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Tuesday/29.09.09
to make it short, went to a party, talked to about 30 people, just socialising.... flirting with a few girls without much intent (when its social circle or soon to be social circle i can't helpt it but to hold back with that stuff).
one girl i had a flirt going on and she was with ther friend... later i saw her alone with another guy i met here... he is damn damn good looking and he has the confidence and game with it. i saw him making out with her and later chillin with her, building rapport... she was hot and i am simply not where i want to be... i had my shot at her...
right now its a lot about building my social circle, it grows at rapid speed now... but i haven't fucked since over a week, the pressure is on. don't want to have a dry spell.. :)
anyway good times and i am hoping all this socialising is making me grow (so that i can bang hot chicks more consistently haha)
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next day EDIT:
ok my "social life" has grown dramatically the last days as i get along cool with everybody and found some cool friends... but otoh my sex life so far is fucked up. its only been a week i know but i had opportunities... opportunities that i didn't take because i am thinking of social repercussions... like getting a cheesy player rep or something... WHAT IS THIS SHIT (funny how the mind works)
i am here, i am free.
i feel that right now somehow my game sucks compared to berlin. i know its in my head. i know logically that i can pull off the same shit as at home. but somehow i don't feel like i am the same guy here... socially yes, with girls... no.
not yet. need to amp up the intend, think thats what i lack here the most...
to make it short, went to a party, talked to about 30 people, just socialising.... flirting with a few girls without much intent (when its social circle or soon to be social circle i can't helpt it but to hold back with that stuff).
one girl i had a flirt going on and she was with ther friend... later i saw her alone with another guy i met here... he is damn damn good looking and he has the confidence and game with it. i saw him making out with her and later chillin with her, building rapport... she was hot and i am simply not where i want to be... i had my shot at her...
right now its a lot about building my social circle, it grows at rapid speed now... but i haven't fucked since over a week, the pressure is on. don't want to have a dry spell.. :)
anyway good times and i am hoping all this socialising is making me grow (so that i can bang hot chicks more consistently haha)
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next day EDIT:
ok my "social life" has grown dramatically the last days as i get along cool with everybody and found some cool friends... but otoh my sex life so far is fucked up. its only been a week i know but i had opportunities... opportunities that i didn't take because i am thinking of social repercussions... like getting a cheesy player rep or something... WHAT IS THIS SHIT (funny how the mind works)
i am here, i am free.
i feel that right now somehow my game sucks compared to berlin. i know its in my head. i know logically that i can pull off the same shit as at home. but somehow i don't feel like i am the same guy here... socially yes, with girls... no.
not yet. need to amp up the intend, think thats what i lack here the most...
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-----------------------------been busy socializing---
have been away over the weekend on a trip with 200 people, my fellow students.... its been a blast. over the last weeks + now this weekend my social circle has EXPLODED
its so good to see that i can settle in everywhere... i came as a late bloomer and now i feel so welcomed and appreciated by everyone. or in other words i've been told stuff from girls like for example this: "you do realize that you are the most popular person here, do you? everybody knows u, everybody likes u!"
awesome. and man, i had so much fun.
...didn't get laid though. social times, fuck yeah. but my closer mojo still hasn't landed in athens.
on the trip literally all the <7s where into me. there were 2 serious 9s though and i worked on both of them... one has a boyfriend and i just kinda befriended her... it was good. the other one is hot and we gotten pretty close and she is into me but at the same time she blocked off, its weird, told me she doesn't want a guy now because she just broke up... too bad. however i think if my game would have been better (like as if she'd been an 8), then i would have already gotten her. entitlement. still working on it.
other than that i got some more connections to go out with in the future and generally had a blast n made new friends
have been away over the weekend on a trip with 200 people, my fellow students.... its been a blast. over the last weeks + now this weekend my social circle has EXPLODED
its so good to see that i can settle in everywhere... i came as a late bloomer and now i feel so welcomed and appreciated by everyone. or in other words i've been told stuff from girls like for example this: "you do realize that you are the most popular person here, do you? everybody knows u, everybody likes u!"
awesome. and man, i had so much fun.
