July 19th, 2018
Tyler
 
Hey there!

Ran some of the best events of my life this past weekend in New York, and now back in Los Angeles just posting this up after a relaxing night out.

Did you know that ALEXANDER has his own HOT SEAT coming soon!  This launch is going to be BIG -- click this site right now and get on the VIP list to see what the fuss is all about!!

www.alexanderhotseat.com

In addition to this, we've just released another new website this week that hosts ALL the RSDN vids, have a click over here and check out any of the amazing past RSDN videos you've missed!

www.rsdunderground.com

I've also got a stack of West Coast events coming up, including San Diego, San Francisco, and Vegas!

The schedule for the rest of my year is as follows...

October 18, 2012: San Diego
November 1, 2012: San Francisco
November 15, 2012: Albuquerque (first time in New Mexico!)
December 7, 2012: Las Vegas
December 20, 2012: Orlando
January 3, 2013: Los Angeles
January 17, 2013: Dallas
February 7, 2013: Aspen, Colorado
February 14, 2013: New Orleans
February 21, 2013: Miami

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305

Lastly, Julien and I are going to be running "5 Day Alumni-Only Bootcamps" in New Orleans for Mardis Gras, and Miami South Beach during the infamous "Model Season" this Spring. So if you're considering attending then start looking into it now!

www.modelseasonbootcamp.com

(We haven't created a page for the Mardis Gras event but you can have a look at the above site for Miami...)

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So I'm aware that you're probably used to me posting up several hours of material every Wednesday at this point, but sadly today I only have 2 shorter video blogs for you to go through.

I actually have a long version of the NYC Free Tour that I wanted to release, but we didn't get it cut on time so we're going with these 2 for now!

They're good though!  The first is on what I learned from my bone headed mistake of forgetting my microphone in Los Angeles as a result of allowing myself to become distracted by drama from some girls.

I allowed myself to become distracted, which is very unlike an icy cold pimp like myself, and so decided to put myself IN CHECK -- publicly for YOU on camera. :)

A lot of what I say in here is probably pretty interesting, because yes I'm a nice guy, but I've chosen to follow what I believe are very firm rules when it comes to how I conduct myself with women.  I believe that these are in fact win/win for both you and the girl, because for her to be with a man who she's truly attracted to she has to know that he's on his path and in control of himself.

Putting up with second class behaviour, BOTH from yourself or your woman, has zero value at all.

Anyway let's check out what I had to say on this, it's pretty interesting and even shows me strolling into Hot Seat.

(I was trying to "get creative" as far as creating a video while not having the necessary equipement, I think it came out pretty cool...)

CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO DISCOVER THE SECRETS OF TRANSCENDING BOTH RELATIONSHIP DRAMA AND DRAMA IN YOUR OWN HEAD


btw I thought I'd also mention that Julien is a pretty "drama free" fellow as well.

When I used the word "drama" in this I FORGOT that it's recently become a bit of a RSD buzzword.  So partway through I remembered and wanted to mention that I was using the term "drama" as far as just distractions from girls.

Julien throws the bullshit AT the girls to amuse himself and keep them on the hook while he travels the world, he's not looking to RECEIVE bullshit from them and allow himself to LOSE FOCUS from it, which is what I did here. :)

The walk to the Hot Seat scene was also a lot longer but I cut it shorter cause I wasn't sure how it would look, but I figured I'd try to use the "no mic / no tripod" to my advantage and get creative, as it's my policy to record at least one new vBlog in every city I visit for the time being.

(I'm all about finding solutions, not whining that something can't get done.)

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Next is a video I shot beneath the new "Freedom Tower" that's being built in NYC.

I was really impressed by the building as I taxied into the city from the New Jersey Airport and could see it looming over the city and even taller than Empire State!

At night time it has these Christmas Tree light looking lights all over it that make it look really eery and interesting, so I wanted to shoot it WHILE it's being built so that for years in the future when it's fully built I'll have this to look at and remember what it looked like.

Anyway what I didn't realize was that COPS don't like it when people are roaming around the World Trade Centre at 3AM in the morning and so a group of 5 of them (and 2 police cars) surrounded us and just sat there staring about 4 feet away from the camera -- weirdly infringing on our space to mess with the flow.

I nearly bounced because I didn't want to open myself up to any problems, but then I realized one of my own principles which is ASSUME ALL ATTENTION IS POSITIVE and always TAKE NOTHING PERSONAL!

This is kinda funny cause Julien just shot a video on the same topic (taking nothing personally) and I saw the video as soon as I got home, so I guess we're still having a lot of the same reinforcement of ideas!

Anyway the challenge was not letting the group of COPS distract me from the video or mess with my head, so I challenged myself to shoot the video with the NYPD as my audience and assumed they wanted to learn about RSD. :)

The video has some great points and I also rigged in a funny clip with a fat girl who starts by dissing me and then when I don't take it personally rationalizes she was "just kidding". :)

Funny how that works.

CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO LEARN ABOUT ASSUMING ALL ATTENTION IS POSITIVE, AND TAKING NOTHING PERSONALLY!


btw the BIG THING I forgot to add into this video is how it correlates into OPENING.

If you assume all attention is positive, the second a girl "eye fucks" you, you wind up opening!

