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December 3rd, 2016
SSP: Sexual State Projection
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FoodBuddha~

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haiqu Wrote:
Peacocking and being the life of the party is for KIDS. It's for people who have yet to really achieve any value in their lives. And I thought Dave D was pretty cool too, until I realized just how GAY his material was.

Yeah, I know this is going to be controversial, but I've said it.

James Bond doesn't need to throw value around into the wind hoping to attract someone. He's laser-precise and knows what he wants. And he goes after that, and gets it. Quality, not quantity. His Nimbus is on stealth mode most of the time.


DaveD was my intro to PU. The reason he worked for me back in 04 was that his perspective on being alpha and in-charge and taking power back for myself was something that I had never considered before. I was doing it, sometimes, but not consistently, and his material specifically got me thinking about my place in society and my position with women, their position with me. That was a great start.

The missing piece is this thing we've all been talking about lately, but not really fleshing out. It eludes many of us, self included when I'm stressed out thinking too much. This thing is the key to why the RSD guys are doing it right: strong internally-driven male sexuality worn on your outsides. I've been calling it Sexual State Projection, or SSP, I am not sure who coined the phrase but wasn't me.

D and other PU gurus miss this point about SSP entirely. Sure D's got programs about male sexuality etc whatever the fuck, whatever. They are gay because they dance around the topic and never really cut to the heart of matters. And many many many programs are about the tactical technology, not about the SOUL of what it means to "pick up" women. Tons of friends have gone on-program with other companies and none have reported significant inroads to the core concept of SSP.

Here is cutting to the heart of matters:

About a month ago I was having a beer with some woman, 35 y.o. attractive. We'd been there for about 5 minutes thus far, just long enough to order a beer and we were finding a place to sit. We walk outside, she says something like "I'm not dating anybody, but I'd date YOU." I'm walking in front of her. Upon hearing these words, I stop, turn around, say nothing, put my arms around her, pull her close and kiss her for about 5 minutes in the doorway while people are trying to get in and out around us and I ignore them completely. Took her breath away. A deliberately small example, but illustrative of my point that any man can do it, it's JUST a kiss: Putting it out there. Relentlessly. Without hesitation. Desire without attachment.

Other examples that go much deeper (lol):
-Ciaran's Shock and Awe
-MW's follow-up
-JD's qualifying women post
-Perseverance's Church Lay report
-Jeffy and Alex's demos on BC, and their LRs that come up time-to-time
-Other same-day reports, from kiss-to-fuck, incl mine on the virg
-All Fool's Mate Game reports

What they share in common: rapid escalation, state projection, STRONG MALE SEXUALITY EXPRESSED IN REAL TIME. Nothing tentative, brainy, thought out in advance, calculating, routine-based, a-to-b-to-c-no-wait-d, nothing canned, practiced or fake. Nimbus in full effect, calibrated, and with style and panache on the range from James Bond smooooth to King-of-Aces style DOUBLE-BARRELED ALL-OUT TANK-ATTACK.

I'll take this "controversial" topic one step further. Pick-Up & Game are for KIDS. SSP is for MEN.

Anything less than Thermonuclear-Strength Sexual State Projection is homosexual.
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tongue

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Could you post the URLs to

-MW's follow-up
-JD's qualifying women post
-Perseverance's Church Lay report

I would appreciate that very much :)
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tongue Wrote:
Could you post the URLs to

-MW's follow-up
-JD's qualifying women post
-Perseverance's Church Lay report

I would appreciate that very much :)

JD's qualifying women post
http://rsdnation.com/showthread.php?t=11691
Perseverance's Church Lay report
http://rsdnation.com/showthread.php?t=9641

I don't know which MW thread that refers to.
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FoodBuddha Wrote:
The missing piece is this thing we've all been talking about lately, but not really fleshing out. It eludes many of us, self included when I'm stressed out thinking too much. This thing is the key to why the RSD guys are doing it right: strong internally-driven male sexuality worn on your outsides. I've been calling it Sexual State Projection, or SSP, I am not sure who coined the phrase but wasn't me.

