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I wanted to have fun on  this article just reminding myself of some of the worst things I have

said to women in the past, mostly before I learned game, but also after being in the field for

some time I still have some slips of the tongue here and there. Funny how the mind betrays

you when you are in the middle of an approach and all the pressure is on you.

Again some things are very obvious but some variations of those things you still might find

useful to know. Most of the time the following screams of insecurity and lack of manliness

and initiative. Women don’t want to take the initiative in courtship for obvious reasons. So if

you sound insecure or lacking in the risk taking department, it will kill attraction on the spot.

1.       Let’s start with the obvious: “You are so beautiful”. Ever said that? Or a variation

like “You are hot”. Sounds like nobody says that anymore except followed by some

backhanded remark meant to insult the girl. Either way, complimenting on looks is a big “no”

in this game. Variations such as “Why do you wear your hair/cloth..like that?” will get you

also into trouble. Girls spend time and money on their looks so stating the obvious would not

get you any extra points. It also screams of objectification which women hate with a

vengeance.

2.       Another major grand prize: “Can I kiss you?” If you have to ask, don’t bother. This

kills attraction. Why? Again, no initiative. It shows your insecurity and lack of initiative. On

top of that, you are asking her to take responsibility that should be yours. Instead, go for it.

Be prepared for her to turn her head, even several times. They want it but they want you to

work for it.

3.       “Can I take out sometime?” Again with the questions that kill the mood and make

you sound like totally inexperienced. Don’t want to ask her out, take her out instead. “Give

me your number, we should hang out sometime, it will be fun”, shows initiative and

confidence in yourself. In my program, since my students need to get a pull in under 2 or 3

minutes of meeting a girl, my students are prepared for “objections”, they are supposed to

make it look she is missing out on the most fun she will ever have in their lives. We do it

through practicing the nonverbal communication to elicit emotions in the girl. But this is way

more sophisticated and needs to be practiced.

4.       “Your friend is hot”. You don’t want to go there. Now, this might be worse than

saying she is hot. Unless you really want to piss her off, you don’t want to say anything

about her female friends that cause her to compare herself with them. Women are ultra

competitive when they are out. They dress up to get validation, most have low self esteem

and you don’t want trigger that. Use at your own peril if you want to make her jealous. There

is a difference between jealous and pissed off. Insulted women will push out of their groups

on principle and you won’t even know what hit you. If you must, remember the cardinal rule

to always compliment on personality. “Your friends are cool” will take you further into the

interaction if you back it up with friendliness and a cool vibe.

5.       “Bitch”, “Cunt” or any variation of those. There are insults that women don’t forget

and that’s one of them. Call them anything, “Brat”, “Bad girl”, if you must, but not the “C”

word. Variations include “Don’t be stuck up/bitchy/mean”, and they are all bad.

6.       “Calm down”, “Relax”, “Chill”. Not the kind of thing you want to say when women

are mad. If you piss off a girl in an approach, refrain from curbing/placating her mood.

Women feel patronized and that her feelings don’t matter to you. They will retaliate with a vengeance.

7.        “You on your period?” Women hate that because they hate being in their periods.

Since their faces break and look like shit. They don’t like it and you bringing it up even if it is

not true, it is an insult that you won’t be able to come back from any time soon.

8.       “Why don’t you smile?” Bad approach. If she was pissed off, there is no benefit in

you bringing it up. If a girl is hanging around in the bar, looking shitty, you don’t want to go

around poking the tiger or you are going to get fangs. I would stay away from pissed off girls,

but that’s just me. Variations such as “You look tired” will sink you. Really, is that the best

you can come up with? It shows an absolute total lack of imagination on your part. It shows

you are not even trying. You might as well give up. She will pick up on this and throw it right

back at you peppering it with female venom.

9.       Ethnicity remarks will kill you faster than a bullet. “(ethnicity) girls are hot, and they

are more loyal/better girlfriends/know how to treat a man...” It speaks of your ignorance about

other ethnicities and that you make judgements based on stereotypes you watch on some

stupid Hollywood flick. Don’t do it. It also shows you are trying to manipulate her to like you

to get in her pants.

