April 22nd, 2018
Julien
 
"What's up RSDNation!"

I've just successfully finished wrapping up yet another KICK-ASS Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp here in Stockholm, with none other than Alexander~!

These programs have really been off the hook and we're going to be doing it all over again THIS WEEKEND in Oslo, Norway.

So, if you're interested in attending one of the VERY LAST series of events that we're going to be running together this year, then I highly recommend that you DO NOT miss out!

Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates as well…

October 4 – 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway (taught with Alexander~)
October 11 – 13, 2012: Edinburgh, Scotland
October 25 – 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom (taught with Alexander~ and Ozzie)
November 8 – 10, 2012: Rotterdam, Netherlands
November 15 – 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
November 22 – 24, 2012: Kiev, Ukraine
November 29 – December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 6 – 8, 2012: Budapest, Hungary
December 13 – 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com


You can also check out all of the cities that I'm going to be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.


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So...

Let's keep things simple and straightforward... ;]

Be Shameless To Get The Girl: Taking Your Game To The Next Level

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS THE NECESSARY SKILLSET THAT YOU NEED TO CULTIVATE FOR YOURSELF IN ORDER TO TAKE YOUR GAME TO THE NEXT LEVEL AND GET THE RESULTS YOU’VE ALWAYS DREAMED OF:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3RHrclmyC8)

This is really what achieving an elite level of game is all about, in my opinion...

This is the type of level of game that you should continuously strive for...

And, of course...

THIS IS WHAT ULTIMATELY GETS YOU LAID.

There's always going to be a certain "baseline" of game that you're going to have to internalize for any of this to work in the first place, but this is ultimately the type of skillset that you're going to have to cultivate in order to achieve true success with women.

You can spend as much time as you want working on internalizing the core fundamentals of game, but if you're not proactively going out and approaching women then you're not going to be getting the types of results that you've always dreamed of!

Girls are not just going to simply start jumping on your dick because you've now become someone who's self-actualized and who's on his purpose and path in life.

You can't just walk in a venue and scream out "Hey, I'm now present to the moment!" and expect girls to just start fucking you...

You need something more than that.

As Tyler would say...

WELCOME TO THE ART OF PIMPITRY.

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Tyler
 
Hey sorry for the late release on this, I wound up having to reupload BOTH of the videos!

I've just come back from the Chicago events which were absolutely awesome. The Saturday night of Bootcamp was one of the wildest of my life. OUT OF CONTROL!!

Here's the list of my Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamps for the rest of the years.

NEW YORK I'll see you next week!! Spread the word about Free Tour to the local groups! It's gonna have Jeff, Brad, Todd, and myself in da hood -- very rare to have so many RSD guys onhand, it's like a mini World Summit!!

October 4, 2012: New York City
October 18, 2012: San Diego
November 1, 2012: San Francisco
November 15, 2012: Albuquerque (first time in New Mexico!)
December 7, 2012: Las Vegas
December 20, 2012: Orlando
January 3, 2013: Los Angeles
January 17, 2013: Dallas
February 7, 2013: Aspen, Colorado
February 14, 2013: New Orleans
February 21, 2013: Miami

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305


Lastly, Julien and I are going to be running "5 Day Alumni-Only Bootcamps" in New Orleans for Mardis Gras, and Miami South Beach during the infamous "Model Season" this Spring. So if you're considering attending then start looking into it now!

www.modelseasonbootcamp.com

(We haven't created a page for the Mardis Gras event but you can have a look at the above site for Miami...)

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Okay so the first video today is on the topic of the "Illusion of group think".

This is a really intense topic, because it basically points towards the ILLUSION that perceived-status creates in your mind.

Ultimately this is a topic of spiritual enlightenment. As your own spiritual evolution proceeds forward (if you're interested) you'll find you naturally come to the understandings I'm going to reveal here.

But funny enough I don't mention that in the video, because I don't know if anyone really cares about that. :)

What's more important is how it helps you not to get sucked into a belief of having lower value around hot girls, and how it allows you to step to hot women with FULL CONFIDENCE.

