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Yo.
This all went down on my first night out in Miami. 305 represent y'all.
Night started off really slow, chilling with friends and pre-gaming with a group of girls.
We finally decide to hit south beach at about 11, this is my first time down here and we hadn't met any promoters yet so we were a bit lost.
Hit Dek23, Place was popping for a Saturday, talent was everywhere and I was ready to play with some nice American birds. Wanted to find myself a cheerleader.
Bought the cheapest beer $10. ok, wont be drinking for the 4 months im here then i guess.....then started doing what we do best, having a good time, dancing like a social retard and bringing the party. Chatted to anyone and everyone......randomly met some other Aussie guy who i winged with (he was friends with Alexander~). sets were hard though, with my aussie accent and the small, loud club layout girls found it hard understanding me. I had to step it up. Then bammmm, saw her....."yo, you have a boy haircut" (it was really short)....."its kinda cute"
she felt it, hard. pulled her to the dance floor....escilated, bump and grind. No panties....works for me. whispered stuff in her ear.....pulled her to corner of club to the couch. Found out then that she was an Air hostess from New york, she came down to party with a group of her girlfriends for the weekend.
Chilled, chatted, escilated and then tacky club tongue down.
I saw her friends looking and lurking so stopped. Said "hey, i have to meet your friends, they look cool." I befriended all 6, (tried to find my boys to take some except they weren't in sight.) Friends loved me and actually pushed us to the corner again because they wanted me to make out with her again.
At this stage it was about 1 and they wanted to roll, the friends asked if we wanted to share a cab? deal. Hold hands, drag out to cab rank......
Escilating in cab......got to hotel. HOLY SHIT. Shore club. Nicest hotel lobby i have ever seen.... water falls, white marble... everything. go up to the room....all 6 friends are saving money by sharing 2 rooms, they are leaving early tomorrow. fuck, 2 friends in her room are married. no problem.
me: " yo, im going to borrow your friend and take her to the bar below for a drink (which i later found out was sky bar)"
friends: "cool, you know their are day beds down there at the back as well? ;]
me: Oh really? sounds fun...
The power of befriending her girlfriends should not be mistaken.
We roll......walk downstairs, 2 of the coolest pools ive ever seen....rolls right out onto South beach. I Find a secluded day bed behind some palm trees and the rest is a great memory......pool boys were walking round catching some peaks as well. thats gold.
Outdoor lay on daybed in expensive hotel. DIRT CLASS.
she walks me out to the front, its 3am and they are polishing the floors. The 2 doorman just gives me a cheeky smile and say "good evening sir". they know what just went down. I grab a cab and say goodbye.... this interaction was as fun and perfect as they come....I decide not to get her number and just turn with a cheeky smile and say "that was fun, have a great life if i dont see you." Doorman laughs and She smiles from ear to ear, absolutely loves it. She knows what tonight was all about. Quick pash, then cab home for rest.
From this i took a few things:
Anything is possible. Make it fun and Escalate.
Keep it simple.
Always befriend her friends. They actively helped me fuck her.
Miami is going to be fun.
should stay over cause the bloody $40 cab ride killed my weekly budget
glory times continue...
This all went down on my first night out in Miami. 305 represent y'all.
Night started off really slow, chilling with friends and pre-gaming with a group of girls.
We finally decide to hit south beach at about 11, this is my first time down here and we hadn't met any promoters yet so we were a bit lost.
Hit Dek23, Place was popping for a Saturday, talent was everywhere and I was ready to play with some nice American birds. Wanted to find myself a cheerleader.
Bought the cheapest beer $10. ok, wont be drinking for the 4 months im here then i guess.....then started doing what we do best, having a good time, dancing like a social retard and bringing the party. Chatted to anyone and everyone......randomly met some other Aussie guy who i winged with (he was friends with Alexander~). sets were hard though, with my aussie accent and the small, loud club layout girls found it hard understanding me. I had to step it up. Then bammmm, saw her....."yo, you have a boy haircut" (it was really short)....."its kinda cute"
she felt it, hard. pulled her to the dance floor....escilated, bump and grind. No panties....works for me. whispered stuff in her ear.....pulled her to corner of club to the couch. Found out then that she was an Air hostess from New york, she came down to party with a group of her girlfriends for the weekend.
