THE FORUMS
Honolulu BC 17.Jan then 30day Challange THE AFTERMATH
Thank you for your post. It was inspiring to me. The dedication I have seen from everyone in the RSD crew has been inspiring to me.
Yesterday I nearly got fired. I was scared. I nearly cancelled my upcoming BC but after reading your post I know why it is important that I go, even if I lose my job.
I am so close to having the success I deserve with women and the BC is an important part of that. There is no substitute for live, in field training. I go out a lot, I study a lot but I am still not getting the results I want.
Bottom line: you can't step outside of yourself and see all the subtle shifts in your game you need to make. As for friends coaching you that only works if: 1) their game is top notch (based on RESULTS) and 2) they know how to communicate/ demonstrate what you need to do to get to their level. As far as I am concerned the RSD guys are the best at both of these things.
Yesterday I nearly got fired. I was scared. I nearly cancelled my upcoming BC but after reading your post I know why it is important that I go, even if I lose my job.
I am so close to having the success I deserve with women and the BC is an important part of that. There is no substitute for live, in field training. I go out a lot, I study a lot but I am still not getting the results I want.
Bottom line: you can't step outside of yourself and see all the subtle shifts in your game you need to make. As for friends coaching you that only works if: 1) their game is top notch (based on RESULTS) and 2) they know how to communicate/ demonstrate what you need to do to get to their level. As far as I am concerned the RSD guys are the best at both of these things.
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Yours,
BlackJack77
Strong, flexible internal reality -> Emotional stability -> Clear, focused RAS -> Right Action
I I I
V I V
Clear V Flexibility
Outcomes Consistency
Clear Outcomes + Consistency + Flexibility + Right Action = Success
BlackJack77
Strong, flexible internal reality -> Emotional stability -> Clear, focused RAS -> Right Action
I I I
V I V
Clear V Flexibility
Outcomes Consistency
Clear Outcomes + Consistency + Flexibility + Right Action = Success
tussilove Wrote:
Therefore i decided to go out 30days in a row, and i made it. I seriosly got over 70 #closes and 2 ONS ,during the bootcamp and 30day challange put togheter.
My life has changed dramatically, i now wake up a much happier person, and i dont worry about girls anymore. A lot of stress in my life is cleared and every time a go out now i have so much more fun.
Right now, I have one FB and i am dating 2 models HB8,HB9 and one bartender HB9 who i remember rejected me many times before the bootcamp when i tried talking to her.
I feel that whole abundance mentality now .I guess seeing me close so many girls at the club she works at made her want a piece of the cake too. These are all girls i didnt feel i deserved before and who now calls me up so much that i feel i need a manager.
I truly feel like my life has changed. I couldnt have done it without the bootcamp, it really motivated me to take things to a new level.
SO GOOD!!
Wicked man it was totally obvious that you would do this. I'm psyched for you to try this stuff out back home as well.
Tyler
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AUGUST 5 2009 @ 12pm EST:
JEFFY'S LONG AWAITED BOOK "9 BALL" WILL FINALLY BE UNLEASHED UPON THE PUBLIC.
This is THE BOOK that Jeffy has been working on for, well, most of his life. It is extremely graphic and shocking, and funny as hell. It's going to immerse you in the reality of learning success with women and personal transformation on level you've never experienced.
Click over to www.the9ball.com right now for the prelaunch site AND BE THERE on August 5 @ 12PM EST to witness the magic and mayhem.
JEFFY'S LONG AWAITED BOOK "9 BALL" WILL FINALLY BE UNLEASHED UPON THE PUBLIC.
This is THE BOOK that Jeffy has been working on for, well, most of his life. It is extremely graphic and shocking, and funny as hell. It's going to immerse you in the reality of learning success with women and personal transformation on level you've never experienced.
Click over to www.the9ball.com right now for the prelaunch site AND BE THERE on August 5 @ 12PM EST to witness the magic and mayhem.
Thank you tussilove.
I now realize what a valuable opportunity I have by going to BC. I, too, will commit to going 30 straight days after BC. I will not lose the momentum that BC can offer me to radically change my life- and the only way to do that is to go out.
I now realize what a valuable opportunity I have by going to BC. I, too, will commit to going 30 straight days after BC. I will not lose the momentum that BC can offer me to radically change my life- and the only way to do that is to go out.
