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I had to hang up at about 3 or 4 minutes before 2pm PST and missed the last few minutes of the call. What did I miss? Where there any special announcements? The last thing I heard was the question about "why do guys get so f'ing pissed when they see some guy evolving?"
Thanks
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"This is your life...it doesn't get any better than this. This is your life, and it's ending one minute at a time." -Tyler Durden, "Fight Club"
-January 2008 Tim Bootcamp Alumnus-
-January 2008 Tim Bootcamp Alumnus-
zeuswinks13 Wrote:
Thanks TooMuch!
Another question. I know this might sound stupid, almost everyone asks me this. And when I face this question, all my motivation to go out 4 nights a week (sometimes 7), reading PU stuff, learning the skills, learning to "attract woman" is washed away.
Why don't I have a gorgeous GF?
My mom asks me this question, my ex who cheated on me asked me this question, the gal I gamed 2 weeks back but was pulled away by a chode asked me this question, my friends ask me this question, the gal at work who I am sure is enormously attracted to me but is going out with someone else on V.Day asked me this question, my boss asked me this question when he saw me get couple of #s in Hooters.
As you can see I do have a very poor close rate. I can get #s like crazy but it goes no where, that’s what I mean by poor close ratio. Sometimes I feel, attraction, comfort, rapport, SOI, is all BS. I see guys pulling gals like crazy without any of those and sometimes with very little kino too (seriously this happens, please believe me). Going out 4 nights (sometimes 7 whenever I get time) seems worthless now. It is almost, like I know in my gut something is missing, and it is not a trick or a tactic, but something within me. Have you ever felt like this??? Most of the guys I talk in my town or in forums are either too advanced, naturals or do not have field experience. So, often I am faced with answers like "that is impossible" or some trick or line, or just "you have to be outcome independent" or "have abundance mentality". It is all good advice, but HONESTLY, how can I have an abundance mentality when I do not have abundance, or how can I be outcome independent when being with a wonderful woman is one of the pleasures of life and my birth right. How can I be in the NOW, when every moment I know life is passing by and the clock is ticking!!!!
Well, Tyler....my friend....I will definitely buy Blueprint in another attempt to decipher the matrix. I am even saving up money for a Boot camp, coz' I am pretty much at sage where I am willing to go the end of the world to flip this shit around. But for now....if you can throw some light on my dilemma, it will be very helpful!
Thanks,
Zeus
Hey dude.
I'm having a lot of numbers too. Some rare dates, but hey, how do I flip it around?
My wings are all the time asking me THIS question: Why aren't you getting laid as much as we do? You have great game, your confidence is obvious no matter where you go, you know how to talk, scream and fucking show the world that you're not going to stop halfway toward what you want...... so why aren't you closing as much?
Oh fuck! I don't know. Maybe because I just got a place for FClosing. Maybe because I'm still dealing with The Phone trap and the Day2s trap.
How am I gonna flip it? Even if it feels sucky now that I'm nt where I want to be?...
Simple, keep going for it. Channel the frustration into more energy to GO FOR IT. Do it! Do it! Do it!
THAT's how Tyler, and the big-guys, figured it out.
Being someone who started with zero-success, I have to figure this out from every angle and perspective.
I really feel that I need to do two times more effort than other people. Maybe because I want consistency. So anyway, how do I figure out this phone/day2 stuff? -->keep doing it.
Btw, Don't stop going out. Respect for going out 4 times a week.
For that question.. who gives a fuck? It's YOUR life. Just answer with whatever. This shit is so ridiculous, you can say, right in the eye: "I didn't find anyone special yet!" and keep looking in the eyes.. like the most stupid shit.. and people will swallow it. It's none of their business anyways.
DO get a BootCamp, it will greatly help you.
DO buy the blueprint, it's very probable that you'll find the answer to your questions. :)
Wish you the best!
TooMuch Wrote:
Hey dude.
I'm having a lot of numbers too. Some rare dates, but hey, how do I flip it around?
My wings are all the time asking me THIS question: Why aren't you getting laid as much as we do? You have great game, your confidence is obvious no matter where you go, you know how to talk, scream and fucking show the world that you're not going to stop halfway toward what you want...... so why aren't you closing as much?
Oh fuck! I don't know. Maybe because I just got a place for FClosing. Maybe because I'm still dealing with The Phone trap and the Day2s trap.
How am I gonna flip it? Even if it feels sucky now that I'm nt where I want to be?...
Simple, keep going for it. Channel the frustration into more energy to GO FOR IT. Do it! Do it! Do it!
THAT's how Tyler, and the big-guys, figured it out.
Being someone who started with zero-success, I have to figure this out from every angle and perspective.
I really feel that I need to do two times more effort than other people. Maybe because I want consistency. So anyway, how do I figure out this phone/day2 stuff? -->keep doing it.
Btw, Don't stop going out. Respect for going out 4 times a week.
For that question.. who gives a fuck? It's YOUR life. Just answer with whatever. This shit is so ridiculous, you can say, right in the eye: "I didn't find anyone special yet!" and keep looking in the eyes.. like the most stupid shit.. and people will swallow it. It's none of their business anyways.
DO get a BootCamp, it will greatly help you.
DO buy the blueprint, it's very probable that you'll find the answer to your questions. :)
Wish you the best!
You say a day 2 is a trap...I don't see it that way. For me I look at it as a way for me to shine. I've had plenty of girls tell me that they weren't sure about how the date was going to go because of meeting at a bar due to the fact that when people go out to clubs and give numbers out, there is this presupposition that the person they just met was their representative, that that person won't be as fun sober. I don't mind day 2's because I know how to attract a woman and bring out the awesomeness inside me so she can enjoy that experience.
If you feel that the phone is a trap then work on your text game. I've said this before, now when I deal with communication it is rare for me to be on the phone with girls. Texting for me is the way to go since I have the skills to pull it off.
There are so many positive aspects to having sweet text game.
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Before joining the community
fcloses- 44 (this took 6 yrs, 3 of which I was in relationships)
since joining the community in march of 2007
I'm above 140
fcloses- 44 (this took 6 yrs, 3 of which I was in relationships)
since joining the community in march of 2007
I'm above 140
When I say 'trap' I mean a sticking point. :)
Thanks tho, I just put a topic about it. ;)
Thanks tho, I just put a topic about it. ;)
Holy shite please someone tell me you recorded this!!!
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An upload for us European guys would be awesome!
We recorded the teleseminar and we will give it to you as part of the RSD mastermind starter kit when you enroll in the program. Just get the Blueprint Decoded and choose to get the RSD Mastermind program and we'll give a copy of this teleseminar to you on an audio CD. Plus, all members will also get special offers, events, and opportunities as well.
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