THE FORUMS

Boot camp was awesome.

I thought I had many sticking points. But Ryan and Alex allowed me to see that I was too much of a robot. They allowed me to accept myself as perfect.

If anyone want a recommendation to take a boot – I’d say do it.

No hesitation.

My executive summary;
• Work on BL – keep distance and allow the girls to come to me
• Speak louder
• Smile
• Drop intonation whilst talking
• Talk in the present moment about myself via statements to build attraction
• Drop the game
• Understand when to slow things down
• Remove ego and man ‘down’
• Give out energy that women want, they are value takers so we must be the givers. i.e be the music
• Squeeze a lime into my eye.



Don’t give a Fuck Friday – Day 1

I met up with Lex before hand on Thursday. We got along like a house on fire. So we travelled out to the sticks to meet the crew.

2 guys from Blighty and 3 from Sweden. Another was due but was a no-show.

I got chatting to the guys and thought we were the most experienced. I realised I was talking in a authoritative manor to the other guys. I stopped myself from being dominant in this situation.

I was on boot camp to learn. All men start equal.

Alex and Ryan. First impression was good. They were dominant from the off. I’m glad I took the frame of the student before I met them, otherwise they would have had to have a quiet word with me – knowing my role in the boot!

Intros all round. For me – I been in 3 years, not getting the success I want. Alex and Ryan knew how to deal with me from the off.

I was too educated. Too much in my head. Cared too much about what others think. They said I was a social robot.

Ouch.

It was mentioned that for me, I’ll find that I’ll regress before I progress. I was fine with that.

Before we got a taxi to the venue, we talked about;
• Feeling positive; ‘what I feel, she feels’
• Emotions are contagious, to make her 7/10 horny, I must feel 12/10 horny! The self is always shining though
• Open with dominance, passion, purpose and presence
• Not over gaming – this is showing that she is of greater value if I have too pull out my ‘tricks’

So in the club we got some food and ‘choded around for a while’ (Don’t like that term, but that’s what Alex called it!).

Ryan explained to me, one on one, how over gaming kills attraction and I have no chance for rapport or if I do get a #, then it will almost always flake.

So once I know she is attracted, mini isolate and slow down the tone and ask rapport q’s.

Now club was busy, so it was time to work it.

We were told to introduce.

Began to clink glasses. Ryan and Alex did not like.

Alex told me to take off my sunglasses – which I love. Yes they are for attention, but I feel they are part of me (?!). But I did as he said, no questions.

The guys told me to sort out my BL I was going right up to women and invading their space.

I was also told to speak louder and not in my usual high pitch effort to ‘cut’ through the music.

I was told only to open with ‘Hi, I’m Cap’.

I was learning how to open all over again. Very, very tough.

Because of this, I really didn’t get past hooking a girl.

Ryan and I then towards the end of the night tried to go in straight for the kill. Introduction, makeout, extract. I needed help in this aera. Never done it before.

Crash and burn.

I stayed positive all night.

At the end of the night we had a debrief. Ryan and Alex laid into me. Positive critizism, but nevertheless not nice to hear.

Ryan asked me to do some h/w; What have I achieved and what do I deserve?

I went back to the hotel and wrote down my learning points like a madman.



Seduction Saturday – Day 2

After walking round Stockholm and checking the aquarium, I headed over to the retard hotel in the sticks with a couple of the boot campees.

We had another recap of the nights antics.

Alex told me to;
• Do it for me, not anyone else
• Express myself don’t try to impress others
• Trust myself – speak in the present moment/my inner dialogue. That’s how the self shines through
• Man down. Understand I am a sexual guy. Forget the game.

We sat in a restaurant in the hotel and help a seminar. The staff weren’t impressed.

We ordered food at stages thought the 4 hours, but we were taking up their space!

Excellent chat we had;
• Communication styles, learned to bring the vide, but send mixed signals via dropping intonation when we spoke
• Use statement
• Also on proximity
• Body language on effective use of THE CLAW!!
• Reactivity vs responsivity
• Escalation

A lot of stuff. Excellent material. And the best bit, for me, was when Alex pull out his presentation on Ego and Self Esteem. If we only had a talk on that for an hour, I would have been pleased. But the whole package was excellent.

I asked a lot of qs regarding his theory on ‘being the music’. I really wanted to understand it. I got a good grasp. It was a complex subject but worth knowing.

I’m afraid I had a big ego. And ultimately that stopped me from being ultra attractive.

So out to the club Saturday.

We put lime juice in our eye to get in state. Fun times.

I opened. I hooked. I mini-isolation. Alex and Ryan saw a massive improvement in me. I couldn’t help but feel they were just saying that. Again, my ego expecting amazing results after 4 hours talk.

I began to get really in my head.

I opened, opened and opened. But it was coming to nothing. I was bouncing around the club.

Towards the end of the night, there was a super tall bird, that Ryan and Alex pushed me into for make out and general groping.

Every time she rejected my advances I laughed and turn to smile at the guys. They told me to go in again.

I learned I needed more intent and not to see physical as something not serious or not funny.

I was not positive that night. I felt terrible.

Alex and Ryan extracted with a bird. So we left separately.

I went home and had and empty head. Only 2 learning point were written down. I felt like I had cheated myself that whole night.



Serenity Sunday – Day 3

My debrief was first;
• Beat the congruence test. Have intent when getting physical and follow through. Don’t joke if she rejects.
• Most intent, least reactive, most physical gets the girls.
• Be illogical and irrational to remove ego

We then talked about tactics regarding the pull, also on text and phone game, Day 2 specifics and then we were given a reading list.

I need to read A new Earth by Ekhert Toll – all about the ego, Iron John by Robert Bly and watch the Jeffy Show to know about fun times.

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All in all. Very good.

Once I recover from my pummelling from Ryan and Alex and my game becomes stellar, I prolly would do a second boot to tighten game – maybe in 18 months or so…