Hey FoodBuddha.
This is great stuff. New to this concept, good explanation. Even if you give a good explanation of how to put this in practice, I wouldn't say it's easy for a newbie or beginner.
You're talking about concepts that run on a much deeper level than lines and routines, which is great. The problem I get with these sort of teachings is that they're very hard to learn if you're not in-field doing this regularly with someone who already gets it. Sure you can develop this Projection on your own, but it's better if you see it w your own eyes, to really learn it.

FoodBuddha Wrote:
D and other PU gurus miss this point about SSP entirely. Sure D's got programs about male sexuality etc whatever the fuck, whatever. They are gay because they dance around the topic and never really cut to the heart of matters. And many many many programs are about the tactical technology, not about the SOUL of what it means to "pick up" women. Tons of friends have gone on-program with other companies and none have reported significant inroads to the core concept of SSP.


What you're talking about is extremely hard to teach. Let me re-phrase that, it's very hard to learn.
I'm at a point in my journey where I can see the difference between knowing the path and walking the path(that sounds a little too matrixy:) ). My point is, there is a thing called "knowing too much PU theory", and unfortunately it's harmfull and impedes a lot of guys from reaching that next level, the SSP level. This SSP stuff you're talking about can only be learned by going out like a maniac and opening, opening and opening. That's why Bootcamps are so damn crucial. There should only be Bootcamps and Field Reports derived from real life experience, instead of so much arm-chair PU discussion, that sounds great, but at the end of the day only holds us back by making us think about the process too damn much.

Good post, though. Thanks
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If you are going to talk about projecting sexual state, this thread NEEDS a link to Manwhore's 1000th post, article copied to the article section ...

http://rsdnation.com/showthread.php?t=5522
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You only need 1 girl in front of you to practice your SSP. That's why I gave the kiss example.

NO, SSP is not for advanced dudes only. SSP is for ALL. But it is for non-KJs. KJs will NEVER GET SSP. You must DO.

OK, Here is a way for a newb to practice SSP. Here it is, bare bones, distilled down to the smallest simplest exercise I can think of. This is NOT advanced. Get up, right now, go flirt with a girl verbally until she "hooks" that means when her eyes light up a bit and her attention is on you. Use the cheesiest line imaginable. I don't care what you say, just say something flirty to ANY FEMALE. EVEN YOUR MOM. Hell, try it on MY MOM, I don't care. Then take her hands in yours and look her in the eyes intently for a few seconds. Note your feelings. Release. End of exercise.

So here is what you do:

1. Get a woman.
2. Say something flirty to her and get her attention on you.
3. At that point, move your arms forward and take both her hands gently and look her steadily in the eyes.
4. FEEL what HAPPENS.
5. Release.

Did you feel it? Can you describe it?

That is the simplest SSP imaginable. ANY NEWB CAN DO IT. GO DO IT NOW. GET CRACKING. Don't give me any more excuses "this is for advanced guys only" yada yada raspberry sound: pffffffffffffffffffbbbbbbbbbbbbt Unacceptable. I have given THE simplest formula to actually do & experience SSP, that any man at any level of PU can go out and do, right now. You do not need 1000 sets to be able to do this exercise, bullshit. You need 1 girl, and do the 5 steps exactly as prescribed.

Try it. Let me know what you feel.
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mad to be saved, desirous of everything
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or say a commonplace thing, but
burn, burn, burn,
like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
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Quote:
1. Get a woman.
2. Say something flirty to her and get her attention on you.
3. At that point, move your arms forward and take both her hands gently and look her steadily in the eyes.
4. FEEL what HAPPENS.
5. Release.


This is very powerful Foodbuddha. Most of what I hear from the community does not examine the experience of what you feel or what the girl feels. The game has always been so technical. Do X plus Y and get Z result. But when you do what you're proposing, it doesn't work out that way. It is raw passion and that is all. There's no formula for it.

If anything, getting in touch with how you feel when you do something such as this and observing how the girl feels when you practice it is the best way with going about it.

Becoming accustomed with your sexual self.