Chilled, chatted, escilated and then tacky club tongue down.
I saw her friends looking and lurking so stopped. Said "hey, i have to meet your friends, they look cool." I befriended all 6, (tried to find my boys to take some except they weren't in sight.) Friends loved me and actually pushed us to the corner again because they wanted me to make out with her again.
At this stage it was about 1 and they wanted to roll, the friends asked if we wanted to share a cab? deal. Hold hands, drag out to cab rank......
Escilating in cab......got to hotel. HOLY SHIT. Shore club. Nicest hotel lobby i have ever seen.... water falls, white marble... everything. go up to the room....all 6 friends are saving money by sharing 2 rooms, they are leaving early tomorrow. fuck, 2 friends in her room are married. no problem.
me: " yo, im going to borrow your friend and take her to the bar below for a drink (which i later found out was sky bar)"
friends: "cool, you know their are day beds down there at the back as well? ;]
me: Oh really? sounds fun...
The power of befriending her girlfriends should not be mistaken.
We roll......walk downstairs, 2 of the coolest pools ive ever seen....rolls right out onto South beach. I Find a secluded day bed behind some palm trees and the rest is a great memory......pool boys were walking round catching some peaks as well. thats gold.
Outdoor lay on daybed in expensive hotel. DIRT CLASS.
she walks me out to the front, its 3am and they are polishing the floors. The 2 doorman just gives me a cheeky smile and say "good evening sir". they know what just went down. I grab a cab and say goodbye.... this interaction was as fun and perfect as they come....I decide not to get her number and just turn with a cheeky smile and say "that was fun, have a great life if i dont see you." Doorman laughs and She smiles from ear to ear, absolutely loves it. She knows what tonight was all about. Quick pash, then cab home for rest.
From this i took a few things:
Anything is possible. Make it fun and Escalate.
Keep it simple.
Always befriend her friends. They actively helped me fuck her.
Miami is going to be fun.
should stay over cause the bloody $40 cab ride killed my weekly budget
glory times continue...
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great read man, good work.
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RSD Brisbane Instructor Assistant / Intern
Alex bootcamp graduate May 08
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Alex bootcamp graduate May 08
"When your meeting someone new you can be whoever you want to be. when your going out and practising you have a chance to work towards that person you want to be... and in those times... im in my own little self projected kingdom where alex is the king"
-Alex~
Ever since i have become better and better at game, i have noticed that guys notice you just as much as the girls....if not more. pimpski i think discussed this really well in a thread a few weeks back. When you are a naturally attractive guy you not only meet cool girls, but also guys.
Guys can also immediately recognize who is cool and down to earth, its only natural....its kinda like when a chode walks into a clothes store, he will be able to tell you which is the coolest item in the store.....he just wont buy it because he doesn't feel like he has enough 'value'. So instead, he buys the ultimate chode 'flame shirt'...
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Due to this, over the past year, my nights out can become absolutely crazy. I honestly don't know what is going to happen. It is always ridiculous fun.
Let me illustrate with a few examples from the last month.......
I am a student studying on exchange in Miami, i saved for this trip and will have to work to pay a few grand off in debt when i return. No problem. This however doesnt stop me going out to south beach because something always happens. Two weeks ago i was having a beer at a dive bar and started chatting to two guys, had a great convo, showed them how to have a good time..introduced them to some girls we met on the street.....they turned out to be merchant bankers from NY, later that night they bought 3 bottles for my mate and I at mansion. We were at a table in front of the stage. Little Jon gave me a glass of Hennessey off the stage. glory times.
Last night we were out, average night at cameo, was having some drinks with an advertising producer i met when i saw some big boys rock in with video cameras.......shouted out and started ridiculously dancing with them. We showed them what the 'Lawnmower' (Adam+ 2008) is....gave them a great time...absolutely brought the party to them, the whole club was staring at us....we rolled out of the club with them....walked two minutes down the road. (photos of them and us doing the lawnmower coming soon...)