It's also what makes you a MAN -- like it's hard to date really hot women if you don't "get" this stuff. Because without these understandings, you're basically like this little idiot who puts her on a pedastal when in reality all hot girls are nothing more than CUTE LITTLE BRATS!! :)

(Joking, and yet....NOT JOKING!! Cause from your perspective as the man fucking her, SHE IS A CUTE LITTLE FUCKING BRAT!)

i released this on Youtube earlier in the week, and have since re-uploaded it with some new stuff on the end.

CLICK THIS VIDEO NOW TO HAVE YOUR EYES OPENED AS TO THE ILLUSION OF GROUP THINK, SO YOU CAN BE A MAN AROUND HOT GIRLS AND NOT A LAPDOG BITCH.


Fun stuff huh?

btw at some point I'll release a proper video blog on the topic of "Why I didn't like math growing up" and how it relates to why I'm able to absorb massive amounts of information and learn at a rapid rate today.

I'm currently able to absorb, and more importantly, internalize and UTILIZE new information faster than I've ever been able to do in my life.

And I'll properly explain why, instead of just randomly yelling "Math is dumb!" (when I don't actually think that, and rather just think it's not useful for me personally to spend lots of time internalizing advanced math beyond what I need on a practical level.)

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Anyway next up is a video on success barriers, and it's actually a very advanced concept that I'm revealing here but sort of glossing over it.

I go into my theory of WHY success barriers exist in the first place, and the role of the modern self help movement in blasting you through them.

This has very deep implications if you spend some time thinking about it. But OTOH feel free just to enjoy the humor and take whatever from it that you're inclined. :)

CLICK HERE TO DISCOVER MY THEORY ON WHY SUCCESS BARRIERS EXIST, AND SOME THOUGHTS ON WHAT TO DO IF YOUR FRIENDS AREN'T INTERESTED IN STEPPING UP.


Okay so give that some thought over the coming weeks, and try to see where YOU are engaging in the same behaviour.

It's all good to look at other people's success barriers, but my tip for you is this: Any time you see other people fucking up, ask yourself where you do the same.

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Alrighty I'm off to bed, and will be up early to prepare a bunch of surprises for the upcoming NEW YORK events next week! If you're in or near NYC I'll see you there!

Please let me know your thoughts on the 2 videos! What did you learn from them, and what are your experiences with the whole "illusion of group think" towards perceived status, and success barriers among your friends?

Hit me back and I'll check it out!

Got a pretty wild vBlog recorded "in the field" in LA as well as the LA Free Tour video about the "elbows in the mud grind of the game" coming up next week. So keep your head up for that!

Thanks for reading, have a great week and I'll see you soon!

Tyler
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Julien
 
"How's it going?!"

"Greetings from Stockholm..."

Woah...

I've just arrived here a couple of hours ago and I wanted to quickly let you know that I've just realized that we're now slowly approaching THE END of the Hot Seat 2 tour, with only a few more months to go!

So, as always, if you're interested in attending one of the very last events that I'm going to be running featuring mind-blowing INFIELD FOOTAGE of Tyler and myself then I highly recommend that you DO NOT miss out...

www.rsdhotseat.com

United States
October 6, 2012: New York, New York, USA
October 20, 2012: San Diego, CA, USA
November 3, 2012: San Francisco, California, USA
November 17, 2012: Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA
December 8, 2012: Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
December 22, 2012: Orlando, Florida, USA

Europe
September 29, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden
October 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway
October 13, 2012: Edinburgh, Scotland
October 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom
November 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
November 24, 2012: Kiev, Ukraine
December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 8, 2012: Budapest, Hungary
January 26, 2012: Gothenburg, Sweden
February 2, 2012: Helsinki, Finland

Middle East
December 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
January 5, 2013: Dubai, United Arab Emirates

South Africa
January 12, 2013: Cape Town, South Africa
January 19, 2013: Johannesburg, South Africa

www.rsdhotseat.com

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY SEEN THIS OFFICIAL PREVIEW FOR THE EVENT:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU)

Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates as well…

September 27 – 29, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden (taught with Alexander~)
October 4 – 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway (taught with Alexander~)
October 11 – 13, 2012: Edinburgh, Scotland
October 25 – 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom (taught with Ozzie)
November 8 – 10, 2012: Rotterdam, Netherlands
November 15 – 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com


You can also check out all of the cities that I'm going to be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.


