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May 25th, 2013
Kiss Rejection Mission: Time to Step Up Your Game, For Real
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Boost

Boost

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Join Date: 07/07/2009 | Posts: 56

1 point. Only cause we got in an argument.
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Butters

Butters

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Join Date: 05/18/2009 | Posts: 66

Just wondering for those who have gotten far in this... has it changed your game? Do you feel different as a person? Do rejections not mean shit anymore?

Respect.
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TransgressiveFiction

TransgressiveFiction

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Join Date: 08/01/2009 | Posts: 290

Suspect wrote:

-You must go for the kiss at the first welcomed oppurtunity,?

Suspect, just for curiosity, how would you define a welcome opportunity in this instance.
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IvánPérez

IvánPérez

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Join Date: 07/05/2008 | Posts: 1713

TransgressiveFiction wrote:



Suspect wrote:

-You must go for the kiss at the first welcomed oppurtunity,?

Suspect, just for curiosity, how would you define a welcome opportunity in this instance.
She being there is a welcomed opportunity. She may turn away, or say no, even push you away but if she is still there is not a rejection, just a not jet. Figure out what the interaction lacks (i.e. fulfill her needs with empathy) and go again. As long as she doesn't go away she wants it, just remember that most girls are chodes.

Cheers.
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- When I'm out: it's me-time. I focus on expressing myself and doing what's fun for me, I don't care about girls. Self-absorbedness.
- 'It's all good, it's going to be fine, I am enough'. No worries or concerns. Let the dynamics work for me.
- Nobody is going to pull girls home for me. Self-image will stop you, take action regardless.
- Focus on finding a girl DTF vs. trying to game/arouse/whatever girl after girl.

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Charlie Kilo

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Join Date: 03/14/2008 | Posts: 186

When I saw this thread when it was first posted, I thought, "Man, that's a stupid idea."

Now I feel like the stupid one.

Last night I was talking to a girl. I had already been escalating - holding her hand, touching her knee, Eskimo kissing - and I said to myself, "this is when you're supposed to go for the kiss." I leaned in and she demurely dropped her head. No worries. I leaned back and stuck to my plan. I decided it would be funny to go for the kiss rejection. After a few more minutes, I leaned in and again she moved her head. Wash, rinse, repeat. After about ten minutes I told her to close her eyes; she did, so I kissed her.

She was a little surprised (but she obviously knew it was coming). I leaned back and continued to engage her. Everytime I felt her emotions spike I would lean in for the make out. Everytime the kissing got a little bit hotter. A little bit longer. I took her hand and lead her to a bench, so we could keep an eye on the whole bar. We kept talking and everytime her friends were occupied we would go back to making out.

This is a great thread.
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pappy

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Join Date: 04/28/2009 | Posts: 24

Bump, GOLD stuff!
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snowdog

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This shit is good.

Count me in! 
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Hug Bear

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Join Date: 11/15/2009 | Posts: 6

HAHA, everyone started out on this site to GET KISSES for the close and now everyone is trying NOT to get kisses...brilliant, great way to mind hug yourself into loosing all limiting boundaries.
Im joining this one!
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jez

jez

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Join Date: 07/07/2008 | Posts: 135

I started doing this! I love this challenge already.

I got my first rejection on saturday night. I slammed this girl up against the wall after some killer eye contact and bullshit small talk. She was dodging my kiss but we were standing right next to the women's washroom and she dragged me in there. So I figured "OH, it's ON now.. in here." But she kept dodging and fled into a stall. Haha whatever. I'm not even sure this counts. I could have pushed further. It wasn't as if she was really fleeing from me.

Oh well, got some makeouts too.
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Karaholic

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Join Date: 10/28/2009 | Posts: 113

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