__________________
Yours,
BlackJack77
Strong, flexible internal reality -> Emotional stability -> Clear, focused RAS -> Right Action
I I I
V I V
Clear V Flexibility
Outcomes Consistency
Clear Outcomes + Consistency + Flexibility + Right Action = Success
BlackJack77
Strong, flexible internal reality -> Emotional stability -> Clear, focused RAS -> Right Action
I I I
V I V
Clear V Flexibility
Outcomes Consistency
Clear Outcomes + Consistency + Flexibility + Right Action = Success
tussilove Wrote:
Btw, I Have This List Hanging Over My Bed Now:
-random Statements
-accusations
-misenterpretation
-drawing Boundaries
-physically Leading
-pimp Brainwashing
-throw Her Over Shoulder
-dancing/grinding
-hands On Muscles
-caveman Grunting
-fractionation
:)
hey, could you with quick words describe each of those points
tnx
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tussilove
Junior Member
Join Date: 07/27/2007 | Posts: 13
The Thursday, a week before my bootcamp, I decided to go out by myself, no drinking and just game. I was doing well in a set with 2 daughters and a mom, when I notice there is another guy in the set with us. He introduces himself as Olcay a name I recognized from an earlier success story. Anyways, this guy was cool his ability to give value and share his fun was amazing. I could see the sick skillset he possessed, We gamed the mom and the daughters, good times, this mom rocked, and she seemed Down to fuck as well, which was disturbing, considering I am as old as her daughters, 19.
Minutes later when I went to the bar to get some water to drink, I met Tyler and Jessie(from psi seminars). I introduced myself and told them that I am doing the bootcamp next week. They took me into their group and I sat down with Tyler and talked about everything but pickup. We talked about hiking and Hawaii, just hanging out, I think he realized that I looked up to him and he didn’t want me to feel uncomfortable by trying to seek validation. We were just hanging out like friends.
One week later I meet them both at the W lounge. We sit down, Owen introduces himself and explains us that we are all just guys, having a good time. And that he is one of us, and how he got where he is today. He explains how this weekend is going to be a roleplay with instructors and students, however, their roles doesn’t give them any more status than us, it is for us to play along in this little game and do our best to follow instructions. He also told us that there was no use trying to impress him or Olcay because it will only be destructive gaming-wise. I though this was good, because I honestly felt nervous before the bootcamp because I thought I had to impress someone. Owen made it clear that the only thing we should do was to push ourselves to the limit and for our own sake.
We have a short seminar, where Owen and Olcay help us focus on the mindset of giving value and not trying to impress the girls. Then we roll up to magoose, we start playing some fun state-pumping games with Olcay and I get a little nervous because there are so many people watching, I realize though that the social pressure around us is just noise, and I want to block it out.
Tyler came and helped me go into sets, by opeing with methods I had never tried before. I had a lot of fun with it and I saw that my sets got effected by that. It was a whole new experience for me. I felt more powerful, and my state was through the roof, and I wasn’t drinking, I wasn’t even thinking about alcohol. I Open a couple of set, and Owen also challenges me to open a mixed set with 2 guys and 1 girl by just saying.. “Hey, Whats up?” which was a little uncomfortable, because they guys were ignoring me in the beginning, but I got through it and kept on being consistent. I became friends with this set, and I think one of the guys actually was a fresh pua, because he came and wanted to wing me in another set.
We go into some more sets, and I nr-close an HB from Big Island. Owen came in and helped me with this set, or he opened it, I cant remember, but we were a good team on that one.
Magoose got cleaned out by 5 of us in about 1-2 hrs. There wasn’t many more sets, but on our way out of the bar, owen wanted me to open a girl dropping her friend off her car.
I didn’t question it, I knew why, and I went in.
I just kept looking into the drivers eyes while I was being silly and asking for a ride to heaven. I actually felt that she wanted me to stay, but her friend got mad and started telling the security at magoose about me, so I ejected. Well well. No problemo, I had expanded my comfort zone and that was the intention.
We drive down to zabar, and get in the elevator to take us down to the club enterance. Olcay and Owen starts singing SQUEEEEZE MY LEEEMONS, it was actually a good performance, in my opinion. And when we got out of the elevator people in the line at zabar where laughing and some were even clapping I think. We definitely brought the party! Very cool..
We start hitting up some sets, and having a good time. I find myself a brazilian group of girls which olcay helps me wing. Things are going great, I mangage to isolate the hottest one of them and I do tylers massage trick on her and start escalating sexually. I play a fun little game with her and make a bet that if I win I get a kiss and if she wins she gets a hug. Of course I win. She was a great kisser by the way. I numberclose her before I forget it, and start introducing the idea of leaving to my place. She says that she wants to sleep at my place tomorrow instead, because she has to get up so early the next morning. I tried to take her home pretty hard, but another part of me didn’t want to miss the rest of the bootcamp. It ended up with them not coming back. But that’s ok, I had a great time still.
We later go to senior frogs that night, and olcay challenges me to go up and dance with the only girl on the stage. I don’t hesitate and go in with high energy. She really likes it and we start grinding. She goes to my school which is pretty cool. I feel like some of my limiting beliefs are fading away. By watching Olcay and Owen in sets, I realize that my limiting beliefs have been tricking me into a reality that is worse than the actuality. That ends NOW.