Meanwhile so many guys get attention from girls and just can't allow it into their reality, and the girl who wanted their attention winds up sauntering into the sunset.

Uggggh, SO BAD!!  And I bet you've done it a million times, am I right? :)  We all do, at times.

I'll make a separate video on this topic at some point for sure, or maybe lace it into the newbie site.

Anyway hopefully you've got the idea.

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Okay so I'm off to bed and will be doing another round of the Joe Rogan pumped "float tank" tomorrow to recharge.

In the meantime the ALEXANDER HOT SEAT is also coming up soon, so you can expect a ton of videos coming from him about it that should have some pretty exciting stuff.

Remember to get onto...

www.alexanderhotseat.com

And I'll be back soon with that bomb NYC Free Tour video and whatever I record in San Diego this coming week!

HIT ME WITH COMMENTS ABOUT WHAT YOU THOUGHT OF THE "DRAMA" AND "ASSUME ATTENTION IS POSITIVE" TOPICS!!  I WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!!!

As always, thanks for checking out my article and I'll talk to you soon!  Have a great week!

Tyler
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Julien
 
"Yo…"

"Hello…"

"Hi there…"

"Why hello there…"


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU)

I really have to say, it's been one crazy last couple of weeks...

Adventures...

Epiphanies...


But most importantly, INSANELY AMAZING Live Programs taught by none other than Alexander~ and myself... ;]


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKJ_4KGeIV0)

We're going to be running one last program together in London this year, so if you're located anywhere nearby and if you're interested in getting in on all of our latest pickup technology than I highly recommend that you DO NOT miss out on this unique opportunity!

Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates…

October 11 – 13, 2012: Edinburgh, Scotland
October 25 – 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom (taught with Alexander~)
November 8 – 10, 2012: Rotterdam, Netherlands
November 15 – 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
November 22 – 24, 2012: Kiev, Ukraine
November 29 – December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 6 – 8, 2012: Budapest, Hungary
December 13 – 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com


You can also check out all of the cities that I'm going to be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.

In other news, I also have the pleasure to announce the official launch of our brand new RSD UNDERGROUND website!

A collection of all of your favorite videos by all of your favorite instructors... Just one click away!

Check it out RIGHT NOW!

www.rsdunderground.com


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So...

On that note, let's crack into today's topic of discussion...

How To Create Massive Amounts Of Drama And GET AWAY WITH IT!

I've been working on this particular segment for quite some time now; really polishing it down and trying to make it as best as it can be.

And this is really what allows me to do all of the things that I do infield.

This is what allows me to bend the rules of the game.

I would never be able to get away with any the things that I do without these understandings.

This is probably one of the most potent Youtube videos that I've released so far...

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS THE SECRETS TO MAKING EVERY GIRL CHASE YOU EVEN AFTER SAYING THE MOST OUTRAGEOUS LINES:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qBkXWTWAyJc)


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The last video that I thought that I'd leave you with here today is on a topic that I just see too many guys get caught up on: 

"TAKING THINGS TOO GODDAMN PERSONALLY!"

Give me a fucking break... ;]

Letting Go Of The External Results To Achieve Internal Results

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW AND NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT FEELING BAD AFTER ANY REJECTION, EVER AGAIN:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T-E3XM2ISv8)


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PS: Let me know what you think of this video and if you have any specific topics that you’d like to hear me cover in any future RSDNATION article!

PPS: And as always, don’t forget to check out the Hot Seat 2 event dates over at www.rsdhotseat.com as well!

United States
October 20, 2012: San Diego, CA, USA
November 3, 2012: San Francisco, California, USA
November 17, 2012: Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA
December 8, 2012: Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
December 22, 2012: Orlando, Florida, USA

Europe
October 13, 2012: Edinburgh, United Kingdom
October 20, 2012: Dublin, Ireland
October 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom
November 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
November 24, 2012: Kiev, Ukraine
December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 8, 2012: Budapest, Hungary
February 2, 2012: Helsinki, Finland

Middle East
December 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
January 5, 2013: Dubai, United Arab Emirates

South Africa
January 12, 2013: Cape Town, South Africa
January 19, 2013: Johannesburg, South Africa

www.rsdhotseat.com


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WWW.JULIENLIFE.COM

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www.youtube.com/RSDJulien
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Tyler
 
Hey I just finished up a phenomenal set of programs here in NYC and wanted to unveil this new site to you as soon as possible.

It's a video archive of free RSD videos that we created back in 2006 (and has been gathering dust ever since...) called "RSD Underground"!

This was actually the first website I ever envisioned and had built, back in 2006 before Youtube Channels were well known as being popular.

I massively mismanaged the project and wound up learning more of how NOT to create a new website, then wound up shelving it on the backburner for 6 years.

(To the point where most of the technology is outdated: like Flash -- BLAH for Apple users, sorry!).

Then recently I was thinking to myself "Even though I never built the site to what I intended, I may as well release it AS IS rather than letting it sit there another 6 years..." so finally decided to do a few tweaks and post it up.

There's a lot that I'd improve about it personally -- no full screen on the vids, a few vids don't query properly from Youtube, etc -- but enjoy it for what it is!  I do NOT have any time / interest in improving it further but I think it's better to have it up than not. :)

So without further ado, here is the new site that I failed to get up since 2006 LOL *facepalm*.

www.rsdunderground.com

Tyler
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jlaix
 
Greetings, homosexuals. Jeffrey here cruising along in a tin can at an altitude of thirty six thousand feet next to an obese person; what better time to compose yet another lovely missive for the readership of RSD Nation?

