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October 23rd, 2014
emotional attachment and women
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Colt

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Join Date: 03/17/2008 | Posts: 1278

Regarding emotional attachment:
For us guys even if a relationship affects us somewhat its still a lot less than girls. I hear all the time that women are 10x more emotional. My question is , when women get emotionally attached to a guy, Does it really affect them MORE than us guys? Does it affect them Deeper than us ? I mean for me, If I feeling emotional over a girl, I can still do a stress ful day of work. I can go on with my life , I can go and talk to the next girl like nothing happened. But for a women who is emotionally attached to a guy and the guy ends the relationship, I wonder if it must completely affected like are they unable to goto work, unable to get another relationship, just unable to have a normal day until they get another relationship ? Do they basically become more 'affected' than us guys or they are affected JUST like us but JUST EMOTE IT more?

basically I female view on emotional attachment..from you more experienced PUA

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Macavity

Macavity

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Join Date: 08/25/2009 | Posts: 2292

 Ya me too
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TableDance

TableDance

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They just say that as a way to make us feel bad.  When something they don't like happens.
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S|n|ster

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I think women are able to compartmentalize their love life from their work and daily life alot better. They may feel very emotional, but they're able to control it alot better than most guys. Guys who arent going out and meeting new girls everyday (which is most of them), when they initially like a girl, they'll have her running through their head all day and be checking their phone for her messages, and running mental scenarios of their next meeting in their minds all night, even when they might be in a club surrounded by several other hot girls. Girls will feel the same thing but still be able to put all that aside and enjoy a ladies night out, or another guy's company or a movie or do their school work without just maxing out their faculties with that one guy they have a crush on.
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CHERISH

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Great question.

I don't know I am in a relationship and I really think its the same.

I think girls cry more or are at least ok with showing it or publishing it over a Facebook status.

Guys aren't as sensitive to each others needs and feelings in my opinion.  You need guys who you TRUST, close to you in similar situations where you can just have a good old bitch about what's bothering you and stuff.  I do what girls do, maybe more extreme.

Just lately I'm building more of a BROTHERHOOD between me and my friends I feel it.  Girls seem to always be there for each other and stick up for each other which is cool.
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