It's funny. Looking back on how the community functioned since its beginning, it seemed to have left the whole sexuality aspect out of picking up chicks. Social Proof, negging, DHVing. Where the hell does the sexuality come into play?
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drunkjohn Wrote:
My daygame is strong. Moving on.....
Duuude. Drunkjohn, you have to fill me in on your daygame, bro. I love older foxy women. But my daygame still sucks ass. I'd be eternally gratefull.:)

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FoodBuddha Wrote:
OK, Here is a way for a newb to practice SSP. Here it is, bare bones, distilled down to the smallest simplest exercise I can think of. This is NOT advanced. Get up, right now, go flirt with a girl verbally until she "hooks" that means when her eyes light up a bit and her attention is on you. Use the cheesiest line imaginable. I don't care what you say, just say something flirty to ANY FEMALE. EVEN YOUR MOM. Hell, try it on MY MOM, I don't care. Then take her hands in yours and look her in the eyes intently for a few seconds. Note your feelings. Release. End of exercise.

So here is what you do:

1. Get a woman.
2. Say something flirty to her and get her attention on you.
3. At that point, move your arms forward and take both her hands gently and look her steadily in the eyes.
4. FEEL what HAPPENS.
5. Release.

Did you feel it? Can you describe it?

That is the simplest SSP imaginable. ANY NEWB CAN DO IT. GO DO IT NOW. GET CRACKING. Don't give me any more excuses "this is for advanced guys only" yada yada raspberry sound: pffffffffffffffffffbbbbbbbbbbbbt Unacceptable. I have given THE simplest formula to actually do & experience SSP, that any man at any level of PU can go out and do, right now. You do not need 1000 sets to be able to do this exercise, bullshit. You need 1 girl, and do the 5 steps exactly as prescribed.

Thanks FoodBuddha for this breakdown. I'll definitely try it.
Quick question. By "flirty" do you mean SOI or general tease ?
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FoodBuddha~

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Gigololove Wrote:

Thanks FoodBuddha for this breakdown. I'll definitely try it.
Quick question. By "flirty" do you mean SOI or general tease ?


Anything. It's fielder's choice. You can snap your fingers or clap if that gets her attention on you. Or just stand in front of her. Then take her hands in yours and gaze into her eyes for a few seconds. Feel what you feel. Take mental note. Report back.
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the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved, desirous of everything
at the same time, the ones who never yawn
or say a commonplace thing, but
burn, burn, burn,
like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
like spiders ac r o s s the stars.

-Kerouac
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Ben Elliott Wrote:

Becoming accustomed with your sexual self.

It's funny. Looking back on how the community functioned since its beginning, it seemed to have left the whole sexuality aspect out of picking up chicks. Social Proof, negging, DHVing. Where the hell does the sexuality come into play?


It's a fucking mental trip. Guys think they can just start spitting game and talking nonsense and the girl will suddenly get aroused and rip her panties off! I thought this too! I thought techniques would just make it happen all verbal. I didn't even know what was at work in my own past sexual experiences.

I went into BC with lots of experience with women, decades of it. So I was no stranger to my sexuality. But I went to the BC wondering how in the hell do you hook up what you say with getting laid???

I saw the demos, and a light bulb went off: I have to take the lead, run the train, ignite my nimbus, etc. I have to DO.

After BC, my nimbus became truly ignited, and I realized that I internally-generate my state. I learned how to initiate nimbus at will, to create happy state.

But something was still not right.

Then Ciaran's S+A post, while I was facing a string of LMR "near-lays", about a half-dozen of them and got really frustrated and stressed out.

Then something clicked after I read another tidbit by Ciaran: "And state projection set me free."

"Ohhhhhhh yeaaaahhhhhh that's what the fuck I need to do." I said to self. Not just state projection, but SEXUAL state projection.

...Be comfortable with my sexuality, and project it outward. Have a sexual state, in addition to a happy state, and unleash it on the world of women. SSP.

It's what all naturals do without even realizing it. It's what I did anytime I ever got laid!

That exercise I came up with should be credited to my uncle, a famous natural who is dead and gone now, but he didn't realize he was teaching me just by my being around him watching how he interacted with women.

I have a long looooooong way to go. The cool thing is that right now it's just starting to get good & juicy! School is OUT in 1 week, and I am friggin PSYCHED.
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The only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved, desirous of everything
at the same time, the ones who never yawn
or say a commonplace thing, but
burn, burn, burn,
like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
like spiders ac r o s s the stars.

-Kerouac
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Keep eyes half closed (like your slightly tired) + infringe her body space = VERY SUAVE STATE.
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