Just wrapped a glorious 10 student bootcamp in New York City with Owen, Brad and Todd, now headed home for a brief respite before sauntering out once more for a sold out program in Toronto, then back to Cali to run another with Owen in San Diego (two spots left!) and then back up to the great white north for a Calgary program, also sold out. From there, I got these dates up on the schedule:

November 2-4: San Francisco
November 9-11: San Francisco
November 15-17: Los Angeles
November 22-24: Seattle
November 29-Dec2: Vancouver
December 6-8: Las Vegas (w/ Tyler)
December 28-30: San Francisco
January 3-5: Los Angeles
January 10-12: Atlanta
January 18-20: San Francisco
January 24-26: Austin
February 1-2: San Francisco


So anyway, for this week's article I was going to record a video about PIMP GAME, but I didn't get around to it before I had to fly out for NYC, mostly due to my rigorous schedule of meaningless sex.

It's funny because it's true.

But yeah, no video means no article right? Wrong... I have a fairly large backlog of video from my travels last year that I never got around to editing, so I dug into the archives to see what I could see. Most of what I found was relatively uninspiring to me, so I was all like "FUK DIS SHIT." However, I did uncover a short blog I shot with Alex last November in Sydney that kind of grabbed me by the booboo. In it, I discuss a fairly common question posited by newbies who come into the community having read "The Game."

These guys come in with an idea that it's all about canned material and so forth and are then faced with this esoteric "nu-RSD" (which isn't so new at this point really but wevs) stuff and are a bit taken aback. They come onto the forum, ask about tactics, and are ripped a new anus hole by the regular users.

"But wait," they plead, "Tyler and Jeffy learned game with routines back in the day! That's how they got good.... doesn't it make sense that i should start off with them as well, like training wheels? Herpity derpity dee!"

So yes, in this short video, I address these concerns.... check it:



So there you have it. Nothing really super earth shattering, I wanted to record something that I could post in threads when this comes up in the future; a sort of "video macro" if you will.

However, that's not the real reason that I wanted to post this video up.

See, when I watched the video, i was struck by a couple things: number one, how bizarre my haircut looks, and number two (hurr durr NUMBER TWO), how goddamn FAT and UNHEALTHY I appear.

This video was shot at the extreme tail end of my World Hotseat Tour last year, and things had gotten a bit out of hand. Looking at it now, it seems glaringly obvious that this haircut was bizarre to the point of being DETRIMENTAL. Hell, they wouldn't even let me into the bar in Perth, citing a "no mullet/no rattail policy" designed to keep bogans out. (Take note: while this appearance didn't affect my game with girls so much, it certainly affected my DOOR GAME)

At the time however, I really didn't notice... the thing is, if you're not on top of your shit with CONSISTENT HABITS, things can creep sideways slowly and you won't even be aware that you're slipping until it's too late.

Next thing you know, you look up and you're some fat pasty with a dead rodent attached to your head.

So after i got home from AusFAILia, I trimmed the mullet down to something resembling a human's hair, and resolved to get back in fighting form. I spent the next eight months fine tuning my diet and gym habits, creating a schedule and sticking to it religously, while of course also having massive massive amounts of random sex. Yup. Oh, and laying out in the sun regularly as well. I said in the video "we will see what happens," and this is what happened:

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Now, for those of you who have been following RSD for some time, you may recall a similar photograph being posted back in 2006, when I did the original "Summer of Ripped Abs."

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And you may be asking yourself, "DAYYUM SON WTF HAPPENED?"

What happened was: the methods I employed to get in shape back in the day were simply not sustainable LONG TERM.

See, since that original Summer of Ripped Abs, I've had several "yo-yo" cycles where I've slipped and gotten chubby then "fixed" it again. The thing that sucks about this is, every time you get fat, it becomes harder to get it off and easier to get fat again. Look up something called "adipose hyperplasia"... basically when you get fat, your fat cells multiply. When you lose it, those cells decrease in size, but remain present in the body... they're there to stay, and ready to plump up at a moment's notice.

Scary stuff. Hell, it even SOUNDS scary. ADIPOSE HYPERPLASIA, BITCHES.

So this time around, i took a hard look at all the variables involved and saw where I slipped up in the previous cycles.

First off, I noticed that I had injured myself several times while lifting weights. Lower back, shoulders, knee, etc etc. Each time one of these injuries occured, I was forced out of the gym for months, causing me to slip back into fat town.

I used to go really really hard in the gym... like five days a week lifting with elaborate muscle splits. After several months, the inevitable injury would occur and boom, I'm set back and end up WORSE than before. So this time, I decided to dial the volume back hard. I do a modified version of Jim Wendler's 5/3/1 program of progressive loading where I go TWO days a week. That's it. Squats and bench one week, Deads and overhead press the following week, repeat. Mild assistance exercises. If I'm feeling run down, I'll omit the assitance shit. If anything feels weird while I'm lifting... not even painful, mind you, just WEIRD... I'm DONE for the day, I just leave. I've had too many instances where I felt some twinge and wrote it off as nothing and powered through the workout, only to wake up the next day FUCKED. I do cardio six days week (3 steady state sessions, 3 HIIT sessions) and abs six days a week. This might seem like a lot of cardio and not enough lifting, and that's what I thought too when I looked at the program, but honestly I think most guys could use more cardio. And this also allows for the inevitable weeks here and there where I'm traveling and skip the gym entirely. In fact, I think these occasional weeks off are great to de-load the central nervous system. The whole point being SUSTAINABILITY.