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So...

On that note...

Let's crack into it... ;]

What Makes Me An Elite Player: Training Yourself To Be Unreactive

CLICK
 ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS ONE OF THE BEST KEPT SECRETS IN THE GAME AS WELL AS THE ONLY REASON WE'RE ULTIMATELY ABLE TO DO WHAT WE DO WHEN IT COMES TO ACHIEVING TRUE SUCCESS WITH WOMEN: 


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4GPSfH9F1Ug)

Click HERE to view the "Tenacious D" photo mentioned in the Youtube video here above.

This is what achieving true success with women is really all about...

PROGRESSIVELY DESENSITIZING YOURSELF THROUGH MASSIVE AMOUNTS OF REFERENCE EXPERIENCES.

The REAL SECRET to the game, if you will. 

And this is the only reason that we're ultimately able to do the things that we do.

THROUGH MASSIVE AMOUNTS OF REFERENCE EXPERIENCES.

I wrote an article about this a while back that I'm sure will spark your interest as well, titled:

What Is Game? REFERENCE EXPERIENCES

Check it out right now!

Now, one thing that I would like to add to this video in order to avoid any kind of misconceptions is that breaking out of your comfort zone and getting new reference experiences isn't always what you think...

It's quite common for some guys to misinterpret all of this and think that breaking out of your comfort zone and getting new reference experiences just means boldly throwing yourself into all sorts of crazy situations over and over again hoping that at some point everything is just going to click for you...

Well, it's not.

If you think that you're going to achieve true success with women by solely by saying or doing crazy things over and over again while approaching and interacting with women, then you're going to be in for a rude awakening...

What you have to realize is that there is a DEEPER layer to it all.

And this is where the misconception stems from...

Getting good at game doesn't mean doing the next crazy thing or learning the next crazy tip or technique.

That's just the SURFACE layer of it all. 

It's a necessity, yes... But you have to focus on the deeper layer of it all as well.

You can't just be expanding your comfort zone while solely focusing on the outer game without letting the inner game catch up to it. 

You have to be growing on both levels.

Instead of working expanding your game, start working on densifying it instead.

Getting Good At Game... Not What You Think...

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT EXPLORES THIS CONCEPT INTO FURTHER DEPTH AND REVEALS WHAT IT REALLY MEANS TO EXPAND YOUR COMFORT ZONE:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cdUM0FoJszU)

Let me know what you think of the videos and if you have any specific topics that you’d like to hear me cover in any future RSDNATION article!


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jlaix
 
 What's up RSD Nation. Jeffy here, doing my part to keep the front page clear of pictures of men in hotel rooms talking to cameras with dirty shirts on. HEAR ME GUYS? Enough with the stupid video stills of your ugly mugs, people want to see titties, not men gesticulating at Sheratons. Unless it's Brad, then of course everyone wants to see that. But still.

I'm coming at you bright and early from my home in San Francisco on this Sunday morning, the day of the infamous leather BDSM Folsom Street Fair. You may recall the bootcamp success story where we tookt he guy tpo this fair a couple years ago and fucked three girls in the van.

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/165439
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No bootcamp this weekend, but I'll be starting up another North American tour beginning next month... if I'm coming to your city this is your chance to hit up a program with a ten year veteran of the bootcamp game. I'm hitting this shit hard, so check it out:

October 4-7: New York City, NY
October 11-13: Toronto, ON
October 25-27: Calgary, AL
November 22-24: Seattle, WA
November 29 - Dec 1: Denver, CO
January 10-12: Atlanta, GA
January 24-26: Austin, TX
February 7-9: New Orleans, LA
February 21-23: Washington, DC


The van has been pre-parked overnight near the festival gates and I'm about to gather the crew of retards to begin our assault, but first things first... just wanted to post up today's video.

With this vid, I wanted to clear up some misconceptions that I feel might exist with regard to my conduct on the forum.