They were staying at a $40,000 week place in south beach. it was some of Gnarls Barkley's new band and entourage. They had a pool with about a hundred dollar bills floating in it. I considered taking some for the vending machine later....im addicted to the cherry coke they have in this country. its very good.
We played pool, had drinks and cigars with them then went to Space where we rocked it hard again. Had an awesome night till the sun came up, grabbed some of their numbers (one of my friends is still coping msgs from a NY model that was there) and went back to my deluxe single mattress and 10ft by 10ft shitty dorm room.
Now I am not writing these to show how to scam free drinks and dollar bills from pools. That is the furthest from the truth. I just wanted to illustrate that when you are bringing the party and being a fun, naturally attractive guy, anything can happen.
Life is just life when you are a natural. You dont need to do anything, you just enjoy it and things happen for you.
I'm off to get a cherry coke. Cheers
Guys can also immediately recognize who is cool and down to earth, its only natural....its kinda like when a chode walks into a clothes store, he will be able to tell you which is the coolest item in the store.....he just wont buy it because he doesn't feel like he has enough 'value'. So instead, he buys the ultimate chode 'flame shirt'...
http://www.rsdnation.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=301&stc=1&d=1209443104
Due to this, over the past year, my nights out can become absolutely crazy. I honestly don't know what is going to happen. It is always ridiculous fun.
Let me illustrate with a few examples from the last month.......
I am a student studying on exchange in Miami, i saved for this trip and will have to work to pay a few grand off in debt when i return. No problem. This however doesnt stop me going out to south beach because something always happens. Two weeks ago i was having a beer at a dive bar and started chatting to two guys, had a great convo, showed them how to have a good time..introduced them to some girls we met on the street.....they turned out to be merchant bankers from NY, later that night they bought 3 bottles for my mate and I at mansion. We were at a table in front of the stage. Little Jon gave me a glass of Hennessey off the stage. glory times.
Last night we were out, average night at cameo, was having some drinks with an advertising producer i met when i saw some big boys rock in with video cameras.......shouted out and started ridiculously dancing with them. We showed them what the 'Lawnmower' (Adam+ 2008) is....gave them a great time...absolutely brought the party to them, the whole club was staring at us....we rolled out of the club with them....walked two minutes down the road. (photos of them and us doing the lawnmower coming soon...)
They were staying at a $40,000 week place in south beach. it was some of Gnarls Barkley's new band and entourage. They had a pool with about a hundred dollar bills floating in it. I considered taking some for the vending machine later....im addicted to the cherry coke they have in this country. its very good.
We played pool, had drinks and cigars with them then went to Space where we rocked it hard again. Had an awesome night till the sun came up, grabbed some of their numbers (one of my friends is still coping msgs from a NY model that was there) and went back to my deluxe single mattress and 10ft by 10ft shitty dorm room.
Now I am not writing these to show how to scam free drinks and dollar bills from pools. That is the furthest from the truth. I just wanted to illustrate that when you are bringing the party and being a fun, naturally attractive guy, anything can happen.
Life is just life when you are a natural. You dont need to do anything, you just enjoy it and things happen for you.
I'm off to get a cherry coke. Cheers
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Storm Wrote:
great read man, good work.
thanks man,
i think your posts are sick as well....keep them coming.
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Love the positivity and perseverance.
Showin' us what can be done if you make up your mind. Rock on.
Showin' us what can be done if you make up your mind. Rock on.
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Everything that happens to me is the best possible thing that can happen to me.
I have made some observations when i have been going out lately and realized a few common trends that i need to work on. I was hoping i could get some feedback from others as well, it would be greatly appreciated......
As I said, when i got into game, stories, plotlines and routines was where it was at. This was all very helpful and a vital step on the path of glory, but it meant my development went something like this......
