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February 24th, 2018
Fastest way to inner game strong beliefs/frame control/boundaries
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guccigame

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Fastest Way to Inner Game

Learn to control frames.  It will reinforce the beliefs you need to get good with women.  Your beliefs should coinicide with the meta fram that you intend to hold.

Your Beliefs/Your Meta Frame should include things like
I am the prize
She is trying to win me over
If I decide I don't like her I'm not going to be willing to have sex with her
I'm the coolest guy her


You don't have to believe it deep down.  You just have to own it.  

You need a strong sense of reality and that you are the one with power and choice, and it can be totally delusional until you bring it into existance.  You do this by learning how to control interactions.  Once you've done this you just know that you have the power. 

“All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth.”  – Friedrich Nietzsche.

This is about power and not truthIt's about appearing you have 100% certainty on being right when you know that you are wrong.  Not everyone is morally okay with frame control for whatever reason.  No one teaches their kids alpha personality traits, except the asshole.  Alpha traits can be considered cutthroat and mean.  Also, society does not like people who "manipulate" people.  Unless those people are women, who in their favor do this shit unknowing possibly.  Fuck I don't know.  The point is women manipulate and use frame control around their boundaries.  Manipulative men likely get away with it at a higher frequency than women, because less men are emotionally manipulative and use frame control. 

No one really has an eye out for manipulative or worse, bratty men.  Generally they are just viewed as charismatic.

When frames are too tightly controlled in a group setting the group can be weirded out by you. 
When meeting friends the frame you should convery is cool, fun, and safe. 
One on one with the girl is where you introduce things like sexual frames
.  This is how you get girls that want to fuck you very quickly.  It's how you get in true abundance.  For the inner game required to meet girls, the only inner game you need is the belief that you already have whatever it is that it takes and act like it. 

When you start controlling frames you will realize that you really are the prizeYou really do have power in deciding who you will and won't sleep with.  You have strong boundaries. 

Frames is just a bro term for boundaries really.  I am the prize and I expect to be treated like it. That's a boundary that is also a frame.  She is the one who wants to have sex with me and I will be decide if I want to have sex with her or not is a frame/boundary. 

Actually deciding if you are or are not willing to have sex with a girl is the strongest boundary you can set with someone on an emotional level.  If she is uncertain that sex with you is a boundary that you are unwilling to let her cross, if she is hot she will need your validation like you didn't think was possible.  Girls fuck for validation all the time, even if the guy is below her usual standards for looks.

Lastly, this is honestly what most girls are looking for.  They don't want to be alpha.  Even the alpha chicks don't want to be alpha.  Sometimes you gotta fuck around with them though and give them some power in the frame.  I always let alpha chicks be alpha until they need me to be alpha.  They really appreciate it when they get flustered trying to make a decision and I speak up decision made.  Why wouldn't they appreciate you being a man.  They are genetically programmed to be that way.  They are also programmed by society to live up to an alpha role.  So let her be alpha when she's comfortable with decisions and other "man stuff."  Be there when she becomes stifled and she will know who the true alpha is.  This actually takes far less frame control than regular chicks too.  
 
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Tyler

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Nice!

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Excellent!! Gucci I love you <3
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SocialLab

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Great post!  A true classic.

Really liked the idea as to how being the prize makes her chase your validation and gets her to escalate on you.

The last paragraph is one of the most useful bits I've read about in all my years in this.  It took me years to learn this, and your summary solidified this lesson into words.  Well done.
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Great post, Gooch! The frame you impose BEFORE you even approach sets the stage for the rest of the interaction.

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Thanks Tyler, donkey otey, social lab, and nbn. I was worried this post would be beyond the comprehension of a lot of guys on here, like cj the player. I’m glad a select few saw value in it. 
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Why would this be beyond my comprehension?
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Excellent post! These beliefs really hit home a few weeks ago when I started reading the 48 laws of power. But I had already started behaving differently last year.

When I'm with a girl I feel like I have to be treated like a king. I'm definitely the prize and me even thinking of spending my time with her is already an honor for her. It's up to her to prove that she's worth my time.
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nice post !     -but from my experience, just having beliefs/frames is not truly enough, you should actually have capital to back your shit up
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Kingmaker Wrote:
nice post !     -but from my experience, just having beliefs/frames is not truly enough, you should actually have capital to back your shit up


If by capital you mean money, I certainly agree for anything past one night stands/fwb with quality women.  If you mean social capital, the beliefs/frames that I described should bring that into existance for you.  Honestly the entire meta frame should at the very least help bring other good things into your life.

Regardless my post is more in regards to cold approach pickup than life in general.
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It involves social frames.  Much more complex stuff than looks, money, status, drugs, and steroids.  You seem to have a very narrow range of focus.

CJ the Player Wrote:
Why would this be beyond my comprehension?
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