...didn't get laid though. social times, fuck yeah. but my closer mojo still hasn't landed in athens.
on the trip literally all the <7s where into me. there were 2 serious 9s though and i worked on both of them... one has a boyfriend and i just kinda befriended her... it was good. the other one is hot and we gotten pretty close and she is into me but at the same time she blocked off, its weird, told me she doesn't want a guy now because she just broke up... too bad. however i think if my game would have been better (like as if she'd been an 8), then i would have already gotten her. entitlement. still working on it.
other than that i got some more connections to go out with in the future and generally had a blast n made new friends
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haha dude you should have come to vegas, you would have enjoyed it for sure.. Alex is coming to Berlin btw. and I will assist him ;)
Friday/09.10.09
private party - then club - but solely our university people. it is basically a group of 200+ people from all over the world. i managed to become the guy everybody knows... like last night i got approached by so many random faces, people literally are telling me i am famous and shit. nice, really nice but it doesn't get me laid - yet.
thing is, i have girls drooling for me. guys/girls approaching me, wanting to party with me. i got so much value now its pretty insane. yeah i am proud that i settled in so well.
i dunno why but i have trouble pulling the trigger. i could easily make out with many of these chicks here and probably bang them. just lust night i saw one of our chicks (a 7) making out with a fat, boring drunk dude without any game... both were just drunk and made out. after a minute or so she must have realized what a boring fuck he is and left but still...
2 girls are straight 9s that i shoot for. one has a boyfriend back home (she is not gonna see him for half a year, i mean come on...) and the other has some issues, i dunno what. she is into me, i can feel that, but i can't escalate on her ass. she tries to make me jealous and i know she looks up to me as i got shitloads of value and fun going... still no go.
the 7s and even some 8s pretty much love me. served on a plate. its just that isolation is impossible because when we are in a club, its just all us, no strangers, everybody knows everybody... its silly but i am hesitant.
i will keep vibing the shit out of everyone, building connections, bringing the party and i am sure all this socialising has its own benefits on my game... and then tonight i will hit a greek club filled with greek chicks and there i can do my thing.
private party - then club - but solely our university people. it is basically a group of 200+ people from all over the world. i managed to become the guy everybody knows... like last night i got approached by so many random faces, people literally are telling me i am famous and shit. nice, really nice but it doesn't get me laid - yet.
thing is, i have girls drooling for me. guys/girls approaching me, wanting to party with me. i got so much value now its pretty insane. yeah i am proud that i settled in so well.
i dunno why but i have trouble pulling the trigger. i could easily make out with many of these chicks here and probably bang them. just lust night i saw one of our chicks (a 7) making out with a fat, boring drunk dude without any game... both were just drunk and made out. after a minute or so she must have realized what a boring fuck he is and left but still...
2 girls are straight 9s that i shoot for. one has a boyfriend back home (she is not gonna see him for half a year, i mean come on...) and the other has some issues, i dunno what. she is into me, i can feel that, but i can't escalate on her ass. she tries to make me jealous and i know she looks up to me as i got shitloads of value and fun going... still no go.
the 7s and even some 8s pretty much love me. served on a plate. its just that isolation is impossible because when we are in a club, its just all us, no strangers, everybody knows everybody... its silly but i am hesitant.
i will keep vibing the shit out of everyone, building connections, bringing the party and i am sure all this socialising has its own benefits on my game... and then tonight i will hit a greek club filled with greek chicks and there i can do my thing.
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damn it. i need to figure this out here... i had a good ecosystem rollin in germany. every day of the week i knew where to go... not here though. clubs are fuckin expensive and small...
