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Sounds interesting, any suggestions or advice on how you did it. I've tried once or twice before but I never knew what to tap on(beliefs) or for how long.
I have tried this before, did work a bit at first I thought but then I thought it is just breaking the thought patterns like Tony Robbins does but in a "mystical" looking way. i.e. whenever the woman was thinking about negative thoughts he threw water over her.
Don't try and search for too many negative thoughts to tap, guess what happens when you search for negative thoughts, you get good at it and it becomes automatic!
Don't try and search for too many negative thoughts to tap, guess what happens when you search for negative thoughts, you get good at it and it becomes automatic!
Sounds interesting shankar.
Please elaborate more.
What specific material(lots of stuff out there) did you use and did you use it several times daily?
Please elaborate more.
What specific material(lots of stuff out there) did you use and did you use it several times daily?
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"How can I make this fun?"
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
what is eft?
Ive done a fair amount on trying to remove limiting beliefs but still never heard of it?
Ive done a fair amount on trying to remove limiting beliefs but still never heard of it?
This stuff can take your game to a whole new level.
So I'm at the bar and he's a friend of a friend. We got into one of those conversations that I dread these days.
He's asking me a string of "interview" questions, like where I work, where I live, etc. This is creating zero attraction.
So when I notice myself feeling impatient and bored, I know this is the time for some "scary honesty."
Me: Let me ask you a question. Is the conversation we are having even remotely interesting to you?
Him: [Confused look.]
Me: I mean, I don't want to talk about my job. It's boring to me. I'd much rather talk about what's exciting to you in this moment, right now. What's going on for you right now that excites you?
Him: Well, I'm asking these questions so we can get to know each other. I'm trying to find common ground.
Me: Ok, I get that. So you're trying to connect with me?
Him: Yes.
Me: Ok, and what I'm saying is that I'm going to feel way more connected with you if you stop interviewing me and start connecting with me right now in the present moment. So tell me what's really going on for you. If you were really honest, what would you say?
Him: That you're hot, and I want to take you in the back and start making out with you.
Me: Ah, much better! Thanks for being honest. So now what is stopping you from doing that? What are the beliefs you have that are stopping you from doing that?
Him: I can't do that. It wouldn't be appropriate.
Me: Fuck "appropriate." Appropriate is boring.
Him: I like it when girls swear. That's hot.
Now we are laughing, so at least the conversation has come alive. I ended up giving him the RSD website cuz I wish every guy I met was coming here to learn this stuff.
Anyway, I asked him what were all the beliefs stopping him from taking me in the back and making out with me, and they were stuff like this (in EFT these are called "tail enders" -- they are the things that are holding you back from doing what you really want to do in life):
- It doesn't seem appropriate with a girl who is wearing professional clothes
- I'm afraid you're going to slap me.
- I might be totally blown out
- I worried you're not attracted to me.
- etc etc
In other words, he's not congruent cuz his intention of making out with me is being nullified by all his conflicting beliefs. So now if this guy were to use EFT on all of those "tail enders," the next time I meet him he might actually be able to pull it off.
So I'm at the bar and he's a friend of a friend. We got into one of those conversations that I dread these days.
He's asking me a string of "interview" questions, like where I work, where I live, etc. This is creating zero attraction.
So when I notice myself feeling impatient and bored, I know this is the time for some "scary honesty."
Me: Let me ask you a question. Is the conversation we are having even remotely interesting to you?
Him: [Confused look.]
Me: I mean, I don't want to talk about my job. It's boring to me. I'd much rather talk about what's exciting to you in this moment, right now. What's going on for you right now that excites you?
Him: Well, I'm asking these questions so we can get to know each other. I'm trying to find common ground.
Me: Ok, I get that. So you're trying to connect with me?
Him: Yes.
Me: Ok, and what I'm saying is that I'm going to feel way more connected with you if you stop interviewing me and start connecting with me right now in the present moment. So tell me what's really going on for you. If you were really honest, what would you say?
Him: That you're hot, and I want to take you in the back and start making out with you.
Me: Ah, much better! Thanks for being honest. So now what is stopping you from doing that? What are the beliefs you have that are stopping you from doing that?
Him: I can't do that. It wouldn't be appropriate.
Me: Fuck "appropriate." Appropriate is boring.
Him: I like it when girls swear. That's hot.
Now we are laughing, so at least the conversation has come alive. I ended up giving him the RSD website cuz I wish every guy I met was coming here to learn this stuff.
Anyway, I asked him what were all the beliefs stopping him from taking me in the back and making out with me, and they were stuff like this (in EFT these are called "tail enders" -- they are the things that are holding you back from doing what you really want to do in life):
- It doesn't seem appropriate with a girl who is wearing professional clothes
- I'm afraid you're going to slap me.
- I might be totally blown out
- I worried you're not attracted to me.
- etc etc
In other words, he's not congruent cuz his intention of making out with me is being nullified by all his conflicting beliefs. So now if this guy were to use EFT on all of those "tail enders," the next time I meet him he might actually be able to pull it off.
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Erika that was ace. You should post more.
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"Sipping water in the hardest clubs with the hottest girls brah."

"Sipping water in the hardest clubs with the hottest girls brah."
no she needs to stop acting like some kind of RSD disciple, he was a chode and when I see chodes I certainly don't go around handing out links to RSD.
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no she needs to stop acting like some kind of RSD disciple, he was a chode and when I see chodes I certainly don't go around handing out links to RSD.
Yes because nobody that comes to rsd starts off as a chode.:rolleyes:
ye man "chodes" are inhuman out of wordly alien like creatures. Like a different species.
They are not just like us but with less information and willigness to apply that knowledge they are fucking aliens.
They are not just like us but with less information and willigness to apply that knowledge they are fucking aliens.

shankar
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Join Date: 08/25/2008 | Posts: 475
Few weeks ago i was inroduced to EFT ( Emotional Freedom Techniques) by one of my cool friend. A first i was skeptical how ever i kept the open mind and tried. As we all know Belifes are your reality. So i went out in the field and took notes when i ever i see a hot girls like( ohh man you dont deserve her, she is taller then you, you are fucked up) and tried tapping on all these fucked up beliefs. I tried this for 2 weeks and i can litrelly feel something in my body. i am naturally acting aplha and relaxed. Now its my 3rd week and i can reallly feel the diffrence. i totally feel that i deserve every hot pussy in this world and i just radiate this attractive vibe. Its some sort of magiacal experice for me. So i recommned you guys to give a thught on EFT might be it will be helpful for you guys. Its works like a charm to me and i am glad that i had found that wonderful Stuff.
Love
Shankar