10.   “You don’t look like (insert job)”. This is considered touchy feely territory. You are

seriously asking for trouble. NOBODY LOOKS LIKE ANYTHING. You succeeded at being

clueless about female psychology. You are seriously looking to bring her feminist beast out

for a stroll. Most women take their careers seriously. They get enough patronizing from their

boss at the office, they don’t need any more from you. In my years as a corporate drone, I

got to witness what women go thru in an office with an idiot boss. Guys that don’t get laid

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First off don’t follow the crowd of lonely guys to the usual spots. Most guys go out to have

fun and get drunk but you go out to get laid. No fun in getting drunk and waking up alone.

Ask yourself what ‘s best for my purposes? In doing that you are already ahead of the

curve.

In doing that, you acknowledge the fact that there is no randomness in all of this. There are

places better than others. Before I go to a new town, I spend time in the computer looking for

the best place in town to run my bootcamp. Most guys won’t admit they want to get laid

when they go out. That’s their problem, not yours.

 For example, some guys don’t like loud clubs. They are more comfortable being heard by

a girl. Too bad for them because those places don’t get you many opportunities to use

physical game. Loud clubs offer opportunities to get closer to girls to talk to them. It will

allow you a perfect excuse to get closer, dance and even grind. In those situations your

chances for success are higher. On the flip side, there is always quieter areas you can pull

the girl too for

a nice quiet chat. Girls won’t go home with you unless you get physical first. Conversation as

a tool to get laid is deadly overrated in loud clubs.

If you are one for conversation, make sure your club has a quieter area like a balcony or

smoking section. Once you got acquainted with girl you  can pull back to those areas. 

Since it is kind of polite in those places to give you the benefit of the doubt. Don’t rely on it

too much. But still a good lounge, smoking section or sitting area can do wonders to get you

laid if you have the ability to pull back to those or pull from them to the dance floor.

To drink or not to drink, that’s the question. How much is enough? I have a zero policy on

alcohol because you want to avoid the ups and downs of alcohol drinking.

Finding a bar with cheap drinks can be good for your girls. I used to love those 1 dollar

a drink nights in Sydney with tons of college students, drinking out of their minds. Easy lays

all over the place. But you keep a cool head. Leave that to others.

Upscale bars are a good source for hot girlfriends if you want a long term relationship.

But getting past the bouncers is a pain. If you want the quick lay you want to stay clear of

those.

Exclusive clubs are ok because door policy is a bit more relaxed and you can book them

online such as some clubs in Vegas. You want to consider door policy. A good tip to enter

those places is to wait for a whole bunch of girls to get in and just position yourself behind

them in the queue. Bouncers are more likely to let you in after a bunch of girls. Again it is a

risk. I have learned several tricks over the years to get past bouncers in those clubs and

become quite effective at bringing a bunch of guys in with me. It surprises me how easy it is

sometimes. I remember telling a bouncer after rejecting one of my students, “He is cool. He

is with me”. I said that several times to the bouncer in Jedi fashion and he let my guy in after

looking confused. Go figure.

Location, location, location. If you want to pull, make sure your club is right in the center

of the action. Easy routes back to hotel or parts of town where you can pull. It doesn’t matter

you know the best club in town if it is out of your way and makes pulling a 45 minute ride. It

will diminish your chances.

And another thing, I hate it when there are famous djs, live bands or comics or anything

that might get the crowd’s attention. It is a pain to approach when girls are distracted. It

diminishes also your chances. Anything that comes between you and her field of vision is

bad for you. On the other hand, some djs bring hot girls with them, in which case an

exception must be made. When the dj’s set is over you can approach. Straight up clubs with

regular djs are better. Women are on prowl and so are you.

