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December 10th, 2016
College Game Guide
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Pimpski

Pimpski

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Its that time of year again. A lot of you are starting college, some even for the very first time. How fucking exciting!!!!!

College game is my specialty, as I have ad massive experience throwing parties, running campuses, creating and managing social circles, and of course.....getting lots and lots of hot girls to do things they never expected they'd be doing ;)

I'd like to lend a helping hand to the RSD Nation by helping you guys dominate your college and become the fucking MAN on campus.

First, here's my College Game post:


College Game


When you go to college and live on campus, you're whole concept of game is shifted. All the same mechanics apply, but now you're in a situation where you're going to make cliques of friends, party, and see the same people over and over again every day (more relevent to smaller schools, but still relevant in larger ones). This type of game is different then the standard nighclub game or day game since it involves a prolonged period of pre-determined interaction (i.e. living in the same dorm, having the same class, hall meetings, etc.). There are SO many girls to choose from, and especially starting the first day of freshman year, they all want to fit in somewhere. This goes for guys as well as girls. Kids go to college with a certain level of anxiety and are anxious to make friends and find their niche. After 5 years of college in two different schools, I've seen the same patterns emerge every year.

The key to college game is being the leader of men.

Now, i've seen a ton of guys go into turbo suplication mode and try to make friends by over extending themselves. Don't do this, its basic PU knowlege anyways. All alpha skill sets you've learned are really important here. Always be doing your own thing, having your own cool things to do where YOU are the one inviting people to come along. Find cool guys in your dorm that you can lead (it should be easy since most guys in their freshman year of college are looking to be led anyways) When you lead the men, the women follow. Luckily there are SO many places you can "lead" to in or around your school.

Most likely youre going to encounter pre established cliques. Most of them have had shared experiences together that they will talk about. Tell a story of something similar that happened to you and make sure it subcomunicates high value. For example:

"Ya so this one time i had just come back from a shoot with my ex girlfriend and ended up back at my buddies beach house in Malibu. Then this crazy shit happened...."

What this does is elude to a couple things. One, not only can have you been in a relationship with a woman but she was hot enough to be coming from a "shoot" which can mean she's a HOT woman. (pre-selection) 2, You roll with people that life a life of luxery, therefore you must be the same type. 3, it was all part of a story that had a great punchline so it wasn't the topic of conversation, rather it was part of you painting a picture of what happened (which is a great story telling ability).

Think back to all the cool shit that you've done in various situations. Look at them and pick out certain components that have potential to demonstrate higher value (go look up posts about it) then see what it subcomunicates. Find the specific things you might be able to "fluff" up a bit and add some DHV.

Now, all of a sudden you're the new guy who's had shared experiences similar to theirs on a whole nother level. DON'T do this constantly, they'll hate you lol. I would do it once per set. In social situations, you may have the same member from one set in another so you have to be careful not to re-hash the same stories each time: People notice this.

Once you have mutual respect with the guys, present a good idea. Build morale. Get them psyched about something. Tell them you're going to a sick party or some club or whatever and tell them to roll with you. Now you have 3 dudes following you. Guess who's the leader of men.

Get to the party with this frame. Don't be afraid to be loud and obnoxious. Indirectly break a thread by being loud and high fiving a buddy or giving him props whatever way u know how. I like to give pounds. Normally people present an open hand but if you command that it be a pound, they suplicate to you and enter your frame. You'll notice it too as they start suplicating more and jumping through more little hoops like that. If they resist, freeze out. You're just being alpha, but make sure your not overly confrontational and know when to walk away.

Women will pick up on this alpha behavior in seconds. All of a sudden your ego will be thriving and your state high as a kite. This snowballs into more and more women. Give kino to a girl you're walking by while entering a set of women you've seen on and off all night, she'll notice the pre-selection. Come back and talk to her, she's yours.

Pick your target (or targets =) )from the party. Tell her your going to an after party with your boys and that her and her girls should roll with us. Even if its just a few people hanging out, it doesn't matter. You can have your own after party, all you need to do is have their comitment in going and it can literally be anywhere.