Often times, people seem to get the impression from my forum posts that I'm just sitting at my keyboard at home, gleefully trolling users out of some innate desire to be a malicious fuckhole. The bare fact of the matter, however, is that I am doing this for their own good.

From time to time you will see me post lengthy, well thought out replies to people's questions with relevant and useful information... when I do this, it's because I get the sense that the user is actually going out and has committed himself to learning this stuff, come hell or high water.

However, the vast majority of questions you see on the forum are straight up ignorant, and I mean that in the sense that they are asking questions that the answers to which would be glaringly obvious to anyone who was going out with regularity... or questions that would not even be RELEVANT to a guy who was going out and hitting up girls consistently.

This is what is meant when I say those three little words: GET MORE GIRLS. Anyway, the video explains it, check it out:



When I say "GET MORE GIRLS" what I am doing is encouraging them to stop RESISTING the idea of this as a lifestyle.

Of course, this can be taken too far... and I'm probably living proof of that lol. My Primary GF just dumped my fuckin ass yesterday, because I'm so enmeshed in this lifestyle it will be impossible to extricate myself from it until I stop doing this job, which seems unlikely at least for the near future.

It pisses me off because I gave the girl everything, and at the end of the day, none of that means shit in the face of the SOCIALLY CONDITIONED NARRATIVE. "But.... but he puts his weener in other girls hoo ha! This is not right"... in SPITE OF the FACT that I was probably the best, most caring "boyfriend" this woman had ever had.

But nope, doesn't matter, she's sick of "waiting around" for me (to do something that she knew would never happen from the beginning) and so I'm doneskis. I predict she will get a nice fat lawyer chode BF that the friends can approve of because he is not scumbag, within two months. Had fun with the bad boy, now time to chode up with the homogenous douche who will be monogamous (of course he will likely cheat on the side if he gets the opportunity but hey as long as it's ON THE DL no harm done I guess)

I guess it goes to show... you can't be half a gangster, nor can you be 87.5 percent of a gangster evidently. lol. Next experiment will be to see if I can get away with being 93.75 percent a gangster.

I talk about this shit all the time with the pimp "cop and blow" stuff... in this lifestyle, you have to be constantly copping new girls, because they are constantly blowing out. When it's the second stringers it's no big deal but of course sometimes the primary blows out and it's a tough one.

This is why the pimps say, "One is too close to none."

Because I have embraced this as a lifestyle hardcore, there will be zero interruption in my sex life, that's for goddamn sure, and hell, I've already got prospects for new GF... somebody who will actually appreciate me, ready to take the spot. Or I could just flow completely free for a while. The choice is mine.

Of course, we could argue that the lifestyle itself is what led to this current issue, but I'm an anomaly. Like I said in the video, for the vast majority of guys this would be like a guy starting lifting weights saying, "But I don't want to be as big as Arnold Schwarzenneger."

Yeah, ok, why don't we see if you can lift the 10lb dumbells first, then cross that bridge when we come to it, mmmmmkay?

So in summation, understand that the only way to become consistently good at cold approach pickup is to view it not as a set of tactics but as a LIFESTYLE that must be embraced. There is no other option.

GET MORE GIRLS.

Now I'm off to do just that at what is possibly the gayest event of the century haha. I'll be back later tonight to check the comments.

-jeffy

PS. GET MORE GIRLS OP.
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Ozzie
 
Hey guys,
Here I am in my room in Frankfurt with Veit, my German wing, he is such an asshole. Not really, he is a cool dude. We watched a couple of episodes of Family Guy, check it out. It was kind of gay. Anyway, he almost pulled a model chick last night here in Frankfurt back to the room.

I told him to fuck her in the toilet but he is a gentleman. He hates me because I didn’t give him that feedback in the Club. But he fingered her in the club. That’s right! Counts for something. They are going on a possible day two, so I guess that will settle the deal.
Crazy night last night in Frankfurt. We were 3 bootcamps running in the same club. Alex and Julien doing their thing and I was doing my fear tech. All good.

