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If she has, then there's no way you're going to convince her she hasn't. My advice is to get over her and realize how huge your own value is in comparison, then call her and it'll just ooze outta your pores.
Cheers,
Jaffar.
If she has, then there's no way you're going to convince her she hasn't. My advice is to get over her and realize how huge your own value is in comparison, then call her and it'll just ooze outta your pores.
Cheers,
Jaffar.
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Thanx Lion & Jaffar, that was quick.
See, the thing is I would like to see her again. I know she likes me, she just doesn't like it when a guy is totally into her, even after going through hours and hours of push pull and finally getting to a point where there's so much energy there's only one thing to do. I suppose now that energy is gone, and to get it back we have to start all over again. However, I can't really contact her without showing too much interest can I?
I suppose going out and finding another nice girl is the best thing to do, but then again... I LIKE THIS ONE, I want to keep her, she's feisty!
She's somewhat predictable when it comes to this push pull stuff, but I have pretty much used up all my hard to get game :|
See, the thing is I would like to see her again. I know she likes me, she just doesn't like it when a guy is totally into her, even after going through hours and hours of push pull and finally getting to a point where there's so much energy there's only one thing to do. I suppose now that energy is gone, and to get it back we have to start all over again. However, I can't really contact her without showing too much interest can I?
I suppose going out and finding another nice girl is the best thing to do, but then again... I LIKE THIS ONE, I want to keep her, she's feisty!
She's somewhat predictable when it comes to this push pull stuff, but I have pretty much used up all my hard to get game :|
Thanx again Lion, that sounds like solid advice.
Just curious though, do you have an example of a similar situation? How'd you deal with it and what happened?
Thanx.
Just curious though, do you have an example of a similar situation? How'd you deal with it and what happened?
Thanx.
jeef-b Wrote:
I texted her something casual/unrelated yesterday and she responded, but she didn't show any sign of wanting to see me (and jump my bones) gain asap.
so what, why are you expecting this?
It seems as though you have A LOT invested in her, and in turn, want the same kind of colossal investment from HER. When she didn't jump for joy, crawl into her phone and crawled back out of yours, dropped her pants and begged for you to have your way with her, you punked out.
Why?
I think that you yourself might be creating these "she doesn't want me" scenarios from your own mind. Maybe she doesn't even think like that, but your mind is telling you that she is because you are so entranced that when you don't get the reaction you expect - you think the worse possible.
I call/text girls all the time who seem indifferent when I first text/call them. They don't all beg to be taken at that exact moment. But I don't even THINK about how it might possibly mean that they aren't into me anymore. I call girls 10x a day and leave messages like: "Yo faggot, pick up! I'm calling! You biatch!" and they might not call that exact moment, but they call.
I call girls at 4am just to talk 'cause I'm bored as fuck and can't sleep, and they get up and talk with me - even though they have to get up in two hours to go to work. They might gripe, they might groan for being woken up - but they love me, so they get over it.
The point I'm making is: Maybe your perception of the situation really wasn't the actual situation.
I say this because I didn't pick up anything alarming from what you wrote - only that you alarmed yourself with your paranoia of her not possibly liking you.
~DAMiEN!
I see your point Damien. I am a needy paranoid fucker, Noted! Working on it.
well there are still all kinds of girls out there, there is also a kind of girl that just doesn't call you back forever, taking the number off your cell isnt always the solution, you gota attract her first and then ignore her, and then set your shit straight
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So Damien called it 100% correct. Thanx, buddy.
I was way too invested in this girl and my paranoia kicked in and filled my head with rubbish.
Eventually she texted me, apparently it was getting a little too steamy between us and she thought it best to keep her distance for a bit. Why does it take a week for her to inform me? Who knows. Would she ever have told me had I not ignored her? Who knows.
I'm still not quite sure how to handle the situation from now on, but realizing I'm jumping to conclusions is... well... gold.
I was way too invested in this girl and my paranoia kicked in and filled my head with rubbish.
Eventually she texted me, apparently it was getting a little too steamy between us and she thought it best to keep her distance for a bit. Why does it take a week for her to inform me? Who knows. Would she ever have told me had I not ignored her? Who knows.
I'm still not quite sure how to handle the situation from now on, but realizing I'm jumping to conclusions is... well... gold.
jeef-b
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I was playing hard to get which is what peaked her interest, but now she knows she's got me. I need a good way of communicating to her I want to see her again but that she hasn't pussy whipped me (which she kind of has because she's got everything I like in a woman). Know what I mean?
Any tips?