See what your new college wings want to do. Don't worry about their pickup skills, if done right, they become social proof in themselves and need NO pickup skills what-so-ever. Decide on a new location and go there with your new social circle for the night. Once your at the new location, escalate kino with minor-isolation previews into the night of sex you're bound for. Get playful and do take aways. (Take aways are extremely important in social circle gaming, since you're demonstrating that you're rejecting one clique for a better one) Catch her in the hallway and kiss her neck passionatly while no one's looking and walk into your set of friends and start a new conversation immediatly. You're meer presence should cut any sort of thread thats going on. This is like jet fuel for buying temp.

Later on, have a reason to bring her to your place, or to a friends dorm, or back to her place. Sub-communicate isolation. Hell, i've had girls come back to see old skate videos of mine. By then you should have build enough kino with the target that she's just waiting for isolation so you can rip her clothes off and fuck her. Put you're arm around her as you walk back to the dorms/house/apartment you're going to. By then she'll know its on and be ready for just about anything.
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Here's another post I wrote about college game:



College Game 2


I ran 2 college party scenes in my days. The first one was when I joined an underground fraternity my first semester of college and lived in multiple party houses. The second was when I transferred and ended up meeting my best friend (to this day) who has the most incredible natural game I’ve ever seen. I lived with him for a year and threw massive parties, to the point where 90% of my "social circle" didn't even know my real name.

The trick is easy. Find the source of social power. Whoever it may be. Most likely it will be a party house of guys on a college sports team, or fraternity as well. You don't need to join them to benefit from their scene, all you need to do is show them value.

There are literally thousands of possible social scenes in a college environment. You have everyone from Hip hop fanatics to hard rockers, Rugby and football players to some wannabe startup promotion company. Each "venue" forms a social association with something of this nature. One bounding common interest that forms a pack. The best one's are just cool ass dudes that like to party....like me. We are infamous for girls getting drunk, naked and crazy. We roll deep with a bunch of solid dudes and chicks love us for showing them a great time and always have fun things to do. Each of these social entities exist among each other and form politics. You can see who likes who and where the hot spots are. Its all a huge network and the heard follows the Shepard. Be the Shepard.

Don't run around and try to push your value onto people. This is the worst thing anyone can do as an attempt to make themselves popular. If you are egger and being excessively generous, people will walk all over you. As you approach the college scene, keep your eye out for where the good parties are. You have no loyalties to anyone at this point. You are best to take a role of silent power and expressing yourself through your actions, then slowly becoming more open to those around you. But, the first days are very very critical in your domination of the college social scene.

Be cool and interested in people, but have your focus on getting shit accomplished. The reason active disinterest works so well is that when attention is taken away it gives the impression that something else is more important then her. Have something more important then her, the big picture. Get interested in what you have to do while you're there and have vision. Sounds like a great thing to talk about, right?

Set your sights on your targets. Now, your targets are not single individuals. Instead, they are social scenes. You see, what happens every fucking year, is that a whole new wave of freshman enter the scene and we feel them out to see if they're cool. They're all so innocent that its like they're fresh out of diapers.

The girls are finding one another and clinging together, forming these instant "best friendships" that they can. They all start hanging out and sharing their excitement about being in college for like the first time ever!!! They are getting ready to party like they never have before, and begin scoping out the social value in their new society. When they find a house of guys that live off campus and party all the time, they turn into groupies together and meet guys that way. This is a process that cycles EVERY SINGLE FUCKING YEAR. I've seen it for 5 years strait, and after that, fucking freshman girls was like aiming at the side of a barn with a rocket launcher. It wasn't even funny.

