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December 6th, 2016
**The Problem/Solution Paradox**
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Spitkicker

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Join Date: 02/04/2007 | Posts: 135

Something that's been on my mind lately.

the problem is the problem.

erase the problem and there is no more problem?

What?

Ok, check it out..

When we have a problem - our mind works on a solution. Solutions are great in business, they are great in war, they NOT great in pickup...

What?

When we view an interaction as a "problem to be solved" our mind gets in our way.

It's relaly as simple as that.

When you stop caring about women - the place that a natural comes from - you shut off the auto-problem solving solution.

When this happens, you are free to connect on the sexual level that you were intended to connect on when you were created.

When you see a woman, the first step is completely killing all desire. don't want anything from her. nothing.

why?

then there's no problem because there's no solution because there's no OUTCOME.

Kill Desire.
Kill Outcome Dependency
Stop Making Problems for yourself
Stop making solutions for yourself

and for christ sakes

just let your reproductive drive take care of itself!

Spitkicker
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insideasd

insideasd

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Join Date: 07/16/2007 | Posts: 275

I like this. Interesting POV.
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Corksil

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Join Date: 03/03/2009 | Posts: 1341

too much thinking for me... and "kill desire" for a hot girl? I can't do that - she's hot, I want inside it.

however i don't see getting her as a problem to be solved, only a person i have few words with before they realize i'm cool as shit and start pursuing me. if they're not into me, oh well - there's always more. not a problem to me...

i see what you're saying though, and it makes sense.
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Gseus

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Join Date: 09/04/2008 | Posts: 915

This is THE paradox of life.

But it's only a paradox as long as you are thinking about it. As soon as you start experiencing, being, it'll all become clear.
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Raian

Raian

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Join Date: 09/26/2009 | Posts: 117

Spitkicker wrote:
our mind gets in our way.
I can see that
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Dick Gallo

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Join Date: 08/13/2008 | Posts: 1947

 Good stuff.
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