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May 18th, 2013
"Achieving Social Enlightenment" - Journal
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SlickRick

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i'm convinced that it's time to start my own journal on here. plus i'm finally starting to overcome some anxiety, and negativity issues that have been plaguing me for a while (not to mention fucking up my game and social life). so as the new year approaches, i figure it's time to start fresh, start new, renew my mind, indulge in positivity, and let go of the past. not to mention, hit my goal of boning more quality girls, enhance my overall social life, and eventually finding a girl to date for a few months.

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12/27/08  Field Report

went out last night w some friends. they are aware of the community but dont practice it really. the club was kinda gay - too many ppl i knew from high school and not that many girls. too many asian girls, i'm not attracted to them anymore like i used to be. maybe its because i've boned almost every possible race/combination of asian there is. tired of it.

i run into people i know almost every night i go out - either ppl i knew from high school or college. at first it was cool / fun, now it just becomes that awkward "how've you been" crap, and engaging in pointless small talk. ive been in this city way too long, thinking of moving to a new one.

i try to stay positive most of the night, my friend knew two girls there so he introduced me to them. they were kinda cute, little bit of flirting but they're bouncing around the whole club. i start getting bored. then i start getting nervous. so i start drinking. i go inside and there's this 4 set of girls smiling at me, i approach them and i dont even remember what i said. i wasn't that warmed up yet so it didn't go as well as planned.

my friend knew another girl at the club so i introduced myself, talked to her for a while, but it looked like my friend was macking on her (he put his arm around her) so i backed off and let him do his thing. i go over and talk to two of her friends, they're not too attractive either, kinda cute so i just shoot to shit for a little while. i'm starting to have more fun at this point.

we go over to the dance floor, and this one girl my friend knows keeps flirting with me. i flirt back. i also don't remember what i said, haha. i was drinking more alcohol again at this point, determined to "make the best" from a crappy environment. the first group of girls i opened is on the dance floor, one of them walks right up to me and starts grinding her ass on me, i go with it. then her friend starts grinding on me too. i go with it as well. its fun but im not really attracted. the girls there arent very attractive at this particular club, i get bored again and order another drink. im kinda drunk at this point. no girls in the club are really striking my interest either.

there are two girls on the dance floor by the DJ table, i tell my friend to go dance with them. he says "alright, if i go will you go?" i say "yup", we both approach the girls and they both start dancing with us. then the girl i was dancing with walks away from me and goes straight to some guy and keeps hugging him, i think its her boyfriend. he looks like a gangster so i leave it be.

the night ends, and we go to my friends house to hang out. i'm pretty drunk here, and remember having meaningless conversations of jibber jabber with the guys there. there are two girls with us, and i can tell one of the is attracted to me but my friend likes her. i let him have her. i drink more beer at the guys house and realize i had drank way too much that night.

my friend drives my car home, and i'm puking my guts out. i wake up hungover, feeling like shit and realizing i need to cool with my jets with the alcohol. especially bc when i drink, i smoke cigarettes. cigarettes are gross but they get me feeling more buzzed. i need to cut both out ASAP.

anyway i still have about 5 girls who im currently in phone game with, i took another girl on a Day2 last week and made out with her, but she wont pick up my phone calls anymore. what a slut. anyways going to follow up with the other girls and post reports of future nights and day 2s as much as possible from here.
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12/29/08

Stripper at the strip club asks me for my phone number.

Ok, so I don't know how often this happens or if she was being legit or just trying to pull a hustle. But anyways, this hot blonde stripper keeps looking at me and my friends while she's dancing, typical. She goes up to us afterwards telling us we're "sexy boys", asking us our ethnicity and our names. Of course we toss her a couple dollar bills. We talk a bit and she's gone. Later, my friend buys me a lapdance with her. The lapdance sucks however, but then again this was my first strip club lap dance. lol. During the lapdance she keeps rubbing her lips against my face, unzipping my jacket and kissing my chest. Kind of a strange lap dance I thought, seemed more like she was just arousing herself. lol

Anyway, after the lapdance, i look in her face and say "youre mad sexy, you know that?" she says "thanks, you guys are too. what's your ethnicity? i have a friend in town who loves guys like you. id be down to hang out with you guys. my friend just got herself a new pair of fake titties too" she goes and sits down w/me and my friends. we talk and shoot the shit, she tells me she's 26. i throw on the flattery juice and say "you know, you look much younger. but i could tell by the way you talk that you're older, you sound mature." she says "thank you blah blah", says we should hang out. pulls out her cell and asks me for my number. i give it to her and she's off hustling guys for more cash.

i shouldve asked her for her number but i wasn't thinking straight, not sure if would get jumped by a bouncer or something. anyways nothing left to do here except wait and see if she calls. Will definitely post updates if anything.
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12/30/08

Day 2 - HB Latina

I met this girl about two weeks ago at a small club named "Sin". She actually approached me and asked me what my ethnicity was, from there the game was on, I got the makeout, her phone number, and that was about it. Turns out she's 3 years older than me, id rate her about a 7.