Anyway, I brought you a short video with quick information that you can use right away and another really long video with things for the long term. They are both useful if you are planning to go in the field or you are already doing it.

Upcoming Boot camp Dates


- September 28-30: London, United Kingdom

- October 5-7: London United Kingdom

- October 12-14: Munich, Germany

- October 12-14: Ljubljana, Slovenia

- October 12-14: Prague, Czech Republic

- October 17-19: Talinn, Estonia

- October 19-21: Paris, France

- October 19-21: London United Kingdom

- October 24-26: Sofia, Bulgaria

- October 25-27: London, United Kingdom


Sign up right now at: www.rsdbootcamp.com
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The following video is about a drill you could use right now an experience the power of fear technology without much delay.




http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uKgV7RYKFrA

It is great because it will give you a challenge to go up against and measure where you are at in terms of skillset. It would also push your skills through the roof if you repeated it many times. It is mind blowing when it works.


This following vid is more about your long/short term approach to the game and it takes longer to get to the point. It is on the subject of character building vs. results. What comes first or last? They don’t have to exclude each other even though I put character building first every time.





http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PNg1Ns7AK_E


anyway, that’s all folks. We are rocking it here in Frankfurt. Oktober fest coming. I will keep you updated on my travels.

Upcoming Boot camp Dates

- September 28-30: London, United Kingdom

- October 5-7: London United Kingdom

- October 12-14: Munich, Germany

- October 12-14: Ljubljana, Slovenia

- October 12-14: Prague, Czech Republic

- October 17-19: Talinn, Estonia

- October 19-21: Paris, France

- October 19-21: London United Kingdom

- October 24-26: Sofia, Bulgaria

- October 25-27: London, United Kingdom

Sign up right now at: www.rsdbootcamp.com

PS: for more on this, visit

www.pickupmadesimple.com
www.youtube.com/OzzieRSD
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Tyler
 
Hey!  I've just flown into Chicago and preparing for tomorrow's Free Tour!

If you're in Chicago be sure to come hit me up!  I won't be back in town anytime soon, and the Free events are absolutely top notch!

The rest of my programs for 2012 are as follows...

September 20, 2012: Chicago
October 4, 2012: New York City
October 18, 2012: San Diego
November 1, 2012: San Francisco
November 15, 2012: Albuquerque (first time in New Mexico!)
December 7, 2012: Las Vegas
December 13, 2012: San Francisco
December 20, 2012: Orlando

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com

I have a 3 person team that handles ALL of your questions about RSD events -- Stuart, Huey, and David -- all guys in their 20's who are highly active in the game and pimp it with instructors personally, call them any time to talk game or ask any questions you want!

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305

Lastly, Julien and I are going to be running "5 Day Alumni-Only Bootcamps" in New Orleans for Mardis Gras, and Miami South Beach during the infamous "Model Season" this Spring.  So if you're considering attending then start looking into it now!

www.modelseasonbootcamp.com

(We haven't created a page for the Mardis Gras event but you can have a look at the above site for Miami...)

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Okay so shooting into today's 2 videos, I've got this first one that I posted only a few days ago on my Youtube channel and and already has 12,000 views and a ton of positive feedback.

I was really surprised because it was one of those videos where I very nearly didn't put it out just cause I thought the topic might not interest people -- was even the one time I've ever read a "negative review" of the Free Tour on RSDN. :)

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/237789?

LOL so yeah I guess I figured it was more interesting to me than other people, but I decided to cut it and throw it out there anyway and I guess I'm glad I did.

The topic is on "how you talk to yourself" and basically explains the method I use not to take myself or life too seriously.


Now also remember that this is a paradox, because you SHOULD take your life seriously, and yet also keep a good perspective.

And that's what leads to the NEXT video which is on the topic of taking things VERY seriously. :)

I decided to throw videos of my kids into the video as well, to really hammer that as your life increases in responsibility, you'll need to work progressively to produce better results.

(IOW it's easy to be like "Yeah fuck everything, life is a big joke..." until you have kids who rely on you...)


Funny enough, for me having kids wasn't any big change in responsibility, because I already run a business.