Saturday/10.10.09
2 greek hotties, new friends of mine. went out together to a club... one is really interested but i prefer her as a friend to go out with. club fee is huge. drinks are insanely expensive... i vibe with my girls at the bar, good mood. i make a round.
approach a greek hottie, she is into it, we chat, i claw and got her close. her friend supports me by switching places so i am closer to her.. i leave on a high point, telling her i got to look for my friends.. off i go and join my two hotties at the bar. i hit on a few other girls, some blow me off when they find out i am not greek. not all girls speek english. there is a hot 2 set, i am clawing my girl, a total 9. thats the cool thing about greece girls... most don't look like much, but others are total stunners. this girl doesn't speak english though. we dance, i claw and get close, her friend likes me.... hard to communicate though... i don't push further. thats the thing though, i feel like guys and girls in clubs here are more chode. u don't see a lot of a making out, slutty behavior, crazy dancing or anything. girls stand at the bar in 2 sets, sober and pretty. i just can't imagine seeing them going crazy or jumping my dick.
i go back to the original girl and we got a good vibe going again. i go for the makeout... she denies, pulls out her mobile and gives me her number. calls herself so that she has it too.. maybe thats the way it works round here... playing solid, get the number and fuck at the day2.
i have no idea but i have more than 5 months to figure this out...
Saturday/10.10.09
2 greek hotties, new friends of mine. went out together to a club... one is really interested but i prefer her as a friend to go out with. club fee is huge. drinks are insanely expensive... i vibe with my girls at the bar, good mood. i make a round.
approach a greek hottie, she is into it, we chat, i claw and got her close. her friend supports me by switching places so i am closer to her.. i leave on a high point, telling her i got to look for my friends.. off i go and join my two hotties at the bar. i hit on a few other girls, some blow me off when they find out i am not greek. not all girls speek english. there is a hot 2 set, i am clawing my girl, a total 9. thats the cool thing about greece girls... most don't look like much, but others are total stunners. this girl doesn't speak english though. we dance, i claw and get close, her friend likes me.... hard to communicate though... i don't push further. thats the thing though, i feel like guys and girls in clubs here are more chode. u don't see a lot of a making out, slutty behavior, crazy dancing or anything. girls stand at the bar in 2 sets, sober and pretty. i just can't imagine seeing them going crazy or jumping my dick.
i go back to the original girl and we got a good vibe going again. i go for the makeout... she denies, pulls out her mobile and gives me her number. calls herself so that she has it too.. maybe thats the way it works round here... playing solid, get the number and fuck at the day2.
i have no idea but i have more than 5 months to figure this out...
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I think this experience will improve your game in so many ways.
Ey, how is it going with PPC...
Ey, how is it going with PPC...
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hey alex!! :)
yeah, i think its a great experience... even though i don't see the same results as in berlin, i know that i could go back anytime and get the same results if not better... i mean its crazy, its just super social, every single night. u meet so many people from all over the world.
thats why i am not writing field reports, its mostly social circle game here... and its going good. i am probably THE most high value guy here. i have met some great friends, truly cool fun people. from girls i heard shit like "i don't want to cheat on my boyfriend, but IF i would cheat, i would do it with u" and stuff. or girls asking me for hugs at random times, watching me constantly etc. pretty crazy. so while every chode is making out with a different UG every night, i am pretty much the only one who didn't get his hands dirty yet... the girls are VERY receptive to me but also VERY curious which girl its gonna be that i will end up with.
really 2 sides of a coin, because now its going to be such a big deal for everyone... fuck it.
BUT - i want the two 9s. and while they like me and even actually look up to me, i am still struggling to escalate on them and bring that ship home.
as for clubgame with the greeks, its a whole different ball game. they are very concerned about their appearance in the club, they sure as hell don't go into 'slutty mode' like in berlin.
like last night, i opened a nice 2set in a bar, both really hot. they open nicely, they hook nicely... all nice. but i am struggling to escalate. i really would need a wing. i had to leave, so they took my facebook.
fuck it. next time when i write about some girls i approached, i want to write that i got blown out by overescalation.
