It's every man's desire to swoop in and sweep that beautiful, sexy, classy girl sipping her drink at the end of the bar, reading that book across the room, laughing and smiling with all the desperate guys clinging to every nuance of her being.
The one you would kill for to just have one date with...the one you would comfortably talk to if only you knew how to do it.
What do I say?
What if she rejects me?
Am I supposed to tease her? compliment her? flatter her? make her laugh?
...The list goes on....
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You look at yourself in the mirror, scrawny, fat, bald, short, gigantic, a loser, not smart enough, you don't have a good enough job, you don't have an education...whatever the reason is....you have already made up your mind that she is TOO GOOD FOR YOU whether you like it or not.
Although we can't change certain things about our appearances such as height, eye colour, amount of hair etc... and we can't instantaneously change our jobs, education or how much money we have, the car we drive etc...
All of these things have absolutely NO importance whatsoever to begin with.
So what is the solution? How can a NOBODY date this goddess that has seemed to have appeared in front of us and make us tremble in our longjohns?
How do we change our image?
How do we change her image?
The answer, gentlemen, is we have to FILL IN THE GAP between US and THEM.
I don't mean go out and buy a fancy car that you can't afford, I don't mean go out and buy a bunch of new clothes that will make you feel even more uncomfortable.
The idea is to start taking many of the same behaviours that these sexy little passions of desire have. I don't mean to start wearing lipstick, mini-skirts, push-up bras and watching The Notebook....
Think about it....a beautiful girl with class is mentally balanced, has a healthy lifestyle, eats well, exercises, cares for her body, is respectful, polite, has a good sense of humour and is relaxed in the presence of others.
If someone like yourself wants a girl like this then you NEED to take on these behaviours as well.
Start treating yourself with respect, don't take bullshit from others but still maintain a friendly and understanding approach. Have a sense of humour and be open minded to new ideas while still maintaining a strong sense of what you value. Stay fit, treat your body with respect, eat well, cut out smoking, cut out excessive drinking, read about successful people and always always always be looking for advantages that you can grab onto in life.
This will keep you propelling forward allowing these seemingly 'unattainable' hot sexy girls to become part of your life and enjoy the fruits of your nature....and vice versa ;)
Bottom line, don't let negativity bog your life down. Strive for excellence in yourself, not to impress someone else.
Vacilón
Respected Member
Join Date: 11/08/2006 | Posts: 529
The one you would kill for to just have one date with...the one you would comfortably talk to if only you knew how to do it.
What do I say?
What if she rejects me?
Am I supposed to tease her? compliment her? flatter her? make her laugh?
...The list goes on....
------
You look at yourself in the mirror, scrawny, fat, bald, short, gigantic, a loser, not smart enough, you don't have a good enough job, you don't have an education...whatever the reason is....you have already made up your mind that she is TOO GOOD FOR YOU whether you like it or not.
Although we can't change certain things about our appearances such as height, eye colour, amount of hair etc... and we can't instantaneously change our jobs, education or how much money we have, the car we drive etc...
All of these things have absolutely NO importance whatsoever to begin with.
So what is the solution? How can a NOBODY date this goddess that has seemed to have appeared in front of us and make us tremble in our longjohns?
How do we change our image?
How do we change her image?
The answer, gentlemen, is we have to FILL IN THE GAP between US and THEM.
I don't mean go out and buy a fancy car that you can't afford, I don't mean go out and buy a bunch of new clothes that will make you feel even more uncomfortable.
The idea is to start taking many of the same behaviours that these sexy little passions of desire have. I don't mean to start wearing lipstick, mini-skirts, push-up bras and watching The Notebook....
Think about it....a beautiful girl with class is mentally balanced, has a healthy lifestyle, eats well, exercises, cares for her body, is respectful, polite, has a good sense of humour and is relaxed in the presence of others.
If someone like yourself wants a girl like this then you NEED to take on these behaviours as well.
Start treating yourself with respect, don't take bullshit from others but still maintain a friendly and understanding approach. Have a sense of humour and be open minded to new ideas while still maintaining a strong sense of what you value. Stay fit, treat your body with respect, eat well, cut out smoking, cut out excessive drinking, read about successful people and always always always be looking for advantages that you can grab onto in life.
This will keep you propelling forward allowing these seemingly 'unattainable' hot sexy girls to become part of your life and enjoy the fruits of your nature....and vice versa ;)
Bottom line, don't let negativity bog your life down. Strive for excellence in yourself, not to impress someone else.
AND while doing this....have fun :)