While the girls swoon over the new older boys in their life and the drinking/fucking they will be doing with them, guys scramble around and try to make friends. They bind together and begin to form clicks the same way girls do, but the common interests are obviously way more manly. Sometimes you'll find guys that all came to school together from the same town and already know each other, in which case the social vibe is already established. You can join in with their shit if you want, but you'll never be part of the core social crew (I.E. Alpha males who get first dibs). These are the kind of guys you want begging you to show up to your parties, not ones you want to supplicate to. Sports is also a brotherhood creating mechanism. Each team has elders who take on the new rookies every year and give them a place in their social integrity. This is actually a great idea if you play sports and I'd highly consider doing it, you'll get laid I promise.

For everyone else, you have other options. There are fraternities you can join which can be fucking amazing. I never thought I'd be in one until I realized I was making friends with guys in my class who were mad chill and they all happened to be part of the same frat. It made sense to join it, and taught me a SHIT LOAD about everything. You should have seen the ridiculous amount of that ran through the house, it was unbelievable. That’s something that you need to decide based on your own beliefs. If anyone is considering that, let me know and I can give you the scoop.

However, joining an established social circle isn't nearly as satisfying as creating your own. Meet other guys like yourself. Sort them out. Find good dudes you can depend on and bring them together. Be the leader of men. Find out where the parties are AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. That is done by casually meeting people with zero expectations and a sense of humor. Everyone is looking to make friends at your point so the shields on both guys AND girls are very low. Its a great period in your life that you can meet people who you will know the rest of your life. Send out the vibes you want back, happy, focused on your direction, energetic, and already know the best spots around. Make friends with a couple specific freshman guys who vibe well together and can roll as a crew. Lead the crew and it will build.

Take this crew to the parties you hear about. If you know anyone there already, call them and feel them out. Get to the real bangers during the first week of college and don't worry about school just yet. The first week of the first year of college has so much goddamn disorganization that they really don't get started until the second week (unless ur in graduate school). Find out the parties, they are going to happen.

All the guys at my level are looking to be the ones THROWING the best parties around, and we are going to be looking for cool ass dudes to bring us freshman girls. Older guys love freshman chicks. Watching them completely loose their innocents into debauchery is the coolest thing ever

Which brings up another point: Do not set your sights on any freshman chicks for the first few weeks. Make friends with them and see them as offerings to the guys you're about to go party with. They will love you forever as long as you're not a douchbag. This is not to say not to fuck the shit out of freshmen girls, but don't intend on having them. If it happens, it happens. But the worst case scenario is that you have a group of girls who think you're the man for showing them a good time. Never expect to see them again, yet are open to developing great relationships with them. Just don't let them use you as a gate keeper. Keep your pimp hand strong. At the same time, older chicks who are sick of the guys in their grade are looking for younger guys. They're already comfortable and settled in their society, so they don't have the eagerness of a freshman hottie. However, they still love to party and totally want to fuck.

Make friends with these guys as quick as possible. Your value of bringing in 3 hot chicks is already high, so you are already in the position of power where you can expect THEM to seek YOUR validation, which is the exact opposite of every other freshman chode out there. This will set you apart for sure. Just find things in common to talk about and get a sense of each other’s personalities. But at the same time, be aloof. Do not show up all the time and become a leach. Stop by when you have something to offer. Gifting houses has been a practice for centuries (i.e. potluck dinners, house warming gifts, etc.) as a way to show gratitude for hospitality. Always having woman and booze on you goes a long, long way. Take an active role in wanting to help throw parties. Be the guy making lists to yourself of people to invite to a party they throw. Get your ass on the phone and invite the girls. Call like 5 girls and get them over. Even if 3 show up you're in great odds. (Getting numbers is incredibly easy in college first few weeks by the way. Everyone is making friends so all you have to do is ask. You can number close quickly since everyone's so busy unpacking and settling into their new dorms. This is especially true the first few days. All you need to do is tell them "Hey, a couple people i know are throwing parties all week and you should definitely go. Gimme your number and I'll invite you." Done. Do you have friends throwing parties? Well....maybe not yet.

You will though. Make it happen. Ask people what's going on just as much you're talking about what's going on. Be the "go to" guy on campus for the parties OFF campus. This alone will skyrocket your social value since you will be the most well networked freshman alive at your school.