Plots,stories, lots of sets-----> attraction, giggles----->makeouts------>lots of numbers and flakes------>dancing monkey------->more chilled, slower direct game still with routines------> first few lays----->'pickup' and non pickup personalities------->validation through sex and social value----->felt like i was always "gaming."
now, keep in mind this was all over a long period. im sure others are going through sections of this as well. hang in there.
I was still feeling after i lay some girls that even after sex i needed to game them. My mindset clicked from what tyler once wrote something along the lines of "having sex does not validate or invalidate the girls attraction for you. It doesnt change anything"
Essentially it was a change in my mindset from- gaining my value through sex....to enjoying it for what it - A celebration of me and the release of the natural build up of sexual tension between a girl and a guy. For me this was a breakthrough because it was the start of the destruction of the "pickup ego" or pickego (that just sounds cooler.)
This was only the start however as it is one thing to understand and another thing to be congruent. From here my game began to change. As Alexander~ would say, From impression to expression. Now this was tough for me because i always relied on routines....but i think i understand natural game even deeper than others because of this.
no routines, being in the moment, having fun, intent----->more sexual instant attraction---->free flowing game, no 'gaming personality'----->picking up girls in social circles, family lunches etc.--->pure expression.
Can i also add that Tims article "Creativity is the only thing" (naturaltim.com) and alexander's "Expression Vs Impression" (alexattitude.com) are PHENOMINAL and should be read by all.
When i go out now, i dont look to 'game.' I just have a good time and say whatever comes to my head. Its fun, its entertaining for me and the results just seem to happen. No thoughts, no need for validation- just stupid dances, and talk about turtles and waffles. RSD has really helped me to make this step. Thanks all.
I still have things to work on however.
Some observations i have had
- I still at times can get caught up in the thought when i am out 'shit, look at all these hot girls around me....i must look pimp.' eeeerrrrrrrrrrr. When i do this i am moving from expression to external validation. As soon as i think this way, i loose the sets.
- Have had a lot of one night stands recently, which are cool and fun....but i often turn slightly chodely after sex and wonder whether she will call for more etc. eeerrrrrr. still seeking validation through sex. for this reason i often loose a girl as a fuckbuddy etc.
-Some of my natural friends (all very very cool cats) seem to do better in social cirlces at times. This is because i still at times think i need to 'do something to get the girls attracted'. wrong! as Tim says "you cannot seek to be a natural"
- At times judge people by their social value. WRONG WRONG WRONG. Just accept them for who they are. You can see your own light and energy in everyone if you can look through them and their ego's.
- that INTENT, the lion inside- at times i often dont push sets to the extreme of if i get amoged because i know there is another one around the corner. wrong. this is a challenge, give it all and may the best man win.
So I am sure others have taken these steps on their journey as well. I feel that I have the right mindset these days etc, it is more a question of congruency and eliminating that inner chode for good....what are your thoughts?
As I said, when i got into game, stories, plotlines and routines was where it was at. This was all very helpful and a vital step on the path of glory, but it meant my development went something like this......
Plots,stories, lots of sets-----> attraction, giggles----->makeouts------>lots of numbers and flakes------>dancing monkey------->more chilled, slower direct game still with routines------> first few lays----->'pickup' and non pickup personalities------->validation through sex and social value----->felt like i was always "gaming."
now, keep in mind this was all over a long period. im sure others are going through sections of this as well. hang in there.
I was still feeling after i lay some girls that even after sex i needed to game them. My mindset clicked from what tyler once wrote something along the lines of "having sex does not validate or invalidate the girls attraction for you. It doesnt change anything"
Essentially it was a change in my mindset from- gaining my value through sex....to enjoying it for what it - A celebration of me and the release of the natural build up of sexual tension between a girl and a guy. For me this was a breakthrough because it was the start of the destruction of the "pickup ego" or pickego (that just sounds cooler.)