Now I realize that when I post pics like this, I'm gonna get the inevitable comments from dudes "herp derp you don't even look dat good bro I lift hard durr" and you know what? my response to that is "FUCK YOU." I don't give a shit. I'm thirty six fucking years old, I just want to be healthy, not the goddamned Hulk. That's not my priority and if it's yours that great. I just want to stay uninjured. If I could go back in time and give my younger self advice about the gym it would be "Keep your volume low and your intensity high." Why? because you have to look at the BIG PICTURE, and see what's going to be realistic long term. Slow and steady truly wins the race. As Wendler himself says, "I don't need to be strong tomorrow... I want to be strong when I'm 60."

And for the record, by San Francisco standards, I basically AM the Hulk. lol scrawny nerds all up in this shit, I slap a hipster on the side of the head and break his fuckin neck.

Ok, so then there's the diet. You may recall that back in 2006, part of my regimen involved abstaining from alcohol. Of course, that wasn't going to last. Are you fucking kidding me? Give me a fuckin break... I'm a gastronome, baby. I live in what is possibly the best city in the world for "foodies" (shit I can't believe I just wrote that gah shoot me now) and oenophiles. World of winecraft. Shiiit, I eat out three to five nights a week. And now we have this new trend of mixology all over the place... every new restaurant that opens up isn't just measured on their food, but on the cocktail program as well. Yes, they have to have a special dude who runs a special department in the restaurant that just does cocktails. The bar is set very high (no pun intended). I fuckin love this shit man.

So again, looking at the variables I came to the following conclusion.... I could either up my cardio, which would mean increasing volume and thus increasing likelihood of injury/boredom etc causing me to drop out of my fitness regimen entirely, or I could quit drinking... which, let's face it, AINT GONNA HAPPEN.

We could argue here "yo man just willpower it up man, you're just making excuses blah blah blah." Fair enough, but look... I'm THIRTY SIX FUCKING YEARS OLD, I KNOW MYSELF at this point, and it's simply NOT REALISTIC.

So I found a work around. Brad turned me on to this whole "intermittent fasting" craze and I looked into it... and basically, what I found is that if I followed that program, it gave me enough caloric wiggle room that I could go out to nice restaurants and have some wine with dinner and still keep in shape.

Now, I've sort of hit a plateau where I realize that if I wanted to get a true six pack, I'd have to cut out the booze and shit entirely. But again, I don't give a fuck about that, that's not my goal. I just want to be reasonably lean and strong, and stay uninjured, and still enjoy life while I'm kicking around on this rock.

I mean, who knows, maybe I'll get a wild hair up my ass in a few months and really decide to shred down to <10% bodyfat just for fun. But right now I'm cool with this whole scenario.

The point here being, whatever your goals are, whether it's fitness, finances, or success with women, when you are developing a plan to achieve them, it has to be realistic. You need to be honest with yourself and say, is this something that, knowing how I am, is going to be realistic LONG TERM. Otherwise, you're going to get stuck in these continual "yo yo" cycles which can be quite disheartening and might even cause you to throw in the towel entirely.

Anyway, that's it for this week. I've got some new shit in the pipeline including a video tour of the van and a comprehensive look at books dealing with the topic of PIMP GAME, and I should likely have the next one up next Sunday. But honestly I'm thinking that I might just switch to an every other week model of frontpage posting.

It just seems more sustainable. lol

See you next time.

-j
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Tyler
 
I'm prepping to go to NEW YORK CITY tomorrow morning!!

I love these trips and if you're within driving distance of NYC I'll see you at the Penn Hotel across from Madison Square Garden on Thursday at 7PM for the Free fuckkkken TOUR!!

Brad, Jeff, Todd, Papa, and myself will be at the event -- like a "mini World Summit".  We'll probably try to shoot some video blogs in the city together while we're all there.

Then the Bootcamp students will also have a grip of our best assistants / natural friends on the case as well, many whom have more success with girls than we do (like these guys are totally incredible).

Hot Seat NYC promises to be a blast as well!  If you're planning on attending any of these events, I'll see you this weekend!

The schedule for the rest of my year is as follows...

October 4, 2012: New York City
October 18, 2012: San Diego
November 1, 2012: San Francisco
November 15, 2012: Albuquerque (first time in New Mexico!)
December 7, 2012: Las Vegas
December 20, 2012: Orlando
January 3, 2013: Los Angeles
January 17, 2013: Dallas
February 7, 2013: Aspen, Colorado
February 14, 2013: New Orleans
February 21, 2013: Miami

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305

Lastly, Julien and I are going to be running "5 Day Alumni-Only Bootcamps" in New Orleans for Mardis Gras, and Miami South Beach during the infamous "Model Season" this Spring. So if you're considering attending then start looking into it now!

www.modelseasonbootcamp.com

(We haven't created a page for the Mardis Gras event but you can have a look at the above site for Miami...)