We go back and debrief, I get some positive feedback, as well as some helpful stuff to work on for tomorrow. A good night, I am exhausted, I have been in sets constantly without any breaks. It is an awesome feeling.
The second day we eat dinner at W's and Olcay and Owen gives us instructions and coaches. They start making the restaurant into a club and before we know it, it is packed with high-class girls. Most of them in larged mixed sets. I am feeling it, and O&O start sending us into sets. I go into some sets with married girls but still have fun. I go around "sharing the good feeling i have inside with the rest of the world :)"
I go in a 2-set and Ask what the girls like better. Taco and pizza?
HB: I dont like either
me: What do you like then (keeping solid eyecontact with the girl)
HB: Steak
Me; how d you like it done?
HB: well done
Me: What kind of veggies do you like with it?
HB:salad and tomatoes
Me: what kind of gravy do you like with it?
HB: Bernaise sauce
Still holding eye contact
Me: Thats awesome
Turn around and talked to the friend.
The first girl starts askeing for my name and where i am from...
I dont answer, i am joking around with her friend.
After 20 secs i turn around and say:
I am from Norway...
HB: I LOVE NORWAY!
Just proves the point that it doesnt matter what you say!
I nrclose her and go to find Owen and the others.
He sends me into some other sets with a drunk girl, she rejects me, and i follow her and drag her back. memory is a little fainted but this set was really fun, i 3 girls discussing what was best of taco and pizza and they were having shitloads of fun. Strange?
The girl from the previous set comes in because we are standing outside the bathroom and she had to go but there was a line.
My new HB says:
Isn't this guy cute!!!
other HB: Yes he is adorable.
I claw them both and say that i love them both and they love it.
Then they both go into the bathroom and ask me to wait outside for them.
I turned around and went to find the other guys.
We are in the lobby and about to leave but there is this really hot asian girl by her self and tyler asks me to go kissclose her immediately by making a frame around her face with my hands and saying: I recognize you from somewhere, close your eyes. I go for the kiss.
She opens her eyes after feeling my lips and back away saying, i am married and my husband is coming now.
Time to leave.
We bounce to maddogs and just hit up everything in sight. I meet some of my friends there but i dont care if they are watching me. I dont feel wierd about anything in front of them anymore. We joke around with some girls and tyler wants to do an audition for americas top stripper and we both give the girls a grindup against the wall.
They are having a shitload of fun, and so are we.
I cant remember much more from this night because its 40days ago, but i was absolutely exhausted from literally talking to and having fun with girls the whole night. There was no time where we stood around, we were always in sets. This goes for the whole bootcamp.
We debrief and meet up the next day to go to the hanohano room. We get some snacks and unstiffle and its on again. There were so many hot girls there that night. And i think i speak for all of us when i said we felt like KING OF THE CASTLE.
I get sent into many mixed sets and OWEN does a lot of DEMOs that night that show me exactly what i need to work on. I had a lot of succesful sets in there and just enjoyed myself with the people i met. As many of them were mixed sets i got a lot of new practice in. Most guys there were cool except for this one guy who got really pissed because i was having fun with the girl so he gave the finger to the camera when one of the students was taking a picture of me.
We didnt see this until later after i nrclosed the girl and ejected.
I also met this MILF there that was DTF(down to fuck) and so horny, but i miscalibrated and started talking about some wierd shit when all she wanted was to go home. i learned from that mistake tho.
Later that night we debriefed and tyler stayed out with us until 5:30 even tho he was leaving for mexico the next day, thats how dedicated he was. We get great advice from both Olcay and Owen and say goodbye. It was like saying goodbye to a good friend, because this weekend meant so much too me. Everything i wanted to know at that point was answered and all i wanted to do was to go out to use the stuff i had learned.
Therefore i decided to go out 30days in a row, and i made it. I seriosly got over 70 #closes and 2 ONS ,during the bootcamp and 30day challange put togheter. My life has changed dramatically, i now wake up a much happier person, and i dont worry about girls anymore. A lot of stress in my life is cleared and every time a go out now i have so much more fun.
Right now, I have one FB and i am dating 2 models HB8,HB9 and one bartender HB9 who i remember rejected me many times before the bootcamp when i tried talking to her.
I feel that whole abundance mentality now .I guess seeing me close so many girls at the club she works at made her want a piece of the cake too. These are all girls i didnt feel i deserved before and who now calls me up so much that i feel i need a manager.
I truly feel like my life has changed. I couldnt have done it without the bootcamp, it really motivated me to take things to a new level.
Thanks guys!
Love
Tall norwegian guy