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oh and yeah i finally started with Internet marketing. i took me a while to get it all ready, like i had no laptop, no cash, no bank account etc lol... but now i am in! there is no way of going back now. i started and although its fun and i am motivated, its really tough for me. i know shit about nothing... took me several days just figuring the most basic basic basic shit. but i got through it slowly and i keep going. this weekend i will try to set up the tracker n stuff. so excited when i will have my first poll finished!! will need another week AT LEAST though cause right now i am sooo crap at this lol..
yeah, i think its a great experience... even though i don't see the same results as in berlin, i know that i could go back anytime and get the same results if not better... i mean its crazy, its just super social, every single night. u meet so many people from all over the world.
thats why i am not writing field reports, its mostly social circle game here... and its going good. i am probably THE most high value guy here. i have met some great friends, truly cool fun people. from girls i heard shit like "i don't want to cheat on my boyfriend, but IF i would cheat, i would do it with u" and stuff. or girls asking me for hugs at random times, watching me constantly etc. pretty crazy. so while every chode is making out with a different UG every night, i am pretty much the only one who didn't get his hands dirty yet... the girls are VERY receptive to me but also VERY curious which girl its gonna be that i will end up with.
really 2 sides of a coin, because now its going to be such a big deal for everyone... fuck it.
BUT - i want the two 9s. and while they like me and even actually look up to me, i am still struggling to escalate on them and bring that ship home.
as for clubgame with the greeks, its a whole different ball game. they are very concerned about their appearance in the club, they sure as hell don't go into 'slutty mode' like in berlin.
like last night, i opened a nice 2set in a bar, both really hot. they open nicely, they hook nicely... all nice. but i am struggling to escalate. i really would need a wing. i had to leave, so they took my facebook.
fuck it. next time when i write about some girls i approached, i want to write that i got blown out by overescalation.
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oh and yeah i finally started with Internet marketing. i took me a while to get it all ready, like i had no laptop, no cash, no bank account etc lol... but now i am in! there is no way of going back now. i started and although its fun and i am motivated, its really tough for me. i know shit about nothing... took me several days just figuring the most basic basic basic shit. but i got through it slowly and i keep going. this weekend i will try to set up the tracker n stuff. so excited when i will have my first poll finished!! will need another week AT LEAST though cause right now i am sooo crap at this lol..
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Friday/24.10.09
Another week of gay superb socializing. Party as usual. Club. Dance with my friends. Girl i really like wants to make out with me. I dodge away first... matrix style. Then i think WTF and just go for it. We make out and it is kind of a scandal. I am here for a month now and I havn't make out with any of my colleagues yet... which makes me a rare entity. That plus the fact that i really am probably the most high value guy in my social group, yeah, it were all eyes on us for the rest of the night. My lovely 9 was seing us.... she was really jealous, telling me something like 'you made it, congratulations'. Really envious, tried to put me down. Left with my girl (btw, 7,9 and damn cool). Walked around a bit, then took a cap. Got out the middle between our flats, made out some more, then i left it at that. She has a boyfriend and I wasn't that horny and foremost, its social circle game and there is no need to rush it....
I think its good that i finally broke some ice. But still, i dunno where is my killer insinct... like I am not outcome dependent, but I am also not outcome orientated at all.... lits ike i don't care. Weird.
Another week of gay superb socializing. Party as usual. Club. Dance with my friends. Girl i really like wants to make out with me. I dodge away first... matrix style. Then i think WTF and just go for it. We make out and it is kind of a scandal. I am here for a month now and I havn't make out with any of my colleagues yet... which makes me a rare entity. That plus the fact that i really am probably the most high value guy in my social group, yeah, it were all eyes on us for the rest of the night. My lovely 9 was seing us.... she was really jealous, telling me something like 'you made it, congratulations'. Really envious, tried to put me down. Left with my girl (btw, 7,9 and damn cool). Walked around a bit, then took a cap. Got out the middle between our flats, made out some more, then i left it at that. She has a boyfriend and I wasn't that horny and foremost, its social circle game and there is no need to rush it....