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So!!

2 REALLY GOOD videos today.  Both really funny and off the wall.

The first is an "street game tutorial" that I shot late at night (last few minutes of Bootcamp) at Hermosa Beach in Los Angeles.

Hermosa is a chill spot with laid back girls, not the typical "Hollywood" vibe.   But it's a great place to teach how to do "moving sets" of girls on the street because there's that big open space with people moving through it the entire night.

I'd say that out of anything I'm good at in game, it's approaching moving girls on the street.  You've probably noticed in a lot of my vblogs how fluid I am with it (think back to previous infield clips in the vids) and it comes from the months I used to spend in London's Leicester Square.

I also began all this doing daygame back in college so it was a skill that I had to build at that time.  Anyway I offer a tutorial about it here which I know you'll enjoy.

CLICK THIS VIDEO HERE FOR A TUTORIAL ON HOW TO APPROACH MOVING GIRLS ON THE STREET!


Interestingly, I'm sure you probably took more note of the funny fat guy incident, or infield orgy scenario.

But there's a lot of deeper info going on in this video.  I created it to be a bit hard to follow for anyone who DOES NOT go out -- simply because I feel that this information is "hard earned" and that only someone who goes out deserves to know about it.

So if you go out and watch it about 10 times, you'll see the distinctions go apply them to benefit from the results.

(I know you'll gain a ton out of this from my own thousands upon thousands of hours of street game, as well as having coached it.)

Beyond all that, the point at the end about "taking ownership" of the open, and not hiding behind some technique that you learned online, is also equally important.

Even a fucking HANDSHAKE -- as far as I'm concerned -- can be a guy following a "technique".

Because he's not really owning it, he's stuck in his head just throwing it out there because he read it somewhere, not actually GENUINE about shaking the girls' hand.

Then when she isn't receptive to it, he doesn't calibrate in the moment, because his "awareness" is trapped in self monitoring and inner thoughts, as opposed to staying out of his head and "adjusting in the moment".

See this all the time, and hey, on really intimidating girls, this can be ME as well!

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Next up is a pretty funny RANT about the scene in Los Angeles.

This speech actually raised some really deep points about "non resistance" to all the bullshit in the game

So I start out by deeply describing all the bullshit in a really funny way.

But then Todd's camera went out on me, and I LOST all the points about the spiritual insights you gain from this, and how it helps you to get girls.

So the video wound up cutting more as like a half hour comedy about the bullshit of pickup in LA, and BRIEFLY mentions the deeper insights you gain out of it.

Then I beefed it up with another segment from the talk where I reveal my first sexual experiences in the game as an awkward newbie, just as a bonus since it's pretty funny and I felt the clip was cut short.

Overall though I think you'll find it to be one of the best clips I've put out as far as entertainment, and the overall insights are decent enough to be worthwhile.  Have a look!

CLICK HERE TO TYLER REVEAL THE ULTIMATE BULLSHIT OF PULLING GIRLS IN LOS ANGELES, AND HIS FIRST SEXUAL EXPERIENCES AS AN AWKWARD NEWBIE IN THE PUA COMMUNITY


Hope you enjoyed this!

btw I do a lot of off the cuff jokes and stories at "Free Tour" so that as a younger speaker, I can experiment around with spinning material out of thin air.

This is why I love the "Free Tour" format -- if it was a PAID event I couldn't justify going on silly tangents like this, because it would be unprofessional and people would be like "People PAY to hear this?"

But as a FREE event people are like "Yeah this is entertaining, has some decent info, and it's fun to watch."

This was how I envisioned the Free Tour back in the day -- I get to develop my speaking with various experiments so that when get older I'll have a stronger background in all this, and the audience gets entertainment and pickup insights at a free live event.

(Not to mention if you attend live, you meet tons of wings, and meet instructors personally.  Being there live has a great vibe.)

Anyway hopefully you enjoyed it!

Here's what I'm listening to now as I type this btw...

These were shot in Los Angeles so may as well crack out the new Dr. Dre.


Old man Dre's keeping up with young Kendrick on this, who is one of the best lyricists I've ever heard -- bet it was tough.

Psyched for the Kendrick Lamar album apparently it's out October 22 -- "Good kid in a mad city" -- thought I'd mention it since there's not exactly a ton of "real hip hop" coming out these days.

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Lastly before I kick out of here, there's 3 old videos where I have great examples of "street game opens" that you can check out if you haven't seen them.

Also if you HAVE seen them I'd say watch them AGAIN with the context that I explained in the first vid -- you'll pick up something new.

Check the last 2 minutes of this one, how I open her on the street...


And then 3 minutes into this one there's a great street open as described in the Hermosa video as well...


And lastly there's a great street open at 1:40 of this one as well, which is an example of "just be clear in WHATEVER you do..."


I was thinking of cutting these lil clips into the street game video, but figured I'd just repost the original vBlogs into this thread.

Some good reinforcement in there, get out and apply this stuff TONIGHT!!!!

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So I'm off to go pack up my bags and grab a few hours of sleep before New York City!!

Totally psyched out of my mind to get out there, and if you have any ideas for video blog shooting locations lemme know!

