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January 19th, 2018
Height insecurity
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Clandestine

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Join Date: 10/03/2012 | Posts: 148

I'm 5"5' and it's my biggest insecurity 

i'm fairly attractive guy got called handsome and hot few times

but I still feel like I'm not good enough and my failure in relationships is largely due to my height

all the tall guys I see with my looks level get different girls yet I struggle to get one to go out with me
I feel like I don't fit the protector archetype, don't make girls feel "small and feminine"
Remember getting rejected 5-6 times bluntly because of my height

I can't get girls to date me or give me a chance

I asked 3 girls recently to go out with me and all of them gave me excuses

Taller girls vibe fine with me but I don't feel like they will date me so I question if there's any point in trying anymore

I feel like girls don't care about a guy with my height

I don't know if game will work with my hardcase shy personality and height
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tfc221

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Join Date: 07/15/2016 | Posts: 12

A friend in my family is a 5'4 hispanic guy who's approaching his 60's now. He's slept with over 300 women. When I first met him he was telling me how much women love him and that I'll notice when I go out with him. I've been out with him to restaurants and various places and it's true, whenever we're out every woman, young and older, is checking him out and women often come up to randomly flirt with him as well. His wife even mentioned how she's always dealing with other women trying to hit on him in front of her.

So he's 5'4 and ontop of that he's not even good-looking. His father was even shorter, about 5'2 and had a large belly, and he was a notorious womeniser. His father would always bring random girlfriends around the house when he was growing up. So that would have influenced him, and also he told me that his first lay was when he was 13 by a woman in her 30's. That would politically be considered abuse nowadays, but I'm sure it instilled confidence in him at a young age and is largely responsible for his power with women to this day.

The guy I'm talking about isn't shy at all, very confident and talkative. But all these women are checking him out when he's walking down the street and not saying anything... so it goes to show it's mainly an inner vibe thing more than anything. Comes down to inner beliefs or what you expect  / are used to happening. 
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okaaaay

okaaaay

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Join Date: 03/18/2015 | Posts: 68

Great example above from tfc221 of a short dude crushing it. There are guys of all shapes and sizes getting laid like crazy.

For you, I'd recommend seeking out a bunch of successful short guys to give you proof it's possible, and to shatter your limiting beliefs. Whether it be searching for them on YouTube (I've seen many short dudes on there picking up hot girls) or tracking them down irl!
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Jamesstreet

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Join Date: 09/19/2017 | Posts: 102

I'm 5'3 (I'm 22) and the last girl was taller and sucked my dick - it's not a problem for them if it's not a problem for you 
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Quan

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Join Date: 10/24/2017 | Posts: 7

Man, trust in the process and the rest will follow. Good luck ;)
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RSD_MARTIN

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Join Date: 09/29/2017 | Posts: 6

It's funny, because it really doesn't matter in the long time. It's not a problem for anybody - you have to only don't give a fuck.

I'm 5'7 and it was a disaster for me in a past, but now I joke only about it. Sometimes I ask girl "but what? because I'm short?" and it makes me amused (they reaction are so funny). Try this and good luck :)
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NinoBrown

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Join Date: 03/17/2008 | Posts: 156

Dude the majority of the rsd instructions are short......you'll be fine..
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#7

BE

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Join Date: 09/10/2013 | Posts: 1141

It's how you carry your short self that matters even more
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marcelohimself

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Join Date: 01/06/2018 | Posts: 26

Bro im 5'8 or 5'9 dont know exatly and taller Girls approach me.

My friend 5'5 fucks Girls much tallers.

You can increase height buying height insole.
You can cry or shut up your brain and keep take action.
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Tyler

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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 8782

The best way to fix it is to get laid with more girls.

You need to apply the princples of game, get laid, and as you see the results, your insecurity will mostly go away,

But if you don't apply game properly, and half-ass it, and lie around saying "I'm short"..... well then you'll stay insecure for a long time since you'll have no results.

The truth is, and you know it.... you aren't REALLY gaming.  Go ACTUALLY game.

Tyler
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Tyler

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I mean the fact you're saying "I asked 3 girls to go out with me" and asked for "dates" shows you aren't gaming and don't understand it properly.

Get up to snuff on the latest tech and implement it.

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