Careful with social circles. I don’t like those venues with too many hen parties, stag parties

and so on. Social pressure precludes girls from hooking up even when they like you. You

want to pull so you need girls that are not attached to a big office party with their boss in it or

a college bar with her regular friends in it. I dread those social bars where too many people

know each other. We want party places where people go to party. It is easier to pluck girls

away from a group that is partying on a holiday because they don’t care. They are here to

have fun in a different town or country, no strings attached and nobody knows them. They 

think they can do it guilt free, no consequences.
 
 
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You always get this on program “I have this friend who is a natural, really good with women. I

can’t possibly beat that guy”.  His identity, the person he believes he is, already has a core

belief which says that, “I am the type of guy who is not good with women”. It points to the

fact that he thinks that this is not a skill, just a “talent”. In others words either you have it or

you don’t. He is doomed.

Identity becomes a behaviour



http://youtu.be/gRfgYmKxcVg

We tend to be defined by results. It permeates who you are. Results minded people end up

full of fear because they can’t stand when they lose. That’s why you think “when i get that

result(hot girl) I will be attractive to other women”. The result will transform us. We fall

victims to this toxic mindset and get defined by results. It becomes our identity.

When you let results define who you are, girls or whatever else you  become a byproduct of

your results minded orientation. For example, you give too much importance to isolated

single events (like hooking up with a hot girl every night and so on)that have nothing to do

with growth or true success. This identity is not sustainable over long periods of time and it

will get in the way of your effectiveness in field. Because not every night you will be able to

produce amazing results and on that night you will be miserable. It will affect the rest of the

nights. In line with that you will think that that’s the way the world perceives you..like a loser.

You become the product of  a fixed, rigid mindset that will slow you down in your way to

better yourself. 



http://youtu.be/CytcIGfeVOU


Here is the straight dope

Your daily actions will ultimately define who you are, the way you see yourself. As your

external behaviour changes so will your identity. Success habits work better when changing

your identity. For example, in my body building days, I would show up at the gym regardless

of how I felt that day. My identity changed as a result of that. I felt committed to it and

started feeling stronger, better, more energetic. If I had a bad day at the gym, I did what I

could and left. But as my habits change, so did my identity from a skinny, out of shape guy

to a guy who knew a lot about nutrition and building muscle. It was the habit that changed

me, not the results. Results came but it was a side dish brought on by new habits. That’s

what a growth mindset looks like, not results. We focus on habits that create a new identity.

Skills can be nurtured and grown
Guys with an identity problem they don’t seem to see a way out of the darkness. They think

they are doomed by not being born with the talent. Skills you can develop and cultivate.

There is no “talent” called skill. You can become better at anything by focusing on building

healthy habits of thinking and acting. I like that thing Tyler talks about “holding yourself to a

higher standard” when you come to bootcamp and not accepting “second rate behaviour”

from yourself. It is about building a “new” identity. “New” to you but it is not new, it has been

done over and over from the beginning of time. Instead of focusing on the big biceps, think of

eating clean protein in your diet (new identity forming habit). Instead of getting laid tonight,

think of approaching the hottest group in the club and owning it. Process, not perfection. In

this process, don’t be afraid to fail big. Failing is not a habit, it is a result. You focus on habit.

Belief: Personality traits are immoveable
Most guys with a rigid mindset think whatever they have is ALL they have, that it can not be

developed. The mind tells you stories over and over and you believe them. Your mind,

always on survival mode, will convince with realistic examples that you are not good enough

for the task at hand. That you have to stick with the hand that was dealt to you. You cannot

develop beyond what you have. However there is no reason why you cannot develop new

skills or get new ones because skills are acquired by nature. You can become better at being

social, at talking with women and why not? At bedding them.

Actions speak louder than words
Habits are actions. Actions transform.

Have a game plan and stick to it, no matter what. Game plans involves schedules, short

term milestones(not results), making time so you make sure you are there. The most

powerful process oriented goal in your transformation is showing up. Showing up for yourself.

Just like the most important part of approaching is just opening your set. Sometimes it is all

you have to do and the rest flows after that.

