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Nathan's Bootcamp - Austin - Aug 29 - Field Report
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Kum@r!

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- I'm an Indian, born in India on 26-Feb-1981, came to USA on 26-Nov-2005.
All my life I have had limiting beliefs that it's just a gifted few who can get chicks they lay their eyes on.

- Although I have been seeing since I was 18, handful of my friends not best looking - picking up chicks. I always thought it was in their genes.

- My first kiss and sucking boobies was somewhere between 14th-22nd feb 2004 to a girl I met outside convenience store (The only girl who I approached directly)

- On 14th-Oct the same year one of my closest friends, also amazing with girls was getting bored getting blow job from a girl he fucked last nite, so he casually tells the girl showing my pic in his mobile...that he is my best friend and you are meeting him next hour. That was the day I lost my virginity.

- Things were on and off with girls where I had few kisses and makeouts, but no sex.

- Eventually all dumping me on account of me pursuing them desperately. Even the ugly ones.

- After coming to states, sometime in 2006, i met one 18 yr old diabetic fat as hell girl (Modest weight 350+ pounds) thru yahoo messenger. met her and tried to make out and did not succeed.
Tried pursuing her and she gave me hard to get attitude. Fed up i asked her if i am wasting my time. tables turned and i fucked that 18 yr old diabetic fat as hell girl....and she has been pursuing me till date.

- Nothing, but hand jerking rest of the year.

- Sometime in early 2007 i met a 20 yr old girl....she took me to beach for walk, kissed her, brought her home made her topless, but she did not let me screw her. And that was first time in my life somebody "slept" with me the whole nite.

- anyways i met her the second nite and finally nailed her (My 3 fuck of life).

- She eventually dumped me telling i have no future with her.

- Met an italian, then 27, fat as hell, but looked sexy...pursued her, spent money on her, could not defeat her in arm wrestling, only managed to make her topless, 'cause she overpowered me when i tried to unbutton her humungous jeans....she eventually stopped picking my calls

- moved to Raleigh, NC october 2007. Met a 24 yr irish nanny via craigs list. Looked beauty in pic, should have asked for full body pic, cause she was so fat that her flab coverer her - visualize humpty dumpty. took her to Hooter's kissed her in next hour....courted her few times, got a blowjob after 3 or fourth meet.....asked me to fuck her in my car, but did not have protection then, she swallowed my load instead.....first time for her too

- her best friend, an indian girl convinced her that i am not the guy and she conveniently ditches me

- i tried pursuing her, but she told me that im "nice guy" but not her type....SHE SWALLOWS MY LOAD, AND IM NOT HER TYPE.

- anyways she match makes me with a pretty 22 yr old friend. Mother, but sexy, sexiest of handful girls in my life. took her to hooters, then for walk near my apartment, kissed her and "tried" my best to get her into bed.

- never responded back. i tried calling/texting...and she said i reminded her of her ex and she is getting back to him and "she is not interested in having romantic relationship with me"

- That's my Chode story

- Coming up in next thread RSD Bootcamp story and aftermath
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Kum@r!

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- Since 2003 I have been doing a lot of reading work in the area of dating and am subscribed to quite a few different things:

Double you dating (E-book, interview with dating guru, attraction isn't a choice e-book)

don juan tips

RSD

Insider internet dating

seduction science

advanced macking

- MY "supposed" philosophy was that If i can read everything under the sun I can be the next don huan [HOW WRONG I WAS]

- Getting Fed up with not knowing what's going wrong, i made commitment to join RSD bootcamp - No ebooks, no videos, I wanted live experience

- After borrowing money from friends I finally registered for Austin bootcamp for Aug 29

- Before day 1 of bootcamp I had following assumptions about RSD bootcamp:

a. There is some magic wand which when touched will turn me into in irreristable hunk

b. the bootcamp instructor is some super human who could be seen from miles

c. my life will not get afftected by the bootcamp, i will only add some skills to be good with chicks.

Next post is about my experience in bootcamp, ephiphanies, post bootcamp experience
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Here is my realizations, ephiphanies during and after bootcamp

- RSD is NOT about picking up chicks. IT'S about YOU. If you can identify yourself - Chicks will follow.

