Posting this two-part article from Tallinn, Estonia.
Came all the way here through snow storms and delayed flights. I aim to shoot a
video tomorrow. Let’s see how is the weather. Decided to cut this article in two because  it was too long.
Been running programs with Alex
back in London. Lots of crazy stuff happening. Not really. Feeling good though
about travelling here. We will see how the weekend goes.
Comments are welcome as well as criticism. Hope you enjoy the article.

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Conventional wisdom says women are complicated but are they?
Always thought who cares about what women think. When you are cold approaching,
you really focus on getting the next approach on the way and getting laid. In
fact worrying too much about what women think of you can land you in a whole
lot of trouble in the field. But bear with me with the following patterns
because it might answer some of your life time questions about female
psychology. On the other hand there are some you might want to avoid for your
own safety. If you don’t want to end up banging a chick that will eventually
become a stalker and show up at your door unannounced at three, harass your Facebook
account, or meet your mom “accidentally” in the supermarket (boil your pet
rabbit in a pot), you better listen.  




http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RxfXMYuVpz4

Actually what’s happening these women are trying to draw you
in for their own purposes. You might want to learn who they are by spotting how
they operate in social situations.

Let’s talk about common types.

1. The Psycho: She is not hard to spot. For a quick
understanding, I refer you to that famous movie where this psycho woman boils a
white pet rabbit in a pot, can’t remember the title. They look like they are
doing nothing wrong but they are actually reeling you in. Once they get you in
their nets, they will exploit you for their psychopathic needs. An obvious one
is the secretive woman. If you go on a day two and she is compulsively checking
the phone, you got a live one. And if you ask her what she is checking all the
time she refuses to tell you or dodges the topic, she is keeping secrets from
you. She won’t share her life with you it means she is hiding probably a bunch
of guys she is dating beside you or her Facebook account with 200 “friends” in
it. Another behavior you want to spot is the super needy. She would be super
clingy, calling, texting you all the time and demanding your attention.
Sometimes they are crybabies. They cry if you don’t pay attention to them just
like a baby does. If they do, it means they have learned to play the
“desperate” game to get their way. They know most men have a soft spot for
women who cry. So they use it to get their way. A third “psychic ward” case is
those women that are way too compliant. They go the extra mile to please you
and it seems that they seem too involved, too out there; too happy, too
friendly, too social, too loud, too funny…something is wrong. They want
something out of you you can’t possibly give: her sanity. Yet another different
case is the “self-centered” bitch. She would talk about herself, her issues, and
her needs all the time while you just stand there and take it, thinking that
you are attending a monologue, not a conversation. She, her life is her
favorite topic. This type targets nice guys who won’t tell them off/call them
on it and use them for their selfish needs.  People pleaser type of guys are particularly
vulnerable to this “self-centered” bitch type because they won’t tell this
woman off on account of being polite and nice to her. So she walks all over
them. Some Hollywood types come to mind, women who obsess about their
acting/modeling career (again not necessarily gold digging type) or social
status and can’t seem to shut their trap about it. But you can find this type
anywhere. Needless to say some of those women types are extremely beautiful and
you might want to bang them. I suggest you adapt your strategy to the type.
Others, severe cases, you might want to avoid all together. Remember, if you
hang out with crazy people, you turn crazy too. Laying those psycho types it is
not hard; however, it is a challenge to get rid of them later. So watch out.

2. The High Heel Alpha Female (Gold digger types
are not necessarily included in this category though some might.): This is the
ultimate head case who just wants crazy male attention. She means to
demolish/annihilate her female competitors. They peacock big time. You know,
the works: high heel stiletto shoes, super slick hairdo (model type), tarted up
to the wazu, super tight clothe revealing her curves, explosive cleavage and so
on. You get it. She uses her looks to get male attention AWAY from her “loser”
female counterparts. So when you approach her, she “fulfilled her destiny”. So
right then and there, she dumps you because she is not interested anymore. She wants
more male validation. Second thing she would do is she would play aloof,
distant, and be self-absorbed like she doesn’t care. But she does. That’s how
she will trap you in her net. She feels in control now. Once she gets guys
chasing she is in charge. She is deep down a control freak and gets off
controlling guys. It heightens her self-esteem. She feels wanted. That’s all
she wants. It is the old cat and mouse game, where the cat plays with the mouse
before it kills it, by letting the mouse run a bit and make it believe it has a
chance to survive. Cat wants to be entertained before it kills so does a woman
playing with a guy before they blow him off. But she won’t follow thru because
her needs for attention are being met just by you approaching her. That’s what
her act is all about. They are not that serious about sex (even though you might
lay this type), because the mechanics of intercourse and intimate nature of it
would be a step down from her attention seeking game. If you refuse to play her
game you might have a shot at this one.   By opening her group and paying attention to
other girls there, you might trigger a chasing pattern and you might be able to
trap her on that pattern. Sometimes, these women are childlike inside, and all
they need is a good spanking. Taking the attention away from her and giving it
to other girls in her group, could be interpreted as an act of power by a high
value male. Those women respond to power (You become her trophy male). She
might want to get that attention back to her and you score that way. Good luck
with that anyway.