They key is really bringing people together. As social sets form you can merge them. I'm not talking in the terms of a 2 set and a 3 set merging in a bar, I mean getting the freshman cheerleading squad over to the rugby house (instead of the football house). Big time merging.

Build your social identity on a collective level. You want people talking about you. You want your name associated with fun all the time. Get to the level where you bounce from social circle to social circle and get respect from all. Be welcomed everywhere.

This is where you're crew comes in. They all have their own connections, but you are the glue holding them all together. Have a fucking blast. These are your new guys who will be winging for you, whether they know it or not. Some do know it, and can become leather wings. Other's don't know it but end up putting on a platter for you on some occasion. Its all in how you work it. Be loud at parties. Be the one's making the most commotion. You want as much collective attention as possible. While you're in the lime light, establish your identity by letting the self express thoroughly. Don't give a fuck what anyone thinks, even when all eyes are on you. Don't hold back and have a great time. Make people happy to be around you and show them interest, but never too much. Always stay somewhat mysterious and it will keep them wanting more.

Honestly, I could write a book about this but I'm going to stop right there. Maybe I will.
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Originally Posted by Blade
If you're at a big school (15000 plus) and there are more girls than guys of the particular race you want then approach like crazy. Building a name for yourself happens to slowly in these type of schools and sometimes can never happen and even if you do it won't help as much as you think.
The size of the school does not matter. The only difference is that in a larger school you are only getting a small chunk of the social whole rather then dominating smaller sectors of it, as you would in a smaller school. All you have to do is post up and stand out. Larger schools give more options for everyone (guys AND girls) so it is much more transient. Use that to your advantage by expecting only ONS for the first semester. Have that mentality all the way through and see what develops while in that mind state. You will be fucking girls you know you will never see again, even though you both live on campus. Crazy feeling huh? The thing is, most of the time that’s all GIRLS at these school want in the first place. They want discrete sex, so what better way then to disappear in the massive city that we call college and dabble with guys who no one will ever know about in her intimate social circle. ONS is much more the mentality. LTR is tricky but can be everlasting if surviving through college and into the real world. I would stay away from that idea as everyone is experimenting with everything and commitment is not likely the focus of an interaction. If you meet the girl of your dreams and it was meant to be, then wrap that up. Otherwise, just have your fun then toss them back in the pond.



I'd like to now welcome any questions you guys may have about your school in particular. I want to see the RSD Nation to run shit at their schools shades

Questions?

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Strat

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Awesome post dude...

What about the guys that don't live on campus?
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Pimpski

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Also, take the time to watch the following movies:

Van (The best college movie of all time)
How High (Red and Meth run Harvard lol)
Animal House (Classic and will always be valuable)
Old School (Vince Vaughn leads social proof the whole way through)

I'll post more recommended reading/viewing as I think of them :D
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Strat Wrote:
Awesome post dude...

What about the guys that don't live on campus?


Depends on your living arrangements:

Do you live in a house or apartment?
Your venue will spawn different types of social circles based on things like size, roomates, party accessibility (i.e. asshole neighbors or lots of cops locally) etc.

Who throws the parties the closest to you?
Find out where shit is going down (if not at your place) and get to know the people that live there. Become a guest at their house that is welcome anytime due to the great vibe you bring, but don't overstay your welcome. Stay somewhat elusive so that your presence comes as somewhat of a surprise and is exciting. Start to network.

Who do you know ON campus?
Find out who you already know on campus. Make friends with guys in your classes. Make sure that these guys are alpha and know where the party is at. A great way to make these types of friends is talk about all the hot girls that are around and get him in the "pickup mode" even though he doesn't know its happening. If he's cool, do approaches with him and he'll see that you're a no nonsense, stand up guy with potential to bring girls to his parties. You'll get to know who is running the show very quickly.

What organizations are you familiar with?
Get to know men's sports teams and fraternities. They will be a tremendous help in catapulting your social value and reputation. These are the guy's throwing the parties so bring them girls that you pick up. You will be welcome back any time you want.