- Instructors are just ordinary human beings, with extraordinary beliefs. Heck when I first looked at looking for me in the venue I could never have imagined he could be part of RSD

- THERE IS NO SUCH TERM AS "APPROACH ANXIETY"
- THERE IS NO SUCH TERM AS "APPROACH ANXIETY"
- THERE IS NO SUCH TERM AS "APPROACH ANXIETY"
- THERE IS NO SUCH TERM AS "APPROACH ANXIETY"
- THERE IS NO SUCH TERM AS "APPROACH ANXIETY"

- The world/society/illiterates/money-mongers forces you to believe that approaching is difficult.

- Who on earth can imagine just tapping on shoulder and introducing yourself could work wonders.

- If you stop a girl and talk - SHE WILL RESPOND AND TALK BACK. Even the most beautiful ones

- Alcohol does not HELP or act as Catalyst

- On night one after couple of hours of talk from Nathan I approached more girls/sets than I approached/dated/fucked combined THROUGHOUT MY LIFE

- When you approach zillions of girls in a night you get so immune to rejections that even if you want to remember what went wrong, you just can't because only good approaches stay in your memory

- Nathan / Tom forced me to believe that if I think I can then I will. Heck he didn't even care what I wore or whether I should purchase fashion tv clothes. I just had to be REAL ME

- TR doesn't get you digits/chicks [I still haven't started NR/BR yet, but am aiming for consistency, NOT perfection]

- DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE AIM FOR RESULT/PERFECTION - Concentrate in Present and the process.

- Only thing I found professional about Nathan and Tom is to ensure that we ALWAYS had fun - NO EXCEPTIONS

- Tom constantly read my mind and knew what was going wrong within me even before I told him....He constantly assured me that it is normal and one of the symptoms of coming out of your "Fucking Comfort-Zone"

- I opened a set and the chick who i was talking to constantly eyed Tom and got bonkers over him - Here's the catch TOM DID NOT UTTER EVEN A SINGLE WORD....It was all about his personality and confidence and I am currently aiming to reach that phase

- I DON'T GIVE A FUCK WHAT OTHER THINKS ABOUT ME

- Consistency is the Key. NEVER AIM FOR PERFECTION

- Guys are fun to talk too and they talk back too.

- Chodes will remain Chodes and must be present in good quantity at any given moment to feed your ego when you out-do them

- Nobody will hit you/punch you. Maximum was some assole hitting my hand and I forgot that. Cool dudes will recognize and honor our efforts

- Pretty girls get intimidated when you show higher value

- Don't aim for anything except having FUN (In short be In the Present)

- Experiment

- Every single muscle of your body will force you to get back to your comfort zone. OVERCOME IT.

- Your best friends will force you to get back to your comfort zone because nobody appreciates change. BE CAREFUL.

Next post is my first field experience all by myself
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Nathan!

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You sexy bitch. Now I'm gonna have to go to White Castle :)
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Yo, fucking inspiring. I'm half pakistani and look the part...keep at it bro!
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Kum@r!

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Before that I just have few more Epiphanies or whatever it is called:

- Nathan / Tom are constantly emphasizing that I have changed leaps and bounds. Here is the thing I just don't feel im different. I feel I AM ME and I AM REAL and I HAVE LIFE...I somehow don't feel that chode anymore

- Nathan / Tom are professionals, but here is the Key...both were "genuinely" happy for me (us) whenever we did good and they really want to strangulate the chode inside me for good...and I think RSD really wants to kill chodes from mankind...Even after completion of bootcamp these guys are constantly following-up and responding to me although they are not obligated to...Hats-off to your commitment

- NEVER THINK. THINKING IS EVIL

- Don't take long days breaks...initially the chode inside you is still powerful...don't let it mess with your state....At max one day's gap should be sufficient...