Back and forth a lot of text game, i send her text messages and she flirts back stating "she loves my charm, it's very tasteful" and all these other signs of attraction. I eventually set up the Day 2 for today.

She arrives at my place, and I drive from there (David D technique). I take her to an awesome place by the beach. We walk around, look at some stores, and we pass by this outdoor bar, called the WaveHouse. We go in and watch the surfers ride the wave machine, it's awesome, we stay there for about a half hour. We walk around the rest of the area, and back to the roller coaster. I get her to ride the roller coaster with me, and it's all good emotions. She's having fun, then we go to sushi.

At sushi, we banter a lot back and forth, and I continuously sprinkle in playful sexual jokes which she seems to find very amusing, and she plays along as well. After sushi, I take her back to my place and she says she'll stay for a couple of minutes.

Upstairs, we begin to make out heavily, fondling, etc. She won't let me go too far and she keeps insisting that "we should have boundaries since it is our first date." I ignore that, talk a little, make out, continue escalation, and this goes back and forth. She keeps resisting taking any clothes off, she resists a couple of times and I figure I'll cool my jets. We hang out and talk, make out, and plan to hang out again later. She says she has to go home and meet her sister or some BS, I walk her to her car and she takes her slutty self home (jk). Will probably close this one out on the Day 3, will post updates.
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I Want to know if the stripper ever calls
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1/3/09

Day 2 - HB Young

Met this girl a week and a half ago at a friend's gathering. We were drinking at his house, and she was basically the only single girl there. My friends were trying to cockblock, but my game pretty much blew their game out of the water. Ended that night with flirting and sexual comments, and getting her number. She's short, has a reasonably cute face, big tits, and a slim waist. I'd rate her a 7.

Fast forward to phone game, text game, and the Day 2. I started this routine of taking this girl to a place called Mission Beach, where they also have bars, places to eat, and a place called "Belmont Park" which has stores, rides, games, and an arcade. Started by walking around belmont park, browsing the scenery. Eventually go into store, browse their, then we walk on the beach. i'm steadily kino escalating, and say "we have to get that full beach feeling" so i hold her hand as we walk on the beach, she complies. We're holding hands, swinging our arms back and forth, walking through the sand, and laughing. I squeeze her hand, she squeezes back. Everything is going good, i suggest we ride the roller coaster and she comes with. From here the emotions are positive, but it's only been 1 hour so far. Damn. I'm out of ideas - she said she's not in the mood to eat, and she's only 19 so we can't go into any bars. She says she wants to "do something free" so i suggest we can watch a movie back at my place. She complies.

Back at my place, less than 2 hours into the Day 2, we begin watching "Wedding Crashers". Lots of banter about the movie, and at first she's not receptive. Eventually she loosens up as I rest my arm and her leg, she rests on me, I massage her a bit, etc. Then I go into a tickle fight. Then back to the movie. This girl is very conservative sexually, as I found out on the night I met her. I steady escalate more, and about 3 hours into the Day 2 we're still watching the movie, and then I escalate more and begin kissing on her neck, behind the ear, etc. She keeps saying "this is bad this is bad" blah blah blah and is slowly pushing me away. i ignore, take a step back, and re-initiate. Same thing. We end up making out a little bit, then she complains about how "this is bad" again. It's starting to annoy me at this point. Make out again. Then she pushes me off again. This is enough tries for one night, so I figure I'll save the remaining physical escalation for our Day 3, so I that I don't come off as an overly agressive rapist.