This was only the start however as it is one thing to understand and another thing to be congruent. From here my game began to change. As Alexander~ would say, From impression to expression. Now this was tough for me because i always relied on routines....but i think i understand natural game even deeper than others because of this.
no routines, being in the moment, having fun, intent----->more sexual instant attraction---->free flowing game, no 'gaming personality'----->picking up girls in social circles, family lunches etc.--->pure expression.
Can i also add that Tims article "Creativity is the only thing" (naturaltim.com) and alexander's "Expression Vs Impression" (alexattitude.com) are PHENOMINAL and should be read by all.
When i go out now, i dont look to 'game.' I just have a good time and say whatever comes to my head. Its fun, its entertaining for me and the results just seem to happen. No thoughts, no need for validation- just stupid dances, and talk about turtles and waffles. RSD has really helped me to make this step. Thanks all.
I still have things to work on however.
Some observations i have had
- I still at times can get caught up in the thought when i am out 'shit, look at all these hot girls around me....i must look pimp.' eeeerrrrrrrrrrr. When i do this i am moving from expression to external validation. As soon as i think this way, i loose the sets.
- Have had a lot of one night stands recently, which are cool and fun....but i often turn slightly chodely after sex and wonder whether she will call for more etc. eeerrrrrr. still seeking validation through sex. for this reason i often loose a girl as a fuckbuddy etc.
-Some of my natural friends (all very very cool cats) seem to do better in social cirlces at times. This is because i still at times think i need to 'do something to get the girls attracted'. wrong! as Tim says "you cannot seek to be a natural"
- At times judge people by their social value. WRONG WRONG WRONG. Just accept them for who they are. You can see your own light and energy in everyone if you can look through them and their ego's.
- that INTENT, the lion inside- at times i often dont push sets to the extreme of if i get amoged because i know there is another one around the corner. wrong. this is a challenge, give it all and may the best man win.
So I am sure others have taken these steps on their journey as well. I feel that I have the right mindset these days etc, it is more a question of congruency and eliminating that inner chode for good....what are your thoughts?
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A week ago a few friends and i rocked up the coast on a roadtrip, visiting some friends at University up there. The second night we had there was very memorable......
It all started at a small house party. One keg, 3 friends of mine and 10 chode deluxxes. I think there was a few girls, but they weren't exactly what you would call 'quality'. We absolutely rocked out none the less and had an awesome time till about 11 when it was time to roll to the 'clubs.'
This was a college town, hot girls, dirty bars and cheap alcohol. always a fun time. We rock in to a bar and immediately hit up the music machine. There are these weird looking frat boys everywhere-they all wear golf gear for some reason.....very odd to me. but hey, whatever. We decide to show them what good music is.....we blast out some daft punk and justice. very good.
3 hot seated girls at the bar get my attention. I point loud and say "there she IS!" "thats definately her. yes she is there."(Adam+2008) Now this means absolutely nothing, but i always say it with such fun energy they have no idea what to do. ...
"hey, you guys seem fun.....Im adam"
"haha...hey, im L"
absolutely rock it with the girls, mucking round having a good time....photos, fun, introduce my friends.
I leave and start chatting to some other guys who actually seem really cool, start talking American politics......i had some views to tell them.....then bammmmmmm. My friend reminds me that bars here close at 1am, better get moving.
Hit the next room in the bar.....there is a bar and d-floor that is practically deserted. whatever...crazy Sydney dance moves, lawnmover, box dance. pull a girl onto it...."no talk, just dance." I am having a great time...thats all that matters.
One of my mates is entertaining a group 3 of girls, help him out by just rocking in and saying "yo, are these girls harrassing you again man?....look ill take two of these girls away for you." they love it, he gets to isolate the other.
bump and grind with the two girls, one at front, one at back.
let other mate take one.....i pull the other in the corner.
still dancing and excalating....
"yo, you have ADORABLE ears" she looses it.
"no i don't! hahaha"
"dont worry, its kinda cute"
cheeky smile then make out deluxxe.
She is horny as hell......starts ushering my hand up her dress.....works for me.