- If you see someone...approach immediately (No T.H.I.N.K.I.N.G.)..tap tap...hi i'm raul....somehow whatever shit you say is part of conversation - Trust me whatever S.H.I.T...(Funny Part - Nathan told me exactly the same thing before going to field and I internally REFUSED to believe him)

- You inner chode will want you to become SPECTATOR ALL THE TIME....if you feel like you are becoming a spectator catch hold of anyone - Girl, Guy, Chode, but Never become a SPECTATOR

- AUTO-PILOT is for real: I met a set in Austin, TX and when I extended my hand they said "I don't touch strangers"...When I was on my way to Hi5 in Raleigh, NC I approached 2 hot girls on street and extended my hand and they too said EXACTLY WORD-TO WORD "I don't touch strangers"..so we can auto-pilot their auto-pilot responses

- Last realization...All my life i looked at any girl (beauty/ugly)...I looked at her boobs and thought how would it look if i nailed her...Now I look at her face (beauty/ugly) and think how I can connect to her and know one more person in my life and even if things dont click sexually my social circle will increase...After ony 3 Days of bootcamp as against 27 years of Chody life...Bootcamps are effective



Field Report: Day 1 - 09/02/2008 - 09/03/2008


- Decided to go to Karoke Night in Hi5 in Raleigh Downtown - ALONE.

- Never told my friends, NEVER will. They subconsciously make efforts to convince me that it's not worth it

- Reached at around 10:30 in Raleigh Downtown

- Deliberately parked at some distance

- Asked 2-3 couples "eyy excuse me...where is Hi5"...no expectations....no consequences...

- Met 2 girls near Hi5...Asked them from distance "wot are you up to"...they said it's tuesday and enjoying...while they were passing me I raised my hand for shakehand to one one the girls and they gave me attitude that they don't touch strangers - FUCK THEM....i just kept on moving...

- Reached Hi5...sat at bar....befriended one of african american males - chris....he left and an african american female sat next to me - tiffany....happened to be mother of 3, heck i didn't care....i violated my new principles of not drinking on nights unless offered by chicks...later her brother don came

- we just talked and enjoyed our drinks wen she asked me if i ever did karaoke ever...i said no and im not interested....truth is i was uncomfortable (READ: SHIT SCARED)....after sometime she forced me to sing...i was nervous...but first time in my 27 yrs life...i sang....Matchbox Twenty...How far we have come....Asked Tiffany's brother don to take my Video....

- I was so excited for the rest of the night 'cause this has never happened before in my life....

- This may seem such trivial - But personally it is epitome of achievement for me. Singing in public

- i used it as prop to communicate with everyone....trying to get the chick close to me....some came some didn't...some abused me, some called their boyfriend...i dont remember...heck i fucking dont CARE...

- 1 big group of people called me at their table seeing my excitement on the club....3-4 guys , 2 girls trying to make fun of me....one exceptionally fat african american american did his best to mock me in front of everyone to show-off his superiority....i turned my energy/excitement into explaining the entire group how it meant to be doing things that you always wanted to do and everyone on the group agreed with me and hi fived me before i left (except that exceptionally fat guy - He was pretending that he has higher value than me)...

- left the nite with tiffany's and brother don's number...i did not score with anyone, but made sure that the club remembered me....and in turn made some cool friends...also HAD fun....VERY IMPORTANT
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Kum@r!;230694 wrote:
- Last realization...All my life i looked at any girl (beauty/ugly)...I looked at her boobs and thought how would it look if i nailed her...Now I look at her face (beauty/ugly) and think how I can connect to her and know one more person in my life and even if things dont click sexually my social circle will increase...After ony 3 Days of bootcamp as against 27 years of Chody life...Bootcamps are effective


THIS is the Attitude of Destinyy! This is how shit happens and keeps you going THROUGHOUT your journey and life. Hard to teach, but I love it when it's fully grasped for what is. Natural game especial!

Btw, I loved the part where 'P' told me at the end of Sunday night you were asking girls for threesomes... LOL.. that is the shit! Even better was when the waitress approached us during debrief asking us if we wanted something and without hesitation you looked her in the eye and said, "A hug"...she said something smart and just ROLLED ("What you don't like hugs??" in BR--that's shit I would say when I'm feeling playful).

From Friday to Sunday was a total resurrection of the Hero. I enjoyed every moment. It actually rejuvenates me for the whole week (I love it when my students actually pump my state for days).

Massive props to big bringing tons of juicy value to the past two weekend's programs. He's awesome. I'm already talking to him about a new innovation in my program to teach based on this past weekend's program. My goal is to make every program the best ever program I've ever taught.