You need to get in the campus party loop and find out who is throwing what, who's going to be there, and how big its going to be. Find multiple social circuits so you have variety in friends. Bring girls along with you for the ride. You're the man with the plan and they will naturally follow.

Make sure you have a group of girls (who live on campus) frequenting your apartment/house all the time. They don't want to be cooped up on campus and restricted to rules. Provide them that outlet by making them comfortable being around your place on a regular basis. Don't necessarily have sex with all of these girls, infact it is more effective if you don't. They will give you enough pre-selection and social proof to make any girl want to bang you. Make sure they are cool and won't get in your way. If they do, find others.

You need to have these groupies associated with you. Nothing beats having a 3 set of hot chicks rolling with you to a party where you are already the fucking MAN. That sets a serious precedent to the rest of the girls there.
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Thanks Danny that was a good read, should come in handy.
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Hey man, awesome post!

Anyway my college im starting in is a little different.

1)Most people in Ireland live at home because property is so expensive so i'll be living with mom and pop for the foreseeable future.this is totally normal and people who don't live with their parents usually live itha family or something.

2) Sincei'm in ireland people don't have parties in the same way, the drinking age is 18 so people generally hit the cheap student nights at the bars and clubs

3) There is no Frat thing at all.

Any more general advice for my situation?

I'm thinking ill just act like cool and alpha and not hit on people for a bit and get involved with lots of sports and stuff.
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imarugbyball Wrote:

Any more general advice for my situation?

I'm thinking ill just act like cool and alpha and not hit on people for a bit and get involved with lots of sports and stuff.


That sounds like a solid plan. If the norm is to live at home, then find out where the social gatherings are. Being part of a sports team is very high value in college, especially if you're good. I'd suggest being the one to organize plans for everyone you meet and know. Part of being the leader of a social circle is directing the people where to go. The more people you can put together (whether it be in a bar/pub, house, etc.) the higher value you portray. Find the coolest shit to do at night and round up as many people as you can to join you.
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I would absolutely love to go to college in the states.
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Great post danny, although I got a couple of questions which you might be able to help me with,

1) Im starting university as a second year student, however, i still am living on residence and do get to take part in orientation week. There's a huge dance that takes place, in which ALL first year students go to. The whole indoor hockey rink is JAM-PACKED with atleast one thousand kids and LOUD MUSIC!! I was wondering what could be good ways to open right off, get them comfortable with dancing, vibing, and the final pull? A couple of examples would be great dude. My first year dance was just horrible with me just standing at the sidelines/hovering around, going home early as i was so SHOCKED (i came from the middle east).

2) If you go to a party or club during the beginning of the year, say with no friends or social proof, how do you show that you're a alpha male?

3) On the day of move-in, when you're meeting people for the first time (who are not on your floor), do you have a structure or something of what you say? Like a quick introduction, funny story, bit of vibing, number close? How do you normally introduce yourself? Anything that sets you apart?

4) Have ya done any approaches during class?

thanks dude.
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Join Date: 09/23/2006 | Posts: 279

This post is completely spot on. And will work.............if you are already a cool dude.

I have a step-brother who is going to be a freshman at college and I was thinking of writing him a guide. It would have BEEN VERY SIMILAR to what Danny Ocean wrote. But then I realized something, my step-brother just would not be able to execute it. He's slightly socially awkward, and only had a few friends in HS and has dated only one ugly girl.

He just doesn't have the social skills (humor, conversation skills, dominance, etc). He needs to become a cool guy first, someone PEOPLE love to be around simple because he's fun and not just because of his social connections or status.

He'll have these foundations after his first year of college, the massive socialization will do this to almost everyone who makes it their mission to party and make friends and then I'll give him the guide.

My guess is a lot of people on this board are in the same boat as my step-brother.


P.S -- Best skill to have in college - Learn how to dance. And I don't mean, tango or even Salsa. LEARN HOW TO GRIND.
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