But it increased the stakes as far as me NOT being allowed to fuck up.

I think many guys probably fear having kids for this reason, but it actually increases your happiness overall.  It's amazing how NOT HAVING A CHOICE but to produce results is actually EASIER than giving yourself the option not to, and then questioning yourself.

It's the same reason I go to the gym every day "come hell or high water, no matter what..." or that I post on RSDN every Wednesday no matter how busy I am.  By stripping myself of the option to NOT do it, it's actually EASIER.

I tend to think that having kids is a natural part of your evolution, and that if you deny yourself this there's a lot you will lose out on.  But then again if you didn't have kids, you could do other things that could substitute their role in your life.

Oh and P.S.. on this, the reason I often mention my kids are "accidents" is because almost everyone I know has had abortions at one point or other, so I like showing people that you DO have a choice if you want to keep the kid.  I hope by people seeing my kids they think a bit about their decisions.  I personally have zero judgement on what people do and don't care at all, but I like people to at least realize they have the option.

I was personally in massive financial debt (half a million) at the beginning of the 2008 recession and didn't see much option to keep Vincent at the time, but decided that I'd have to FIND A WAY to do it.  This lead to me creating the Hot Seat, Free Tour, Video Blogs, RSDN 2.0 that you read here, and World Summit.  If I hadn't decided to keep Vincent NONE OF THESE THINGS WOULD EXIST.

Now I'm sitting here in an opposite (and much more positive / relaxing) financial situation -- so keep that in mind when you think not taking on more responsibility is "fun".  Yeah it's more leisurely in the short term, but over the long term you lose out on a SATISFYING LIFE.

I don't even care about the kids aspect of this equation, but rather just as far as pushing yourself in general. :)

Anyway thought the 2 vids would make an interesting contrast in content and vibe, showing 2 sides of the same coin -- intent + freedom from outcome.

Video #1 is about freedom from outcome, video #2 is about execution of your intent!

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Okay I'm off to go shoot around Chicago, maybe record a few vids.

Please let me know what you thought of the "self talk" and "would and could" talks, and hit me back with your thoughts!  I want to know what you think!  Let me know!

I'll be back next week with 2 short clips from World Summit, and I'll see you soon!

Thanks for reading!  Have fun!

Tyler
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Julien
 
"What's up RSDNation!"

It's currently 4am as I'm writing this here in Switzerland... Thank God for jet lag...

I just got back from my little weekend getaway in Paris and I have to admit that it feels pretty good to be back in Europe again!

I'm going to be touring all over Europe, the Middle East and South Africa over the course of the next five months as well, so if you're located anywhere nearby and if you're looking to DRASTICALLY cut your learning curve FAST in terms with success with women then, as always, I highly recommend that you DO NOT miss out on any of these events here below!

Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates…

September 20 – 22, 2012: Frankfurt, Germany (taught with Alexander~ and Ozzie)
September 27 – 29, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden (taught with Alexander~)
October 4 – 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway (taught with Alexander~)
October 11 – 13, 2012: Edinburgh, Scotland
October 18 – 20, 2012: Dublin, Ireland
October 25 – 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom (taught with Ozzie)
November 8 – 10, 2012: Rotterdam, Netherlands
November 15 – 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com


You can also check out all of the cities that I'm going to be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.

As a side note as well, I highly recommend that you SUBSCRIBE to BOTH of my YOUTUBE CHANNELS RIGHT NOW!

I always tend to release my Youtube videos a couple of days prior to the official release date of my front page articles, so if you'd like to get a first glimpse at any of the latest Youtube videos that I'm going to be putting out very soon, then quickly take the time to SUBSCRIBE to both of them RIGHT NOW!

***WWW.YOUTUBE.COM/RSDJULIEN***

***WWW.YOUTUBE.COM/JULIENFREETOUR***


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So...