Now, im not normally that guy who fingers a girl on the dance floor but heck, she wanted it bad.....i did move her to the shadows and was secretive about it so others couldnt see though. This isnt normally a good idea because they become worried about what others are thinking etc, anti slut defense......but i hadnt done it before so why not?
club starts to close 5 mins later.....grab her, her friends and my friends.
grab some food outside and start to chat about each other....general convo, still arm in arm.
Then she says....."you are leaving tomorrow though...after tonight i will never see you again"
this is where would normally trip up....not tonight
" You are probably right, but i dont like to think about the future too much. I just try to live in the moment and enjoy the present. Im just happy that im here with you NOW and glad that we have such a cool connection. Nothing else matters. Lets just enjoy it."
Her smile was priceless. she puts her tongue so far down my throat i can hardly breathe. she is DTF (down to fuck).
only problem.....her friend is throwing up everywhere round the corner and i am staying in a tiny room 20 mins away with 8 other ppl.
LOGISTICS LOGISTICS LOGISTICS.
i tell her to help her friend out and put them in a cab with her other 2 friends.
Now, although i didnt end up fucking her....i was cool with that. Im not always a fan of dumster dark alley sex. I rocked home with the lads and had a blast riding round on an electric scooter drunk. great times.
What did i learn....
- when i said that i live in the moment and just enjoy the present...this wasnt a 'trick'...i actually mean it these days. i am congruent with this.
- push every interaction to the limit.
-logistics are what normally screws up my lays these days
What could i improve on
-plan logistics better...
-befriend her friends more so they could of helped me out more..
It all started at a small house party. One keg, 3 friends of mine and 10 chode deluxxes. I think there was a few girls, but they weren't exactly what you would call 'quality'. We absolutely rocked out none the less and had an awesome time till about 11 when it was time to roll to the 'clubs.'
This was a college town, hot girls, dirty bars and cheap alcohol. always a fun time. We rock in to a bar and immediately hit up the music machine. There are these weird looking frat boys everywhere-they all wear golf gear for some reason.....very odd to me. but hey, whatever. We decide to show them what good music is.....we blast out some daft punk and justice. very good.
3 hot seated girls at the bar get my attention. I point loud and say "there she IS!" "thats definately her. yes she is there."(Adam+2008) Now this means absolutely nothing, but i always say it with such fun energy they have no idea what to do. ...
"hey, you guys seem fun.....Im adam"
"haha...hey, im L"
absolutely rock it with the girls, mucking round having a good time....photos, fun, introduce my friends.
I leave and start chatting to some other guys who actually seem really cool, start talking American politics......i had some views to tell them.....then bammmmmmm. My friend reminds me that bars here close at 1am, better get moving.
Hit the next room in the bar.....there is a bar and d-floor that is practically deserted. whatever...crazy Sydney dance moves, lawnmover, box dance. pull a girl onto it...."no talk, just dance." I am having a great time...thats all that matters.
One of my mates is entertaining a group 3 of girls, help him out by just rocking in and saying "yo, are these girls harrassing you again man?....look ill take two of these girls away for you." they love it, he gets to isolate the other.
bump and grind with the two girls, one at front, one at back.
let other mate take one.....i pull the other in the corner.
still dancing and excalating....
"yo, you have ADORABLE ears" she looses it.
"no i don't! hahaha"
"dont worry, its kinda cute"
cheeky smile then make out deluxxe.
She is horny as hell......starts ushering my hand up her dress.....works for me.
Now, im not normally that guy who fingers a girl on the dance floor but heck, she wanted it bad.....i did move her to the shadows and was secretive about it so others couldnt see though. This isnt normally a good idea because they become worried about what others are thinking etc, anti slut defense......but i hadnt done it before so why not?
club starts to close 5 mins later.....grab her, her friends and my friends.
grab some food outside and start to chat about each other....general convo, still arm in arm.
Then she says....."you are leaving tomorrow though...after tonight i will never see you again"
this is where would normally trip up....not tonight
" You are probably right, but i dont like to think about the future too much. I just try to live in the moment and enjoy the present. Im just happy that im here with you NOW and glad that we have such a cool connection. Nothing else matters. Lets just enjoy it."