I think its good that i finally broke some ice. But still, i dunno where is my killer insinct... like I am not outcome dependent, but I am also not outcome orientated at all.... lits ike i don't care. Weird.
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Some insight that might help out.
Usually when you go on a run, like hit up a bunch of hoes in a row, it's cause you got some momentum going.
Looks like you have zero momentum and that slows down the motivation or whatever pushes things for that killer instinct.
When I go into a downturn for a few weeks or month or 2 its always the same. Things go well, but there just isn't the close there. It's little things that you would normally push through but you come up with excuses or your priorities just shift.
You gotta push through that resistance and get some momentum going and start the fire.
As for greek girls... Dude, it's the same everywhere. You just need to push through that barrier. I had the same issues when I started out in Europe. I was like "Yeah, things are just different here."
And I had a downturn for a month or 2, but once I got that first pull, things just fucking went crazy and I banged like 10 girls in 8 weeks or some shit. You just need to prove it to yourself that it's no different and treat it like it's berlin.
Usually when you go on a run, like hit up a bunch of hoes in a row, it's cause you got some momentum going.
Looks like you have zero momentum and that slows down the motivation or whatever pushes things for that killer instinct.
When I go into a downturn for a few weeks or month or 2 its always the same. Things go well, but there just isn't the close there. It's little things that you would normally push through but you come up with excuses or your priorities just shift.
You gotta push through that resistance and get some momentum going and start the fire.
As for greek girls... Dude, it's the same everywhere. You just need to push through that barrier. I had the same issues when I started out in Europe. I was like "Yeah, things are just different here."
And I had a downturn for a month or 2, but once I got that first pull, things just fucking went crazy and I banged like 10 girls in 8 weeks or some shit. You just need to prove it to yourself that it's no different and treat it like it's berlin.
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had a great day, then went to a party with some new friends... at the university party i didn't want to "game" (meaning going for the kiss n stuff) as these would be the people i will be studying with the next 6 months. no need to practise on them. but i am super social with everyone and whilst everyone is getting drunk i am busy making new friends...
there is one girl living next to me (she invited me out) and i get along with her great... she would have been a great fuck but now i met this dude who is also awesome and he is kinda her boyfriend. sad for the fuck but still awesome as he is one of the most fun guys i met here in athens so far. and we hit it really off together...
there was another girl, hot too, but again i was to late because over the last weeks she kinda started a thing with a guy that also was with us. he was kind of a ass.... not obvious but subtly. it was ok though, he was just insecure and afraid she would fall for me. i am sure he is a nice guy, i just didn't like it that he had no trust whatsoever and tried to amog me.... but i ignored and had a great time anyway.
met shitloads of chicks. on the other hand i should have maybe escalated more because later i saw for example one girl that was into me almost getting it on with another guy... missed opportunity.
my group was heading home and i decided to head to other bars solo. its monday so not much is on the menue and i am new in town... i go to a bar area, meet some austrian dudes, hit it off with them. we get to a bar and they are kinda chode, i talk to some chicks but nothing hot or special. then outside i talk to some greek guys.... one of them is pretty cool, very socially calibrated, good style and into women just like me. we see a group of greek girls and he kinda challenges me. i burst into the group and hold the attention of the 6 girls plus one guy. except for the guy who was not happy with it, the girls enjoyed it very much. it is easy though... the language thing, where you from blablabla makes it easy to talk, you always get the same questions, its cool cause you can work on your "delivery" just like routines... (i've never ever been into the routines stuff but i see now its kinda cool cool when you got your stuff and you came up with it naturally)
anyway the girls love me, guy hates me and i ignore him, then my greek new found buddy comes in and "wings" the set.
the girl i was into didn't speak any english so i pawned her off to him. the rest wasn't that hot so i just entertained them and me a little. the guy was really cool, we got on well, exchanged contacts.
very social night, social circle is growing steadily.. i realized that even if i had a late start, i hit it off well with a certain (=cool) type of guys that i am no longer worried at all. i am late but everyday i feel more at home.
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