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April 17th, 2014
The Blueprint De-Coded
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Papa

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Yes. Foundations is perfect for you.
andy007 wrote:
Tyler, I am single from past 2 and half years ( After my breakup) and I feel after that day I started to confuse traits that attract women, sometimes I become an alpha male, sometimes a wuss. I find that Girls get attracted to me initially seeing my fun attitude and cockiness, but after some time the same attitude starts to irritate them.

Do you think getting foundations will help me to get atlease one Girlfriend, I am not asking much just one. I am tired of being alone, worst my friends think that I am a pimp, they ask me for advice, sometimes I feel I am decieving them.
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BloodmoneySWE

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NowhereMan33,

You integrate techniqal shit one step at a time logically and integrate it so it flows more naturally. "Unconscious competence level". How to qualify, how to lead groups, handle shittests, how to build compliance momentum, how to kinoescalate smoothly etc. are important.

Nothing wrong with being "stuck in your head" if you learn something new, until its integrated.
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Papa

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I enjoyed and got value out of Robert Cialdini's Influence: The Power of Persuasion and went to his class and got value out of it. My favorite is Stephen Covey.
NowhereMan33 wrote:
Here's a question that I've been thinking about ever since I watched the Blueprint. Do you think it is helpful to study tactics and techniques out of all these funky ass books like ''How to be persuasive'' or ''How to come out on top in any conversation'', ''How to be the Alpha-male'' type of stuff. Or would you say that it is better to just work on ''inner game'', and like the stuff that is dealt with in The Blueprint?

It seems to me that either you are that guy that walks thru life with ease and just fucking sends out that radiant vibe, or then you could be that guy who goes about ''tooling'' others with the techniques that he's read about while being stuck in his head, thinking about stuff like, ''Oh now she responded to me in such a fashion, now it is time to iniate Defcon 5 sequence that I read about on page 154...'' Or is there some way to combine studying both?

Thanks,

NowhereMan/

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Hadouken

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Join Date: 11/23/2010 | Posts: 5

What to do in this situation? If I have a desperate situation to be with boring people, I am not in a funny state. To immerse yourself in funny state I need to strain and look for it in my head. But these people really bored and just sitting out and silence. 
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makkk

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Join Date: 12/04/2010 | Posts: 9

blueprint decoded is by farr the best pick up product out there i think this is all u ever gonna need to be succesful with women :)
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iotbee

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Join Date: 09/24/2010 | Posts: 4

Agree.
When Tyler talks about become indifferent about what others think we have to do things that afraid us.

For me, the worst thing would be to into a commercial center, almost naked, and sing "chris brown" the louder I Can.
For example, If I do that, would I become indifferent about what others think immediately?

It's kind of the idea of humiliating myself...

What do you guys think ?
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Papa

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Study comedy and look at books like Comedy Writing Secrets to get inspiration for ideas.
Hadouken wrote:
What to do in this situation? If I have a desperate situation to be with boring people, I am not in a funny state. To immerse yourself in funny state I need to strain and look for it in my head. But these people really bored and just sitting out and silence. 
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triangle

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Join Date: 04/06/2010 | Posts: 2

What does tyler say when he talks about cheating in the blueprint , i forgot but i know he talked about it .
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Kuz

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 This is a bit dated now. Tho still very good foundation material, great value on emotional strength and general self-help stuff, i feel some of the female/male dichotomies as presented are misplaced and it still continues some residual "pick-up" style thinking/semiotics from the old days of Pooooah thinking.

I would give it a 7/10 ten now. Very intrigued to see what RSD's new hot-seat type material is these days, i'm sure it's evolved way beyond.

Even though, material/dvds etc are pretty irrelevant for the most part.
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Kuz wrote:
 This is a bit dated now. Tho still very good foundation material, great value on emotional strength and general self-help stuff, i feel some of the female/male dichotomies as presented are misplaced and it still continues some residual "pick-up" style thinking/semiotics from the old days of Pooooah thinking.

I would give it a 7/10 ten now. Very intrigued to see what RSD's new hot-seat type material is these days, i'm sure it's evolved way beyond.

Even though, material/dvds etc are pretty irrelevant for the most part.
Hotseat was great! I'm excited to see the World Summit.
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