Her smile was priceless. she puts her tongue so far down my throat i can hardly breathe. she is DTF (down to fuck).
only problem.....her friend is throwing up everywhere round the corner and i am staying in a tiny room 20 mins away with 8 other ppl.
LOGISTICS LOGISTICS LOGISTICS.
i tell her to help her friend out and put them in a cab with her other 2 friends.
Now, although i didnt end up fucking her....i was cool with that. Im not always a fan of dumster dark alley sex. I rocked home with the lads and had a blast riding round on an electric scooter drunk. great times.
What did i learn....
- when i said that i live in the moment and just enjoy the present...this wasnt a 'trick'...i actually mean it these days. i am congruent with this.
- push every interaction to the limit.
-logistics are what normally screws up my lays these days
What could i improve on
-plan logistics better...
-befriend her friends more so they could of helped me out more..
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sounds like fun. where are you attending? miami ad school?
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"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore."
Miami, Raw and Uncut
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore."
Miami, Raw and Uncut
Rawl Wrote:
sounds like fun. where are you attending? miami ad school?
finishing up here at University of miami in 2 weeks
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There are these weird looking frat boys everywhere-they all wear golf gear for some reason.....very odd to me
hahahahaha
Tremendous value in this thread man. Mind blowing stuff. Please keep updating.
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Philosophy have I digested,
The whole of Law and Medicine,
From each its secrets I have wrested,
Theology alas thrown in.
Poor fool, with all this sweated lore,
I stand no wiser than before.
In preparation for the summer of '09:
My Catalyst: rsdnation.com/node/113370
My Summer of '08: www.rsdnation.com/node/84377
The whole of Law and Medicine,
From each its secrets I have wrested,
Theology alas thrown in.
Poor fool, with all this sweated lore,
I stand no wiser than before.
In preparation for the summer of '09:
My Catalyst: rsdnation.com/node/113370
My Summer of '08: www.rsdnation.com/node/84377
Adam+
Senior Member
Join Date: 04/23/2008 | Posts: 103
Scratch that, Its already here.
Whats up. My name is Adam. I use to be a chode. A chode deluxxe that is. Over the past two years I have been working hard, pushing myself to develop from a socially awkward value taker to a naturally attractive, positive man. Although RSD has been a phenomenal help along the way, I have never posted on the forum. I don't actually know why. I just never got round to it to be honest.
Today, this changes. Lately i have had some great stories and things happen to me that would be a crime not to post as field reports........I'm doing this because they are entertaining for me to write, and because i know ppl will get value from reading them. Before i begin, lets give you a glimpse of where it all started, chodeville. I am not providing excuses here, just facts to show what is possible.
The past
I went to an all boys high school, had two brothers and probably didn't even start to interact with girls socially until i was 16. I was always a happy kid though, great family, great friends and great times. I could hang with the guys and be part of a group, but when it came to girls, I had nothing. Period. Social conditioning got to me and i never felt comfortable around girls , never felt that 'I' could have relationships with them. When i was 18 i was lying in bed WORRYING WHETHER OR NOT I COULD EVER FIND A GIRL WHO WOULD LIKE ME SO I COULD ONE DAY POSSIBLY MARRY THEM. like ANYONE.
In school I was academically brilliant, simply because i worked at it. I soon realised when i left high school that its not what you know in life, but who you know. I had a cowlick and was a total douche bag.
ill upload a photo soon i promise. i WISH i had it now....its actually hilarious.
I had never kissed a girl by my 18th birthday. i was overweight, not confident at all and not the same happy chappy i use to be. Those teenage years of social conditioning had got to me.
A few things made me to man up and change.
1.I saw how things were just easier for natural guys, cool kids made everything look easy in life. I wanted that. I had big plans for my future and i knew i needed to become social.
2.I also traveled to Africa with my family, saw true poverty. I had no excuses.I asked myself "What would an Malawian African male my age do if he was given the opportunities i had?" " what would he want me to do?" Man the fuck up, do the best i can with my situation and enjoy it.