Please comment about what you learned from the 2 videos -- I'd love your thoughts on street game as well as getting your elbows deep in the mud in the game!!  I want to know what you think!!

Thanks for reading this and I'll talk to you soon!  Have a great week!

Tyler
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Julien
 
"What's up RSDNation!"

I've just successfully finished wrapping up yet another KICK-ASS Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp here in Stockholm, with none other than Alexander~!

These programs have really been off the hook and we're going to be doing it all over again THIS WEEKEND in Oslo, Norway.

So, if you're interested in attending one of the VERY LAST series of events that we're going to be running together this year, then I highly recommend that you DO NOT miss out!

Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates as well…

October 4 – 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway (taught with Alexander~)
October 11 – 13, 2012: Edinburgh, Scotland
October 25 – 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom (taught with Alexander~ and Ozzie)
November 8 – 10, 2012: Rotterdam, Netherlands
November 15 – 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
November 22 – 24, 2012: Kiev, Ukraine
November 29 – December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 6 – 8, 2012: Budapest, Hungary
December 13 – 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com


You can also check out all of the cities that I'm going to be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.


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So...

Let's keep things simple and straightforward... ;]

Be Shameless To Get The Girl: Taking Your Game To The Next Level

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS THE NECESSARY SKILLSET THAT YOU NEED TO CULTIVATE FOR YOURSELF IN ORDER TO TAKE YOUR GAME TO THE NEXT LEVEL AND GET THE RESULTS YOU’VE ALWAYS DREAMED OF:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3RHrclmyC8)

This is really what achieving an elite level of game is all about, in my opinion...

This is the type of level of game that you should continuously strive for...

And, of course...

THIS IS WHAT ULTIMATELY GETS YOU LAID.

There's always going to be a certain "baseline" of game that you're going to have to internalize for any of this to work in the first place, but this is ultimately the type of skillset that you're going to have to cultivate in order to achieve true success with women.

You can spend as much time as you want working on internalizing the core fundamentals of game, but if you're not proactively going out and approaching women then you're not going to be getting the types of results that you've always dreamed of!

Girls are not just going to simply start jumping on your dick because you've now become someone who's self-actualized and who's on his purpose and path in life.

You can't just walk in a venue and scream out "Hey, I'm now present to the moment!" and expect girls to just start fucking you...

You need something more than that.

As Tyler would say...

WELCOME TO THE ART OF PIMPITRY.

;]


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Tyler
 
Hey sorry for the late release on this, I wound up having to reupload BOTH of the videos!

I've just come back from the Chicago events which were absolutely awesome. The Saturday night of Bootcamp was one of the wildest of my life. OUT OF CONTROL!!

Here's the list of my Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamps for the rest of the years.

NEW YORK I'll see you next week!! Spread the word about Free Tour to the local groups! It's gonna have Jeff, Brad, Todd, and myself in da hood -- very rare to have so many RSD guys onhand, it's like a mini World Summit!!

October 4, 2012: New York City
October 18, 2012: San Diego
November 1, 2012: San Francisco
November 15, 2012: Albuquerque (first time in New Mexico!)
December 7, 2012: Las Vegas
December 20, 2012: Orlando
January 3, 2013: Los Angeles
January 17, 2013: Dallas
February 7, 2013: Aspen, Colorado
February 14, 2013: New Orleans
February 21, 2013: Miami

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305


Lastly, Julien and I are going to be running "5 Day Alumni-Only Bootcamps" in New Orleans for Mardis Gras, and Miami South Beach during the infamous "Model Season" this Spring. So if you're considering attending then start looking into it now!

www.modelseasonbootcamp.com

(We haven't created a page for the Mardis Gras event but you can have a look at the above site for Miami...)

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Okay so the first video today is on the topic of the "Illusion of group think".

This is a really intense topic, because it basically points towards the ILLUSION that perceived-status creates in your mind.

Ultimately this is a topic of spiritual enlightenment. As your own spiritual evolution proceeds forward (if you're interested) you'll find you naturally come to the understandings I'm going to reveal here.

But funny enough I don't mention that in the video, because I don't know if anyone really cares about that. :)

What's more important is how it helps you not to get sucked into a belief of having lower value around hot girls, and how it allows you to step to hot women with FULL CONFIDENCE.

It's also what makes you a MAN -- like it's hard to date really hot women if you don't "get" this stuff. Because without these understandings, you're basically like this little idiot who puts her on a pedastal when in reality all hot girls are nothing more than CUTE LITTLE BRATS!! :)

(Joking, and yet....NOT JOKING!! Cause from your perspective as the man fucking her, SHE IS A CUTE LITTLE FUCKING BRAT!)

i released this on Youtube earlier in the week, and have since re-uploaded it with some new stuff on the end.

CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO HAVE YOUR EYES OPENED AS TO THE ILLUSION OF GROUP THINK, SO YOU CAN BE A MAN AROUND HOT GIRLS AND NOT A LAPDOG BITCH.


Fun stuff huh?

btw at some point I'll release a proper video blog on the topic of "Why I didn't like math growing up" and how it relates to why I'm able to absorb massive amounts of information and learn at a rapid rate today.

I'm currently able to absorb, and more importantly, internalize and UTILIZE new information faster than I've ever been able to do in my life.