This is just the beginning my friend! Thanks for the great weekend. Keep us posted...
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Before that some more Epiphanies (Damn...I kinda love it):

- There is nothing called pick-up line...whatever comes out of your mouth is pick-up

- I had sent field report to Nathan/Tom via email and Tom requested me to write forum for others to see under - "Success Stories"

- Here is the thing after the bootcamp i still haven't banged any chick, but the path i have taken is a "SUCCESS STORY"

- I'm not writing such long threads to show-off or display higher social status amongst rsdnation viewers...I have always thought that I could never do it....I will repeat...I HAD ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT I COULD NEVER DO IT...IT IS NOT MY DESTINY

- Anyone reading this - Bear in mind if I can do it anyone can do it...S.I.M.P.L.E

- I'm a working professional and work 0900-1700...it's fucking 2:30 in morning and I gotta mold my routine between office hours and party time to avoid red-eye in office

- My personal Principle - Leave Office Girls Alone unless they approach

- My real name Rahul...Nathan named me Kumar from "Harold and Kumar"



Field Report: Day 1 - 09/04/2008 - 09/05/2008

- Sent sms to couple of people that i'm going to RedRoom for latin night. That's where the party is going to start

- Reached before 9 to save money on cover

- once again deliberately parked at a distance so that I can stop random people on the way and ask for directions - same routine "eyy excuse me"

- every thursday they have free latin dancing lesson that starts at 9:30

- I actually always wanted to do Salsa, so my intent to to dance salsa and meet chick on the way. Not the other way round.

- so sat in bar and again violated my principle of drinking alcohol unless paid by chick (I gotta work on this harder)

- Girl sitting on my left, elderly gentleman sitting on my right

- LEFT: tap tap...hi im raul...did some talk, found out she worked there and was off duty that evening. some friends came and she talked to them

- RIGHT: NO tap tap necessary....he way a guy....I shouted my name and we connected...turned out he was an art dealer...so found more about art of art.....he gave me his card....looked like a chode to me....I AM NOT GOING TO BE HIM WHEN I AM HIS AGE FOR SURE

- Get call for Salsa lessons

- Am the last one to come on stage

- teacher started teaching basics....I stopped him went to him introduced myself then turned around and personally introduced to dozen odd people...some just girls, some just guys, some couples

- girls lined ahead of guys

- after sometime instructor asked me to pick a partner

- I didn't lok left i didn't look right....I picked the first person in front of me

- she was old fat african american biology teacher...Lucky her

- practiced some weird lines....don't squeeze my ass, look into my eyes....take it easy i know im hot but we are in public

- she took a restroom break. in that time i tried role-playing as an army general...with that posture and analyzing all the couples and giving my expert comments.....everyone had fun

- Heck im coming every thursday just for Salsa

- Once dancing was over went back to my place in bar

- a pretty girl sitting next to my chair

- no questions, no thoughts...tap tap...hi im raul...I'm in

- turns out she is waiting for her friend whose girl friend is and he is to not do anything about it....some guys whewwwwww

- talked for sometime....then asked when did she loose her virginity, then asked how was her kiss

- she said good

- i said this one will be even better...without a glance I pulled her towards me and we locked lips and rolled tongue and kissed passionately until she realized that she is in a public place....Me...I DON'T GIVE A FUCK WHAT ANYBODY THINKS ABOUT ME.

- Here is an amazing realization: After being chode for such a long time when you finally kiss the opposite sex, the chode inside you suddenly gets superpower and does everything a CHODE is supposed to do

- I knew what was going and couldnt do anything about it...i kinda clinged to her hoping by some miracle she will finish her drink and walk with me to my car, then home...ok this ain't easy - YET

- Nathan said "Honesty pays", so finally told her "I gotta be honest with you...I wanna fuck you"....ain't that hard to say come to think about it....

- anywayz she says lets take baby steps...whatever crap...told her come to hi5 on tuesday...cause i will be there

- handed her my cell...looked at it and asked what....some girls can be stupid...told her to punch her number...she dialled and called her cell. it rang. she gave correct number.