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Getting Comfortable With Being Uncomfortable: How To Get Good Fast & Get Hotter Girls

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I JUST RECORDED IN PARIS THAT REVEALS THE EXACT FRAMES OF MIND THAT HAVE CONTINUOUSLY HELPED ME BREAK OUT OF MY COMFORT ZONE OVER THE YEARS TO ACHIEVE TRUE SUCCESS WITH WOMEN:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=anpq8OVQdTU)

One thing that I would also quickly like to add to this video and really emphasize as well is the importance of coming from that more "NARCISSISTIC" side of your personality and really working on developing it with everything that you do, no matter how challenging it may be.

Really viewing it all as if everything that you do, no matter how emotionally overwhelming it may be, is still going to have to be done in order to achieve some kind of greater purpose that's above you and that's above all of those petty little thoughts that are just designed to hold you back.

You're doing it all FOR THE GREATER GOOD.

I've recently been watching through some of the latest "Breaking Bad" episodes on some of the rare occasions that I have any free time at all and I'm just too tired to do anything more productive than that, and there's this one scene that really stood out to me and that really made all of this click in a better way than anything that I've seen so far...

I actually don't think that I've ever identified in such a way with any other TV show in my entire life, actually. And no, I am not referencing to the "drug dealer" aspect of it all... ;]

To quote the exact scene that really resonated with me in this particular episode was when the main character answered a question that his partner had asked him, where he tells him:

"You asked me, if I was in the meth business or the money business... Neither... I'm in the EMPIRE
 BUSINESS."

And as cliché as all of this sounds, this is the EXACT frame of mind that should be coming from and that should rule your life in general...



You are in the EMPIRE BUSINESS.

Start asking yourself:

"What kind of life am I striving to achieve for yourself?"

"What kind of unique imprint am I striving to leave behind?"

"What kind of LEGACY am I striving to leave behind?"


Start developing this kind of DRIVE and start doing WHATEVER IT TAKES to achieve this for yourself.

And this doesn't necessarily mean trying to build some kind of actual empire or anything of the sort, but it's more in terms of viewing yourself as the empire. 

Becoming the best person that you can possibly become and then influencing and inspiring the world around you in a similar manner.

This is what it means to be on your path and to have some kind of purpose in life... Click on the video here below that I recorded a couple of months back in Honolulu and that explores this topic into further depth...

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED AT THE RSD FREE TOUR IN HONOLULU TO DISCOVER WHAT WOMEN REALLY CARE ABOUT AND HOW IT'S NOT WHAT YOU THINK:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zmKGLe9DOb4)

Next time that you find yourself in a situation where you have a choice to make and the right outcome is one that's outside of your comfort zone, REFRAME IT!

"Do it for the greater good..."

"Sacrifices need to be made..."

"If I can't do it, then no one can..."

"My body is just the vessel..."

"My empire... My imprint... My LEGACY..."


And really take it all to these types of extreme lengths... In a way that's emotionally healthy, of course. 

Start taking on this more "narcissistic" side of your personality. 

Start venturing yourself into new situations that are unknown to you and that you know will make you grow.

START MAKING THE MYTHS.


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PS: Let me know what you think of this video and how taking on a more narcissistic "Breaking Bad" frame of mind has helped you break out of your comfort zone and achieve true success with women!

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Hi guys,

Decided to throw a video and give away part of my program for free to you. New content is hard to come by since I don’t do a lot of public speaking but I do what I can. I tried to upload a 10 minute video but internet crashed twice and decided to leave it for the next article. Anyway the video talks about program stuff that used to do and got very good results with, free of charge for you. It does hurt to give out things that took me 3 years to develop but we are in the internet business.
Nobody wants to talk real pickup anymore. I am a dying breed in this respect. Most of this article I have to say is broadly off topic but in a way I tried to make it about pickup you will be the judge whether I succeeded or not. I have given away my stuff for free here over the years so internet business is like a never ending black hole that swallows content and wants more. Anyway, you might hate this article. If so, you are justified, that’s why I threw the video in there. It might not be entirely a waste of your time.

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How often do you blame yourself for things of which you have no say over like a woman’s reaction to you? Is it possible that you attack yourself when reality is very different? Are you realistic about how you can influence and control events? What have you given up and become hopeless about? Are you looking to someone to do the work for you like a wing or a coach? How often do you minimize your achievements? How do you verbally or non-verbally try to blame others? Do you consciously demean or devalue some people at times? How do you deal with your need to feel superior, powerful and in control?