And I'll properly explain why, instead of just randomly yelling "Math is dumb!" (when I don't actually think that, and rather just think it's not useful for me personally to spend lots of time internalizing advanced math beyond what I need on a practical level.)

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Anyway next up is a video on success barriers, and it's actually a very advanced concept that I'm revealing here but sort of glossing over it.

I go into my theory of WHY success barriers exist in the first place, and the role of the modern self help movement in blasting you through them.

This has very deep implications if you spend some time thinking about it. But OTOH feel free just to enjoy the humor and take whatever from it that you're inclined. :)

CLICK HERE TO DISCOVER MY THEORY ON WHY SUCCESS BARRIERS EXIST, AND SOME THOUGHTS ON WHAT TO DO IF YOUR FRIENDS AREN'T INTERESTED IN STEPPING UP.


Okay so give that some thought over the coming weeks, and try to see where YOU are engaging in the same behaviour.

It's all good to look at other people's success barriers, but my tip for you is this: Any time you see other people fucking up, ask yourself where you do the same.

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Alrighty I'm off to bed, and will be up early to prepare a bunch of surprises for the upcoming NEW YORK events next week! If you're in or near NYC I'll see you there!

Please let me know your thoughts on the 2 videos! What did you learn from them, and what are your experiences with the whole "illusion of group think" towards perceived status, and success barriers among your friends?

Hit me back and I'll check it out!

Got a pretty wild vBlog recorded "in the field" in LA as well as the LA Free Tour video about the "elbows in the mud grind of the game" coming up next week. So keep your head up for that!

Thanks for reading, have a great week and I'll see you soon!

Tyler
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Julien
 
"How's it going?!"

"Greetings from Stockholm..."

Woah...

I've just arrived here a couple of hours ago and I wanted to quickly let you know that I've just realized that we're now slowly approaching THE END of the Hot Seat 2 tour, with only a few more months to go!

So, as always, if you're interested in attending one of the very last events that I'm going to be running featuring mind-blowing INFIELD FOOTAGE of Tyler and myself then I highly recommend that you DO NOT miss out...

www.rsdhotseat.com

United States
October 6, 2012: New York, New York, USA
October 20, 2012: San Diego, CA, USA
November 3, 2012: San Francisco, California, USA
November 17, 2012: Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA
December 8, 2012: Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
December 22, 2012: Orlando, Florida, USA

Europe
September 29, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden
October 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway
October 13, 2012: Edinburgh, Scotland
October 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom
November 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
November 24, 2012: Kiev, Ukraine
December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 8, 2012: Budapest, Hungary
January 26, 2012: Gothenburg, Sweden
February 2, 2012: Helsinki, Finland

Middle East
December 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
January 5, 2013: Dubai, United Arab Emirates

South Africa
January 12, 2013: Cape Town, South Africa
January 19, 2013: Johannesburg, South Africa

www.rsdhotseat.com

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY SEEN THIS OFFICIAL PREVIEW FOR THE EVENT:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU)

Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates as well…

September 27 – 29, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden (taught with Alexander~)
October 4 – 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway (taught with Alexander~)
October 11 – 13, 2012: Edinburgh, Scotland
October 25 – 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom (taught with Ozzie)
November 8 – 10, 2012: Rotterdam, Netherlands
November 15 – 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com


You can also check out all of the cities that I'm going to be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.


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So...

On that note...

Let's crack into it... ;]

What Makes Me An Elite Player: Training Yourself To Be Unreactive

CLICK
 ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS ONE OF THE BEST KEPT SECRETS IN THE GAME AS WELL AS THE ONLY REASON WE'RE ULTIMATELY ABLE TO DO WHAT WE DO WHEN IT COMES TO ACHIEVING TRUE SUCCESS WITH WOMEN: 


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4GPSfH9F1Ug)

Click HERE to view the "Tenacious D" photo mentioned in the Youtube video here above.

This is what achieving true success with women is really all about...

PROGRESSIVELY DESENSITIZING YOURSELF THROUGH MASSIVE AMOUNTS OF REFERENCE EXPERIENCES.

The REAL SECRET to the game, if you will. 

And this is the only reason that we're ultimately able to do the things that we do.

THROUGH MASSIVE AMOUNTS OF REFERENCE EXPERIENCES.

I wrote an article about this a while back that I'm sure will spark your interest as well, titled:

What Is Game? REFERENCE EXPERIENCES

Check it out right now!

Now, one thing that I would like to add to this video in order to avoid any kind of misconceptions is that breaking out of your comfort zone and getting new reference experiences isn't always what you think...

It's quite common for some guys to misinterpret all of this and think that breaking out of your comfort zone and getting new reference experiences just means boldly throwing yourself into all sorts of crazy situations over and over again hoping that at some point everything is just going to click for you...

Well, it's not.

If you think that you're going to achieve true success with women by solely by saying or doing crazy things over and over again while approaching and interacting with women, then you're going to be in for a rude awakening...

What you have to realize is that there is a DEEPER layer to it all.

And this is where the misconception stems from...

Getting good at game doesn't mean doing the next crazy thing or learning the next crazy tip or technique.

That's just the SURFACE layer of it all. 

It's a necessity, yes... But you have to focus on the deeper layer of it all as well.

