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August 18th, 2018
I am lost on what dating Philosophy I should follow. What is the truth
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bitconnect

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Join Date: 06/10/2018 | Posts: 44

My background. I have probably watched about 30+ hours of rsd videos on youtube. 40+ hours of videos from other channels relating to dating. Read about 5+ books relating to dating, my favorites are Models, The Natural, The Antidote. I finished Transformational Mastery and Blueprint decoded which changed my life.

So after all these knowledge what I have is the mindset that I am enough and I dont need to do anything, just let the girls come to me, that's what Julien is talking about, "you are already enough" etc. I think I have that kind of confidence but why do I not have success with women. My default state is I cannot approach women, I have zero cold approach skills. I just let the hot women pass by me. So after all these I decided that maybe taking bootcamp will solve it. I took bootcamp but the bootcamp wants me to let go of all the things I developed internally, they told me to memorize lines, focus on body language, etc, because they say "Being a natural" doesn't work. Now I am starting to believe them, Now I am lost. What is the truth? And most importantly, All I wanna do is to jsut improve, I just want to develop as a guy who can cold approach women when I want, while being comfortable with being who I am, is something wrong there?
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GameReborn

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Join Date: 12/30/2017 | Posts: 661

  • Approach a lot and do the things that work
  • Feel 'good enough' inside and valuable as a person (comes with time)
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25ruca

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Join Date: 12/13/2017 | Posts: 490

Man, (almost) everything works, if you think you need something to game it will work, if you don't need anything to game, that also will work. You can even create your own method or game style based on the experience that you have. Just go out and find which way of gaming do you like more.

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bitconnect

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So I jsut go out there, cold approach women, get rejected alot, learn, be calibrated, whatever my style it does not matter? Am I right?
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GameReborn

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Right. Take action, experiment with different stuff and find what works for you.
 
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TenThenTens

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Join Date: 06/04/2018 | Posts: 8

Understanding a concept intellectually and truly 'knowing' it are very different things. A concept like 'I am enough' needs to become totally instinctual - and this process only happens via obtaining reference experiences - meaning GO OUT AND APPROACH.

You won't actually understand any of the concepts that are taught in RSD-style natural game until you do a LOT of approaches and you get an instinctive feel for them.

For example - why do you think basketball players like Michael Jordan or Kobe Bryant would spend a huge amount of time training their fundamental skills - throwing the ball in the hoop, dribbling, passing the ball etc.

These are things a child can learn in an hour of practice. But they take a lifetime to master. Game works the same way.
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Tyler

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Go game bro.  Hit it hard.

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bitconnect Wrote:
My background. I have probably watched about 30+ hours of rsd videos on youtube. 40+ hours of videos from other channels relating to dating. Read about 5+ books relating to dating, my favorites are Models, The Natural, The Antidote. I finished Transformational Mastery and Blueprint decoded which changed my life.

So after all these knowledge what I have is the mindset that I am enough and I dont need to do anything, just let the girls come to me, that's what Julien is talking about, "you are already enough" etc. I think I have that kind of confidence but why do I not have success with women. My default state is I cannot approach women, I have zero cold approach skills. I just let the hot women pass by me. So after all these I decided that maybe taking bootcamp will solve it. I took bootcamp but the bootcamp wants me to let go of all the things I developed internally, they told me to memorize lines, focus on body language, etc, because they say "Being a natural" doesn't work. Now I am starting to believe them, Now I am lost. What is the truth? And most importantly, All I wanna do is to jsut improve, I just want to develop as a guy who can cold approach women when I want, while being comfortable with being who I am, is something wrong there?
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Obfiscuteinatrobert

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Join Date: 06/11/2018 | Posts: 26

that the ego is the root of all good because free-will exists.  you are your property, the state of your body & the contents of your mind.
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vaderq84

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That's a good question. I don't know or have enaugh epxerience to answer it. But I do agree that practice makes perfect. Do approaches. This is the only way. 
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Breh, go out and start having fun. Approach whenever you’re feeling good. Repeat
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