You might be experiencing the results of hidden toxic built up that could screw your game in the field. To change these responses it requires a great deal of thought, self- awareness, time and work. Chances are you are attacking the self. For some reason, you try to sabotage yourself with the above behaviors. There is a payoff for each of the above behaviors otherwise you would not engage.
For example, when you devalue people, it helps you to feel superior. You get over your low self-esteem by putting others down. This is a debilitating behavior because when others don’t allow for devaluation you feel low and inadequate.
Infield example: student looks at a hot girl and goes in anger, “what a fucking bitch”. He is giving his power away to this bitch. He is allowing her to control how he feels. She has got all the power now.
These remarks and actions are used to show the other person as inferior, flawed, shamed, of lesser value, inept, and so on, and you are none of these. There is an attempt to disguise with humor those behaviors like you are being funny. But you are hurting yourself. Actually, when you act like that you don’t foster self-development, you stunt it. Other examples are:
. Sarcasm
. Put-downs
. Laughing at other’s expense
Etc.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ujPBNcQ30QI


Betraying The Self

When you act against the self, you injure yourself unknowingly. You give your power away. If you are acting unconsciously, which is the usual case, some of these behaviors and attitudes can be destructive because they go uncheck for years. They become coping strategies when you feel low. They are good because they provide momentary relief but long term you are attacking the self. You might be nursing a long term injury.

How To Save The Self And Not Injure It, the introjected voice

Chances are you are probably addicted to living in misery. You are into triggering your own negative thoughts about yourself(“I suck”, “my game sucks”, “people suck”, etc.) and feelings of inadequacy and alike. A great self-mutilating weapon against the self is what you say to yourself. We can call that introjected voice. The introjected voice is been with you for a while and it is triggered randomly. It is basically how you treat yourself. You can short circuit this process by realizing when your thoughts and feelings are responses to negative introjected comments directed at injuring the self and substitute them by more positive or realistic statements.

On BC, I prefer to question the introjected voice before I substitute it with a more realistic statement.
For example, as soon as we enter the club I ask the student, “what’s your mind giving you?” I aim to short circuit this process.
So I encourage him to be as negative as he can be. I want the introjected voice to come out so I can kill it. Student says, “Girls are too hot”. I translate the introjected voice by saying, “you mean they won’t be into you because they are hot”. I keep translating for him the poisonous voice until we agree on something like “my game is not up to this level”. Then I ask, “Is it 100 percent true that you will suck all the time and every time tonight?” he says, “No, not 100 percent”. Because nothing is 100 true all the time every time all the time I pushed his introjected voice into a corner. The student starts to see how his mind lies to him.

After that I say, “Can we agree that you are not incompetent all the time? Student says, “Maybe not all the time”.

That’s all he needs to get his edge back and not get paralyzed. I am introducing REASONABLE doubt in his mind that the opposite is true. If he is able to doubt the introjected voice and just not take it too seriously, he has a better chance at overcoming his crippling anxiety. After that I transition to give him a mantra to repeat to counter act the introjected voice like “if it is worth doing, then it is worth doing it poorly”. His subconscious is ready now to accept affirmations of this kind. He won’t put up so much resistance because his obnoxious inner whining has been brought into question. He learns the skill of doubting the inner critic inside of him. By Sunday on program, I won’t hear ever again the comment “the girls are too hot”. He won’t know the difference. Women have ceased to be threatening. He has stopped damaging his inner Self.
Other examples of the Introjected Voice (I.V) and some ways you can come back are:

I.V: “I must always meet other’s expectations”
Come Back: “I don’t have to meet all of them”

I.V: “I am supposed to control everything”
Come Back: “I am able to handle and resolve most situations”

I.V: “I should be perfect”
Come Back: “I have flaws but I am working on them”

I.V: “I should never make mistakes”
Come Back: “I can learn from mistakes”

And so on…
I encourage you to find witty come backs to that negative voice acting against the Self. You can develop your own.
Signing off now. Happy Halloween!

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