You can't just be expanding your comfort zone while solely focusing on the outer game without letting the inner game catch up to it. 

You have to be growing on both levels.

Instead of working expanding your game, start working on densifying it instead.

Getting Good At Game... Not What You Think...

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT EXPLORES THIS CONCEPT INTO FURTHER DEPTH AND REVEALS WHAT IT REALLY MEANS TO EXPAND YOUR COMFORT ZONE:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cdUM0FoJszU)

Let me know what you think of the videos and if you have any specific topics that you’d like to hear me cover in any future RSDNATION article!


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jlaix
 
 What's up RSD Nation. Jeffy here, doing my part to keep the front page clear of pictures of men in hotel rooms talking to cameras with dirty shirts on. HEAR ME GUYS? Enough with the stupid video stills of your ugly mugs, people want to see titties, not men gesticulating at Sheratons. Unless it's Brad, then of course everyone wants to see that. But still.

I'm coming at you bright and early from my home in San Francisco on this Sunday morning, the day of the infamous leather BDSM Folsom Street Fair. You may recall the bootcamp success story where we tookt he guy tpo this fair a couple years ago and fucked three girls in the van.

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/165439
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No bootcamp this weekend, but I'll be starting up another North American tour beginning next month... if I'm coming to your city this is your chance to hit up a program with a ten year veteran of the bootcamp game. I'm hitting this shit hard, so check it out:

October 4-7: New York City, NY
October 11-13: Toronto, ON
October 25-27: Calgary, AL
November 22-24: Seattle, WA
November 29 - Dec 1: Denver, CO
January 10-12: Atlanta, GA
January 24-26: Austin, TX
February 7-9: New Orleans, LA
February 21-23: Washington, DC


The van has been pre-parked overnight near the festival gates and I'm about to gather the crew of retards to begin our assault, but first things first... just wanted to post up today's video.

With this vid, I wanted to clear up some misconceptions that I feel might exist with regard to my conduct on the forum.

Often times, people seem to get the impression from my forum posts that I'm just sitting at my keyboard at home, gleefully trolling users out of some innate desire to be a malicious fuckhole. The bare fact of the matter, however, is that I am doing this for their own good.

From time to time you will see me post lengthy, well thought out replies to people's questions with relevant and useful information... when I do this, it's because I get the sense that the user is actually going out and has committed himself to learning this stuff, come hell or high water.

However, the vast majority of questions you see on the forum are straight up ignorant, and I mean that in the sense that they are asking questions that the answers to which would be glaringly obvious to anyone who was going out with regularity... or questions that would not even be RELEVANT to a guy who was going out and hitting up girls consistently.

This is what is meant when I say those three little words: GET MORE GIRLS. Anyway, the video explains it, check it out:



When I say "GET MORE GIRLS" what I am doing is encouraging them to stop RESISTING the idea of this as a lifestyle.

Of course, this can be taken too far... and I'm probably living proof of that lol. My Primary GF just dumped my fuckin ass yesterday, because I'm so enmeshed in this lifestyle it will be impossible to extricate myself from it until I stop doing this job, which seems unlikely at least for the near future.

It pisses me off because I gave the girl everything, and at the end of the day, none of that means shit in the face of the SOCIALLY CONDITIONED NARRATIVE. "But.... but he puts his weener in other girls hoo ha! This is not right"... in SPITE OF the FACT that I was probably the best, most caring "boyfriend" this woman had ever had.

But nope, doesn't matter, she's sick of "waiting around" for me (to do something that she knew would never happen from the beginning) and so I'm doneskis. I predict she will get a nice fat lawyer chode BF that the friends can approve of because he is not scumbag, within two months. Had fun with the bad boy, now time to chode up with the homogenous douche who will be monogamous (of course he will likely cheat on the side if he gets the opportunity but hey as long as it's ON THE DL no harm done I guess)

I guess it goes to show... you can't be half a gangster, nor can you be 87.5 percent of a gangster evidently. lol. Next experiment will be to see if I can get away with being 93.75 percent a gangster.

I talk about this shit all the time with the pimp "cop and blow" stuff... in this lifestyle, you have to be constantly copping new girls, because they are constantly blowing out. When it's the second stringers it's no big deal but of course sometimes the primary blows out and it's a tough one.

This is why the pimps say, "One is too close to none."

Because I have embraced this as a lifestyle hardcore, there will be zero interruption in my sex life, that's for goddamn sure, and hell, I've already got prospects for new GF... somebody who will actually appreciate me, ready to take the spot. Or I could just flow completely free for a while. The choice is mine.

Of course, we could argue that the lifestyle itself is what led to this current issue, but I'm an anomaly. Like I said in the video, for the vast majority of guys this would be like a guy starting lifting weights saying, "But I don't want to be as big as Arnold Schwarzenneger."

Yeah, ok, why don't we see if you can lift the 10lb dumbells first, then cross that bridge when we come to it, mmmmmkay?

So in summation, understand that the only way to become consistently good at cold approach pickup is to view it not as a set of tactics but as a LIFESTYLE that must be embraced. There is no other option.

GET MORE GIRLS.

Now I'm off to do just that at what is possibly the gayest event of the century haha. I'll be back later tonight to check the comments.

-jeffy

PS. GET MORE GIRLS OP.
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