Still have some more Day2s to pick up, a Day 3 to get with HB Latina, and will post updates when I get the Day 3 with this one.
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1/4/09

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Went out to a bar in pacific beach with two non community friends. I was going to stay in at home, but friend pressured me to go out. I didn't have that much fun - i'm also focusing on handling other "issues" in my life right now (emotional and mental) because well, it's more important for my overall well being, and without stability i end up losing girls anyway. oh yeah, also considering my friends don't approach, and they mostly like to do dance floor game (which results in a low success rate). Not to mention they like to drink a couple drinks before beginning any sort of their "game". All that drinking gets expensive, not to mention is unhealthy and leaves me feeling semi-lethargic the following morning. ah well

Anyways we were in the patio and I approached a group of girls -

me: "You guys don't smoke, do you?"
them: "no"
me: "oh ok, hey i like the way you guys are wearing matching shoes. did you plan that?"
them: giggle "no hehe blah blah blah mine are navy blue and hers are black"
me: "oh they look the same in the dark. my favorite color of chucks is grey, blah blah blah"

then my friend actually comes in and wings me, group goes pretty well. we tell the cuter one of the group that she looks like stephanie tanner from full house, and we start some banter about that and we're laughing. then some cockblock friend comes in and drags them off to the dance floor. oh well.

the remaining sets there are mixed sets, i decide just to call it a "non pick up night" and take it easy. later on the dance floor some girl opens me.

her: "you look familiar"
me: "oh yeah"
her: "yeah, how old are you"
me: "i'm 42"
her: "ohh i'm much older than you, i'm 28"
me: "how is 28 older than 42?"
her: "no you said you were 24?"
me: "i said i was 42. but you're right, i am 24"
then she looks at her friend and says something, then she walks off and goes to the bar to get a drink. i think whatever, i'm just not in the mood to chase her tonight. maybe next week.

i approach an asian set on the dance floor. i start dancing with one of them and my firend comes in and dances with the other one. the asian girl i'm dancing with is being timid and lame. the lights come on and the bar is closing and they kick everyone out. i'm also not in the mood to work a timid, lame asian girl. bail

anyway i think i'm going to cut down the amount of times i go to the bar, and with whom. going out with friends just to hang out and drink is starting to take it's toll on me. also, when i go out with non community friends i have decent success with "in set" with pretty attractive girls, but it's hard when your friends don't come in to wing you, especially when there's 2 or more girls i can't work them all by myself. anyway i've also been getting a decent amount of phone numbers from online game lately, so for the next few weeks i'm probably going to go to the bars 1-2 times a week so i have time to refresh my mind and focus on other things.
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1/8/09

Day 3 - HB Latina (From Sin Nightclub)


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FR (same night, after Day 3)



HBLatina - last time we went out on the Day 2 it ended at my place, got into heavy making out and fondling but nowhere past there. This time, we met at a bar. She orders us a pitcher of beer, and we shoot the shit and chat for about an hour or so, maybe a little more. We talked about friends / work and as usual i was injecting a lot of senseless humor. I sat next to her on the bar stool so I could escalate a little bit by touching her thigh, resting my leg next to hers, etc. But it turns out she already made plans to hang out with a girlfriend of hers later that night, so our "date" had to be cut short. I make out with her before getting into my car to head home. Bummer, I figured on this Day 3 I would close the deal, but guess I was wrong. For the past couple girls I've boned, I've been "closing" on my Day 3s (either that or they just won't return my calls, haha), but it turns out she's really busy with full time work and school, and some of her friends, so that in itself was a cockblock. Ah well, I'll just follow up tomorrow or so - there's still Day 4, 5, and by then either she should have had sex already OR she won't be returning my phone calls anymore. haha.

Anyways after that I went home and called non-community friends, they agreed to go to a bar tonight and that they would pick me up. I drank a little bit beforehand, so by the time I was at the bar I was pretty buzzed. Once again, I saw MANY people I knew from friends / acquaintances, etc etc at the bar - not my favorite thing, used to be cool but now it just gets annoying. I got there, opened a girl in line, saw a bunch of people all over the bar and spent a lot of time with small talk (what's up man blah blah), and saw this girl i knew. She had two cute friends, so I introduced myself to her friends and started flirting with her cutest friend. I don't remember what I said, but I remember she was feeling it. I think I left that set, and headed over to the bartender to meet my friend there but by then the bar was too crowded and I couldn't find that girl anymore. At the end of the night I remember making out with some bleach-blond haired asian girl, she was pretty cute. We were on the dance floor dancing, I escalated, ran a little verbal game, more escalation, then make out. I ended the night by asking to see her phone, calling myself on it so i would get her number, then calling that number back so she could have mine. haha. then i went to meet my friends outside. i probably should've went for the pull/bounce but it slipped my mind. :rolleyes:
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1 / 13 / 09

