THE FORUMS

Hey man, I really think you might do more harm than good starting out using a pill. Who told you to go get it, the doctor or your girl? If it was the doctor, I'd question the physician if you are much younger than 30. If it was your girl, I'd cockslap her.

Did you try exploring behavioral therapy instead of turning to drugs? If you are experiencing 'in the moment performance anxiety' then getting a drug will work like a crutch - more than likely, when you are NOT taking it, you won't be able to get it up because your mind will be worried "what If i cant get it up without my Kamagra!!" So tell me, have you tried behavioral therapy?



Breathing during sex; the best analogy i can use is to be the tortise not the hare. You don't want to be rapid fire breathing. You want very slow rhythmic breathing. The idea is to keep yourself calm and keep your body from overloading itself with internal stimulus.

In meditation, there is a breathing practice called Ujjayi Pranayama, or "Victorious Breath." Relax your neck and shoulders, inhale through your nose for a 2 count and exhale as slow as you feel like. While you are exhaling, begin to say "hummmmmm" and let your moth close SLOWLY on the "m" (lengthen the time between the U sound and the M sound when your lips close) As you keep doing this rhythmically, slowly stop pressing your lips together so the breathing is more relaxed. It turns into more of a "hoooooooooo."

And hey, if your nose is stuffed up, you can do this through your mouth too :)

This will help keep you relaxed and hopefully give you greater control over your orgasm.

The biggest thing to keep in mind is that having a fear of losing/not getting an erection will almost always lead to dysfunction, and similarly having a fear of orgasm will almost always lead to orgasm. Your thinking, even subconsciously "no erection no erection no erection" them BAM... no erection. Or, "orgasm orgasm orgasm" BAM then you orgasm. Its a self fulfilling prophecy, much like in pickup. You want to be in the moment, enjoying yourself, rather than focusing on being OUTCOME DEPENDANT.

Man, everything is correlated, huh? :)

Set women free

-JD

$ THE MONEY SHOT $

$ Physicals $
Begin doing Kegels ASAP as I have described above. After about a month you will notice an increase in strength and ability to flex your PC muscle. Also, start doing 20 minutes of Cardio every morning before you go to school or work. Running around the block works, and if you can't leave the house just do really serious high speed high power jumping jacks. Pushups and crunches are fun too.

$ Diet $
the better hydrated you are, the bigger your load is, the more it shoots. Drink 4-6 cups of water per day for a week before you shoot the load. Drink a protein shake with a shot of pureed Wheat Grass if you can stomach it for flavor and aroma. Eat your body weight in lbs in grams of protein each day. Example, if you weigh 150lbs, get 150 grams of protein. Drink a protein shake or eat power bars if you are having trouble with this.

$ Purge $
About a week before you are shooting the mother load, beat off like 3 times a day for 3 days straight till you are run dry.

$ Collection $
You want to shoot a big load, don't orgasm for like 3-4 days before you go to sling it. Masturbate yourself to 9.5/10 arousal and then STOP. Do that 1-5 times a day. More if you are a masochist like me. This helps work your load up to a good size while it's still in your nuts. Not sure how much this actually helps, but IME it helps. (If you want maximum effect from this principle, have SEX as many times as you can for the 3-4 days before shooting the load and stop short of the orgasm. This is torture, again unless you are a masochist like me, but its a much bigger buildup than masturbation)

$ Pumping $
Since you have done Kegel exercises as I have described above to learn how to use your muscles and to strengthen them, you can literally force the load out faster and harder. When you are cumming, really squeeze that shit out. The first shot will usually go the farthest.

$ Buildup $
When you are in the sex act, make it last a while. Getting a handjob, blowjob, having sex, whatever, make it last. If this requires you to stop, pull out, and go down on her or something then DO IT. The more you build up the tension, the bigger and more satisfying your orgasm will be. I like to do this every time I'm in a sex act unless it's a quickie, because it feels so much better.

$ RELAX $
Practice Ujjayi Pranayama Victorious Breathing. The more relaxed you are, the less tense you will be. Reducing tension allows the sensation to increase itself exponentially. The more relaxed your body is, the bigger your orgasm will be - bigger contractions mean bigger and stronger loads. Additionally, this will help prolong your orgasm also increasing it's intensity.

$ The Last Stroke $
If you have a girlie who is good at what she does, this won't be an issue. I've found that RHYTHMICALLY SPEAKING my orgasm is INTENSIFIED through TIMING if the last few whacks are stroked off properly. Essentially when you are about to explode you jerk it off onto her face. I'm NOT SURE if this is true for everyone! Maybe I've just gotten too many blowjobs and become desensitized to it, but I have noticed that the intensity of the last few strokes really changes the size and "completeness" of my orgasm, if that makes any sense. So, bottom line, if she isn't about to stroke you through the pop, jerk it off on her face.

$ Angle $
Ok just talking normal physics here, will not have much of an effect on your ejaculate lol - Any projectile fired for greatest horizontal distance under the acceleration of gravity reaches a theoretical maximum horizontal distance when fired at a 45 degree angle. The practical angle for maximum horizontal distance is not exactly 45 degrees due to wind resistance and the curvature of the earth ;) If you can shoot far enough for THOSE effects to matter, then you need to call Peter North and tell him he's out of a job.

Happy Shootin'!

Set women free

-JD