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December 5th, 2016
30 Days of Daygame in NYC
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Neko

Neko

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Join Date: 03/19/2008 | Posts: 179

So I'm visiting New York this summer for two months, visiting from Berlin, Germany. Staying in Lower Manhattan.

A little background: I've been aware of the seduction scene for about a year and half, active since a year (I was in a relationship before).

Work, travel, friends and girlfriends in Berlin all kept me from doing cold approach frequently and consistently, so I decided to focus on that in New York.

I decided to approach at least five girls I want every day, in the daytime, for at least thirty days straight.
In addition I'll be out in the clubs at night, but less frequently.

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My general approach on the street, especially when traveling:

-Stop girls ("Hey, you're from New York, right?") and ask for some recommendations of cool things to do in the city. Nightlife, daytime, whatever. Before they answer I usually say something like "and don't say "Cats" (the musical) or anything like that"

-They answer, and I either make fun of the answer or show my appreciation and interest, or a little of both

-We talk back and forth about cool places a little, or about what I'm doing in the city. I actually know NY pretty well, so I feed them ideas and stories back, rather than just standing there asking for stuff.

-I mention some cool things I plan to do while in the city, to seed the conversation with plans for dates. They generally show some enthusiasm for my ideas, like renting a little boat and touring around Manhattan, or borrowing my friend's Vespa and doing the same thing.

-I say something like "Hey, you can swim right? OK, here, write down your number and I'll take you with me if I go on that boat trip."

If the girl seems more immediately attracted or if we connect on some other issue I just ask for the number without a particular plan.

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I started July 23rd.
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Neko

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Day 1

Union Square mostly. Love the high volume of women here. I have pretty specific tastes so I appreciate having a very high number of girls passing by me.

Approach as described above.

Five sets, three numbers (not counting obstacles, whose numbers I also take sometimes):

-Inside Barnes and Noble I meet two Russian girls, the one I think is most attractive is reading some book about how to be single and happy, so I start the conversation making fun about that. I take her number, not her friend's.
-An incredible Persian-looking woman by one of the fruit stands
-Two 18-year olds at Astor Place
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Day 2

About five sets, maybe more, four numbers (just counting the targets, not the obstacles):

-A cute busty Jewish girl in a sexy dress, with her sister and a friend
-Two lifeguards from NJ
-A surprisingly busty Asian girl by herself
-Another girl, quite beautiful, leaving for LA but returning in two weeks


Also met a bunch of guys from the RSD forum for the first time. I approach alone, but it's always good to have some company.
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Day 3

About five approaches, three numbers:

-Two girls from Illinois new to the city
-A Polish girl visiting her older sister for summer (a landline in NJ, probably the family). Beautiful big eyes and huge tits but probably no older than 18, if that.
-A very sexy Russian musician who's all over me immediately, a kiss and a hug goodbye. I'm a musician myself, so that creates a common experience pretty quickly.
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Day 4

Not much happened. Couldn't find any sexy girls without guys, started getting bored. I'm just not looking hard enough, obviously. There's hundreds and hundreds of people here. I do some half assed approaches, but don't close.

A girl I closed the other day sees me talking to some other chick, with pen and paper in hand. Makes me uncomfortable.

I go home. Let's not let this happen again.
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Day 5

About five approaches, one number:

A very sexy Polish girl and her friend, visiting NY for summer. Unfortunately, only the obstacle knows her number, so I get only hers. She says they're always together though. Looks like a chaperone situation.
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Day 6

About five approaches, three numbers:

-An incredibly busty teenage latina, chaperoned by a middle aged Asian lady, who does all the talking. I only get the obstacle's email, she refuses to give me the girl's number, albeit in a friendly manner.
-Two girls who look like American Apparel models
-Another latina inside Barnes and Noble
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Day 7

About five approaches, one number, a cute curvy Jewish girl.

I basically go for the number every time.
Exceptions are the few women who are in a hurry to go somewhere, where I failed to have at least a one-minute conversation.
Also some women turn out to be not so attractive close-up, so I let them go.

So I do get a rejection or two most days, but I don't care. I'm seeing so many good responses and getting so many numbers, that it really doesn't hurt if some girl doesn't want to give me hers.
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So what do I do with the numbers?

The day after I usually send the text message "I just met your twin!" (which I got from at the Method I think)

I get a very good response rate with that, something like 80 percent. From there, we usually joke back and forth via two or three text messages. Then I go quiet for a day or two.

Then I usually call.
-I use a time constraint, like I'm waiting for my friend to show up or I need to leave soon to go somewhere
-I make sure I'm in state, thoroughly socialized and outside the house. So usually I do my approaches of the day, get a couple of nice interactions and some numbers, and then I call my other girls. I actually get more nervous on the phone than on the initial approach.
-On the first call or two, I'll tell some cool stories about things I did recently, joke around, make fun of her a little, then let her go.
-The next call (or text if she's hard to reach) I'll usually make some suggestion to meet up.

At this point, I have a date scheduled for tonight with the two Polish chicks.

Also, one of the Jewish girls doesn't want to go on the sailboat (afraid of water) but wants to have drinks instead. Fine. That boat doesn't actually exist anyway.

The Russian chicks from days 1 and 3 are also responding nicely, although it's been hard to reach each other on the phone. I guess I'm the only person in NY that doesn't have a job.
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Met the Polish girls from day 5 at a bar/club on the Bowery, around midnight. They've been there for a while. I don't want to spend too much time in the club with them, for one thing it's too loud to really engage them both.

The obstacle is obviously more into me than the hotter girl. Leaning into me, touching my arm and shoulder. Talks much more too, enthusiastically. My target is much more reserved.

We finish our drinks, I take the girls out of there and we walk to a favorite place of mine on the LES. More quiet, with a garden in the back. We can smoke and sit down and talk.

They live close to me, good.

I take them back to my place. "Let's go drink some vodka on the balcony". They joke about how I'm going to murder them. I'm housesitting for a friend who has a loft in Soho, where we can hang out on the fire escape.

All I find is a big plastic bottle of cheap whiskey, so we drink that.

Try to connect more with my target, without losing the good will I built up with the other girl. I feel bad for the other girl, a little.
My target is obviously the hot one. Pretty, sexily dressed, big dark eyes, crazy huge tits. The other girl is friendly, but not too attractive.
Also, my target has a boyfriend back in Poland. The other girl mentions it several times. I ignore it. What happens in NY stays in NY.

We talk about some more personal things, slow down the sarcasm and the teasing. Closer together, more touching. I smell her neck/hair, she puts her head on my shoulder, as we look over the balcony I put my arms around her. We make out a little when the other girl is in the kitchen getting ice. She's hesitant.

It's about 4 am. The girls want to go home, they're sleepy. I let 'm go. Expect to see them again soon.

I'd appreciate any ideas on how to handle this situation:
-One really hot girl, and her not so attractive friend (they're collecting numbers like crazy btw, going out in Manhattan every night, they make fun of the other guys)
-The friend is more obviously attracted to me
-Target has a boyfriend at home
-Neither they nor I really have any other friends in the city, we're all visitors
-I'm not attracted to the other girl, so escalating on both is an option I'd prefer to leave out

Thanks!
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ArchAngel

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Join Date: 05/11/2007 | Posts: 177

Nice!!! Getting a decent number or two every day is awesome! So you basically go for the number rain or shine? Good strategy.
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