- tried kissing her one last time. by this time the attraction had completely disappeared

- ANY QUICK ADVICE ON WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN DONE TO BANG HER SAME NITE

- on tuesday will sms her and tell her to wear pink/red thongs 'cause they are getting wet

- didnt talk to anyone on my way out

- salsa is fun...So is MY LIFE....suddenly

- Hurricane HANNA hitting town tomorrow nite, so not sure whether i will make it to clubs tomorrow
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yo Rahul aka Kumar!
congrats on taking the plunge into crushing the chode.
I can relate to you on so many levels as I'm an Indian myself. it's the extra layers of bullshit we've in our society compared to the west which makes it harder..
take for instance, abundance mentality- an average Indian just can't process it believing that it's meant only for some Bollywood heroes to get so many girls :D
anyway, keep us posted of your adventures!
btw, Kal Pen (of Harold & Kumar) is refreshing amongs all chodey Indian actors!
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Awesome report, you're a true warrior! I'll call you General Rahul instead, it fits your new strong frame. The General in you destroyed your inner chode. Congrats, keep at it.
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Kum@r! Wrote:
- I'm an Indian, born in India on 26-Feb-1981, came to USA on 26-Nov-2005.
All my life I have had limiting beliefs that it's just a gifted few who can get chicks they lay their eyes on.

- Although I have been seeing since I was 18, handful of my friends not best looking - picking up chicks. I always thought it was in their genes.

- My first kiss and sucking boobies was somewhere between 14th-22nd feb 2004 to a girl I met outside convenience store (The only girl who I approached directly)

- On 14th-Oct the same year one of my closest friends, also amazing with girls was getting bored getting blow job from a girl he fucked last nite, so he casually tells the girl showing my pic in his mobile...that he is my best friend and you are meeting him next hour. That was the day I lost my virginity.

- Things were on and off with girls where I had few kisses and makeouts, but no sex.

- Eventually all dumping me on account of me pursuing them desperately. Even the ugly ones.

- After coming to states, sometime in 2006, i met one 18 yr old diabetic fat as hell girl (Modest weight 350+ pounds) thru yahoo messenger. met her and tried to make out and did not succeed.
Tried pursuing her and she gave me hard to get attitude. Fed up i asked her if i am wasting my time. tables turned and i fucked that 18 yr old diabetic fat as hell girl....and she has been pursuing me till date.

- Nothing, but hand jerking rest of the year.

- Sometime in early 2007 i met a 20 yr old girl....she took me to beach for walk, kissed her, brought her home made her topless, but she did not let me screw her. And that was first time in my life somebody "slept" with me the whole nite.

- anyways i met her the second nite and finally nailed her (My 3 fuck of life).

- She eventually dumped me telling i have no future with her.

- Met an italian, then 27, fat as hell, but looked sexy...pursued her, spent money on her, could not defeat her in arm wrestling, only managed to make her topless, 'cause she overpowered me when i tried to unbutton her humungous jeans....she eventually stopped picking my calls

- moved to Raleigh, NC october 2007. Met a 24 yr irish nanny via craigs list. Looked beauty in pic, should have asked for full body pic, cause she was so fat that her flab coverer her - visualize humpty dumpty. took her to Hooter's kissed her in next hour....courted her few times, got a blowjob after 3 or fourth meet.....asked me to fuck her in my car, but did not have protection then, she swallowed my load instead.....first time for her too

- her best friend, an indian girl convinced her that i am not the guy and she conveniently ditches me

- i tried pursuing her, but she told me that im "nice guy" but not her type....SHE SWALLOWS MY LOAD, AND IM NOT HER TYPE.

- anyways she match makes me with a pretty 22 yr old friend. Mother, but sexy, sexiest of handful girls in my life. took her to hooters, then for walk near my apartment, kissed her and "tried" my best to get her into bed.

- never responded back. i tried calling/texting...and she said i reminded her of her ex and she is getting back to him and "she is not interested in having romantic relationship with me"

- That's my Chode story

- Coming up in next thread RSD Bootcamp story and aftermath


Believe it or not. This may be Hero Story for many Indians. Out of thier reality...

I know many people who would be shocked to read this. Actually 80% of the people.
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