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Nice. Possibly the single most important concept in all game.
Money post. You get these down, and you'll need little else.
Money post. You get these down, and you'll need little else.
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What's that feeling? Uh oh, what's that feeling in your gut?
You just realized that you don't give a fuck and you can do anything you put your mind to.
That's what that feeling is.
You just realized that you don't give a fuck and you can do anything you put your mind to.
That's what that feeling is.
Jonathan~ Wrote:
.... Fortunately there's nothing wrong with anyone's soul. It's not anything that needs work. All they have to do is get more in touch with it...
VERY VERY true.
Thanks for that little bit.
Everyone already has an amazing soul somewhere there deep under all the layers.
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I love how whenever I have problems it always seems like all of a sudden 1000answers pop up. I've been getting bored going out lately ... girls aren't interesting me as much/I lack passion. I hit the indifference threshold fully for the 1st time this Saturday and every girl but 1 bored me even though I could open and be dominant etc with ease. I realize its an intent and escalation problem. Since then ~10 posts have come up on how to solve that. Glorious. Thanks Tim.
Inventor, I have a similiar problem. Its very frustrating. Damn ego.
A practical question on something I don't understand: if the girl was into him, why did she walk away?
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A practical question on something I don't understand: if the girl was into him, why did she walk away?
She was testing him because he was GREAT on the surface. Doing everything well... but I could tell she felt a disconnect somewhere... VERY subtle.
So to test his manhood/soul/see if he WAS for real she said "ok well... i... gotta... go..." really slow with a big smile on her face (what she was really saying is ARE YOU MAN ENOUGH TO TAKE ME AND NOT LET ME GO
he says "ok bye"
thinking he lost it because of technical issues.
I see it all the time.
Girls do it to me to "Ok I gotta go"... tim: "WHAT NO!?" CLAW
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Truly amazing post...
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Inventor Wrote:
A sticking point for me for pulling girls is I couldn't mentally picture myself pulling them to my apartment, so that is the main reason why I couldn't pull them. Somewhere deep down inside, your mind is telling you, "she likes you" and this isn't supposed to happen.
It is like when someone becomes famous and then becomes unstable because they can't see themselves as "that" person. This is still a sticking point for me with the HB10's, and I am working on this.
Great post Tim.
I've encountered this and only just last night did I break through on it. It's so simple but...PIMP and CLEAN your place. If you don't think that you're good enough for her to want to go back to your little man-cave...then trick it out and feel confident that she will want to at least hang out in your apartment. Eventually you'll have enough experience with women at your apt that it won't make a difference.
I found that once I really started tapping my intent, my "taste" in women changed. I no longer see them for what they aren't, or what they don't have, or what they can't do for me. I just see what is sexy about her and if I can imagine fucking her, I go for it. Total change of mind-set.
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Inventor Wrote:
A sticking point for me for pulling girls is I couldn't mentally picture myself pulling them to my apartment
So start mentally pictuturing it vividly over and over again, your subconscious mind doesn't know the difference between an actual event and a vividly imagined event.
Great thread, Tim.
As you said at the FN SC, your intent has to increase as the night goes by. I am beginning to realize that a lot of the difference between going home empty handed and a pull is intent.
So you claw them when they try to walk away?
As you said at the FN SC, your intent has to increase as the night goes by. I am beginning to realize that a lot of the difference between going home empty handed and a pull is intent.
Tim Wrote:
Girls do it to me to "Ok I gotta go"... tim: "WHAT NO!?" CLAW
So you claw them when they try to walk away?
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Something really struck home for me on this weekends bootcamp that I am sure can help shift your perspective to that of a true core ladies man.
There was a guy this weekend who was HEAVILY into using a step by step method. He fought and fought anything he had to try out himself. He wanted what to say in EVERY situation.
I saw him do an AMAZING pickup that would make a LOT of guys think he is the SHIT! I was very VERY impressed.The girl was DOWN to have sex with him RIGHT THERE. All over him. Anyway the girl walked away... and he came back and IMMEDIATELY started telling me what went wrong technically in the set
Why didnt he pull her back as she went to walk away?
Why didnt he just take her home? (she would have gone)
He was focused on the GAME and not on the LOVE of the GIRL.
He was not connected to the SOUL.
Here is how I explained it:
Led Zeppelin, arguably one of the best bands in HISTORY and one of mine and Jeffy's personal favourites... They truly have the glory.
They went on to shape all music forever. How? Where did that come from?
You see, ANY GUY ON THIS PLANET can learn the chords from the guitarist and play the chords. They can learn the drum rhythm and play the drums. They can find a talented singer to match the voice (well, come close to maybe) the singer.
But what they won't have is the unshakable SOUL of the band.
How did they think to put those chords and beats together?
The SOUL.
How the hell did he think of those lyrics?
The SOUL.
How the hell did they get that STYLE?
The SOUL.
The SOUL is what a girl connects to on a VERY deep level. Perhaps the deepest and truest form of "Game" is the SOUL.
My soul with women comes from a deep, core love I cannot explain nor teach. The love not just for women, but for LIFE.
You have to connect with the soul of yourself and your own deepest passions for beautiful women which is a parallel to your deepest passions for living a GREAT LIFE.
We can give you the chords, the method, the steps, the things to say. Thats fine. But with no soul you are a walking club zombie.
Developing the soul:
Music: Since we are on Led Zep's listen to the classic 'Stairway to Heaven'. Notice how you don't even have to know the lyrics or make logical sense of them - but you can FEEL what he is trying to communicate.
Values: You will not develop the soul unless you are living by a harmonious set of values you are trying to convey. For example: you know that you should be dominant and fun in the club - but if you are not dominant and fun in ALL areas of your life then there is massive disconnect and the girls will feel it.
Its that ability to walk up to a girl in the club, say or do ANYTHING, but conveying the FEELING of a MAN WHO HAS HIS SHIT TOGETHER.
When you walk into the nightclub, it should be a mere CELEBRATION of YOU - the FUCKING MAN.
A celebration of the guy who attacks life and takes what he wants because of his deepest love for it.
SOUL development will become a massive part of my bootcamp in the coming months. These thoughts are explored deeper in the Flawless Natural Program.
Always remember that any "method" or "system" is just a signpost - a way to DISCOVERY. Discovery of your own soul and deeper purpose. If the system or method doesnt allow for this: then how can you not become a useless clone?
How is your SOUL going?
T
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