Day 2 - HB Navy

Met this chick from a free dating site. Sent some messages back and forth over the course of a few days, got her phone number, transition to phone game, and set up the Day 2. I had her meet me at "my spot" - but the Belmont Park was closed (with all the rides, games, stores, and food) so that sucked. Fortunately the bar across the street was open, so I met her at her car, walked with her to the bar, and drank there. It was pretty dead at the bar, and I felt a little bit awkward at first (still getting used to this meeting girls from the internet thing, and drinking at an awkward corner of an empty bar), but did my best to work the conversation and break the ice. I think somehow this date fell a little stale - we shared a drink and talked and got to know each other, light kino, and I had plans to walk around the beach AND get something to eat after. Perfect set up.

All of the sudden her sister calls and says their dog ate some tylenol from the counter and he's sick, and he needs to go to some animal vet. She says she has to cut the date short to tend to her retarded dog. Not sure if this was a fake story or not to bail on me, or if it was true - but either way I don't really care. I'll follow up via phone and text game, and if it goes nowhere then i'll just move on.
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1 / 14 / 09

Lay Report

HB Foreign

Ok, so a recap: I met this girl last week with a really half-assed effort towards game. The night was ending, I was pretty drunk, I wasn't having a good time nor much luck. So at the end of the night, I just said fuck it and I jumped on the dance floor doing some stupid dance moves, and started dancing with this girl. We were dancing for a while, lots of escalation, and make out on the dance floor. We talk and exchange numbers, more make out, and then I tell her I gotta go.

Transition to phone game 3 days later - we had quick conversation on the phone, then she was texting me, saying weird shit like "i miss u" and "i wanna see you". I'm like wtf, we barely know each other but i played along saying "yeah me too, when are you free, blah blah". Keep in mind I barely remember this girl, as I was pretty drunk.

We met today by some bars at the beach. Once we started talking, she told me she was a fucking foreign exchange student from Thai Land, and then I started thinking this Day2 was going to suck. She wasn't super cute AND she was foreign, so i was also thinking about bailing out. But I said fuck it, I'm already out here, so I tried my best to be nice and to stick around and hang out. We hung out at a bar, had a drink and sat down and talked. Shooting the shit, building rapport. Then we walked around the beach, I had my arm around her and gradually kino escalating. The night was ending and I figured I'll just cut this date short. Then I said "hey, there's nothing much to do unless you're hungry or want to drink more. Unless you wanna watch a movie.... do you have any DVDs?" she says "no not really", I said "we can watch a movie if you want, but i dont like the theatre". SHe says "oh at my house? or your house?" I said "my house, just follow me". She says OK and we end up at my house.

At my house we're sitting on the bed actually watching the movie. We start some pointless banter, at which point I grab her head and makeout with her.

Heavy makeout and dry-humping ensues, and she keeps reaching for my cock. I lay on my back, she unbuckles my pants and gives me the best blow job i've had in a while. This thing goes on for like a half hour. I get her naked and now i'm titty fucking her simultaneously with the blow job. Good stuff. She won't let me touch her pussy because she says she's on her period, I think "bullshit LMR". After 45 minutes of fore play she still won't let me touch her pussy, I'm like WTF. So I get on top of her and grind my dick on her, move her panties aside, and she lets me put it in. I take it back out and grab and a condom, and we start fucking. I saw the bloody pad and my bloody condom so shit, turns out she really was on her period. but after a 30 minute blow job, 15 minutes of titty fucking, I was able to last about 15 minutes during sex before I blew my load. lol, oh well :rolleyes:

Time from meet to make out = 5 minutes
Time from meet to blow job = 3 hours
Time from meet to sex = under 4 hours

Don't know if I want to see her again though, there's just something about foreign thailand students and me that just doesn't vibe too well. :)
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1 / 15 / 2009

Previous Lay Reports

Ok so I've decided to keep everything organized for easy reference, so I'm providing links to two more recent / previous LR's for quick viewing.


10/24/2008
LR: Hot Or Not Conquest

9/26/2008
LR: Former Dancer & Import Model



There's definitely been a lot more lays previously, but I never took the time to record it and post it on forums (just didn't want to I guess) --- and I don't see any point in going back and doing that now. But I probably will from now on so I track my progress, look back if needed, and to welcome any feedback and comments. Thanks.
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