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When To Talk To Her
Timing is of the essence but not in the traditional way you think of timing. Why? There is no

right timing except now. Don’t wait for the right moment to start because you will stall and

nothing will happen. Approach anxiety will get the better of you. To make matters worse, if

you stand around not approaching, you will look creepy and not decisive, two traits extremely

undesirable. If you she is a hotty, she knows all about men staring at her trying to muster the

courage to talk to her, but not doing anything. You lower your odds by being identified with

one of those guys.

What To Say
Quite irrelevant as long as it is said quickly and LOUD. Don’t want to stall and you don’t want

to sound lame. Loud will make her trust you faster and it also conveys you have nothing to

hide. Lame guys will try not to be noticed by others and try and sneak the opener by her.

Women sense this and it will be considered as lack of confidence in yourself. In my

programs in London, I make my students voice their opener from one lane of the escalators

to the other and carry a conversation all the way up the escalators in the tube. You will be

surprised how some of those “loud” conversations end up in instadates or phone numbers

exchange.

Opening remarks can be as simple as asking her what the number of the bus/tube station is.

Make it very obvious that you are using that as a way to start a conversation with her. Ask

her something obvious so she knows you just want to talk to her. Why this instead of

sophisticated opener that will trigger lengthy conversation? I believe that you will convey you

have guts  and also you have a sense of humour. Two things that go a long way to attract a

girl. Avoid lame openers like “Where did you get that phone or the like?”. The more you hide

your intentions the worst it is because you will come across as insecure and testing the

waters. In the end it is all irrelevant because it is about how you say it, not what you say. 

Smart openers won’t work either if you give out a creepy vibe. So stop worrying about “what

to say”. Confidence must be earned, not bought or faked. Opening in a public transport will

give you exactly that: earned guts.

Eye Contact
Open with your eyes first. It goes  a long way to look for eye contact and smile. Friendly

smile, avoid intense sexual bullshit at this point. Remember you are looking for a way in.

Practice making eye contact and holding it while you smile. At the beginning will be creepy,

of course, but you will get better and natural with practice. Follow through with opener. You

can express interest in a woman with your eyes and your body language. If she holds eye

contact and smiles you got your way in. You will be surprised how many just do that.

Sometimes a simple “hello” and a smile will do it. Stop thinking of “excuses” to open her. Try

to keep it simple. There is no harm in talking to a woman in a public transport. You don’t

need a reason.

Your Audience
Fear comes from having high expectations about others. The crowd around you might

paralyse your efforts on the spot. Men feel frightened to approach a woman if they realize

others might hear their conversation. That’s why I encourage being loud. You need to learn

that nobody cares as much as you think. Some might even be jealous of you.

Phone number or instadate?
Sometimes the phone number is an excuse to leave things unfinished. You want things

happening now because it is now that she is excited to meet you. So how about the

instadate as your first option? Even as small 10 minute instadate for a quick coffee can work

wonders for your response rate in your call backs. Why get a number when you  can go on a

date now. It will also serve you as screening those who are not interested/have boyfriend and

whatnot. Get the number as a last resort when there is no possibility of a date right now.
 
 
 
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#1
RSDXtro

RSDXtro

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Join Date: 07/30/2015 | Posts: 155

Love fear technology. Do the sets you fear, regardless of how you feel. Sage advice! Also, "the physical game".. damn. 

Thanks Ozzie!
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genius2005

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Join Date: 07/05/2013 | Posts: 74

Thanks for the video man.

No matter how good I get, One of my goals in life is to take your bootcamp. Most of my gains recently come from "fear technology" that you teach in all of your videos. I watch them before I go out and listen to your audio tapes in my car from Mastermind daily.

You have narrowed game down to simply "physical game" and the need for "fear technology" so some of us guys can understand how to pick-up hot chicks.

I can appreciate your point about having the girl "mirror" your behaviour when I apply physical game.

Thanks again Ozzie
 
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