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https://youtu.be/aceWHChRgKM


When reapproaching girls you might experience the following fears:

1.     It might be weird if I go up and talk to her after I approached her

2.     I don’t know what to say. Situation has already run its course.

3.     What if they think I am a chump with not social skills

Of course if you have spent the last decade in your room playing video games this situation

might be weird to you. As you locked yourself up in the video game world, you substituted

the real world for the fantasy world. Social interactions are not logical; they don’t follow

common sense, especially in a club full of half drunk, drugged up people where excitement

dictates how people behave. If you did spend your time in seclusion you lack the social

confidence required to take a leap into the unknown. You can’t learn these skills sitting

behind a computer screen; you have to go out in the real world and win a few and lose a few.

First time didn’t go that well
Agreed. So what. You felt you “interrupted” their fun the first time around, so why come back

for more rejection. First of all, things might not have gone down as bad as you thought. Your

fears exaggerate what happen in real life. But the more you do it the better you get at it, the

“less weird” is to talk to strangers for a second time.

Second thing, not all people in a group might be receptive to you, but some girls there wish

you had approach them instead. A second round of approaching the same group might give

you another shot at them if you didn’t talk to them the first time. .

Pretend
One problem is you don’t act normal a second time around. Pretend you never left the first

time around. Fake it big. Act as if. All of that. Tell her, “I forgot to tell you something...” add

there whatever, and keep going like nothing happened. Non verbals have to be spot on when

you deliver that line, you know, eye contact, laid back, big smile and so on. Communication

is still 90 percent non verbal on the second time around. Typical mistake is to be too hung up

on “what to say” and not on “how to say it”. Basics of human interactions.

What if you miss your second chance at her?
Taking action always comes first. Never occur to you that she might be thinking “He is

looking at me again, wonder if he would talk to me again so I can get to know him better”.

That can happen. Some would like a second look at you especially after they have been

approached by losers all night and they are home alone. Women at times think something is

wrong with them, especially if they have low self esteem which most do. They think you are

not re approaching because you didn’t like her the first time or something is wrong with her

dress or whatever. Females are highly self-conscious which is why I recommend to always

complementing on personality and not on looks. They are always comparing themselves with

the next girl and guess what...they are losing. So, try and approach her again and give her a

second chance to get to know you.

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I run daytime on Sunday almost religiously. I think no bootcamp is complete without it. I am old school like that. But I am serious. Unlike most instruction out there i believe you can close the deal on the same day or lay the ground work for a lay if you keep it simple and are not afraid to risk failure. One thing is true, most girls are busy in the day time, and most are going somewhere, still I want you to pull the trigger anyway.  What is there to lose? You can only gain when you expand her comfort zone... and yours.
She might interpret that as failure to lead instead. You don’t want to be overly cautious. She would appreciate a  guy that shows interest and he is not afraid to show it. Women are unforgiving about guys that don’t lead and talk all the time but take no concrete action. Action is key because they speak louder than words.
Boring her?
Guys don’t realize interactions die down on you. You can’t talk forever. Energy dies out and I want to you to take action early enough, while the iron is still hot. Typical mistakes include waiting until your losing traction to make your move. Early is better and if you lose a few girls so be it. I teach my students to pull the trigger for insta dates within 2 minutes of meeting a girl. Yes, they lose girls but they also hook up more that way. Once they become skilful, they become more lethal because they are building good habits for pulling. Most guys need reassurance from the girl to take action. In short interactions most girls don’t have the time yet to know whether they will sleep with you, they need more time.
Serious vs smile
Most guys’ fear symptoms show in their face. It is involuntary. You don’t know when you are doing it. A superfriendly vibe is essential in day time. People act as mirrors, whatever you give them, they give you back. It is hard to be mean to somebody who is being friendly(I don’t mean nice). Feeling uncomfortable is a requirement when you are friendly. Being too comfortable could mean you are not being friendly enough. You need to step out of comfort zone and bring an ear to ear smile. I am sure your cheeks will hurt after a while. You need it otherwise they won’t see and thus not reflect it back to you.
Text Game
I think it is over rated. Why not do things when you have her right in front of you. I always recommend calling over texting. Why? I believe you can communicate more with your tonality than with the typed words. You grow balls too. Some of the texting is done to avoid symptoms of fear. You feel safer punching words into your phone than talking directly. Unfortunately playing safe is not rewarded but punished in this game. On the other hand, go for the phone number as the last resort or at the end of a same day date, when logistics dictate.
Pickup Vibes
Give the impression that you  are being social because you are. Stop thinking, pickup tactics, attracting building and game palaver. It would put you right in your head. Instead, think of being social, think in terms of time, how long as an average are my interactions? Try and make them longer. Long interactions lead to comfort, which in turn translate into insta dates. To do that, think social dynamics over pickup. Pickup will happen for you when you are not thinking about it.
 
