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How does a fuckbuddy work?
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Join Date: 07/24/2007 | Posts: 1933

OK...

simple question for guys who've been there and done it. All I ever did was ONS game, I never saw the girls again by and large, or sometimes months apart just for a quick shag.

I fucked this girl midweek off a date, I've told her I'm into casual stuff and she's likeminded.

I want to keep her in rotation.

How do you proceed? Do you go out for drinks and shit again or do you just pull her over whenever the hell you like for blatant sex?

My only concept of dating is ONS or chode-relationships, so new territory for me. I have an idea, interested to hear what you guys with FBs do.
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Do whatever. Hang out, or have her come to your place and watch a movie or just to bang her. If you've done it already it shouldn't be a problem. I suggest only see her once a week unless you want to become more serious with her. (Got that from David d'A.)
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I had one I used to message each Monday. She would come round after I finished at the gym, we would go get dinner at a place down the road, then fuck and she would drive home.

If they are down to fuck already, 'movies' or 'dinner' should be plenty of excuse.
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All my fuckbuddy relationships have had a basic structure that keeps things the way I want them:

1. Only see them at most once a week. Text or call 1 or 2 more times, but the less the better. You don't want to be on her mind all the time, is the main point.

2. When you do hang out, make sure it's FUN.

3. DO NOT ACT LIKE A BOYFRIEND. This shit, along with #1, fucked me up for a while, cuz I love doing it, haha. Do not do boyfriend stuff. I.e. cuddling, having heart to hearts, doing favors, etc.

Those 3 things are what I focus on with my FB's, and with exception of one girl recently, which I broke ALL the rules with and thought I could get away with it, haha, it's usually a pretty smooth ride.

Oh and don't get hurt if they end up getting a boyfriend at some point.

That happened to me a few times, and it fucks with your head, cuz you're like, "I didn't even want a relationship with this girl, why do I even give a damn?!?!?!"

All of a sudden you want to marry the girl, haha.

It's always a sad day when a good player quits the team.

10Pin;190235 wrote:
OK...

simple question for guys who've been there and done it. All I ever did was ONS game, I never saw the girls again by and large, or sometimes months apart just for a quick shag.

I fucked this girl midweek off a date, I've told her I'm into casual stuff and she's likeminded.

I want to keep her in rotation.

How do you proceed? Do you go out for drinks and shit again or do you just pull her over whenever the hell you like for blatant sex?

My only concept of dating is ONS or chode-relationships, so new territory for me. I have an idea, interested to hear what you guys with FBs do.
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For me, it has never been a stable situation.

Once what started as FB ended up in marriage. Next time I tried it, it ended up in a 3 year exclusive relationship.


Better luck to you.


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jlaix

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Hahah how do they work? You need a manual or some shit?

Ok here's how it works. You call them up, and you say"hey come over, bring me a taco and suck my dick."

"Yes. Chicken will be fine. Super with everything."
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1) I call her or she calls me. Or more commonly txt.

2) I come over to hers or she to my place

3) When she arrives I kiss her and slowly we proceed to fucking

Occasionally we may eat or drink (alcohol) between arrival and fucking, but as a matter of principle, I don't like to do prolonged non-sex activities with FBs.

With genuine friends with benefits (like we're actually friends along with the fucking) that's different, but that's a very different type of relationship.
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Grand.

Yeah she knows im fucking other girls, its cool. I was looking for the answers to like, 'how much seeing her is too much', seems i have the answer.

cheers.
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Yep, indigenous' post is right on for texting and how often to see her.

I also like what JLAIX said, I always used to be like "Hey, want to come watch a movie?"

But fuck that, they know you guys are going to fuck, and they want it just as bad as you do. Just be straight up and it will turn her on more.

YOU: Hey, be here at 6. And wear something sexy.
HER: Why?
YOU: You know why, I'll see you at six!

No need for the lame-o false pretenses when you've already fucked.

Oh, and be prepared that after 4-5 bang sessions she'll want something more serious. It always happens. So just be ready to tell her you don't want anything serious and see how she takes it. She might leave for a while. But they always come back. shadesshadesshades
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Join Date: 11/08/2006 | Posts: 39

thx for this post. I read a lot of wisdom.

Problem is that even though I told i cant have a gf now and she understood, after the "big bang", she thinks of me all the time and leaves me sms everyday. is there a cure from the one-itis on her part? do i have to spoon feed it to her? :P
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Join Date: 01/20/2008 | Posts: 82

One thing that I've found through having fuckbuddy's is that the sexier a girl is the better they are at being fuckbuddy's and not falling in love. It's a generalization but usually girls who are 7's and lower or are very young will develop into stalkers/clingers.
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