3. The Stalker:
women stalk for different reasons. In theory, they are all stalkers when they
like a guy but this type won’t let go. You become their trophy. Disregarding
popular opinion, a stalking woman is not after sex, but commitment. One thing
is to have sex with you and another is getting a guy to commit and love them.
They want love. Unfortunately for stalkers, they commit to hook themselves up with
people that can’t give it to them. That’s why a player is stalked all the time
by women like this. A player who lays women left and right won’t commit to
anyone woman in particular. Most F.B’s will leave you alone after 2 or 3 months
because they realize you won’t commit so they move on. On the other hand,
stalker chicks want what they cannot have. They are in love with the promise of
a relationship, not with a real relationship. They play out a fantasy in their
heads of the two of you together but that’s about it. Since the guy they are
stalking would not give them the fantasy or won’t commit it is perfect for the
stalker to keep chasing that fantasy in their head.  Real relationships are too much hard work for
the stalker so they rather chase somebody who doesn’t want it.

4. The Bitch: Finally we got to my favorite type. I
want you not to confuse this one with the “high heel type” I mentioned earlier.
Because “the Bitch” is not out for attention. She is out to test. Conventional
wisdom says that a woman who puts out too easily will harm her chance to get
men to commit to her. I won’t deny that but we are dealing with border line
psycho behavior here, not old wife’s tales. This type usually hates men because
they have been dumped a few times or they are fearful about committing and
being hurt. Women in this category take testing to a whole new level, almost
insane. Women like this are icy and dismissive when men approach them because
they know the weak men will leave and only the strong will plow through their
bitch shield. It takes patience to break the ice with these women but believe
me, once you do, you will have a puppy following you everywhere desperate for
you to throw her a bone if you know what I mean(attempted humor, bone=sex. Not
funny, I know.) These women test hard at the beginning but less at the end. So
you might get away with more stuff than with a regular girl who tests
moderately at the beginning but it is too smart to let you get away with
uncommitted sex later.

Anyway, these are the major types I wanted to talk about,
plenty more out there. You will find traces of one type into another type and
so on. You can never have a pure breed. Notice I never included the dreaded gold
digger in those types. It is not an accident. True gold diggers are calculative
women who won’t bother playing games with you. They are after power, money or
fame at whatever cost but they won’t waste their precious time and money in
fantasy or mind games. For starters, you will find them in places where their
goals could be met; alternatively, they would work certain social networks or
you will find them in certain industries. In many ways they behave like sales
men. They are realistic about their looks and their ambitions and work their
way up the ladder in a rather conscious way, not in a reactive, crazy way. 

Porn and your relationship (relationship advice, it applies
to your cold approaching too this time).

Guys use porn and that’s fine. It becomes a problem when it
becomes too much and here is why.

1.  
Porn users report a general lack of interest in
real sex. Sex is better when it is a fantasy than in real life. Over 60 percent
of the general male population uses porn. Porn companies know about this so
they overflow your inbox selling you the latest stuff. Porn can become a
permanent substitute for sex with women since it is stress free (you don’t have
to deal with all the trouble of approaching, dating and pulling women). Also
remember that at the same time you become a home body with real social skills that
won’t be able to replicate his genes. Fear can be a powerful motivator.

2. 
Losing interest in sex with your partner. Of
course, she doesn’t look like the porn goddesses who you will find on the
internet. Little you know those women are generally tarted up, in friendly
lighting and good camera angles to look great. They are pros. Your girl is not
a pro, and this is not a movie, it is real life. You are not the pizza delivery
boy who happens to luck out by knocking on the door of a nymphomaniac girl; but
just a guy with a normal job and a regular girlfriend.  

3.   
It might kill your confidence to watch another
guy’s long and hard “Johnson” satisfying a beautiful woman so watch out for
that. It will make you feel insecure about your little pecker. Remember that
those guys are pros, camera angles, enlargements and so on. So you see them
pleasuring two or three women and you might think the whole thing is true. You
don’t know that coke, Cialis, and other hard drugs are common place in the porn
industry. I remember being invited by Hoobie (when he became a porn producer)
to do his first on-line porn movie and I said no. I decided I couldn’t compete
with those guys. I am glad I didn’t do it. In retrospect, it might have been
fun though.

4. 
It does kill your real libido in real life. You
won’t be able to hold an erection with your girlfriend for too long because you
are too used to masturbation, not normal intercourse. You might have trouble
finishing up intercourse because you are not used real ejaculation unless it is
supported by a fantasy of some sort. Some women might interpret this as their
fault and leave you for a man who is more interested and available sexually.
Women interpret using porn as a breach of trust. You are fantasizing sexually
with other women. In a way, you are cheating.

 Those are some of the don’ts. It will
affect you not only at the level of relationship but also in your game. Don’t
kill your libido on image on the screen, instead go find a real girl and have
real sex. It is far more enjoyable and human. Don’t be a casualty of the
internet sex industry.


So, I am out of here. I probably went too
long on this one. See you guys later.

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