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I had this student who would keep having strong reactions to approaching saying that it was too weird what he was doing and that he didn’t want to do it anymore. He also had a strong bodily aversion to talking to girls on the street. At t he club level he would either back out of the approach and simply freeze in the middle of the group and claimed he choked and couldn’t talk. Nothing that I had never seen before in the field, no surprise for me. His theory was interesting about why that was. In his mind he was “advanced” due to the amount of videos and theory he knew during the years he had been in a long term relationship, which was broken now and he being single again wanted to sow his wild oats. Nothing wrong with the oats part.
All this amalgamation of pickup theory and videos in his head combined with a tendency to be a perfectionist contributed to have him paralyzed in the field. He couldn’t handle the real approaching rejections and despaired quickly. Knowing doesn’t get. If it was that easy everybody will be successful from home courses.
Another thing that seemed to not work is the demands on reality to provide success at all times. Reality doesn’t give what you want but what you deserve. It is the law of the game. There are no diplomas or nepotism like in real life. Game has its own rules.
Attitude
You have got to be small in this game. Be humble. That means being small in size  but great in ambition. It seems like a contradiction but it is not. The ambition to be successful is your drive, what makes you go out every night and try again. But you must be small in attitude. It means you have to be humble to accept the small tiny victories in the field before you get the big ones. Even at the beginning of the night you must accept whatever little success comes your way as if you won the Olympics. You must accept little victories as a premonition of big ones, even when big victories don’t appear.
Successful Types
I have trained guys with exceptional qualities for the game. They seem to be gifted. All you need to do as a coach is a little technical tweaking and they start pulling girls, getting make outs, or insta dates in day time. One thing those guys have in common is that they are ok with practicing and getting small victories. They don’t seem to mind when things don’t work out. They are also comfortable with success like they deserve it.
Low Self Esteem
People with low self esteem need constant affirmation. That’s why when they get to cold approaching they struggle. They need a constant stream of female approval. Even then it is never good enough. They will always find fault with whatever and never be happy. It seems that they need the whip all the time. Even when winning they still need a “but” to bring them down. They are bent on confirming how truly worthless they are. They won’t accept success either and usually managed to view it as a coincidence or freak occurrence. They didn’t deserve it. That’s why no amount of technical knowledge will help because it is a low self esteem issue. They self sabotage.
Negative thoughts
Negative thoughts can be transformed quite quickly and they are healthy for the average player. If you have a negative thought you must view it as a challenge to transform. Typical negative thoughts concerning “looks”, “skill level” or the like must be brought into awareness and proper attention given. They could be of use. If you think you don’t have the looks to attract hot girls, you might want to enter hot approaches with a mind to prove it wrong. You need to prove your negative thought is not true, or at least not 100 percent. You must separate negative attitude, low self esteem issues from negative thoughts.
Victim
“I am a victim” thoughts appear after long streaks of rejection. You seem to blame whoever is around for your lack of success. You may blame the venue, “too loud in here”. You need to understand it is not the loud music but yourself to blame. Other times you blame the girls, “they are bitches”. But in the very same venue you see others being successful. Attitude reassessment and adjustment is necessary. Take a quick break and situate your thoughts and focus on your breathing, bodily sensations and connect with what’s going one “inside”, not “outside”. Take responsibility. 
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