
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Ozzie

Ozzie

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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 2529

Extrasauce Wrote:
what are some good ways to look good/better in set? i realize a lot of this may come from inner game and just having a general solid ecosystem of positive emotions, but what are some outer game things we could do to look  better in set? 

nonetheless this was a very eye-opening video, definitely struck a chord! big thanks


i worked it from inside to outside. the inner game takes time to catch up with outer game. pretty much all at once. 
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#5

genius2005

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Join Date: 07/05/2013 | Posts: 74

Ozzie,

I can't thank you enough for teaching the importance of "physical game".

Guys come up to me amazed at how good I look when running Physical Game on girls. The mindset of "...just close" literally looks amazing even when the girl is giving me a lot of resistance.

It's like a blowout no longer looks or feels like a "blowout", because guys still come up to me and say: ''...the was amazing"!

Thanks brother.
 
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#6

Two Inch Dick

Member

Join Date: 12/24/2013 | Posts: 51

Love this idea of approaching on (or around) public transport.  There are tons of cute college girls taking the buses in my city.  In fact, there are more cute girls on the buses than in the night clubs.  Your article gave me "permission" to go approach the bus girls.  The real time constraints are going to be a challenge, but there is always an angle.  Maybe I can approach the ones getting off the bus who are going into the city than the ones who are waiting to get on.  
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#7
RSDXtro

RSDXtro

Senior Member

Join Date: 07/30/2015 | Posts: 155

Research has shown that our inner state is heavily influenced by our facial expression, body language, and expressiveness. There is a feedback loop that exists between the inner and the outer, and we can intervene on this loop by changing our behaviors. So fucking smile, people.

An additional component of this loop is that our outer state influences the state of other people around us. So let's say you're feeling great on the inside, you're riding high, you're being expressive, and you have a smile on your face.. this translates to inner and outer changes in the people around you.

Great post Ozzie! Thank you as always.

 
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