3. I hated lying in bed and trying to work out why she didnt like me......and why other guys could fuck multiple girls at any one time.
4. My younger brother who was 16 got laid before me. nothing like a brother to help you to man up.
I didnt just want to get laid, i needed a platform to help me become a better person and allow me to give value to the world. The individual value that i knew i had.....
Action
Google search, pick up girls. Random companies, came across Rsd. Bootcamp $1500. fuck. Got a job. Worked my ass off over summer, saved hardcore.
Jan 2006-bootcamp with big Mike.
Cost me a shit load, worth every penny. Went out by myself every week, 4 times, did 30 approaches per week for a good 4 months. Had to drive 30 mins to town every time i went out. While doing this, also went to the gym, continued studying at my double degree at uni 4 days per week and got a bar job 3 nights per week.
note: Anyone who is learning game should work in a bar. It forces you to be social every time you work.
Ran Routine after routine, started getting make outs in clubs etc. I was becoming a normal social guy. No lays after 6 months though. I was making huge improvements though...started to look diferent, feel different, act different. I was able to go out, have a good time and meet lots of people.Routines felt really unnatural to me at times.....it felt like it was holding my true personality back.....i was put into a 'pickup' frame when i was going out which i couldn't change. I started to get run down and blown out more...I was looking good though.
i was starting to de-chode.
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Was this going to stop me? Fuck no. Id saved some money from my bar job, made lots of tips thanks to rsd and bootcamp 1 making me a cool guy...so..
Bootcamp July 2006-Tim
deluxxe weekend in melbourne. Free flowing style....i could of obviously made it through my flat spots by myself.....i just knew this would accelerate my progress again. ....it did. First lay, 2 days after bootcamp 2, backseat of Hyundi Excel, unknown location. People sometimes say the first time is awkward....for me it was phenominal. I was beginning to see who I could be. what was really possible.
From then, I Continued to hit the clubs, run whatever game though......gradually pulled out of routines altogether. Always going out and socializing though. Expanding my reality, reading Novels, working out...meeting new people, Reading tylers blogs.
THIS WAS HARD WORK. I STRUGGLED THROUGH MANY PARTS. I HAD BAD PATCHES, TIMES WHEN I THOUGHT I WOULD GIVE UP. ......THEY MAKE THE GLORY TIMES EVEN MORE DELUXXE NOW THOUGH. PERSISTENCE.PERSISTENCE.PERSISTENCE.
The one thing that always kept me going was not the end result however, but actually the enjoyment the present... getting blown out, learning, the love of the doing.
Where I'm at now
The money spent on those boot camps were ASSETS. Money spent now, for future rewards. Friends have asked me if it was worth it. here is my response.....
Where would i be if i hadn't taken boot camp.
- probably have an accounting internship
- watch tv on fri sat nights
- socially awkward
- maybe have a chode gf if lucky
- giving no value to the world
What have i been doing since taking it?
- Saved money from my own pocket and Traveled World -Japan, africa, ski season in whistler, LA, New York, Mexico, Currently on international exchange from Sydney studying in Miami.
- been to Australian Student Leadership Forums
- Job offers easily available anywhere in both civil Eng and Finance.
- Huge social network, great friends everywhere
- fit and healthy
- at ease with the world and life in general
- have an absolute blast where ever i go.
- I Bring the party to others and give them a good time as well.
- I am an emotional rock for girls , i challenge guys to grow.
oh and what about girls?
In the Last 3 months alone i have had about 7 one night stands and multiple fuck buddies. I am always looking for ways to become more congruent and improve though.....not because it changes 'who i am', but because it is fun and helps me be all that i can be.
Oh and yo, just booked bootcamp glory times 3 in LA for may, thats how good they are. The nuRSD will revise my old school RSD game for pure nimbus explosion.
here i am in all my nimbus glory at present...
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Hope you guys enjoyed this......trust me, put in the hard yards and work at it. The results will come if you give it everything. Thanks for reading.
Peace Always
Adam+
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