THE FORUMS

FR: 27 June.

First day. first time out alone, first time going sober.

I was really nervous about this whole thing before hand, I've never done this. I pick out a club in my head at home that i knew.
Then I asked some friends what they were doing, just hanging out drinking, no girls at all, FUCK THAT!
The clock turned 22.30 and I was still at home, reading on this forum and was thinking about not going after all, maybe join my friends, the easy way out. But then iRay~ told me on MSN to just go out so I did, thanks man.

Finally out and on the metro I felt nervous, why? I don't know, but i was in my head the whole way there. Got to the station walk to the club.

"Underbara bar (the name of the club) has closed this summer please come back after summer."

WTF! I went to a little bar next door and they told me go down the street to another place which had the same owner, so I did. Got there, chated with the bouncer for a bit before i went in.
This was no club. It was a resturant with a bar in it. Got a coke and right away sat down at the same table as 4 girls.
Now my vision is very bad, I have glasses but never use them and I'm waiting for my contacts long story short I don't see shit.

When I sat down I saw that the girls was like 30+ years old, and not that goodlooking (3blondes 1brunette).
I said Hi my name is Kilo, can I wait for my friend here with you guys. Sure they said but I felt like it was totally weird, I wasn't attracted to them at all, so I ejected after about 15 min.

That was the whole thing. A little pathetic I know, but still 100% more approaches then before.

Yes ofcourse I know about stureplan and the clubs you mentioned. They are like the most expensive and boring clubs in town :P.
Otherwise I hope you had a great time here.

Another note, I now see this as taking on a new sport. Before it was other things, now it's called pick-up the most fun sport you can do :D. I think this mindset will help me alot.
Now in the begining the clubs are the playing field, but in some time the world will be the playing field!

FR: 18july 08

This is a short one, not much action but still learned something.

Was at a friends GFs bbq party. I came there early joing my friend and his GF for bbq. Then people came and went the entire night. There were maybe 15-20 people there at some points. They chicks were alot younger then me (17 and 18) and hot as hell. This being sweden it's not rare.

It was a fun time. I didn't close anything, but i really build my socialcircle, they all liked me.

Well the things I learned was to not be reactive and not be valuetaking. Instead bring the party, give value, don't think what other think of you just have fun.

I could really see myself doing both sides this at some times of the night. Must work on this.

Another good thing was i drank just a little. But the whole night people where asking me or telling me how drunk i was. Because I was talking and laughing so much = being social.
I don't need alcohol at all.

FR: Friday 15 aug

Met some friends and went to the regular start-up place. We were 4 guys with 5 girlies. I don't have to metion they were all hotties.

I've been thinking about my voice after I've heard Tim and Jeffy speak of it. So tonight it was booming, cutting over everything and noone said I was speaking to loud or anything. My state skyrocked just by me talking strong and aggressive.

I don't remeber all that we talked about but I remember: Me sitting between all the girls, the boys on the other side, me talking loud and strong, whenever they took a photo I clawed one girl had her kissing me on the cheek or something. It was all very playfull.

The night went on and around 12 I led the crew to a club nearby that is awesome. Me talking about it like the best club in town etc. (making thing in my life extremely cool).
When we got closer I grabbed the hottest blond and said she was my date for tonight and that we was a couple, she liked it. My reality wins.

Then in line for the club the bouncer (a girl) would not let us in, the girls where to young, 18 and you had to be 23. I tried to talk to her and she was getting a little bit easier, but then my gang didn't want to go there anymore. Here I should have said random stuiff to the bouncer like, but my girls are in Stockholm just for this club, but i have my goodlooking shoes on just for this club etc.

We head to another club in another area of town, but when we get there it is closed (damn! I have to check these things before I go out).

Two of the girls part with us to go look for another club that will let in 18year olds. Me and my wing get tired of babysitting this gang by now and are thinking about leaving the others (he's older then me). We walk around for a bit talking about where to go in.

Now begins the fun:
I'm walking a few meters behind everybody.
A taxi stops right in front of me and four blond hotties come out. I put my arms out to hug the last one. Big smile on my face, energy dripping of me. It takes me like 1,5 seconds then when shes really close I see that I know this girl from before. She recognize me aswell. I know that we worked together some years ago, but she thinks I'm a guy she slept with ;). One of her friends come back to us. I go strong: Boom! Hi I'm Martin, Eyecontact, big smile, valuegiving, BR. She starts giggling right from the start. After about one minute my wing turns around and sees me talking to the girls, he comes back and in like 2 sec we split the girls up he talks to the friend. From there it's claw, hugging, laughing. Me saying to my girl You know, It's you and me tonight! She laugh and say that she know. Then spin and in right there. Fuck only doing it on the dancefloor.

I see in the corner of my eye how my wing is kissing the friend on the lips, glorious!

My girls phone was ringing all the time and the friend they came with went in to a place nearby, so we got eachothers numbers. And said we would meet up later. Spin one more time then off they went. My wing got the number aswell.

The interaction lasted maybe 15-20min.

Me and my wing then went to a club, chatting with the bouncer (a tall blond girl) joking about they had two lines, two ropes and stuff, everybody in the que, about 10-15 people laughed.

Then we chat with casierchick abit, I remember I got a free ticket from before at this place so we go in for free.

At the club we dance silly, shouting WOOO and clapping met some guys I know and just having fun. A girl sat on some stairs and her friend danced in front of her close to the dancefloor, WTF was this! Me and my wing are on then right away. It turns out she had broken her heel on her shoe, and could not walk.

We text our girls some times, I go for Tims You're my new text GF or tonight. Super fun!

We meet up with another friend of mine and me and my wing part ways. The girl is telling him to come to her place sort of, so he goes for it, but then she flakes.

I leave the club, get something to eat and chill with my friend. Some girls walk by trying to ride on a little childs bicycle thing. We start laughing, my friend jumps up and pushes one girl on the bicycle I chat up the other some, she films it. Nothing happend, but it was fun.

End of the night.


GOOD THINGS
- Loud, WOO!, state!
- No alcohol at all.

THINGS TO WORK ON
Chicks on the street, for the taxi:
- Should have tried to kiss her, moved her off the street to the wall, isolating, played more in the frame of us two were an old couple. Like: Don't you remember me, I gave you orgasms all night, you said I was the best lover you'd had. Then fake sadness and need a kiss.

- Tims You're my new text GF tonight is fun. But I should have chilled some more, saying lets meet up at the club instead.

FR: Saturday 16 aug

Short one. Was at a party at my friends place. It was a total sausage-fest only guys and girlfriends.

My mission that night was to get this new girl, my buddies girl to really like me. Second time I meet her, first time they hooked up. Well she did like me :D. I was touching and talking loud the entire night. After that I lead the gang to a place to eat.

I'm really starting to like this more and more. Joking around and being dominant etc.

GOOD
- Strong, dominant, loud.

BAD
- Should have hit the club later that night.