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December 5th, 2016
I got a $100 bill y'all
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Buddy Love

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What would be more likely to give you approach anxiety? If you are about to approach a complete stranger and ask for $100, or if you are about to approach a complete stranger and GIVE them $100? Think about that next time you get approach anxiety. It shows the difference between OFFERING value and SEEKING value. Most fears we have toward hooking up with a hottie, whether it be approach anxiety or being too nervous to make a move for that first kiss, can be rooted in whether or not you're offering value at a deep level. Do you wanna GIVE her a kiss, or GET a kiss? Are you approaching her because you wanna GET layed or your looking for that special someone who can make YOUR life better? Or is it because you want to GIVE her a great sexual experience, make HER feel sexy, and add to her life the great gift that all your friends and family have enjoyed so wonderfully: the pleasure of your company.

See, the chode is scared to start a conversation with a hot girl because he WANTS something FROM her. And even once he gets the courage to approach (cuz he knows the only way he has a chance of GETTING what he wants is if he approaches), he is then scared to escalate things to a sexual level, or he is nervous to call her, or he is nervous to keep the interaction going, all because he is TAKING value. Deep down his thoughts relolve around getting what HE wants (her precious approval and the pink little 'purse' that comes with it) and he is nervous for every step he must take to get it, because if he messes just one thing up then he won't get what he wants. The player doesn't hesitate to approach because he isn't asking for $100, he's OFFERING her $100 (figuratively) just cuz he's got more then enough 'money' and wants to make her day. He won't hesitate to kiss her because he knows she'll enjoy it and feel flattered that he is attracted to her.... There is greater happiness in giving then in recieving
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Marvel

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Brillant analogy.

It is definitely true. Props

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phantom-

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How could I forget...thanks for reminding me of this important mental shift. Subtle but it makes the difference
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Flannery

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Very solid
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Black Irish

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Extremely Solid!
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James

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Very nice analogy, props!
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Red Leader

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very fucking cool. what an awesome visualisation piece.
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Thanks man, thats pretty damn awesome.
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Buddy Love Wrote:
Tha-Playah doesn't hesitate to approach because he isn't asking for $100, he's OFFERING her $100 (figuratively) just cuz he's got more then enough 'money' and wants to make her day. He won't hesitate to kiss her because he knows she'll enjoy it and feel flattered that he is attracted to her.... There is greater happiness in giving then in recieving
Thanks :D
See what I did there?

It definitely feels different imagining going up and giving $100 as opposed to asking for it.

Great way of explaining it.
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$$$$$$$ as Feminator would say
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Courage

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Awesome post
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